Is it okay for me to ask her out when so may guys are doing the same and stressing her out??
Q. I really like this girl, and she knows i do. But i have never really asked her out. She is single right now and has 7 guys other then me who like her and she likes one of them and likes a couple others. She keeps talking about all this around me and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi again,
boy, university days are different from when I was there!
Maybe its an American thing, but it would have taken years to find a virgin at my college! :)
Anyhoo, enough of that, I know what its like. You get the sweaty palms, the heart ra... (read in full...)
He has gotten physical and has abused me verbally as well on occasions, when things aren't going his way he doesn't like it and trys to get control over me any way he can.
Q. I have just moved out on my boyfriend of 1 year. We grew really close in this short time and we were talking about buying a house together and getting married and having children. When we 1st got together I was quite depressed. Early in the rel...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi there,
If you want examples, there are dozens and dozens of stories like yours on this site. Look them up.
You will see situations mirroring yours. The girl think she still loves him even though he beats her up, tells her she is worthles... (read in full...)
She is self conscious about her oversized genitalia...
Q. How can I convince my girl that it doesn't bother me that she has a large vagina. Out of all the lovers I have had I have to admit I have never seen anything quite like it. But it doesn't bother me in the slightest, she is beautiful she has the ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
In ancient Babylon people worshipped the vagina , your girlfriend would be a Queen. We live in such superficial times, if a man has a big dick he is Mr popular but a girl with a large vagina is ridiculed. At college I remember a few of the guys... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
let me tell you as an ex teacher what you need to do.
First , let me say that in every single case of a teacher behaving inappropriately towards a young girl, the girl is never blamed. In the eyes of the law the girl is always a victim, ... (read in full...)
My live-in boyfriend wants to move out after 5 years
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. We've been living together for about 5 years. This year we've been talking about marriage and getting engaged. He promised me that 2008 would be the best year ever. But this weekend he ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
I dont think anybody really thinks he is definitely seeing someone else. It's just that the behaviour is often indicative of this.
Now you mention it , it sounds like he has serious commitment issues.
You might just want to focus on living yo... (read in full...)
I'm so tempted to call his wife and rat him out because I feel for her and of course I would get some statisfaction.
Q. I was dating this guy for about a year that I met at work. The question I have is and I probably already know the answer. He was seperating from his wife and also has two children with her. Why does he continue to spend time with her and of course ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
If you contact her what do you expect her reaction to be. That she agrees he is an arsehole? She will see you as the reason her marriage failed.
You have picked a dud that's all. Move on with your life and meet someone without all the bagg... (read in full...)
My live-in boyfriend wants to move out after 5 years
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. We've been living together for about 5 years. This year we've been talking about marriage and getting engaged. He promised me that 2008 would be the best year ever. But this weekend he ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
This could be many things. For a start you guys have been together for 6 years, so chances are you got together when you were still teenagers. You will be different people by now, and he may very well be examining his life and thinking... (read in full...)
BIG problem!
Q. Its' been about 4 years since my last proper relation ship, the previous girlfriend messed me around so much I've lost all confidence and self meaning I had and cannot even talk to women anymore and until 6 months ago had a seriouse drink problem, ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
forget about a hypnotist for a start.
Focus on the good things that have happened in your life lately.
One, you have stopped drinking. This is a major breakthrough. Two , you are going to the gym and getting in shape, another sign that you are... (read in full...)
How do girl's squirt?
Q. How do girls squirt???? ...
A. 28 February 2008: For this guy, squirting is like the Internet, nobody had ever heard of it 20 years ago. :)
But in all seriousness I believe it is a very rare thing. My wife who is a very sexual person has never squirted and I have never had a lover who has squi... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to ask her out when so may guys are doing the same and stressing her out??
Q. I really like this girl, and she knows i do. But i have never really asked her out. She is single right now and has 7 guys other then me who like her and she likes one of them and likes a couple others. She keeps talking about all this around me and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
whatever you do, don't ask her out over myspace it's just too impersonal.
Ask her face to face, by the sounds of it she is pretty keen anyway. Now I know it can be pretty intimidating when a girl has a lot of guys chasing after her. But you... (read in full...)
I brush him off when he wants sex, so now he's watching porn and hiding it from me, what should I do?
