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*alexander
writes:Im 18 and hes turning 25, we flirt and kiss so much but he just mentions age just a little. What does that mean? Like. i like him alot and he likes me alot and he also says he just dosent wanna get in to trouble...
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reader, Wild Thaing +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Sorry, I don't understand what you wrote. Can you give us some more details?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): well, he also said to keep fasting and stuff.. and like i donno his room mate says he has just bad luck with ladies and stuff.i just didnt care when i heard that.is he playing games with my heart?
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reader, Wild Thaing +, writes (13 August 2007):
If he brings up your age or his age or the age gap then it is safe to say that age is weighing on his mind. Therefore, it would be best to lower your expectations about this guy until you are both comfortable about the age gap.
He definitely cares about what other people are thinking when they see you together. Talk to him about this so you can tease out the reasons why he is so conscious about the age gap. Until you and your guy resolve this issue, your relationship will not move forward. Good luck and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): Hi I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 28... we've been together for 2 years and at first it was hard - but he just has to realise you are a bit younger than him - but that won't stop you having a mature loving relationship.. just let him know that even though you are younger than him the age difference doesn't matter when you're together!
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reader, sexi  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi,age is nothing but a number.You shoudl speak to him about the age difference and ask him if what are his views ,if you are open you would get answers.I am 19 and my bf is 30 but we dont see any problem with our ages - we did speak about it when we started going out and decided that we would let it bother us. Speak to your bf and see what he tells you.
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (13 August 2007):
 Age differences in relationships invariably only ever become a problem if either of you have got any underlying hangups regarding age gaps.
He obviously likes you otherwise he would not be reciprocating the flirting, but he obviously has got a slight issue with the seven year age gap. Seven years is not an great deal really. I would keep going the way you are going with the flirting/kissing and let things build up between the two of you gradually and naturally.
All the best x
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