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... Send *endyg a private message | | | *endyg's profile:I'm a 33 year old Business Analyst, in Hertfordshire.
I live in herts along with my Lovely Staffordshire bull terrier Archie and two lully cats! Rosie and Umbro!
Anyway, I stumbled across this site a couple of years back now and became addicted straight away! Anyway my friends used to always tell me that I gave good advice and I am a good listener.
I guess I try to put myself in other peoples situations and its easier looking in when your not directly involved. So anyway I gave this a shot, and here I am, I have had lots of positive feedback from people who have posted questions and I have done my best to advise, so I must be doing something right!
If I only make one person's life better with the advice I give then its worth it!
I like to make people happy and help if I can. I will go that extra mile if it will make someone smile!
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She gave me her phone number so what am I waiting for?
Q. I if work a with a girl gives me her number, how soon should i ring her? I'm not the most confindent person on phone, better face to face......
A. 3 September 2006: Or you could mail her if your on email at work and just say hi how you doing... was thinking of calling you later on if your free ? kind of like didnt want to call when you are busy and kinda checking that its okay to call! Shes probably really ... (read in full...)
My gf wants a week of freedom and fun, without me! What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of two years says she feels trapped in this realtionship and wants to hang out with her friends iam ok with that but she has cheated on me and i dont realy trust her. She says she wants 1 week of space to just be a 'girl' she is still ...
A. 3 September 2006: Well already the trust was broken, but if you have recoverd from this and you want to show her that you have then you have to trust her. By forgiving her you showed that you want to trust her again.. maybe you have to let her have the space she ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I may be infertile or worse..could this be from having an abortion?
Q. i'm 24 yrs old, after i had my first child 5 years ago i started having the contraceptive injection, and i had a period every 12 weeks, basically a week before i was due to renew the injection, everything was ok, i stopped having the injection for ...
A. 3 September 2006: When I was on the Injection I didnt have periods for the entire duration,(1 year) I came off this due to migraine and went straight on the mini pill.. i did not have periods straight away, in fact it was 2 years later they suddenly came back. I now ... (read in full...)
Should she use a vibrator or not??
Q. I am in my fifties been married and had sexual experience.....I have a girl freind i have known for many years and she has been ill with ME for 8 yrs she is 35 and a virgin. She says until recently she has never had any sex drive but now after so...
A. 3 September 2006: Hiya,
I dont see why she shouldnt try a vibrator and expiriment a bit, may let her see what turns her on and what she likes.. I myself have used them pretty much from the age of 15/16 and can whole heartedly say it improved my experiences as i kne... (read in full...)
Sex was fine but now it hurts too much!!
Q. I am gay and in my early 20s. I had been having receptive anal sex for about a year without any problems at all, however then all of a sudden I have hemroid/s. I am quite sure that the sex wasn't the cause as they came about in a time when I wasn't ...
A. 2 September 2006: Hey there, If you have been to the docs and he has diagnosed piles then he will have told you what treatment to take and what will be the best road for you to follow on recovering and aiding and relieving these. A colonososcopy is normally a way ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant by giving a blow job???
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant by giving a guy a blow job?...
A. 2 September 2006: Er, NO!! Think you might need the birds and the bees talk... you clearly havnent had the correct information given to you about such matters which as eyeswideopen suggests you are not ready for such a relationship. Really dont know what they ... (read in full...)
I am deeply in love with him, but feel that our relationship is eroding oh so quickly...
Q. I live with a man that I am deeply in love with. We have known one another for coming on a year. We became attracted to one another when we began to exchange emails. In the emails we shared intimate memories of childhood and our marraiges with i...
A. 2 September 2006: Honey, You already know that you cant stay like this. You know you have to move on. Yes its hard, but he doesnt want what you want, its very clear in everything that he says and does... You cant even talk to him about how you are feeling as it ... (read in full...)
Badbrit, message to all those that may be fed up with my problem...
Q. Badbrit here, man who has peed everyone off with my problem and ignoring advice. I am now taking it, accepting it is over and she not want it anymore and has no interest. I accept it but will always feel she has done it wrong and it is purely b...
A. 1 September 2006: I wish you well Badbrit and I do hope that brighter tomorrows do follow... grab hold of life and see what it brings you.
Take care x x... (read in full...)
I am deeply in love with him, but feel that our relationship is eroding oh so quickly...
Q. I live with a man that I am deeply in love with. We have known one another for coming on a year. We became attracted to one another when we began to exchange emails. In the emails we shared intimate memories of childhood and our marraiges with i...
A. 1 September 2006: Is he still dating other women ? Did he give a reason why he was seeing other people.. appears he wasnt ready to be settled with you... if you are an item you dont date other people.. have you asked him all of this and how it all came about... it ... (read in full...)
