Is there a safe suppliment that will enhance his size effectively? How do I talk to him about it?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other and plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We talk about everything, only have never mentioned one thing in particular to him. I have had past physical relationships with other ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi there,
sorry we are being a little bit mean towards you. I guess for us guys we all group together when we hear that one of our team isnt able to satisfy his partner size wise, it gets us all thinking if we are really satisfying our own part... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is paranoid and possessive but he kissed someone else, do I stay?
Q. Im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together just over two months. He's very paranoid and i've had to stop talking to a few guy mates as he's got so worked up about it and its caused arguements. Anyway a few days ago he came to me in tears an...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
what this is called is controlling behaviour. Unfortunately a lot of guys ( and girls for that matter ) need to control the actions of their loved ones. It makes for a terrible life for the partner as they lose all their friends ( cont... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my friend's husband...
Q. I need help! I started working with this girl about two years ago we don't work together anymore but we hang out. But I have a problem, I'm falling for her husband! He's super sweet guy and very sexy. We flirt quit a bit and when we have been ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
all that lies ahead is a world of hurt. What do you think will happen here? Apart of course from losing a good friend and being labelled a homewrecking hussy. Seriously, in your situation if you don't think you can control yourself stay away... (read in full...)
Should I walk away even though we both still love each other? I've trust issues after his lying to me.
Q. I've been with my huband for 5 years and he has lied to me since the beggining but instead worring i accepted his explanations for the lying and thought that everything was cleared up and i could put it behind me as i really liked him. However l...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi there,
oh dear, why are you doing this to yourself? What possible benefits are there for you staying with someone so untrustworthy. Dig deep and see if you can find a spot in your soul where a little self respect still exists. Then leave him and ... (read in full...)
He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?
Q. Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
He's 21 and having problems getting an erection? Blimey, at that age I had trouble hiding my erections! Anything would set me off ( well of the nubile female variety at least )
He's just messing with you, what really is the problem here?
Y... (read in full...)
It bothers me that I haven't told my current boyfriend that I lost my virginity to my ex...
Q. I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend who I later caught cheating on me.. I am now in a new relationship and I haven't told him about sleeping with my ex... He is quite orthodox and I don't think he can live with that... I have been open to him ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
what really worries me about this, is that he expects you to be a virgin. I really disagree strongly about these outdated old fashioned methods of controlling people's behaviour. To me it is merely a window into a house full of other ways of k... (read in full...)
Can a man have an affair and still be seeing the 'love of his life' ???
Q. I'm in agony here. I am having a long distance relatioinship with a guy, for a year. We see each other 2 or 3 times a month. Last time I saw him, I found a movie ticket in his pocket for 27 dresses. After lying, he admitted he took his neighbor to ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
sorry mate, but he is a player. You seriously didnt believe his bs story about his neighbour. Yeah, he's a physical guy for sure, and of course he's not being physical with his neighbour. Oh hold on, he's a physical guy, I bet he wished h... (read in full...)
Ever since my girlfriend's night out she's been receiving text messages from another guy.
Q. My girlfriend (age 34) went out to a nightclub with her girlfriend the other night. Since she returned she has not stopped receiving text messages. I finally did the unthinkable and pinched her cellphone and took a look. Sure enough, there is...
A. 11 March 2008: Easy, ask her. O.k so you snooped but you can answer her questions about trusting her when she tells you who this guy is.... (read in full...)
I can't stand my husband touching me or kissing me...and the thought of sex makes me sick.
Q. I don't know what it is. the thought of making love to my husband makes me sick. I can't stand him touching me or kissing me. In the past and currently he has some anger problems and he says hurtful things to me and about my family and its a turnof...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
If you want your marriage to survive you only have one option - counselling. This must be having a terrible effect on your son, and if anything, for his sakes you should probably find a way to escape this relationship as soon as possible.
I thi... (read in full...)
Is infidelity genetic?
Q. My boyfriend has confided in me that his dad cheated on his mom while they were married and that was the cause of their divorce. My question is, is my boyfriend more likely to cheat on me in the future because he has been exposed to and influence ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
infidelity is definitely not genetic.
However, children often mimic the behaviour of their parents just look at how abuse continues in a cycle from parent to child then to the next generation.
But in this case if your boyfriend has expresse... (read in full...)
I can't help but feel bad that I broke up with my ex fiance.
Q. I can't help but feel bad that I broke up with my ex fiance. I don't ever want to be with him again because he was emotionally abusive, but the part I can't seem to forgive myself for is that I knew he wasn't a Christian from the beginning and that ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
sorry for the drama you have been through, but please make this distinction - abusers can be religious as well. The fact that he abused you has nothing to do with him not being Christian. So if you think dating a Christian will mean you will... (read in full...)
