How can I get over someone whom I love, but who didn't really appreciate me?
Q. How do I get over him? My first love, my first everything! Of course I didn't want to end it, but I had to. You wouldn't believe the things he told me. He constantly nagged about my past... he knew an ex friend of mine who was abit friendlier....
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
There are millions of guys out there like this - they moan and groan about their partner's past obsessed with how they weren't virginal and that other men have spoiled them.
There is nothing you can do with this type of man, they are self abs... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to keep things under control when my friend comes round??
Q. Hello, I have a friend coming over tomorrow afternoon, and I know that recently things have changed between us. We're beginning to become very attracted to each other when in the past we have just been friends. Can you all give me some tips on ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
then be careful, don't be friendly as he may get the impression you like him and when a boy and girl like each other sometimes it can lead to a relationship. You better watch out for these, they are dangerous.
Sorry to be rude, but seriousl... (read in full...)
Why do boys/men ejaculate first?
Q. how come guys cum first ???...
A. 5 March 2008: Given your age, I suppose your current boyfriend cums much quicker than you would like. Not to worry, if you are tight down below it creates a lot more friction which causes your fella to cum quickly. Use a lot of lube and it should make things less ... (read in full...)
Do men like to see pussy lips through a women's shorts?
Q. What % of men want to see cameltoe on a woman and why do so many prude women have a problem with it ? Jealousy ? While you judge what looks inapropriate your alright with dresses, tops that display most of your breasts and cleavage and that isn...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
It's an interesting question as I know some guys who joke about it : They call them mumbles - the lips move but you can't understand what they are saying.
Personally I love it, My partner has a pair of pants she wears which show her assets v... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to keep things under control when my friend comes round??
Q. Hello, I have a friend coming over tomorrow afternoon, and I know that recently things have changed between us. We're beginning to become very attracted to each other when in the past we have just been friends. Can you all give me some tips on ...
A. 4 March 2008: "What more of the story would be helpful to give?"
How about anything? We are only asking ask to solve a problem but there appears to be none, so you need to spell it out mate. you seem to think its a problem letting things progress with someone ... (read in full...)
My family is religious, what excuse will I have for sex before marriage in case I break up with my first sexual partner?
Q. hi.I been thinking lately if i ever break up with my boyfriend what would happen to me.I've been with my bf for a while and our relationship is serious. i have lost my virginity to my boyfriend. my family is quite religious and if i ever get marr...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
it is your body, at the end of the day it is nobody's business but your own. If your future partner is religious then you should make him understand very on in the relationship not to expect you to be a virgin. Would you want to marry a man who ... (read in full...)
My husband wanting me to act like a whore during sex disturbs me.
Q. While we are having sex, my husband wants me to help him imagine that he is fucking a really hot whore. I try to do it at times, but it becomes very difficult to digest it and live with it. As a result i am very disturbed about it. Please advise....
A. 4 March 2008: Hi there,
I can imagine how this would be a little disturbing. I have the opposite, my wife quite likes me to call her a whore when we make love but I can only do a little bit as it simply isnt one of my fantasies .
But in your case it is so diffe... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to keep things under control when my friend comes round??
Q. Hello, I have a friend coming over tomorrow afternoon, and I know that recently things have changed between us. We're beginning to become very attracted to each other when in the past we have just been friends. Can you all give me some tips on ...
A. 4 March 2008: Why not let nature take its course. Or is there something you are not telling us?... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to keep things under control when my friend comes round??
Q. Hello, I have a friend coming over tomorrow afternoon, and I know that recently things have changed between us. We're beginning to become very attracted to each other when in the past we have just been friends. Can you all give me some tips on ...
A. 4 March 2008: Why not let nature take its course. Or is there something you are not telling us?... (read in full...)
Did he enjoy it??
Q. If a boy cums and breathes heavy while you give him a handjob, does this mean he likes it? Please help because I'm scared i didn't do a good job lol......
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
I think there is about a 100% chance that he enjoyed it.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'd scare her away with my size? She mentioned this aspect was important to her.
Q. I'm am 17 years old and i have been dating this girl 4 1 year now and I'm afraid that my penis wont cut it. i have a 6.5 in penis fully erected but its 4.5 in flaccid she has never touched my penis but she keeps trying and I'm afraid that if she ...
A. 4 March 2008: At your age it is highly unlikely she is a size Queen. Chances are she has heard it from friends etc, when she says a small dick she most likely means one about 3-4 inches erect. At 6.5 you are slightly above average so let her touch away my man.!... (read in full...)
She Says "I JUST DON'T FEEL YOUR PENIS"!! omg...
