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I live in herts along with my Lovely Staffordshire bull terrier Archie and two lully cats! Rosie and Umbro!
Anyway, I stumbled across this site a couple of years back now and became addicted straight away! Anyway my friends used to always tell me that I gave good advice and I am a good listener.
I guess I try to put myself in other peoples situations and its easier looking in when your not directly involved. So anyway I gave this a shot, and here I am, I have had lots of positive feedback from people who have posted questions and I have done my best to advise, so I must be doing something right!
If I only make one person's life better with the advice I give then its worth it!
I like to make people happy and help if I can. I will go that extra mile if it will make someone smile!
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I can't live with or without her and it is ruining my life
Q. Help! Two months ago I split up with my girlfriend of two years and I'm haunted continuously by my own unanswered questions. She and I dated for two years after meeting on an online dating site. It was nice enough at first, but after six months I ...
A. 31 August 2006: Hey there! Im chuffed that you took it board and its gone someway in to helping you, sometimes its the wierd and wonderful thats perfect... bit like me (just kidding)!
I really do hope that you continue to feel hopeful, and uplifted, every ex... (read in full...)
My husband of 30 years took one of our cars and hid it from me!
Q. I reside in california and married 30 years. We have three vehicles, my husband took one of our vehicles and stated it is in a safe place. I want my vehilce returned, what can i do?...he wont tell me where it is...both names on registration..can i ...
A. 24 August 2006: Well im guessing he did it to get a reaction... Did you ask him why he did it ? Perhaps dont show your bothered as hes trying to provoke you, if he sees its not working (i know it is) then he may just give up.. its a bit of a silly game, but maybe ... (read in full...)
Top tips for female O?
Q. what are the top ways for a woman to have a solo orgasm?...
A. 23 August 2006: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/masturbationwomen.htm
Experimentation! ... (read in full...)
What's the secret question?
Q. What is the "Secret Question" to ask a stranger if they are gay?...
A. 23 August 2006: Im guessing its a secret.... ?? ... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex with my bf! He wants it and I am scared he will hurt me if I turn him down! Please help me!
Q. hi, im 16 and im going out with a boy, but he wants sex and i dont want to i want to wait until im 20 or even marriage but he keeps pushing me into it and im suppose to see him tommorow and night and do it but i don't want to, i can't tell him beca...
A. 23 August 2006: The others are right... Get out now!! Before he does something alot more nasty to you.... the threatening and the hitting you is against the law like he has, and to then threaten rape to you is inconcievable that this guy has a single nice bone in ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my bf but I have drove him away! Any advice?
Q. i done want lose my boyfriend but i have drove him away help...
A. 23 August 2006: Hey there, What makes you think you drove him away, What did you do, Im sure it could be a misunderstanding, try and give us a little more information and we can try and help you sweetie, lots of things can be easily sorted out, and we can offer ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age!!
Q. Hello, A few weeks ago I met a boy who I instantly got along with. He told me he was 18 and so I lied about my age and said i was 17, a year older as I'm actually 16. At the time I didn't think I would see him again, so i didn't think It would ca...
A. 23 August 2006: Just tell him straight out... Its not a major difference one year... So if you only did lie slightly about your age then tell him now when it will be less of a big deal, rather than later on if things really do take off... Just tell him you know it ... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 23 August 2006: I dont think the accent really figures if you like someone, you over look it, we are all unique and no matter where we come from will all sound a little different. It just shows immaturity if someone looks more at an accent than a person.... (read in full...)
What wrong..he can't get erect to satisfy me? Is it me or all this porn he watched?
Q. Hi there, I have just started seeing someone who i really like. Last weekend we had sex for the first time at his place, it was great, although he didn't cum. We then drove back to mine, and altough we were really "into it", he wasn't errect. The ...
A. 23 August 2006: Hey, I think this guy is plain old nervous!! And saying he feels tired is a way to say maybe leave it for now.. also he could genuinly feel tired or a bit run down as this will result in his performance being a little off par... He is into you if ... (read in full...)
Any tips on masturbation?
Q. What's the best way to turn yourself on?...
A. 21 August 2006: Sorry but is this a loaded question!? lol How the hell would we know how to turn you on ? Think its something you need to address yourself, nobody else will know what works best for you, its you that can tell that... Try doing a search of a ... (read in full...)
Would he lie?
Q. hi--i have been with my b/f for longer than a year. We already agreed a long time ago no single vacations--meaning no trips away like say to mexico to just be drinking all weekend and with friends without the S/O. He has agreed to it and sees why i ...