Q. (This is my fake anonymous account. I am Female) I caught my fiance masturbating in the basement while watching porn over the internet. I pretended I didn't see him as he scrambled to cover his tracks. He minimized everything in his desktop and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
I am wondering why you guys are engaged to be married when you obviously are unable to communicate with each other anymore.
Why do you not want to have sex with him? You are engaged you should be shagging each other senseless. It doesnt b... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand how angry I am...but wouldnt you be??
Q. I would like to know if i am asking too much of my husband; from day one, i tried to keep things spicey in the b.room, i would lay rose petals on the bed, put candles out, dress provacativly, i made sure his meals were always there right after ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi there,
This sounds like a simple case of a pampered husband.
Any guy would be thanking their lucky stars for being treated like this, so when it stops there is a shock.
Have you communicated to him why you got sick of treating him lik... (read in full...)
She caught me watching porn, but we don't have sex anymore, so whose fault is this?
Q. My live-in partner caught me watching porn and wacking off. She ofcourse pretended as though she didn't see anything. I don't like her trying to sneak up on me and it ticks me off because she's never allowed me to have sex with her for years no...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
I wonder if you are the partner of the other poster below who is talking about finding her boyfriend masturbating.
The stories sound the same.
If you are ( and even if you aren't ) what you two guys need to do is communicate with each other.... (read in full...)
We slept together and now he is avoiding me...what happened??
Q. So after 3 weeks of dating and getting to know this guy who was planning future (months ahead) dates for us... we slept together. Now he is avoiding me? What happened?...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi,
I'm very sorry but you just met one of these guys who only enjoys the conquest. He wasnt looking for a relationship ( despite what he said to you ) but merely to have sex with you. Some guys see the waiting with a woman who doesnt put out so e... (read in full...)
Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???
Q. I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi,
sorry to say but that is a pretty pathetic excuse. Sorry to say but it looks like they restoked a few old fires.
It's just a case whether you can forgive her or not, but she has to admit it to start with, if she doesn't you haven't got much to ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we ...
A. 27 February 2008: I'm sorry but nothing can convince me that this isn't a joke email.
Surely nobody can be this self absorbed and think it's their partner's fault.... (read in full...)
My teacher blushes when seeing me, and MINE is not infatuation!...
Q. Hello everyone!! Well my question is that I am in love with one of my male teachers.It is certainly not infatuation. I am positive he knows because my friends have said it to him just as a joke.His answer to this was 'that's great'. Whenever he ...
A. 27 February 2008: His moods are different each day as he realises that what he is doing could ruin his career and put him in jail.
Other teachers by now would be suspicious of his actions - when I was a teacher kids used to tell me all the time which teacher so and ... (read in full...)
Why does he need time to think before marriage? Has something changed recently, for him to hesitate?
Q. I am engaged currently and we had a date picked out already but now he is saying he needs time to think about getting married now. I can't be mad because he is being honest, but at the same time what do i do? I know that i love him and want to spend ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi,
just wondering how you guys got engaged. Did he ask you to marry him or did you bring it up and he agreed. If you asked him the difference being he wouldnt want to be seen as a guy who won't commit, but now the day is getting closer he is begi... (read in full...)
I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?
Q. I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi there,
I think you really need to move on. First, you have to examine what actually happened here: you were going through a rough patch and he found comfort in another girl's arms. This is up there with the major league deal breakers in any rela... (read in full...)
Am I being manipulative by not putting up with his moods?
Q. My b/f frequently lacks the ability to see things from another person's perspective. As a result, when he ignores my phone calls because he's working with a female co-worker who has been known to have a crush on him, I find things to do with my ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi there,
all I can say is good on you! You are very brave for putting up with this crap from your boyfriend.
But I have to ask the question what are you doing with such a control freak? You look like a very nice person, don't you deserve some... (read in full...)
I don't want to make it too forceful or obvious but how do I find out if he likes me?
Q. Hello! I have a question about a guy I really like and I want to know what advice I can get.I work in a bank and there is a guy who comes in once or sometimes twice a week.I never really paid much attention to him because I was in a long term ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
Here's a couple of things to try. First just come out with something, for instance next time you talk to him, tell him you are going to be leaving soon and it will be a shame as you are going to really miss some of the customers and worry that... (read in full...)