Is there a safe suppliment that will enhance his size effectively? How do I talk to him about it?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other and plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We talk about everything, only have never mentioned one thing in particular to him. I have had past physical relationships with other ...
A. 11 March 2008: sorry to say , but no chance. The only way to get surgery and from what I hear it only increases the size when its flacid ( so whats the point!)
At least you are honest, but is it really a big dick you want or just one that is normal sized. Have... (read in full...)
I'm very into someone at the moment and very apprehensive of attempting to start a relationship with them.
Q. Hello, I'm at the age of 19 and about 4 inches when errect. I was wondering if that's enough to satisfy a woman, as I'm very into someone at the moment and very apprehensive of attempting to start a relationship with them. I'd just hate to be ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
There was a magazine article I saw recently. One guy ,12 inches a massive organ. The other 3.5 inches. Guess which one always had a girlfriend? Right, the guy with the small dick. His girlfriend said she didnt mind at all as he was a sweet and ... (read in full...)
Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?
Q. Hi... I was seeing this guy over the summer who is at an Ivy league business school and I'm in art school so we're opposites. Anyway over the summer he took me out to some really nice dinners but I didn't act too interested. Then I realized I ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
sorry to say but it's a lost cause. You both look like you want different things, and you are polar opposites.
Imagine if you actually had a relationship, you guys can't get on now and you aren't even going out together!
Move on and start af... (read in full...)
Since last year, she refuses to have sex with me because "it does not feel right and she cannot force it." How can this happen??
Q. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, on and off, and for the last year, she has refused to have sex with me. We will "fool around" and everything, but when the time for the act of sex arrives, she just backs off and tells ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
sorry dude, but I guess it just sounds like she is not that into any more. At your age you should have a healthy sex life, just brushing it off is not excuse.
You cannot force her into have sex with you, but she cannot force you into having ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him to keep his comments to himself without being nasty?
Q. I get along with my new boyfriend ok but he is not religious. He says there is no point and that I have no freedom. This upsets me that he has no faith but I try to ignore the comments. He believes we came from monkeys I do not. He believes in stem ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi ,
Well I think you guys have absolutely no chance of surviving.
For one you complain that he dismisses your faith , yet on the flip side you dismiss his absence of faith with equal displeasure . You act as though he is the one who is sufferin... (read in full...)
I realy like this new guy I'm seeing but I think he might be having an affair with his friend's wife.
Q. I realy like this new guy I'm seeing but I think he might be having an affair with his friend's wife. He talks to her and emails her more than he talks to me and when he says he is going to thier house he says her name not her husbands who he knew ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
this might be totally innocent. But you are right to be worried, most people think a platonic relationship with a married woman is just naive.
I guess the key question here is what does her husband think of this? Does she know they talk all... (read in full...)
I always get guys worked up about having sex. But when it comes down to having sex. I chicken out. Any tips?
Q. I always get guys worked up about having sex. But when it comes down to having sex. I chicken out. Any tips?...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi,
you need to spell out your problem a bit more. All we know for now is you are leaving a lot of guys very frustrated.... (read in full...)
What is BAD sex to you?
Q. What, to you, constitutes "lackluster" sex?...
A. 11 March 2008: For a woman ( going on my wife's opinion ) no foreplay , girls love oral. Then if penetration is a simple wham bam bam then a few minutes later cumming.
From a man's perspective the ultimate nightmare is what we guys call the starfish. I have had ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have doubts before your wedding? Did you...?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 years. we are getting married in less than 3 months and I am having doubts. I have been with him since i was 17 and hardly had any other relationships before. i just don't feel attracted anymore although i do ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi there,
I have to say I didnt have any doubts before I walked down the aisle, I only wanted to be with one person. But then again I was 30 and had had seen many things, I always think people who get married to the person they have dated since thei... (read in full...)
Should I tell my partner I slept with his mate when we were broken up?
Q. Hi, i am a 8 month old pregnant female and with my partner for 3 years now.We have been on and off in the three years.But i have really hurt him throughout the three years.And it is all coming back to me now.Firstly,we got together while i was wait...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi,
Well I wouldnt say anything to him when you are at your most vulnerable.
I dont know what to suggest to tell the honest truth, as you have some big self esteem issues which leads you to seek comfort through sex. have these gone away for good... (read in full...)
Should I tell my partner I slept with his mate when we were broken up?