A. 21 August 2006: You need to cross that bridge when you come to it... why worry over something that might not happen ? Also why wouldnt you be able to go visit his brother with him anyway ? make a break for the both of you maybe ? But well to show concern like ... (read in full...)
How best to deal with a less than average lover's penis?
Q. I have been seeing a wonderful guy!He is caring sensitive and great company!!he makes me feel beautiful! Our only problem as such is that he is quite "small" (4in fully errect)(about there are times when it gets difficult for him to stay inside m...
A. 21 August 2006: Have you tried reverse cowgirl ? You on top but the other way ? How about kind of side on... not sure what you call it... You lay down on your side kinda leaning back alittle, raise a leg in the air... hes rest your leg on his shoulder, hes ... (read in full...)
Is cheating ok so long as he doesn't find out?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 yrs, he is 27, I am 22. Three months ago I slept with some one else, so I split up with him, but didnt tell him why and he still doesnt know. We got back together three weeks ago, in the meantime, I ...
A. 21 August 2006: Er I think you already know the answer.... NO its not okay to keep cheating on him so longs he doesnt find out... You dont want to be with just him that much is obvious... do the right thing and let the poor guy find someone that isnt going to dump ... (read in full...)
Do other people interlock fingers during sex?
Q. I recently slept with a male friend of mine (we aren't going to be dating, just messing around) but I've never had sex before this and was wondering if it's normal for a guy to hold your hands during sex. He was on top, and kept interlocking his ...
A. 21 August 2006: Pretty normal me thinks when your that in to one another!! Me and my man do it and it says to us that we are connected on a higher level... its part of the closness, the longing for one another and the really wanting you... I was of the opinion ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I think I'm pregnant. Can my 18 yr old bf get into trouble for getting me pregnant?
Q. ok i have a boyfriend that is 18 years of age. well i have a feeling i maybe might be pregnant and im 16 (gonna turn 17 soon tho) we are a year and 3 months apart. so can he get in trouble for being 18 aand im pregnant? jus wonderin thanks...
A. 20 August 2006: Im assuming that you are in the UK, in which case no he cant get in to trouble as the legal age for sex here is 16. You need to go get a pregnany test though to make sure, and then decide what you are going to do. If you are in any other part of ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 - she's 15. Illegal?
Q. Hi, I was wondering what is classed as ilegal in the UK with an under 16 year old??? I'm 17 and she is 15! we are really love each other and want to get more physical but don't want to break the law! Please can you tell us what is ok? THANKS....
A. 20 August 2006: I think Dr Pete was actually probably leaning more to the fact of the age gap rather than the legal age of consent... Some countries states etc... even if the age of consent had already past its illegal for a couple of an age gap say 10 or so years ... (read in full...)
I can't live with or without her and it is ruining my life
Q. Help! Two months ago I split up with my girlfriend of two years and I'm haunted continuously by my own unanswered questions. She and I dated for two years after meeting on an online dating site. It was nice enough at first, but after six months I ...
A. 18 August 2006: Not sure that I can really define what true love is but can maybe share with you what happend to a male friend of mine.
He constantly went thorugh life looking for the ever perfect.. does that exist even something perfect ? I suspect not as we al... (read in full...)
My BF's mum thinks I'm a slut because she found out we were having sex!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a few months and we have had sex a few times, however even though we are both legal his mum found out and has stopped him from seeing me and its really affecting our realtionship I really love my boyfriend but he liste...
A. 18 August 2006: Sounds like me but this was nearly 15 years ago! He was my first steady boyfriend slightly younger than me and his mum found out we were sleeping together.. She did everything she could to break us up.. from not allowing him to call me or come over ... (read in full...)
He had an affair and hasnt broken off contact with her, what should I do ?
Q. my husband has had a affair which I have forgiven but he cannot seem to break off contact with her, advice please....
A. 17 August 2006: Well if he hasnt broken contact with her then hes still probably having an affair!! You have decided to forgive him and try again the least he could do is respect you a bit... sorry if had respected you then he wouldnt have cheated in the first ... (read in full...)
Do guys want to marry sexy women?
Q. Hi there, This may seem a silly question but for some reason it has me worried! I am 25 year old blond female. Most guys I meet who get to know me always say I am very sexy. I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. Do guys w...
A. 17 August 2006: Well.. Im a natural blonde... and cant stand bottle blondes as they give me a bad name!! as Pete writes men view them differently these days and I certainly do not fall in to that bracket to which he describes, but appreciate he was referring to ... (read in full...)
If you're married would you always wear your wedding ring?