Badbrit, message to all those that may be fed up with my problem...
Q. Badbrit here, man who has peed everyone off with my problem and ignoring advice. I am now taking it, accepting it is over and she not want it anymore and has no interest. I accept it but will always feel she has done it wrong and it is purely b...
A. 1 September 2006: Hey,
Its not about peeing us off, its about not helping yourself by going over this again and again, i know its upsetting for you and you really dont want to let her go and wonder if things will change and what if you hang around etc... it will ... (read in full...)
I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?
Q. well i had unprotected sex when i was ovulating, about 5 days after i started spotting i took 3 pregnancy test but all are negative, and i'm almost a week late for my period. pregnant? ...
A. 1 September 2006: Jeezzz Helen thats not the best advice to give, "I have unprotected sex all the time with my bf and im never pregnant.." ever occured to you that your just lukcy!? If you dont want an unwanted pregancy no matter what stage of the month use ... (read in full...)
4 years together, we split... I cant deal with it, all the whys and ifs ? what shall I do ?
Q. I have split with my gf and mother of my baby after 4 years together. Her feelings have changed/gone, she wanted something else, doesnt want me even though life together was stable, financially viable, easier, loving, affectionate etc she just cant ...
A. 1 September 2006: Listen hun, What do you want us all to tell you ? I see you have posted the more or less same question over and over, and we obviously havent given you the answers that you want.. im sorry hun, but i really dont know what to advise to you as it ... (read in full...)
Sex was fine but now it hurts too much!!
Q. I am gay and in my early 20s. I had been having receptive anal sex for about a year without any problems at all, however then all of a sudden I have hemroid/s. I am quite sure that the sex wasn't the cause as they came about in a time when I wasn't ...
A. 1 September 2006: Well I know you can have an op to remove the Piles in severe cases so maybe thats an option, but as far as will that area recover im not sure, lots of woman get piles after child birth and they recover and its more comfortable, and many never have a ... (read in full...)
Do the relationship know how, self help, guide links really work ?
Q. I never normally fall for these things, but am obviously susceptable at the moment and i guess they prey on these people like me feeling this way. BUT you see advertised Ebooks that say shit like "Get the information that has kept thousands of cou...
A. 1 September 2006: I would also be intriqued on this one, as I see them all the while and think about it.... but im not too keen on the spending money to find out! lol.. I mean why have these links if they could just publish an ordinary book ? I know that some books ... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: Well me and my partner tend to go with themes and whats personal to us... at the moment we are in a Pulp fiction mode... He calls me hunnie bunnie and I call him pumpkin.. for those that have seen it you will know what i mean lol.. anyway.. we are ... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 1 September 2006: Would just like to add... I watched a documentary the other day on porn... and the making of some of the films... It seems in the main they go for men with slighter larger cocks so they can get the camera angles... Ie they like to get side shots, so ... (read in full...)
To Swallow or not to swallow....
Q. My girlfriend and i r 15 and we've been together for around a year, we're each others soulmates and are truely in love. while having oral sex, should she swallow if i ejaculates in her mouth or not? ...
A. 31 August 2006: To the anon male poster.... cough!... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 31 August 2006: Well Snowbird, I guess some people can see things differently and sometimes they dont realise how silly there problems really are in comparison, there are those that blissfully walk through life and have nothing more challenging in their lives... ... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 31 August 2006: Snowbird.... There is no other header it falls into .... and each question needs to have a category... ... (read in full...)
Is he a rebound relationship ?
Q. 3 months ago my girlfriend split with me the next day she went of with another man however she kept coming back to me for sex and telling me she misses me, in the 3 months they see each other everyday and have been away 3 times together, is he the ...
A. 31 August 2006: Are you still having sex with her ? In which case you have to stop it as shes seeing someone else and is clearly trying to move on, but at the same time didnt want to give you up. But problem did get you out of her system hence being away with the ... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 31 August 2006: I have to say I agree with Yos.. and I think you are obsessing over this, you picked up on something and made it a mountain, maybe you just dont like the woman and this somehow justifys itself to you, by saying she copies you, gives you a reason not ... (read in full...)
Want to reskill as ANYTHING so long as I can earn over £50k/year
Q. I am looking to reskill the only thing that I know about what I want to do is that at the end of it I would like to be able to earn in exess of £50,000. I don't know what line of work to look at or what sort of IT course to docould anyone sugest ...
A. 31 August 2006: Well have you looked at maybe being a Surveyor ? Its a hard course and needs alot of time, but once you are qualified you can either be part of an organisation or earn money on your own... RICS (Royal Institute for Chartered Surveyors) once you ... (read in full...)
