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female
age
30-35,
*auz06
writes:My best friend is 18, she lost her virginity at 16 and never slept with anyone else until about 9 months ago, and since then she has slept with 35 men. All of our friends our worried, and the thing is that she is even starting to sleep with other friends' boyfriends. What do i say to her? Its hardly like i can say, "hey, you're acting like a prostitute." can i? help me please xx
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reader, penta  +, writes (9 April 2007):
 Thirty-five men in 9 months is serious! I'm concerned that your friend isn't just promiscuous, she's addicted. Especially since she's turning to friends' boyfriends. Ask her to take this questionnaire at the Sexaholics Anonymous site: http://www.sa.org/test.php. Your friend may have a serious problem and need your help.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (9 April 2007):
 I think you do need to just tell her how you feel! She needs to know how she's looking from the outside and that the people who care for her are worried. She's putting herself at risk, not to mention having no self esteem or self worth.
If she doesn't listen and it continues, you may want to talk to someone who can help her. Maybe someone in her family, just tell them you're worried about her and to keep an eye on her or talk to her. She may be mad you've told someone but you have to do something.
Although you could do these things, and you sound like a good friend, people like this need to make these mistakes and learn their lessons. In fact, some women do this forever and never learn anything! Hopefully, your friend will wise up soon. Hope she listens.
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