Q. Hey guys, its me bonym!!!! Just a quick question about something that has been bugging me for ages!!! Ok, its really for married men, but I dont really mind who replies!!! Ok, so here is the deal, if you are married, would you always wear your...
A. 16 August 2006: Maybe they had to send it away to get resised or it had become bent or something like that, so he had to wait to get it back, perhaps he is married and he and his lady decided to get matching rings as he had lost his ?? Lots of reasons.... But well ... (read in full...)
Should I fake it?
Q. I've started seeing a new guy and things are going great and I think pretty soon we will have sex. My problem is that I've only been with one other guy (I'm 20) and in that 2 years we were together I never had an orgasm, through intercourse, oral or ...
A. 16 August 2006: Honey by faking it you will be doing yourself a mis service... if you fake it your guy is going to straight away think hes getting to your spot and stop trying to please you. You need to be open and honest and discover together what works! Just ... (read in full...)
Two days left? What does this mean?
Q. my fella has told me that we only have 2 days left of our relationship!! why has he given a deadline? what does this mean? im risking everything for him and now we only have 2 days left together!! i am so confused as i love him so much! i do i love ...
A. 16 August 2006: I think you need to ask him why he said such a thing... A deadline normally means that something has to be done or achieved by a certain time... As he indicated in the past that there was a problem ? have you been rowing lately, is he due to go ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 15 August 2006: Dr Pete, no offence taken.. I was merely pointing out that women also have to deal with the past of our partners... I appreciate it isnt easy but its just woman are expected to accept a mans past, where a man struggles to. ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 15 August 2006: I think its the same as the cheating thing.... Woman are alot more likely to forgive and move on and accept the man back, than a male would be ... How bizarre that the sexes can be so different on something so intimate.. And yet it seems that women ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 15 August 2006: Well Yos, I sat here for the last half hour digesting your extensive post and can see alot of the things you say and where you are coming from, we all have to deal with our partners past though in one shape or form and its up to us to either accept ... (read in full...)
He says that the dating site is just for laughs... should I accept this ?
Q. my boyfriend is still on a singles dateing site he told me when we first got together that he deleted his profile of there and just by chance i found out otherwise, he said that he is window shopping and only having a laugh!! should i except this??...
A. 15 August 2006: You best of without him... But its a shame you didnt get to dump him first!! he was way out of order and the only way he can condone what he did was to blame it on you! What a jerk... least you didnt end up getting married to him and finding out!! ... (read in full...)
I chatted to strange women, and my wife found the emails!
Q. My wife and I are a month apart in age and after being married for almost 19 years (december), I made a very foolish mistake. I turned to the computer and tried to find someone I didn't know to fullfill a missing part of my manhood. My wife and I ...
A. 15 August 2006: When you say considering leaving... Im guessing she is still there... Which is a good sign, if she were intent on leaving then she would have bolted straight away, so it seems shes having a bit of time to reflect and gauge her own next move... I ... (read in full...)
Six guys are 'in love' with me! How do I tell them all..I don't feel the same way?
Q. When I'm first in a relationship I find many things that i have in common with the person and get really involved and when they say I love you I say it back (i usully feel i do) but after awhile i quit feeling that way and then i get annoyed or ...
A. 11 August 2006: Sorry but how do you know that 6 guys are in love with you ? Are you jumping from one guy to the next within days!? Are they just saying they love you so you will have sex with them ? Im not sure to what extent you are saying that they are in ... (read in full...)
I'm 30, I'm shy, I'm boring and have had only 2 bf's.i, in my past. I want to find love but not sure if I should go for it. Any advice?
Q. I admit it i am a sad boring cow. I am 30 years and have only had 2 boyfriends. I am very shy and it takes me a while to warm up to people, i have never been interested in getting drunk in a pub or club and much prefer a good book! I work with a lot ...
A. 11 August 2006: Well I for one would not call it desperate... its where I met my man online! And we have been together 3 years now.. I had been single a short time and was hunting around on the web for something to do and saw an ad flash up for a site called ... (read in full...)
Thoughts on an Anxiety Hotline needed!
Q. I have posted here about starting a hotline; being a panic attack advisor to help anyone suffering from anxiety. Anyone would be able to ring even if suffering a panic attack at the time (even if unable to talk) and they would receive support, ...
A. 11 August 2006: Yes I believe this to be a good idea, but I do know that there are some hotlines already out there... No panic.org being one of them...which already has a night time crisis line... (runs 10pm-10am) and there are already hotlines for all different ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to start the 'sexual' stuff?