I can't live with or without her and it is ruining my life
Q. Help! Two months ago I split up with my girlfriend of two years and I'm haunted continuously by my own unanswered questions. She and I dated for two years after meeting on an online dating site. It was nice enough at first, but after six months I ...
A. 31 August 2006: Hey there! Im chuffed that you took it board and its gone someway in to helping you, sometimes its the wierd and wonderful thats perfect... bit like me (just kidding)!
I really do hope that you continue to feel hopeful, and uplifted, every ex... (read in full...)
He cheated, I will forgive, I ask if he still wants me, he doesnt know!!!!!
Q. Hi. I've been married for 2 years and recently discovered my husband has been cheating. It started 1yr ago almost to the date of our anniversary. He has been lying to me for the past year about this and I learned last month he has been "miserable"...
A. 30 August 2006: Crikes what an arsehole... Honey I feel really bad for you I really do, but he does not deserve your forgiveness, he doesnt repect you and the answer "I dont know" simply says to me that he cant really be arsed but will do whatever seeing as you ... (read in full...)
He gets so close to orgasm but just can't do it..and he complains it hurts! Whats should he do?
Q. my boyfriend and i recently started having sex but for some reason every time we do it he gets really close to ejaculation but in the end it just doesn't happen. im a bit worried because sometimes he says it hurts. ...
A. 30 August 2006: Has this suddenly started happening ? Is this the first time he has had sex ? Could he have an infection ? is he able to ejaculate on his own ? What ever the answers to the above are, he needs to see a doctor and soon by the sound of it, you dont ... (read in full...)
If my bf is visiting the GUM clinics with his friends...does that mean he's cheating? What do you think?
Q. My boyfriend's friends all aged 20 never had steady girlfriends and so visited the Gum clinic maybe every 6 months. To my surprise my boyfriend also went along. I thought once was ok but any time his mates went he also got checked out too. He ...
A. 30 August 2006: It all comes down to you trusting him. I can understand you are a little taken a back and alarmed, but well he hasnt hidden the fact from you. Would seem odd that a guy went along to GUM clinic if he were not to be tested but maybe he just went ... (read in full...)
My wife won't learn how to cook properly. Does she not love me enough?
Q. I used to scoff at the adage that the way to a man's heart is through stomach but my wife is making me to do a re-think. We've been married now for over 10 years and have three lovely children. My wife has been a good wife and mother. I have a very ...
A. 28 August 2006: Well according to you then I dont love my bf as he does all the cooking LOL.... Im bad in the kitchen well he says I am so he does the cooking, i have tried on the odd occasion but he says its easier left to him... who am to argue! so sometimes we ... (read in full...)
Tatoo turn off!!! How do I tell her?
Q. I have a dilemma. My girlfriend has a tattoo. It's not very large, and its right in the small of her back. The problem is, I really don't like it, and for a bad reason. A tattoo in that spot just has negative associations for me: 'tramp stamp' an...
A. 28 August 2006: I think you need to accept it, as you are trying to accept her past... neither that Tattoo or her past can ever fully be erased... she is what she is, we cant change someone to satisfy ourselves we are all very very different and will always see ... (read in full...)
After 4 years she suddenly said she doesnt know what she wants!! As far as I can tell theres nothing wrong!!
Q. ive been with my girlfiend for nearly 4 years, i do anything she wants and we have been really happy,, i made her dinner the other day with flowers and everything just normal,, we wnet up stairs everything was fine.. then she just bursts into tears ...
A. 28 August 2006: Just a hunch, but is there anyone else involved ? Ive been on the recieving end of this before... I guy said to be he didnt know what he wanted, and it was like want you dont want you for a while and there were tears etc... then a few weeks down ... (read in full...)
Tatoo turn off!!! How do I tell her?
Q. I have a dilemma. My girlfriend has a tattoo. It's not very large, and its right in the small of her back. The problem is, I really don't like it, and for a bad reason. A tattoo in that spot just has negative associations for me: 'tramp stamp' an...
A. 28 August 2006: Arr I wrote my reply before seeing what you had written Yos... I see so the fact is actually the past, not the Tatoo, by removing the tatoo will not erase the past... if you cant get past her past, the tatoo will not erase it, you may think this ... (read in full...)
Tatoo turn off!!! How do I tell her?
Q. I have a dilemma. My girlfriend has a tattoo. It's not very large, and its right in the small of her back. The problem is, I really don't like it, and for a bad reason. A tattoo in that spot just has negative associations for me: 'tramp stamp' an...
A. 28 August 2006: What you need to ask yourself is, why does it bother you that much ? You say Tramp stamp... do you actually think that way about her ? If you do then im guessing shes not the one for you... Remember there is a person under that tattoo, and it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is M.I.A. and I don't know what to do
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend told me today so randomly that he is going to be M.I.A for one week. He said that we can not speak or see each other during this time. He told me to trust him and that he loves me. I am so confused. I haven’t heard fr...
