He went on holiday with his ex, but says he wants to be with me when he returns!
Q. Long story, Short version! I met a great guy, but he had a gf! After seeing him for 3 months he left her, not for me because he did not want to be with her! A month later he asked me to go away with him on holiday and I could not as I have ...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi, You can start by asking him why did he have to take his ex on holiday with him, he could have taken a friend.
You really do like this guy as i can see because you are still considering having him in your life/future after what has happened. You ... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't want me anymore; I can't get over her
Q. hello evrey im 19 single but im in love with sum 1 special. she says she doesnt like me no more iv pushed her away from me. but sayin that we was together for bout a year she knows i love her more than anythin.i told her il put my hands up for ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, you sound like a really sweet guy. The fact that she is just brushing you off, i dont think you should be treated like that. Like i said you sound sweet so dont ponder on this girl if she doesnt want the same thing as you. Go out and meet new ... (read in full...)
What 'welcome back' present will match his ex-girlfriend's?
Q. Please somebody help--my boyfriend is traveling for a week; do I make a welcome party when he comes or bring him a present? Please tell me what kind of a present I must bring because his ex brought him one the last time he traveled. ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, " It's the thought that counts". Whether you get him a big expensive gift or a small cheap one, i'm sure he would still appreciate it. I think you are abit insecure in your relationship and that is why you see the need to compete with his ex gf. ... (read in full...)
He went on holiday with his ex, but says he wants to be with me when he returns!
Q. Long story, Short version! I met a great guy, but he had a gf! After seeing him for 3 months he left her, not for me because he did not want to be with her! A month later he asked me to go away with him on holiday and I could not as I have ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, Your boyfriend is playing games with your heart and is not being fair to you. Be open and tell him everything and the two of you should confront her and then you would get the truth. If he is lying to you, it is up to you whether you want to ... (read in full...)
My wife is bereaved...how do I help her?
Q. My wife's mother died; she is falling apart and won't accept aid from me and the kids. Now I'm a doctor and busy ALL the time, now I love my kids but I cant earn a living and look after 4 kids and try to help my wife--I love her with all my heart ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, My condolences to you and your wife. You need to understand that this is a very hard time for you wife. The only thing that you can do is give your wife the support, care & love that she needs in abundance. She needs time to come to terms with ... (read in full...)
My live in boyfriend is inconsiderate and uncaring
Q. please help, i have been with my current boyfriend for the last year and a half...i don't know if i should break up with him or not. i love him more than anything...but he doesn't respect me...he's hours late to everything...doe...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, sorry ot hear about your problem. The first thing that you should do is speak to him about what you are feeling. That is the onl way he would know that his actions are affecting you.If you continue to keep quiet about what he is doing he would ... (read in full...)
I am new to the whole relationship thing and have some questions
Q. I am just going to post a few questions at once... just cause i have so many... i am rookie to this relationship stuff so thanks in advance for all your advice... 1. Does a man like to hear I love you often? 2. How can you talk to your bf abou...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, Like i said before you need to be open and honest with you bf. Tell him that you have noticed a change in your relationship especially with regards to his attitude towards you. If he isn't interested anymore he should tell you so that you can ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he has feelings for me or if he is just controlling?
Q. For the past 3 years I have worked with D. We both have partners,but unhappy. We are really close at work. I have told him my feelings of love. We went out once and felt guilty...since then we have tried to maintain a friendship and work ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, you need to make your mind up as to whether you want to end your current relationship or not. If you dont then try and make your relationship work. If you are unhappry then there is no reason you should your partner back from finding someoe that ... (read in full...)
I always cheat--how can I stop?
Q. I was wondering if from everyone's experience that the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" is true. I am asking because I have cheated on every boyfriend I have ever had except my current boyfriend and am terrified I will do it again. I alwa...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, maybe there is some truth in that saying but i think once you have found someone that you really love you would stop cheating.That would be the time when you will really be committed to your relationship and love one person unconditionally. I ... (read in full...)
I am horrified at his previous relationship, she was only 15!
Q. i am 18 and in a happy, sexually active relationship with my boyfriend who's 19. my b/f has been in two previous sexually active relationships (the most recent with a girl nearly 3 years his junior). it occured to me that during his last ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi, dwelling in the past isn't going to help you. If you really love this guy and he really loves you, you are going to ruin your good relationship by inquirng.I'm not saying you should ask him but if he is not ready to give you answers he would uo ... (read in full...)
I think he cheated before we got married
Q. Ive been married for a year and a half now. My husband and I are best friends. However, there was a point before we married when I felt that he had cheated on me while I was away studying. I sometimes still have this strong niggling feeling that he ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi, unfortunately the only way to stop this is for you to be open with him - he is your husband afterall. Just tell him what you think and reassure him that you love him but he should please be open and honest with you. The truth is that you can't ... (read in full...)
Two months into a perfect relationship he has turned cold and says he needs time
Q. Hi there My boyfriend is in a wheelchair, it has been 6 years since his accident. We have only been together for 2 months, but the relationship has been 100% perfect, sexually and emotionally. Recently he has turned cold and says he needs time to...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi, just give him some time. Maybe he needs it to deal with some personal issues in his life. What you acn do is be very supportive at a time like this as we can only imagine how hard it must be for him. Give him the space he requires but also let ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart and I am devestated
Q. It's been nearly 7 months since I split up with my ex, and whilst I am gradually feeling happier, I still go through the odd occasion where I am filled with so much anger toward him and I don't know how to get rid of it. I feel like he completely ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi,sorry about what has happened to you ,believe me it happens to all of us. Just be positive you would find someone that really does love you and the your so called friend would see what he missed out on. I think you should not have contact with ... (read in full...)
I am new to the whole relationship thing and have some questions
Q. I am just going to post a few questions at once... just cause i have so many... i am rookie to this relationship stuff so thanks in advance for all your advice... 1. Does a man like to hear I love you often? 2. How can you talk to your bf abou...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi, 1. Yes, some guys like to be told constantly about your feelings for him. He sees this as being a sense of security to your relationship. Just say " I love you" at the appropriate times and abuse those special words. 2.If your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
My question is will I wait for him to call or should I be the one to make the move first?
Q. Just last night I had a fight with my boyfriend, for I did ask him about something and he did answer me but for my curiosity I asked him again and again, it's about a male friend of his who wanted to borrow money.... I accepted the fact that I did ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi, the fact that you asked him so many times probably just annoyed him. i think you should send him an sms saying you are sorry and now that you know that he gets irritable quickly if you asked him one thing more than once, try to avoid that, Good ... (read in full...)
I like my boss and I think he might be flirting with me!
Q. I like my boss. At work, when he says good morning, he strokes my shoulder and smiles at me--what should I do?...
A. 2 July 2007: I think you are asking for trouble. If things go bad between you and your boss, you would not have a very happy working enviroment. you would probably have to look for another job.However, if it the real thing you might just end up being happy. Just ... (read in full...)
My skin is dark from the sun, can I make it lighter?
Q. I have Darkish skin. I don't like it. how can i make it lighter.My real skin color is a bit lighter. I like it but how do i keep it. I live in California so the sun is pretty strong here. I've tried to stay inside and were longs sleeve shirts . ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi,i just wanted to tell you that you should just be happy with the way that you look. God made you the way you are. Some people would be happy to have a normal face. The colour of your skin does not determine what type of person you.im sure you are ... (read in full...)
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