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*athleeenie
writes:Me and my boyfriends recently split up. I've been talking to this guy online we get on quite well n he seems like a genuinely nice guy. He's 5 years older than me. Im meant to be meeting him tomorrow.But im starting to have second thoughts. Im curious n wanna see what he's like as he seems like a rele nice guy.But part of me still likes my ex and is thinking about maybe getting back with him.if i meet this guy n my ex finds out he wont get back with me.but if i dont meet this guy i will be forever thinking what if..any advise??
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reader, peaches08 +, writes (27 February 2008):
 I've recently had to make this decision.You must sit yourself down, and think about what you want from this date of yours. Are you looking for love, sex or just a friend?If you an your ex are over, then you have no reason not to do as you please.I chose to meet my new guy and my ex is happy for us, despite it being very quickly after our relationship ended.You need to separate your feelings for your ex from feeling you may believe you have for this new chap.Like someone else said earlier, online guys arnt always what they say they are.You didnt say how long you'd been talking to this new guy, perhaps call off the date until you know more about him.You shouldnt rush into seeing someone else cause you feel crappy being on your own.Just my two cents on it, because this happend to me literally weeks ago.Mail me if you want to chat. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): If I were you I would not meet this guy. Do you really know if he is telling the truth? You might be getting more than you bargained for, not in a good way either.You will be risking getting your ex back. Think with your head not your heart. I am sure you know what you should do. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): Honey, you're trying to have your cake and eat it. Make your choice.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (14 February 2008):
 I think this is way too soon after splitting with your boyfriend. I think you should wait before you make a decision before you go on dates with guys. Call this guy and say that sorry but could you cancel the date, its clear you still have feelings for your ex and it would not be fair on the other guy. Meeting guys online is way too risky, as they are not always who they say they are. Next time you fix a date with a complete stranger, be sure you let your friends know where you are going too. Just to be on the safe side. Good Luck, Dusky xxx.
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