I told him we could just be friends...and now he is picking fights with me, why??
Q. Hi, I have this male friend and feelings have stirred between us, but due to him having a girlfriend nothing has happened, although he has asked to meet up a few times but i have made excuses. He kept telling me that his relationship with his girl...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi there,
oh dear, if you can't see what's going on i feel sorry for you.
He wants you to be his mistress, so when he gets married he has a bit on the side he can visit when he feels like it. That's why he got in the sulk when you rejected his... (read in full...)
I saw a flirty txt on his phone and now he won't let me see his phone bill...are guys just like that??
Q. hi, my fiance changed careers at the start of the year and has to train for 5 months. He doesnt come home at night until after 9 every night apart from Fri and Sat. When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a ha...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
sorry mate, but your future husband is a cheat. No two ways about it. No faithful man would consider that text message appropriate from a colleague. He is having an affair with her, the sooner you realise this the better, you can then move on ... (read in full...)
As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?
Q. I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I ...
A. 26 February 2008: HI,
It sounds like one hell of a challenge for you buddy, you are over 40 and never married? Hmmm... my guess is that if she succumbs to your charms you might just start to go a little cold on her as the big challenge is over. And that's what thi... (read in full...)
I am attracted to a woman at work. Does she feel the same?
Q. I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and danc...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
It is a little harder when it comes to women as girls tend to be much more touchy feely with each other ( holding hands, hugs etc ).
I was just going to say just go for it, but then I reread your question and realised you said you were both mar... (read in full...)
I cant commit to anything or anyone!
Q. I cant ccommit to anything or anyone, even when i try to stick to something like a new diet or doing work paperwork i put it off and find somerhing else to do. My ex boyfriend spilt with me because i wouldn't say i loved him, but i did for ages even ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hey there,
what you worried about? You are only young, enjoy your youth, hell I couldn't commit to anything either at your age and I had an absolute ball. I dated plenty of girls ( some at the same time!) I never knew whether I was coming or goin... (read in full...)
My dad's ex is blackmailing me into bringing my mates round for sex...what can I do??
Q. This is serious whether you want to believe it or not. I'm having sex with my dads exgirlfriend but now she is demanding for me to bring my friends round to fuck her or she'll tell my dad and it would really be bad for me and my dads relation...
A. 26 February 2008: sorry dude, this is just way to out there to be believable.
Nice try.... (read in full...)
He doesn't look at me during sex...any ideas why??
Q. My boyfriend is very passionate during foreplay but when we have sex he stares off into the distance with his eye's open. I know men are visually stimulated but he isn't looking at me... he gets a kind of glossed over look like he's not there. Any ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
not sure if you want to hear this, but I am pretty sure he is fantasizing.
Now before you think that this is a sign that he is not attracted to you, remember that most people fantasize and that it is totally harmless. I fantasize , my wife fan... (read in full...)
Why cant I find Mr. Right?
Q. What is wrong with me? I am soo desperate and ready to meet someone and date them etc However, any guys that I meet or seem to want to go out with me, I have no interest in whatsoever. There are a few guys that text me a lot, wanna see me etc but I ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
At least you are still young so you may very well break out of this habit. The habit being in this case an attraction to the bad boys. There are millions like you out there waiting for the next man to come along and break their heart. But you ... (read in full...)
My boss is very flirty with me, but I don't want to risk losing my job or his, am I reading him right?
Q. Help,Iam falling for one of the male managers at my work. I dont know if he feels the same way but its possible. I dont want to ever do anything about it and risk either one of our jobs but its now getting to the point where I would give up my job ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
all I can say is office affairs between a manager and a subordinate invariably end in disaster.
there is the office jealousy to start with, people think you will now get special attention as you are dating..etc etc. the list goes on.
As for ... (read in full...)
He is obsessed with my ex, I told him it's all in the past, now we aren't talking,what did I do wrong?
Q. i was seeing this gentleman who would always bring up my old boyfriend. He would not let it go. I finally got upset, said that I don't live in the past. I live right now. He said me if I told him I loved him. I could not understand why he kept ...
A. 26 February 2008: hi there,
sorry to say but looks like you went out with a dud there.
These guys seem to be everywhere, I dont know what causes it but we see so many posts on here with these pathetic insecure men driving their partners crazy talking about ex lov... (read in full...)
