If I cannot enslave her, I cannot trust her for being a faithful spouse.
Q. My concept of getting engaged into an emotional tie with a girl has to do with getting over her ego and insulting her so as to destroy her self-esteem and establish prime supremacy over her emotions and feelings which cannot develop for anyone ...
A. 4 June 2007: What century do you live in?? When you "enslave" someone you break their spirit and their resistence. She will run from you like the plague and seek the love, understanding and tenderness elsewhere. Use your head. And PLEASE leave the poor girls ... (read in full...)
How can I get my wife to feel more sexually attracted to me?
Q. my wife has told me she does not feel sexualy attracted to me anymore how can we get over this?...
A. 29 May 2007: Unlike men who are visual creatures, sexual excitement for women is usually emotional so this is where you need to start your foreplay. little gestures showing that you care. listen more (empatheticly without proposing solutions), help a bit around ... (read in full...)
My wife says she loves me like a brother and it's tearing me apart.
Q. What is wrong with my wife? I love my wife very much. I love her as a person and adore her physically. I am very warm and affectionate to her. However, I do not feel that physical bond towards me. She says she loves me but so does more so like a b...
A. 29 May 2007: I feel your wife is taking you completly for granted. And you say this has been going on for 8yrs?? Tell her being her "brother" is not good enough for you. Give her the choice.. she either shapes up or ships out.... (read in full...)
My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...
Q. I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of ...
A. 29 May 2007: Hey there;
I'm really sorry for what you are going through. First thing, if he was willing to work things out at the moment he would've at least let you look at him or touch him. Which means there is nothing you can do on that front for now. The... (read in full...)
Ive lost all confidence with women, I have a good job, house etc, but underneath it all I'm stuck in this rut and desperately unhappy!
Q. I have been seperated from my wife of 14yrs for over 9 months and in that period i have had a couple of relaionships one which hurt me alot. We split because i didnt love her following many years of her gambling addiction and all the lies and stuff ...
A. 20 May 2007: Hi Jamesy;
I too got divorced after 11yrs of misery. Like you i thought i had no chance of ever finding love again. The thing i discovered is that love is not sought, it just hits you in it's own good time, and when it does it is the most incredib... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?
Q. My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some ...
A. 10 May 2007: I agree with everyone that you should get rid of this guy, i mean who needs this? Once it's started there's no end to it. If he doesn't love you for you then even if you lose weight he'll always find something or another to bitch about and it will ... (read in full...)
How can I help him get over his insecurities and be proud of the person he is?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately due to his insecurities. I think he had a pretty bad relationship in the past, but he will not open up and talk about it. Everytime I ask how he feels or what is wrong, he just gets in a bad ...
A. 3 May 2007: My man was the same and alot worse when we first started out. I knew deep down if i loved him and believed in him strongly enough for long enough i would eventually get through to him. Eve is right, it won't happen overnight. It has taken me almost ... (read in full...)
I did anal sex with him and now he doesn't want to marry me because he thinks I did this, in my past?
Q. I have been engaged for 6 months. In the arab world, we tend not to get sexually active until after marriage. My fiancee and I had anal sex. He now wants to rethink our relationship because he thinks that I did this in the past with other men. I ...
A. 23 April 2007: I don't think whatever went on in uni qualifies as a "past"! We all have our little crushes and immature relationships growing up. He wouldn't have proposed to you if he wasn't sure you were "good wife material" and i'm sure he does love you.
M... (read in full...)
I did anal sex with him and now he doesn't want to marry me because he thinks I did this, in my past?
Q. I have been engaged for 6 months. In the arab world, we tend not to get sexually active until after marriage. My fiancee and I had anal sex. He now wants to rethink our relationship because he thinks that I did this in the past with other men. I ...
A. 22 April 2007: Hi there; We are baladyat so i guess i'd be most qualified to reply to your question especially that i too am sexually involved with my man although we are not yet married. My fiancee did the same exact thing after the first time we were together... (read in full...)
Been faking my orgasm with my bf. How do I achieve a proper one?
Q. Ive been faking with my current bf. i feel i am close to orgasms but i never quite reach it. when i feel close i get a kind of scared feeling and stop him. i dont always get this feeling. what can i do to keep myself going and to make sure he always ...
A. 23 February 2007: Hey Katzkitten; I feel for you girl. But I need to know, is it just this guy you've been facing the problem with? How long have you been together? Is he considerate and loving during sex and other areas of your relationship too? You can't achieve ... (read in full...)
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