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My chatroom love affair

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Question - (5 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2006)
A female United Kingdom, *arlyuk writes:

My problem is that i met a lad in a chat room and after a while we started kinda goin out but we have never met cuz we live so far aprt and i am not sure whether it can be classed as a proper realtionship. he says he loves me and i like him alot aswell can anyone help???

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2006):

Wendyg agony auntI think that you can like someone alot over the internet, but never having met them i dont feel that you can call it an exclusive realtionship as you not together, dont know how each other behaves, dont know how you would get on without the safety of the net etc... but i wouldnt say its not possible to fall in love but being in love is a lot more than just words on a screen... Its a less personal thing on the internet and if you want it to me then take the plunge... meet up and see how goes, you might not like each other in the flesh, but it might be worth giving it a go, as well distance can always be altered if you want something to work... but if you are happy carrying on and not knowing each on a more personal basis then carry on, its up to how you feel and what you want from this, as you dont really know how many others hes talking to or indeed if he already has a girlfriend, it could be he feels he loves you but equally you could be that little lifeline he needs to the outside world.. its very hard to tell if someone genuine on the internet, but if your comfortable then so be it, but if you wnat it to me more ask him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2006):

dont met people on internet chat rooms, try a dating service or join a club of a hobby you enjoy.

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