My girl is very loose, but I like it that way, problem is I cant stay hard, help!
Q. hello everyone, I have a unique problem I believe. Let me say first I love my girlfriend and want to spend the rest of my life with her. We have been going out for about 3 years now, and things are really serious, marriage is on the horizon. My...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi there,
well you sure have got yourself a problem their buddy.
My wife is also shall we say roomy downstairs so we tend to use positions which make her pussy tighter. A good one is for her to lay on her side with her legs crossed, I then enter he... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man says 'love you' not 'i love you'??
Q. What does it mean when a man tells you 'Love You', not 'I Love You'?...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
first this is something that never enters a man's head and can drive a guy crazy with frustration if his girlfriend asks why he said this and why he said that.
Maybe you should ask yourself why you are focusing on these mere words - it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
sorry to say but your boyfriend is a jerk if he is pressuring you into anal sex.
Is he on the big size of things? I would normally advise more lube but if he's big it won't matter too much as it will hurt anyway.
I don't understand t... (read in full...)
For guys, if you slept with a girl while drunk, would it put you off? he's not answering my text!
Q. This isn't actually a question as such but am needing some advice possibly from a male perspective. Theres a guy that lives in the flat below and we know each other pretty well, we've been flirting a lot reacently. Last Saturday night I saw him when ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
He probably viewed it as a one night stand. I'm not saying relationships can't be born out of one night stands, but generally one night stands are exactly that.
He could have at least replied to you with a thanks but no thanks, so he is a dic... (read in full...)
Would sex be a problem because of my hight?
Q. Hey. I am a 6"1 girl and haven't had sex before. I am nicely built (slim) and quite pretty and popluar, but am worried that boys won't want to have sex with me because I am so tall. What is it like for a boy of similar hight or just slightly ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
people are very shallow and when they see a tall girl and a short guy they tend to gossip and giggle. But there are plenty of tall guys out there, heaps of men over 6'1, so you shouldnt lack for choice.
And in any event , regarding se... (read in full...)
I found out she lied to me, should I confront her?
Q. Regretfully, I snooped on my girlfriend's emails to either confirm or deny some suspicions. I found out she had lied to me about seeing a particular guy I had specifically questioned her about a while ago. She even made me believe her lies. But ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
you only have to look at the plethora of posts we get here with jealous boyfriends/husbands obsessed by their partners past lovers , so it's no wonder a lot of girls will tell a white lie to cover up sexual relations in the past. And lets face... (read in full...)
Is he doing this to make me jealous or just being friendly?
Q. I began dating a guy in May, last year. Overall, the relationship was good but we did have our ups and downs. We decided in October that we'd break it off temporily to make us stronger but during this break i had sexual contact with guy from work ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
it's hard to tell what's really going on here. If your ex found out about you sleeping with this other guy, he may very well be rubbing it in.
Or he may just be trying to stay friends. At the end of the day if his texting is making you u... (read in full...)
He just returned from Afghanistan and ended it with me but he won't tell me why?
Q. My other half is a soldier and has just got back from afghanistan, he has been strange since he came back but now he has finished me and he wont tell me why. What do i do?...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
As a soldier he may very well have been exposed to some conditions which make adjusting to life back in society very difficult.
There is little you can do at this time, but have you talked to his parents/siblings/friends? Chances are he will ... (read in full...)
My co-worker invites me out, could he like me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I met someone at work who i really like. He invites me sometimes for coffee and lunch. He also asked me out for dinner with a few friends. Not sure if i am reading too much into it or not.Do you think he likes me and should i tell hi...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
whatever you do don't tell him how you feel just yet.
He is testing the waters seeing how you guys get along outside of the workplace . Remember work relationships are very risky as if things go pearshaped you have to face each other every da... (read in full...)
New relationship, how long should I wait before having sex, I'm 28?
Q. how long should a nice girl wait before getting naked w/ a new boy? i'm 28 and dating again for the first time in years. my ex was the first guy i ever went 'all the way' with, and we'd been dating close to two years before we did (i was 25 when w...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
It's all a case of trust, is he looking for a quick shag to move onto the next conquest? I think the answer is no as by the sounds of it he is behaving like a gentleman.
So he will not want to spoil the relationship and make you think he is ... (read in full...)
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