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writes:I've been seeing my bf for over a year and a half, we almost live together, or was. We used to be really close, however things went downhill when i said i loved him... and he never said it back. We talk about it often, i cant help but be upset, i put everything into our relationship, i cant help but feel i get nothing back. Sometimes i feel he's just waiting till i'm strong enough to break up with him, or waiting till i get fed up enough and break up with him. But i cant, he is all i have. I have no family, hardly any friends, he is all i have. I think i know the answer to this, but i just... wanted some help. Thank you for your time Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): If a guy doent say i love u,then he doesnt really care for u.Guys r JERKS ,dont give him a chance to play wid ur feelings just ditch him ,dont care abt him ,he will come back to u.
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reader, agonyauntlisaxxxx +, writes (11 August 2007):
 I went through this situation with my ex. Sit him down and talk to him, tell him how you feel. My Ex never told me he loved me unless it was a special ocassion, He neglected and emotionally abused me it all ended in tears for me but i'm sure it'll be good for you.You guys need a break from each other to decide wot u both really want. GOod luck xxx
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reader, sexi  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 Hi, If you really want to give this relationship another chance try speaking to him once more. Tell him the way you feel and that if it doesnt work out after you give it a chance you think that it would be best to go your seperate ways. Think carefully before you make a decision that you would regret.Also ket him know that you are hurt by hos response to your words.
Speak to him first.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (10 August 2007):
 The thing is, he probably knows you feel this way. The trouble with most guys is that once they've realised they don't have to put any effort in they won't. So, it seems like he's taking advantage of you.It could be recommended to feign a break - up, because you are at your wit's end it seems, but in a normal relationship you shouldn't have to instil fear to get treated properly.It could also back fire and as you say be the thing he was looking for in the first place.What i will warn if you stay with him, his behaviour will only get worse if he knows he can get away with it.He will cheat on you if he knows that you'll just roll over and take it.Look how young you are and you discovered him, just think what else you could discover out there in the years to come.My honest opinion, ditch him and go looking for someone who treat you properly all the time because they want to.
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