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We broke up over something I did, he says he loves me but cant be with me, what can I do ?
Q. my boyfriend broke up wiyh me toyaly out of the blue, because of somethin wrong i did many months ago. he's been telling me how much he loves me lately, so i'm in total shock and don't know what to do. i love hims os much, but he says he just cant ...
A. 12 April 2007: The harsh reality of it is that he has tried to get over what you did and has discovered he can't. He is doing what he feels he needs to do to get over your betrayal. You need to give him the time and space he's asking for. ... (read in full...)
Im 18 and hes 26, worried that all he sees us as is sex, even though he talks about he future ?
Q. i am 18 and i am seeing 26 year old man and i am confused about what he really wants from me. He talks about the future but what about now what am i supposed to wait or just move on its hard because i have feelings for him that are strong.I caught ...
A. 11 April 2007: It's hard to get enough about your relationship from your question. Unless I completely understand you, it sounds like you aren't having sex yet; you want to but he doesn't. Is that right?
I think you should slow down. He's probably worried ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?
Q. I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?...
A. 10 April 2007: Yes and no.
First off, don't have sex. She's too young to handle it emotionally, and you're both too young to handle it if she gets pregnant. Not to mention that you could be thrown in jail for statutory rape if someone finds out. Wait unt... (read in full...)
Are there any ways of making anal sex for a girl less painful?
Q. Does it feel better when a guy's giving a girl anal sex or having sex the regular way? Also..are there any ways of making anal sex for a girl less painful? I recently discovered that when my bf fingers me there it feels really good, but i'm re...
A. 10 April 2007: I really like this site both for information and for toys. Here's some information: http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/guides/anal.html... (read in full...)
Questions about birth control and pregnancy...advice please?
Q. i need some help i got a few questions 1 im on the injection is it possible that i might be pregnant because i keep being sick and getting tired 2my parents want me to go on the pill how will this harm my baby if i am pregnant 3 how much w...
A. 10 April 2007: Wow. That's a lot of questions. I'll answer them separately:
1 im on the injection is it possible that i might be pregnant because i keep being sick and getting tired
You didn't say which injection, but I suspect that those could be side ef... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and barely hugged a boy while my friend has scored with someone! I need advice on how to do things with the boys??
Q. im just 13 i've started 2 talk 2 a boy whos 14 and i really like him but hes into se and everything..my best freind is going out with sum1 and scored and i've bearly even hugged a boy. i just want 2 fit in but i don't know how to do anythink i've ...
A. 10 April 2007: PLEASE don't be in such a hurry! Don't try to "score" just so that you can! Enjoy being with boys by talking, etc.
There are so many scary things (pregnancy, bad reputation, diseases) about having sex too early or too often. (And BTW, you... (read in full...)
I really like her but I'm too shy to ask her out! Any tips or suggestions?
Q. To Anyone I think I am in love infact I know I am She is 14 and I 15 we go to differnt schools But we go to church together I think she is the most beutifull girl I have ever seen but I BE TO SHY TO ASK HER.I relly like her she always smiles at...
A. 10 April 2007: Find out what she likes to do and ask her to do that. This way you'll have a slight advantage.
It's been a while since I've been your age, so forgive the question: are you and she allowed to date? At 14 I was allowed "group dates" but not ... (read in full...)
I cant be myself around him, in case he doesnt love me, but he says he wants me to be myself or we will have to end it!!
Q. Am an 18 years old girl and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months everything was fine at first , i could be my self around him , we always had a laugh , and had loads of things to talk about but now i can't be my self around him i ...
A. 10 April 2007: You have to be yourself. The pressure to be anyone else will be exhausting. Eventually you will begin to resent the person you love for "making" you act different.
But he's not "making" you act different; how do you know he won't like who you ... (read in full...)
Don't want to be with ex cuz he cheated, but now I'm having an affair with him!
Q. I got married to a guy, a year later he cheated on me with my best friend, we had a child together. we did not talk for about 2 years, now he is back to see our child, in the mean time a met another guy and got married and had a second child ...
A. 10 April 2007: If you want what's best for your children, stay with the man who has been true to you. Cut off all contact with your ex (except for child visitation).
He obviously likes the "forbidden" aspect of love. Right now, it's "forbidden" to be with you... (read in full...)
Do you bleed the first time?
Q. I'm a virgin and what i'd like to know is if you definetly bleed the first time you have sex? And also if you bleed still when you've broke your virginity? Thanks...
A. 10 April 2007: I didn't. I'm guessing some do and others don't.... (read in full...)
When are you not a virgin?
Q. do you have to orgasm to say that you've had sex or do you just have to have been in and out...
A. 9 April 2007: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virgin... (read in full...)
How do I show a long distance friend that I care for her?
Q. I was wondering if a relationship can develop with someone, even if you only see them infrequently. I met an amazing girl two years ago and we became friends. But because we live in separate cities, we have only seen each other six times since ...
A. 9 April 2007: Because you see her so infrequently, you need to make those times count. Especially now that she's leaving for seven months. I think it's time to level with her.
"I think we would have a great more-than-friends relationship, and would like to ... (read in full...)
We broke up over something I did, he says he loves me but cant be with me, what can I do ?
Q. my boyfriend broke up wiyh me toyaly out of the blue, because of somethin wrong i did many months ago. he's been telling me how much he loves me lately, so i'm in total shock and don't know what to do. i love hims os much, but he says he just cant ...
A. 9 April 2007: Let him go. He's either using what happened months ago as an excuse, in which case he's lying about why he wants out, or he's been stewing about it for months, and couldn't be honest with you about his feelings. Either way, this doesn't say great ... (read in full...)