Q. How long should you be going out with someone before you start doing "stuff"? e.g. giving head and being fingered?...
A. 11 August 2006: There is no timescale... its when BOTH parties feel comfortable in taking thing further. Some would feel happy with just a month, others wait six months, some wait until they are married.. so its up to how the individual feels at the time. You ... (read in full...)
How do I dump him easily without hurting him?
Q. how do i dump him easily without hurting him?...
A. 11 August 2006: Unfortunately when someone cares about you and if they dont want to break up they never want to hear its over so they will always be hurt... Im guessing your quite young and maybe havent been together that long, its nice that you care, but its ... (read in full...)
He said he won't give me oral sex because I smell different to his ex-girlfriend!
Q. Dear cupid. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now and everything was going alright until i asked him why he had never attempted to give me oral sex when i have given it him. Basically he said it was because i smelt different from ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hey there!
Personally I think its a cop out... just him being downright lazy.. He needed an excuse because you challenged why he had never performed oral on you and that was the first thing that came into his head. He probably didnt perform ... (read in full...)
He says that the dating site is just for laughs... should I accept this ?
Q. my boyfriend is still on a singles dateing site he told me when we first got together that he deleted his profile of there and just by chance i found out otherwise, he said that he is window shopping and only having a laugh!! should i except this??...
A. 9 August 2006: Window shopping...!! More like checking out what else is out there .... How is checking out other girls having a laugh ? For one its dishonest to you and he should hold more respect, and secondly these other single girls wont think its so funny ... (read in full...)
I missed a pill. Could I get pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex yesterday. I am on the pill but when I went to take it this morning it appears as tho I missed a day. Could this result in pregnancy? I'm fairly sure I took it yesterday but now I'm beginning to wonder. A...
A. 8 August 2006: Yes its possible to fall pregnant by missing a pill, this is how many do get caught out, the risk is slightly less with missing just one, but even so you can still become pregnant as the dose that would normally be in your body will have lessened ... (read in full...)
I came inside my girlfriend...
Q. Me and my girlfriend of 1 1/2 months, had unprotected sex. I came inside of her and she went straight to the bathroom to pee. Does she still have a chance of getting pregnant?...
A. 6 August 2006: Yes without protection she can become pregnant if any sperm enters her vagina. doesnt matter if she went to the loo the little spermies are by then well on there way! If she wasnt on the pill, and this is within 72 hours she can get the morning ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my hubby
Q. How do I avoid having sex with my husband for some time?...
A. 6 August 2006: What seems to be the problem ? Theres not much to go on as to why you dont want to have sex with him, or how this is making you feel... Why do you feel you dont want sex with him ? Has he done something to upset you ? Do you just not feel in he ... (read in full...)
My chatroom love affair
Q. My problem is that i met a lad in a chat room and after a while we started kinda goin out but we have never met cuz we live so far aprt and i am not sure whether it can be classed as a proper realtionship. he says he loves me and i like him alot ...
A. 5 August 2006: I think that you can like someone alot over the internet, but never having met them i dont feel that you can call it an exclusive realtionship as you not together, dont know how each other behaves, dont know how you would get on without the safety ... (read in full...)
Text speak etiquette
Q. Whenever me and my girlfriend text each other or speak online we have always put ' i love you ' after a tiny little text such as 'on my way up in 5 minutes. I love you xxxx' we do this. I think its her idea mianly to do this and was from the start ...
A. 5 August 2006: If you mean to say it then dont worry... Mums are curious things dont let it bother you... if your happy to text it carry on, but if your feeling it is too much try and limit it a little and see how you go. But do what feels right for you!
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Text speak etiquette
Q. Whenever me and my girlfriend text each other or speak online we have always put ' i love you ' after a tiny little text such as 'on my way up in 5 minutes. I love you xxxx' we do this. I think its her idea mianly to do this and was from the start ...
A. 5 August 2006: Well, Ive been with my man for 3 years.. and we still use the I love you after the texts even though we live together! Why is it that you find it so much of a strain to do ? Sometimes we have the odd message that doesnt say I love you in it, but ... (read in full...)
Why are women such idiots!
Q. Last Wednesday I had a teeney tiny argument with my girlfriend, I later on apologised (even though it wasn't my fault). On Friday I asked her did she want to do something or go somewhere and got no reply.....fine. On Sunday still no word so I rang ...
A. 4 August 2006: Bit of a generalisation there... " why are women are idiots"
From my expereince men are just as much idiots as woman are if not worse! lol Now I guess your girl is just playing stupid games leave her to get on with it rather than play the same... (read in full...)
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