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writes:Hey guys, its me bonym!!!! Just a quick question about something that has been bugging me for ages!!! Ok, its really for married men, but I dont really mind who replies!!!Ok, so here is the deal, if you are married, would you always wear your wedding ring? Ok that sounds sooo stupid but the reason I ask is cos, there was this guy who obviously I liked, and I do the 3 point check on all men, clean, good looking and no wedding ring, and this guy passed the check. Anyway after like 5 months he comes into work one morning with this ring on THAT finger and I know he cant have got married cos he never had any time off and neither have I, well 2 weeks and my friend said he was in that time and I am doubtful he got married on a Saturday and turned up for work on a Monday!My question is, why now has he decided to put a ring, there, or am I just being a total fool?Thanks guys (sorry, the question actually is quite long!!!)I do feel like answering my own question cos I know what I would tell myself!!!! xXx
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reader, bonym +, writes (16 August 2006):
bonym is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Wild Thaing, I will bear that in mind!!! Cheers!
All the advice given has been great, thanks. xXx
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 Well if you want to know then use this less-risky tactic:
Compliment him on the ring - even if you think the thing is God awful ugly. Then ask him where he bought it.
I have a uniquely designed wedding ring and people (mostly women) compliment me for having such a nice ring. I wonder if that means they were checking me out.... :)
But this is not about me... I hope this suggestion helps!
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reader, bonym +, writes (16 August 2006):
bonym is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo Wild Thaing, I would probably just tell myself, why dont you just ask him for goodness sake, and stop being so silly, or just get over him, he is obviously taken!!!!! but in reality I dont think I would do that. Anyway again, thanks for your mixed bag of answers. Tske care all. xXx
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (16 August 2006):
 Maybe they had to send it away to get resised or it had become bent or something like that, so he had to wait to get it back, perhaps he is married and he and his lady decided to get matching rings as he had lost his ?? Lots of reasons.... But well maybe say to him oh i notice you have a ring on that finger now, how long have you been married, sure you would then find out your answer!
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reader, bonym +, writes (16 August 2006):
bonym is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for all your replies. I think if I just asked him that would make bEtter sense!!!!! Maybe, we will see!
Thanks again. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): The only time I took off my wedding bands was when I gained weight in my pregnancy...then the Ex bought me a ring to wear.
Anyways...I woudln't read too much into it; now you know.
Let it go and move on.
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reader, tuk +, writes (16 August 2006):
Hi, I'm married and never wear my wedding ring because of my job, it could be dangerous, and to wear it on weekends or so, I never have time to adjust to it or get use to it would be the proper term...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): I would actually wear it as a pendant around my neck.
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (15 August 2006):
I'm female and I never wear my ring because I am interested to find out who would flirt with me if I was single! I can always mention how much I love my husband if I think things are going too far!
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reader, Wild Thaing +, writes (15 August 2006):
"I do feel like answering my own question cos I know what I would tell myself!!!!"
So what would you answer?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 August 2006):
 Ask him.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (15 August 2006):
 Maybe he was seperated from his wife for a while, maybe a chemical reaction to the ring, lost ring, replacement ring.
Could be many things.
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