Q. Hi, i am a 8 month old pregnant female and with my partner for 3 years now.We have been on and off in the three years.But i have really hurt him throughout the three years.And it is all coming back to me now.Firstly,we got together while i was wait...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi,
Well I wouldnt say anything to him when you are at your most vulnerable.
I dont know what to suggest to tell the honest truth, as you have some big self esteem issues which leads you to seek comfort through sex. have these gone away for good... (read in full...)
I have become the class joke but I am NOT gay as they tease! How can I cope??
Q. people at school keep calling me gay. relating me to everything gay. they don't stop. they are getting nasty now . i have become the class joke HOWEVER I AM NOT GAY. i feel almost suicidal and if other people didn't need help i would have done the ...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi,
as an ex teacher I can tell you bullying is bullying no matter how old you are. Tell your headteacher, and failing that the only thing you can really do is totally ignore them. Don't give any response at all, eventually people move on when the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend Cheating On Me
Q. My girlfriend of 7 months cheated on me one week after losing our virginity to each other. We were at a party and I hardly got to speak to her because she was with her girl friends, however I said goodbye to her then went home with my own friends. ...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi,
sorry mate, but at your age and her age, it is unlikely she will change her habits anytime soon. She is just one of these girls with self esteem issues. Once you guys lost your virginity to each other, sex was something she could offer to... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty about checking my ex's personal mails when I had reasons to be doubtful?
Q. I began dating someone I have been friends with for a few years. I had recently separeted from my husband and he and his ex wife were awaiting their divorce to be finalized. During the first 4 months, things were going really well. He has a fema...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi there,
the one thing you need to do is let these two get on with it. He is an arsehole to start with, obviously having you hanging on is a little thrill for him that allows a certain excitement when chasing after his friend.
Now that you have... (read in full...)
When is a relationship a relationship?
Q. I really like a guy that I met through my work and we have been seeing each otber occasionally since last summer, just meeting up for dinner or coffee etc. In October he invited me to his house and he told me that he only invites people he really ...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi,
It looks like he had two options on the go and couldnt make up his mind. At least he didnt take advantage of you then tell you he was seeing this other girl, that has to count for something.
But I do see where you are coming from, he should h... (read in full...)
I would like a man's opinion about whether or not you would dump someone because of braces? Do you think I should have backed down and said I wouldn't get them?
Q. I'm 20 years old and in university right now... I had been seeing this guy for 2.5 years and it was very serious, talking about the possibility of engagement at some point in the next 3-4 years... very serious. I loved him with all my heart and we ...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi,
I think the braces are a substitute for hiding something else. If he really is that shallow a person he wouldn't be such a wonderful guy ( according to you anyway ). This is something a 12 year old would do.
Maybe the talking about marriage... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself falling for my married colleague?
Q. I'm 20 years old and think I am in love with a woman who is 40 and married. I have worked with her for 3 years and we are very close. I think she is aware that I have feelings for her and find her attractive. On nights out she teases me by touching ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi,
as tempting as it may sound, at your age you dont want to be involved with a married lady. It may sound exciting but the reality will be different. There will be lots of sneaking around and her husband may find out.
Stick to someone around y... (read in full...)
He's told me not to worry but I worry that he's 10 years younger than me...
Q. I'm a seperated woman of 34, with 2 daughters 8 and 5. I met this lovely guy and am dating him now for only a matter of weeks, the thing is he is 10 years younger, neither of us are bothered about the age gap, he has not met my girls and won't till ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi,
It is one of societies great mysteries that it is fine for a man to date a woman 10 years younger but not for a woman.
Having said that ,if you are carrying emotional baggage with you it may start to wear thin as the relationship... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if he cheated. Can a guy feel himself have sex if he is drunk?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going together for over 3 years, and i recently just found out that he went to a party and got extremely drunk and says he doesn't remember or know if he had sex or not. I was wondering if a guy could feel himself ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi,
sorry this just sounds very suspect. It's a lame arse excuse if you ask me. For one, some people can do things they can't remember when drunk but for a guy to be able to get an erection he has to be able to function somewhat. I would be worr... (read in full...)
Abusive, obsessive and I don't know what to do...
Q. I was with my ex for just over a year. Over the last three months our arguements were getting worse and worse and then finally he snapped and threw me about a little abit. I've been to the police and haven't pressed charges because thats it we will ...
A. 6 March 2008: O.k. I have seen a similar situation at a workplace of mine. Nobody knew because the girl was too ashamed to say anything. But when she got the confidence we all supported her and the guy who was abusing her was hounded out of the company as nobody ... (read in full...)
My wife's lesbian friend is breaking up marriages and my wife doesn't think it's a problem.
