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writes:My bf and I have been dating for 1yr. I found out 2wks ago I was pregnant. We talked about it I told him I was going to keep it. We knew it would be hard seeing that we live 3 hrs apart. he just found out a week ago that he got a new job offer to move where ever he wanted. I asked him if he planned on moving closer to me and he said he didn't want to be further away from his son who is also 3 hrs away. I told him that he wasn't thinking about me or our baby and I got mad and told him to never call me again. It has been 5 days and no email, phone call nothing. what do I do?
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reader, penta +, writes (9 April 2007):
 Well, you told him to never call you again; he's just doing what you asked him to do. If you want to see him again, you'll need to make the move to contact him.You can't ask him to choose between children. If he has one already, he needs to think of him too. If you want this man in your life you'll need to find a way to compromise.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 I think eventually he will get in touch with you. But if I were you I wouldn't trust this guy to handle his part of your baby's upbringing. I think you need to re-evaluate the situation and take into account that maybe this guy is not going to be that reliable as a parent for your child and then decide if you can bring the kid up (mostly) on your own.
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