Q. I'm Pretty sure you guys get a lot of penis questions but I wonder if you can answer this. I've been with a lovely girl who after 3 years we decided to get together. We've been together since early 2007. Now I can make her orgasm in a variety of ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
she is being a bit harsh and you can do little about the fact that she has a loose vagina. Kegels would be the go, mention them to her as they will definitely make sex more enjoyable for her as well, only a fraction of men have big dicks so... (read in full...)
Was I too fast in sleeping with him? What did I do wrong?
Q. I met this guy at a party, we danced and later exchanged contacts, three days later I called him just to say hi coz I was interested, we later started texting each other. He asked me out for a date and went over to his place, I spent the night, no ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
He just sounds like a very shallow person who once he got what he wanted he left you. But I dont think you necessarily went to fast, you are an adult women you should be able to have sex with someone after 3 dates without there being any issu... (read in full...)
My fiancee got another woman pregnant. Help!
Q. I left my fiancee 4 months ago (very hard to do). We were together for 6 yrs. I found out he cheated and she is now pregnant. He never told me all this, I found out on my own. He kept lying behind my back. First he said he was just friends with her ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
You are wrapped up in one twisted family situation. There are some out there alright, just count your lucky blessings you are out of it and you split before he got you pregnant.
For a start he cheated on you and got the girl pregnant which me... (read in full...)
I have a very high libido, would having sex with my boss be a good idea? Do my desires make me... easy?
Q. Omg I really need help I broke up with my bf about a month ago...thats another story. basically i have a really REALLY high sex drive and i need sex!!!! no amount of "self pleaseing" is working!! and theres this guy at work and me...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
try and resist sex with the boss, I imagine he's probably married?
How about drinks after work with your colleagues. I have seen many a good session with young colleagues pairing off. If you are up for it you won't have any trouble finding ... (read in full...)
Why has sex just become so casual nowadays?
Q. Why has sex just become so casual nowadays. I mean before people did not even think about losing their virginity before marriage. What I don't understand is how people just do 'it' with people they hardly know properly. Sex before marriage does ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi,
I have to totally disagree with you. O.K I admit that sex is somewhat trivialised in the media , but if you know anything about History then look at how your parents and your grandparents did it. In the 1920's Berlin was a degenerate sex pot ... (read in full...)
He said he had too much respect for me to accept oral, while I don't find this form of sex insulting, only his comment!
Q. I started to give my bf a blowjob and he stopped me before i'd barely touched him. Later i confronted him on it and he said that he had too much respect for me to have me do it. I told him i was genuinly willing to do it for him and that i wouldn't ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
I would tread very carefully with this man. A real male pig I once worked with said all girls who gave oral were whores and while he loved it he would never get a serious girlfriend to do it. He was such a controlling arsehole this guy, I worr... (read in full...)
If somebody come across as a flirtatious person, would she be considered a slag in an office environment even though she always dresses appropriately?
Q. Office related question. If somebody come across as a flirtatious person, would she be considered a slag in an office environment even though she always dresses appropriately? The scenario is something like this...there is this man I reall...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi there,
oh dear you really are reading too much into this. Maybe Mr B told Mr A that he was into you and is going to make a move. With guys this usually means you hold off as you dont want to appear to other guys that you are stealing their date... (read in full...)
I'm meeting up with him and I'm really worried about it... I'll be sober this time! Any advice to calm me down?
Q. Heeey, I normally prefer answering these to asking them.. But hey! I'm meeting up with a guy I like on Saturday, we've met a few times before + one night lead to quite a steamy session in the bedroom! I really like him as more than a friend but I'm ...
A. 3 March 2008: What, no update??... (read in full...)
My ex ran off with another girl, but he still loves me, what should I do?
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years. Things didn't work out and I didn't think I loved him. When we broke up, about 2 months later, I started feeling really bad. I love this person. I was told that he was cheating on me while we ...
A. 3 March 2008: "He started calling me when someone told him that I was talking to another man in the parking lot somewhere"
I think this is the key statement in your post. As soon as he found out that someone else was interested in you his propriety instinct... (read in full...)
The porn debate. Who's right?
Q. Alright, after reading some of the discussions on pornography on this website I have some things to say, and a few questions to ask. So these are some of the things p...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
the problem as I see it with your post, is you are lumping all porn into the same basket. This is a common misconception amongst people who are anti porn. As they do not watch it they assume it is all degrading to women.
Where in fact a lot of p... (read in full...)
broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. But I'm crushed..advice?
Q. I broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. I never cheated on him. the thing is years before meeting him I had a friend with benefits, who a couple of years later met and introduced me to my now ex. I was quite young, 15 at ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
Whatever you do don't go back to him. He is an insecure jerk who will only make you feel miserable. Calling you a whore was out of order, so it's best you found out what he is really like now. Pity his future girlfriends who will be made to feel... (read in full...)
We are interested in a foursome, what are the best options?
