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Okay.

I'm not here to enter some beauty pageant, popularity contest. I'll tell you straight up what I think, from the information you provide me.

If you're a whimp, sissy or a jerk, I will tell you. If your significant other is a whimp, sissy or a jerk, I will tell you, too!

I am an artist & writer but I will throw all punctuation, grammar, spelling and political correctness out the window here.

Perhaps what people need more is art, sprituality and kindness but what I give you is me being real for what ever that's worth.

So, like me or like me not...you'll get what you'll get, because you asked for it!

Is it ok for live-in boyfriend to keep sex tape of ex-girlfriend? Male perspectives welcome...

Q.   Hi, I am in a crisis with my live-in boyfriend (I just moved in officially last month) and wanted to ask you all for your opinions, men and women, and the reasoning behind your views. My boyfriend likes to videotape his life and keeps several V...

A.   29 June 2006: HELL NO! okay so i had this man who used to keep a five drawer safe metal safe with a lock on it. so i always wanted to see what was in it. providing his history of being a "professional photographer" at a strip club i know this man must hav... (read in full...)

My Husband as advertised on a sex site, is he bored of me ?

Q.   I recently found out that my husband has posted himself on a website for finding adult friends for sex/relationships etc. I have been cheated on before and am going paranoid. He says he's never cheated but has lied to me before about pornographic ...

A.   29 June 2006: being a military wife is hard: i know. i was an af brat & ex-army. one thing i can tell you about the military family: the males in the military know how to use a lot of military law & policies against thier own wives to subjugate them. the ... (read in full...)

My BF told me he didn't think I was beautiful when he first met me!

Q.   My boyfriend has been telling me that I am beautiful since we have been going out... we just had our 1 year a few days ago. There gets to be a certain point in your realtionship where you actually start to believe that your beautiful. 2 days ago...

A.   29 June 2006: i kinda know what you are feeling, though. my ex-boyfriend told me that his friends were trying to have him get with another girl at the club that was more "hot". uh yeah? what does THAT mean? EXQUEEZE ME? but why did i feel hurt? i belie... (read in full...)

In love with 3 men

Q.   I dunno how I got involved with 3 mens... but one thing for sure, this is definately no fun!! And this is giving me heart burn. At first we were just friends, and as we spend more hours together, they got emotionally attached to me. I tried to ...

A.   29 June 2006: Well, girlfriend, you top me on this one...Dang, I have a problem with loving one man, let alone 3 of them! But if you can separate yourself with your emotions, man you got it made!!! But be careful on this because you know how possessi... (read in full...)

Captain of the football team or Captain of sleaze?

Q.   I am a 17 year old female who has a crush on the captain of the football team. His name is Kevin. He always sees me in the hallways and makes sure he walks by me and he says hey. At lunch one day he was behind me and he rubbed his member past my ...

A.   27 June 2006: Well, I guess you got what you wanted. Are you surprized he's a sleaze? So he wants sex every night, is that the real problem? Let me break it down to you sister: he's the type of guy who wants a GIRL GONE WILD kinda girl...unless you're p... (read in full...)

My Husband as advertised on a sex site, is he bored of me ?

Q.   I recently found out that my husband has posted himself on a website for finding adult friends for sex/relationships etc. I have been cheated on before and am going paranoid. He says he's never cheated but has lied to me before about pornographic ...

A.   27 June 2006: okay i'm not going to pussyfoot around this: your man is a LOSER. your question should not be ..."is he BORED with me" it should be "where the hell is the EXIT?" that man is a closet FREAKAZOID...& he's seeking other FREAKAZOIDS...so... (read in full...)

He says I go on about stuff all the time, But if he wont talk to me what else can I do!!?

Q.   Hi, My bf and I have been seeing each other for over a year, we have been arguing alot lately, he says that Im irrational and over the top about stuff when i try to tell him that i feel hurt about something and dismisses my feelings. he says he'...

A.   27 June 2006: don't accept that crap! it's called emotional abuse! he's playing mind games with you to try to control you... in rare societies, women are revered, meaning they are respected like goddesses. & i don't ever get it: but as soon as you back... (read in full...)

I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn? Any comments?

Q.   As a man, I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn. Porn itself is not the problem. It the person. I look at porn 5-6 times a week. I watch some movies, read stories and Jerk off about 6 times a week. Also make love with my wife ...

A.   27 June 2006: what if us women went on a strike on our men due to some inappropriate action, locally, nationally then globally? what havoc would that cause? i always think that the problem that feeds men's perception of women is fed by the media and there in... (read in full...)

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