Will my guy ever agree to marriage and children? What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I of a year and a half had a conversation last night that I believe will break us up for good. Since I've met him he's been back and forth about ever getting married and having kids one day, he is so scared of this. I told him ...
A. 9 April 2007: You both obviously love each other very much, which makes it hard. It's possible that he will change his mind. It's also possible that he never will. If you stay with him, you have to be okay with EITHER outcome.
My advice to you depends ... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair for 2yrs with my husbands friend! I'm trying to end it and do the right thing, but he keeps threatening suicide! What do I do!?
Q. I am in such a mess and I don’t know what to do anymore. Without going into loads of detail and not wanting you to condemn me straight away, I have been having an affair for the last 2 years. Thing is, my husband is lovely, we have been together ...
A. 9 April 2007: You need to break it off. You're not responsible for your husband's friend; you are responsible for your husband.
If roles were reversed and your husband were sleeping with your best friend, what you you want him to do?
This is going to blow... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's brother has been hitting on me behind his back, should I tell him?
Q. Ok. Heres what im going through. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. It feels like I"ve been with him for longer than that. Well he has a brother who hits on me behind his brothers back. I ignore him and I try to get it through his head that I ...
A. 9 April 2007: This one is hard. If you don't say something to your boyfriend, he might think you were inviting his brother's advances. But if you do say something, he might think you're trying to get in between them. You've only known your boyfriend such a ... (read in full...)
We're engaged but she has this guy friend she doesn't want me to meet! Why is that?
Q. Girlfriend may be cheating? Hello, I have a short question or rather Id like to hear some advice and opinions. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we recently got engaged(maybe 8 months ago). However, she has a friend who she ...
A. 9 April 2007: I can't answer whether she's been cheating, but it does look suspicious. I agree that you need to meet this person before you and she get married, and she needs to come clean about why she's hiding him from you. There are all kinds of reasons ... (read in full...)
We had a terrible argument and he hasn't called me for 5 days, what do I do? He KNOWS I'm pregnant with his child!
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 1yr. I found out 2wks ago I was pregnant. We talked about it I told him I was going to keep it. We knew it would be hard seeing that we live 3 hrs apart. he just found out a week ago that he got a new job offer to ...
A. 9 April 2007: Well, you told him to never call you again; he's just doing what you asked him to do. If you want to see him again, you'll need to make the move to contact him. You can't ask him to choose between children. If he has one already, he need... (read in full...)
I'm a female, lately I've had mixed up feelings for a female friend
Q. I'm a female, lately I've had mixed up feelings for a female friend, but the thing is that I've always liked guys. I've known her for few months and we became good friends, but I'm not sure why I'm having this feelings for her. I really don't want ...
A. 9 April 2007: Human sexuality isn't black and white; it's gray with lots of shades in between. The Kinsey Scale (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale) talks about how there are only a few who are COMPLETELY on either end of the specrtrum. This is normal. ... (read in full...)
We have decided to put things on hold and be friends until we have sorted our priorities and so on, and then pick up where we left off, trouble is when we see each other how should we act ?
Q. I've been with my guy for nine months. I love him, he loves me... But in the last few months we've had our own stresses; he's been really busy with school and I have been reestablishing my life from deciding to move closer. (I live an hour awa...
A. 9 April 2007: I guess it depends on what you want in the future, and how you're acting between now and then. Are you dating other people while you're on hold? If the answer is yes, then I would put your physical relationship on hold too. If/when things... (read in full...)
Our friend is is way too promiscuous! We are worried- how can we get her to stop behaving this way?
Q. My best friend is 18, she lost her virginity at 16 and never slept with anyone else until about 9 months ago, and since then she has slept with 35 men. All of our friends our worried, and the thing is that she is even starting to sleep with other ...
A. 9 April 2007: Thirty-five men in 9 months is serious! I'm concerned that your friend isn't just promiscuous, she's addicted. Especially since she's turning to friends' boyfriends. Ask her to take this questionnaire at the Sexaholics Anonymous site: ... (read in full...)
My son's older ex gf is pregnant and now, she won't leave him alone! What can he do?
Q. My son had a couple of dates withy a woman 10 years older than him, she ended the relationship as she did not have time in her life for him. a couple of weeks later she rang him saying she was pregnant, and she was keeping the baby regardless of ...
A. 9 April 2007: I think he should contact a lawyer. If he's the father, he has responsibilities to the child, but not to the mother. What she's doing constitutes harassment, and it can only get worse. I think it is wise of him to make sure the baby is his ... (read in full...)
Sam wants sex, but I don't want to rush it. What should I do?
Q. dear cupid i have been going out with a guy called sam and he wants to have sex i know am ready but i don't want to rush into things what should i do?...
A. 9 April 2007: 99% of the guys out there want to have sex. If you're not ready, DON'T DO IT. If he wants more than sex, he'll wait until you're ready. If he leaves because you're not giving it up, then he wasn't worth giving it to in the first place.
There... (read in full...)
Im dating a male, but in the back of my mind im paranoid I could be lesbian!
Q. Help- Im confused! Im a female dating a male, who I can not stop thinking about. However, i work in the sports industry and am getting paranoid I could turn lesbian. When i shut my eyes I think of males but this who lesbian thing is bugging me. I ...
A. 9 April 2007: The lesbians I know have fancied women from the earliest ages (pre-puberty). If you haven't, then you're not. Stop worrying.... (read in full...)
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