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writes:dear cupidi have been going out with a guy called sam and he wants to have sex i know am ready but i don't want to rush into things what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Midge +, writes (9 April 2007):
 Your still young. Savour that experience for a time when you are ready to commit to someone that you know is "the one". Your virginity isnt something to hand over to someone willie nillie, so make sure if you're gonna do it, its right.
Tell him that you are/arent sure about it. Be honest! If he loves you or cares about you, he will understand and be happy to do what you want!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): You have to be honest with him. Tell him how you feel and that despite feeling ready to have sex that you don't want to rush things with him. If he's worth being with he'll understand otherwise if not then dump him and find a guy who isn't just looking for sex.
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reader, penta  +, writes (9 April 2007):
 99% of the guys out there want to have sex. If you're not ready, DON'T DO IT. If he wants more than sex, he'll wait until you're ready. If he leaves because you're not giving it up, then he wasn't worth giving it to in the first place.
There are a lot of consequences for having sex too soon, one of them is never knowing whether he was just into you for the sex. Wait until you feel ready.
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