A. 26 August 2006: Hey BoneyM it means "missing in action" bit odd if hes not in the army!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is M.I.A. and I don't know what to do
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend told me today so randomly that he is going to be M.I.A for one week. He said that we can not speak or see each other during this time. He told me to trust him and that he loves me. I am so confused. I haven’t heard fr...
A. 26 August 2006: Not sure on this, sounds a bit odd... Was there somewhere he had to go but couldnt tell you ? How old are you ? Had he been acting strange before this.. Did you try to contact him ? Maybe he wasnt ready for the two of you to be serious so needed ... (read in full...)
During lovemaking he shouted "I love you, Betty" Guess what...I'n not Betty!
Q. My boyfriend of three years and i were making love after a few drinks recently when he shouted "Betty, i love you! Well my name is not Betty!Immediately this happened I pulled away. Betty is his ex girlfriend whom i know he is still very fond of and ...
A. 26 August 2006: This is quite common to happen if your relationship is new and he hasnt long broken up with his ex... but to have been together 3 years and he suddenly uses her name in your most intimate moment then i would be somewhat concerned! It could be that ... (read in full...)
When I have sex I bleed! Why?
Q. have met somone new! when we have sex i bleed! Why?...
A. 26 August 2006: Was this your first time of sexual liasons ? Has this happend before... are you being a tad too vigourus ? if this is due to recently losing your virginity then its quite possible for this to happen a few times down the line, the body getting used ... (read in full...)
My lover thrust too deep; now there are problems "down there"
Q. i had sex with my b/f when he came to visit... when we had sex he went really deep and kinda hurt my lower stomach and i think my bladder... my vagina was really swollen and now when i go and pee it kinda tickles and is tingly.... the outside of ...
A. 26 August 2006: Well I have experienced the pain in the tummy that you mention, almost like hes gone way to deep and hit the back wall (cervix) which is pretty common i think, but ive never had swolleness around the area after, as once its kinda been whacked so to ... (read in full...)
150 girls or less!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and, except for my problems with his past and the number of one night stands he's had, everything has been fine. Today, we were talking about it and he said I'm being silly and I'll never find someone ...
A. 24 August 2006: Apology accepted Dr Pete :o) Although tis still some going to find 150 female one night stands!! I guess it depends where you hang out then! ... (read in full...)
What to do with my not so "everyday" journals ?
Q. I know this problem may seem a bit silly, but it is worrying me, and I WILL have to make a decision one day. It has been playing on my mind more than usual as my father died recently, very suddenly, and at a young age, so I know how unpredictable ...
A. 24 August 2006: Yes harsh but fair has a point maybe get them published!! Sounds like they are better than Jackie Collins!! Or I guess you could get them put in a safety deposit box along with a message to warn of the content, and an explantion of it being you in ... (read in full...)
150 girls or less!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and, except for my problems with his past and the number of one night stands he's had, everything has been fine. Today, we were talking about it and he said I'm being silly and I'll never find someone ...
A. 24 August 2006: Careful Doctor Pete...
"Your guy knew this and probably simply spend a few hours buying her them drinks and telling her how special, pretty and unique they was. That's all it took.... " Thats all it took..!!! What are you saying about women ? I... (read in full...)
Is it love that I'm feeling?
Q. How do you know if you love someone? There is this guy I know and are dating. I have known him for quite a while and we only see each other at weekends but as it's the holidays and I'm seeing him more often at the moment. I feel as if i can smel...
A. 24 August 2006: Yeah it sounds as though you are starting to fall in love... Nice feeling isnt it! Embrace it enjoy it and cherish it!!!
Have fun and take care x x x ... (read in full...)
My husband of 30 years took one of our cars and hid it from me!
Q. I reside in california and married 30 years. We have three vehicles, my husband took one of our vehicles and stated it is in a safe place. I want my vehilce returned, what can i do?...he wont tell me where it is...both names on registration..can i ...
A. 24 August 2006: Well im guessing he did it to get a reaction... Did you ask him why he did it ? Perhaps dont show your bothered as hes trying to provoke you, if he sees its not working (i know it is) then he may just give up.. its a bit of a silly game, but maybe ... (read in full...)
I can't live with or without her and it is ruining my life
Q. Help! Two months ago I split up with my girlfriend of two years and I'm haunted continuously by my own unanswered questions. She and I dated for two years after meeting on an online dating site. It was nice enough at first, but after six months I ...
A. 18 August 2006: Not sure that I can really define what true love is but can maybe share with you what happend to a male friend of mine.
He constantly went thorugh life looking for the ever perfect.. does that exist even something perfect ? I suspect not as we al... (read in full...)
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