Q. I'm having issues with my wife's new found friends- 2 are a couple m/f and married and the other is a lesbian and they are next door neighbors. The lesbian broke up the couple marriage but they got back together and now the lesbian is breaking up ...
A. 6 March 2008: Oh for god's sake mate, are you for real?
I think you have been watching too much Fox News specials warning us about the evils of the gay menace. In the real world there isnt a cabal of homosexuals running around ruining marriages and conv... (read in full...)
Possible new partner is still in a relationship and has a baby!!! What do I do???
Q. hi all, right I have a problem I could really do with some advice on. I'm a 21 year old male and Ii met this 22 year old girl around 2 years ago, we got on sooo well and spent a lot of time together, I'd just got out of a long and bad relationship ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi there,
you are right to be cautious. You are still very young and taking on the responsibility of a mother and child is huge.
She will be relying on you for finacial security and you will have the added responsibility of being a father to her c... (read in full...)
I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2-3 boyfriends and a fiance!!!
Q. please help, I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2/3 boyfriends and a fiance, my fiance lives abroad, my first boyfriend I have been with him for 4 years but it has been a rocky relationship on and off and my fiance I don't even know him ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
no wonder you are confused, I have no idea who you are going out with from your post - as you don't even seem to know how many guys you have on the go yourself! 2/3??. Whatever happens though is going to be a mess, what do you expect when you ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?
Q. im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi again Miracles,
You have to start to realise that what your boyfriend says or thinks is irrelevant when it comes to you getting pregnant. When you get pregnant ( and you will soon as he is not wearing protection ) it doesnt matter if he want... (read in full...)
What does it mean that he asked if I was seeing anyone? Does that show he's interested?
Q. I met a guy about a month ago and during that time I've grown quite fond of him. He is amazing, and I mean that in every possible way. He is gorgeous, funny, very succesful, kind, everything, he is just amazing. When I think about him I just ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
I imagine the reason he hasnt made a move is because he is seeing someone, probably someone who isnt pushing his buttons like you are.
But if he is a decent chap he wont want to cheat on her or hurt her.
So for now I think you should not d... (read in full...)
Now that I'm pregant he does not want to have sex. How long a man can go without sex?
Q. My husband of 7 months is just completely off sex unless he is making a baby. Now that I'm pregnant, there is no attention or sexual contact of any kind. When I was pregnant before, he was much more attentive so I know it isn't around me being ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
I always wonder when women ask the question "is he gay" that there must be something even subconciously there for the wife to suspect this. A lot of gay men produce children as a way of keeping their status in the community.
You really need to ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?
Q. im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
well he may not want a baby, but the way you are going you will be pregnant soon enough. You don't have to worry about him too much as he is underage as well and won't have any repsonsibility to look after your child. That will be all down to y... (read in full...)
Is 'camel toe' looked down on?
Q. Is having 'camel toe' looked down on, or worse than being completely tight? Is it an insult?...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi, what a bizarre question. If a woman displays a camel toe it doesnt necessarily mean she has a large vagina and therefore not tight. It means she is wearing clothes that do not hide the protruberance. Kind of like a guy wearing lycra showing ... (read in full...)
The conversation online with a friend became a little "dirty," his gf found out and became suspicious! Should I ignore her or take other precautions?
Q. I was chatting online to a friend and it got a little dirty on a couple of occasions, the friend is a friend of my boyfriend who i have been with a long time. His girlfriend found out and got really annoyed, we said it didnt mean anything but she ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi, I'm wondering if the flirty talk is as innocent as you make it out to be. Think about why it happened in the first place, you know this guy, you know his girlfriend yet you engage in sexual innuendo and flirting, only people who have an interest... (read in full...)
Married for 2 years and have not had sex with my husband. What's going on?
Q. I have been married for 2 years and never had sex till now..My husband loves me unconditionally but when it comes to sex,we just have romance and that's it he stops there and dozes off to sleep..When i visit doctors i feel embarrassed to say them ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi, well the only person who can answer this question is your husband. You have a right to know why he won't consumate the marriage. What most people will think first off is the dreaded "is he gay". This is not as far fetched as one might think.... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone whom I love, but who didn't really appreciate me?
Q. How do I get over him? My first love, my first everything! Of course I didn't want to end it, but I had to. You wouldn't believe the things he told me. He constantly nagged about my past... he knew an ex friend of mine who was abit friendlier....
A. 5 March 2008: Hi,
There are millions of guys out there like this - they moan and groan about their partner's past obsessed with how they weren't virginal and that other men have spoiled them.
There is nothing you can do with this type of man, they are self abs... (read in full...)
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