Q. I have a question about foursomes... I am interested in doing one with my boyfriend of 4 years but we're not sure about the best way. Is it better to approach a couple that you know and are friends with or to go to a swingers club or put out an ad? ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
Well I would suggest a swingers club if I were you. But you will probably find out that most of the people there are substantially older than you.
Your right, it is a relationship killer with friends and all it takes is one jealous part... (read in full...)
He was emotional abusive, but now he won't leave me alone, what is it with this guy?
Q. I broke up with my ex fiance 5 months ago because he was emotionally abusive. Anyway, I told him to not contact me numerous times and he didn't listen, so I finally changed my number. Then, he messaged me on myspace two weeks ago saying how he ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
Emotional abusive people live inside their own private hell. He is probably all cut up that you have continued to live your life while he goes from one disaster to another trying to heap his messed up head onto his new girlfriends.
Just ... (read in full...)
When people talk about the size of their penis' are they talking about when it is fully erect or soft?
Q. When people talk about the size of their penis' are they talking about when it is fully erect or soft? My penis is 7" exact when erect but only like 2" when its soft. Is this normal?? I dont want a girl to be scared off because its small at fir...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
Size always refers to erect. Don't worry a lot of guys ( myself included) are quite small flacid but we big up when it counts.
7 inches will do you very well, its above average. You should get some nice compliments on your size.... (read in full...)
I'm meeting up with him and I'm really worried about it... I'll be sober this time! Any advice to calm me down?
Q. Heeey, I normally prefer answering these to asking them.. But hey! I'm meeting up with a guy I like on Saturday, we've met a few times before + one night lead to quite a steamy session in the bedroom! I really like him as more than a friend but I'm ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi again,
if you are worried you won't enjoy sex sober you will be pleasantly surprised. If you are self conscious about being naked in front of him then wear lingerie and keep the lights out when you make love. ... (read in full...)
How can I snoop on my boyfriend's cell phone to see if he's been looking at porn?
Q. How can I snoop on my boyfriend's cell phone to see if he's been looking at porn? How do you find out? Do you look at the Internet options on the phone? Please give me some help, I'm so nosy, but I don't want him to know I looked at his phone-ugh. ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
sorry to say but you sound like the girlfriend from hell.
Why are you invading his privacy like this?
I think you need to look at your own insecurities instead of bombarding your boyfriend with them. You might find before too long that he will... (read in full...)
My bf wanting sex so soon makes me doubt his values...have I got him all wrong??
Q. I am pretty confused about 'who' my bf is. What I mean is, on one hand he comes from a strict religous family who have very high morals and values. His family are so nice, caring and loving. The men in his family treat women so well and I guess yo...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
It just goes to show that a lot of these people with so called high morals really only use this as a smokescreen to excuse their own lustful ambitions.
He is misrepresenting himself, giving you the impression that on one hand he is the perfect ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should tell him I want to have a baby instead of waiting and waiting?
Q. Me and my boyfirend have been together off and on for 5 years. Even when we were broken up, we were still together. Up until this summer, he met a girl and started hanging out with her. at the time i was not on any medication.. and i was not a very ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
First I think you need to ensure that all your pyschological problems have been dealt with. Just because you are on medication doesnt mean you are cured. Just from the tone of the post you sound rather desperate I would advice not starting a fa... (read in full...)
I'm meeting up with him and I'm really worried about it... I'll be sober this time! Any advice to calm me down?
Q. Heeey, I normally prefer answering these to asking them.. But hey! I'm meeting up with a guy I like on Saturday, we've met a few times before + one night lead to quite a steamy session in the bedroom! I really like him as more than a friend but I'm ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi,
sex while sober will be infinitely better than sex while drunk. Chances are he will be feeling the same nerves as you. There is nothing wrong in a glass of wine to calm the nerves down, then just let nature take its course.
... (read in full...)
Old flame has made me feel a spark that is missing in my marriage...how can I work through this??
Q. I've been married almost ten years. I have children with my spouse and have been very happy. Last week an old flame from high school contacted me. We had a very short relationship (puppy dog type love...petting, making out) my freshman year and ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi,
I would urge caution. First you need to decide if your relationship with your husband is salvagable. Do you still love him but you are frustrated because he is never home? Or have things just fizzled and you are together only for the kids. If i... (read in full...)
Would you take an ex back a second time, after they left you for the same person twice?
Q. Would you take an ex back? If he left you after 6 years together and went off with someone else. A year later his relationship ended, he went back to you for a couple of weeks, then went back with the girl he went off with in the first place. A...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi,
he sees you as his "B" plan. Someone he can go back to when the fun dries up.
If you want to be that girl , fine, but if you have an ounce of self respect left you will tell him to take a hike.... (read in full...)
