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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): hun dont worry my moms strict to if i do one simple thing ill get beat for it.just go with ur mind says,she loves u no matter what.just sit her down face by face and hold her hand and tell her.trust me
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reader, sexi  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 Hi,Good luck and i hope everything works out for you. I admire your courage at such a young age to take on the responsibilty of a parent. Take it easy and remember that you are never alone in anything,Take care
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reader, mrsdrown  +, writes (8 August 2007):
mrsdrown is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks everyone for your answers. me and my boyfriend decided that we're going to tell my mom over dinner. that way we can both be there to explain everything and if she flips out on me he'll be there for me. We both realized that we made a mistake and we are ready to take on this responsibility. We know it'll be hard but as long as we have eachother everyhing will be alright. Wish us luck!
thanks again
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Your mom probably has been strict because she didn't want you to make the same mistakes or even get near them like she did. TELL YOUR MOM YOU ARE PREGNANT. She is the only woman in the world who knows you completely and loves you. No matter who she responds or reacts, tell her. After that decide what you need to do. I advise you to keep the child and after the birth decide on adoption or to raise him or her yourself. You are going to need A LOT of support and resources so the sooner you talk to mom and other women relatives in your family the better. There will be at least one person who is comapassionate and willing to help you through all this. Go to a local church or whatever and ask for help.
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reader, Ask_HanBan  +, writes (8 August 2007):
 hey,find someone else to talk to,dont let your mother take control, this is your baby that you are carrying
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reader, sexi +, writes (8 August 2007):
Hi, get some other family member that you are comfortable to talk to and let them tell her. Just be open and honest because she would have question and remeber everything is gona be ok.
Take Care, mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (8 August 2007):
You'll have to tell your mom some time. It might as well be now. But also, where's the guy right now? Does he know? Is he willing to step up here?
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reader, Dear Donna +, writes (8 August 2007):
HelloI think you should sit your mum down and tell her. Are you still with you the boy? Did he use protection? If he didn't, you'd better get yourself checked out for any diseases.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): well hun you are just going to have to tell her some time, shes your mom and she'll find out but just dont stress to much on it the stress isnt good for you or the baby, but after the baby if you keep or not think next time your way too young to be having children from 13 to 15 your still a baby your self but now you have to be a mom and i hope you know a real baby is no where near a doll
good luck
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reader, Ileana +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Hey sweetie well i can say is you have to tell her she'll go mad but she can support you i also got pregnant at 15 so i know how it feels but she will support you and in future reference hunny wait til your older and use a condom, if you wanna chat to me you email me babe.
Love
Ils
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