I want more sex...but he teases me and I am worried he wants to date other girls.
Q. Help! I feel like giving up - My boyfriend of 3 yrs just doesnt get it or want to - We spent a lovely evening again - a little shopping with his daughter, nice dinner, all the time with him joking and touching etc... I had to stop at the Rx and he ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi,
He's registered on dating sites still? Well what do you think that means other than him at the very minimum keeping his options open.
My guess is he is masturbating before coming to bed hence the lack of interest in you.
I wouldnt dump him... (read in full...)
Going on the "1st date" with a guy I like this week, and just wondered what I should wear?
Q. First date question... Going on the "1st date" with a guy I like this week, and just wondered what I should wear? We're just going for a late night coffee and some food at a coffee house so nothing formal. Girls, what do you think I should wear? ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi,
smart but sexy for a guy. It's coffee so no need to drag out the cocktail dress. The one thing I wouldnt wear would be baggy clothes. The first few times I met my wife she would wear tight jeans that accentuated her ample butt and a smart tee ... (read in full...)
I am unmarried and the teacher of my son might fancy me, what shall I do?
Q. I have a 6 year old that i take to school everyday and iv noticed a certain male teacher there who has just lately being smiling at me and says hello and im very attracted to him, im single so i dont have a partner.The problem is im not sure whether ...
A. 2 March 2008: In a way if he is not your son's teacher that makes it easier.
When you see him in the playground go up and make conversation. For goodness sake, flirt a little, if he's interested he will ask you out.... (read in full...)
Is my mother sleeping with my boyfriend?
Q. I’m a little confused. I have been dating this wonderful guy (Greg) for 9 months now. He is 21 I’m 20. I live with my mother and my younger sister ( our father left when we were little – so it’s just us girls). My mother loves my boyfriend to bits ...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi,
People who post on here about cheating boyfriends always have one thing in common. They "know" they are cheating, call it a gut feeling or whatever. So I would follow your gut feeling on this, after all why would someone go to that much eff... (read in full...)
I am unmarried and the teacher of my son might fancy me, what shall I do?
Q. I have a 6 year old that i take to school everyday and iv noticed a certain male teacher there who has just lately being smiling at me and says hello and im very attracted to him, im single so i dont have a partner.The problem is im not sure whether ...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi,
yeah I could see this as an awkward situation to start off with. As an ex teacher if I fancied a mum of one of my kids I wouldnt naturally make an attempt as if you are rejected you would put the mother in a very awkward position being he... (read in full...)
On A Search For Either Escorts Or Massage Parlours Any Advice Welcome.
Q. Hi All I have never had a girlfriend or sex and I am in my 20's, I am fed up waiting for the right female to come along as I know it will probably never happen so I have decided to look for sex either in a massage parlour or hire an escort as I n...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi there,
first let me say I lost my virginity at a massage parlour. I thought I would never have sex so by the time I was 18 I just had to do it. Now it wasnt a horrific experience, it didnt have an any negative effects on me, it didnt make it hard... (read in full...)
Should I give it another go with my girlfriend after she cheated?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. I know it doesn't seem like a long time but we have been friends for a couple years and with her I feel different then I have with any other girl. So I was out of town recently for my job and she ...
A. 29 February 2008: If it wasn't for the pathetic excuse I would be tempted to say she deserves a second chance. Maybe she does, but saying she slept with her ex because she has a poor body image is ridiculous. She needs to give a better answer than that. It ... (read in full...)
He broke off the engagement because we argue all the time. How can I get him back?
Q. I met this guy at church and we instantly fell in love. We talked for hours and we started dating and then a few months down the road he asked me to marry him. Of course I said yes, we were so in love...everything was so right. Things were going ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi there,
It looks like you guys just were'nt suited to each other. You both were taken in by the initial rush of boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, but when things started to become familiar you ended up arguing all the time. This is never a good sig... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to ask her out when so may guys are doing the same and stressing her out??
Q. I really like this girl, and she knows i do. But i have never really asked her out. She is single right now and has 7 guys other then me who like her and she likes one of them and likes a couple others. She keeps talking about all this around me and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi again,
boy, university days are different from when I was there!
Maybe its an American thing, but it would have taken years to find a virgin at my college! :)
Anyhoo, enough of that, I know what its like. You get the sweaty palms, the heart ra... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to ask her out when so may guys are doing the same and stressing her out??
Q. I really like this girl, and she knows i do. But i have never really asked her out. She is single right now and has 7 guys other then me who like her and she likes one of them and likes a couple others. She keeps talking about all this around me and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
whatever you do, don't ask her out over myspace it's just too impersonal.
Ask her face to face, by the sounds of it she is pretty keen anyway. Now I know it can be pretty intimidating when a girl has a lot of guys chasing after her. But you... (read in full...)
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