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Does this mean that he actually likes me?

Q.   Hi. I have a crush on a boy who has a girlfriend. I also just found out that he has a half-sister that I have for all my classes. She told me today and she also knows that I like him. Since she told me this she calls me suegra. He also knows by a ...

A.   29 January 2009: Hey, my opinion is that ynu would have to talk to him to actualy know. Glances could mean anything. Has he messaged you back or anything? The best way to really tel if he does or not is to talk. But i wouldnt be to flirty or anything you dont want ... (read in full...)

What should I do? I've spent weeks thinking but haven't come up with a solution...all advice really appreciated!

Q.   Hi all, My husaband recently got back from a business trip in china. I know it sounds untrusting but I checked his phone and to my horror there was text to one of his sports friends it went something like this, Hi mate, can't play squash, still in ...

A.   20 June 2008: That right there finden txts like that this may hurt and some may disagree but when it comes to that I don't think so. I'd b taken my best friend... Called a shot gun and tellen him to leave. I know its painfull and u have two kids but its not good ... (read in full...)

Do I make a move or let him go?

Q.   i'm in grade seven, and my crush is in grade eight, even though we're the same age. he's graduating but goin to another high school.(theres two high schools where i live) he lives pretty far away so i'm never goin to see him again. what should i do. ...

A.   20 June 2008: My opinion is that he's just a crush and at ur age there will b plenty of more trust me. I would just leave it at a crush and move on. Ull end up in a year or two forgetten bout him neway... (read in full...)

How can I show him I'm trustworthy?

Q.   so i was in a marriage of 12 years to a man in the USA. it was really rough. constant physical and mental abuse and i was pretty much trapped in a hole with this man as i basically needed him around just to survive. i was not allowed any friends or ...

A.   20 June 2008: Communication is the key. Talking and telling him to love u is to trust u. Tell him ur true feelings for him and how much you care just take time to prove to him. My opinion he should have relized how much u care when u come from here to there. But ... (read in full...)

Vaginal hygiene - Am I going about it right?

Q.   I wash my vagina with a scrubie poof thing and soap. Is this bad? Like, is it the same as douching?...

A.   20 June 2008: I've heard this off of an oprah show from dr.oz... A vagina is a self cleaning oven... Unless u have an infection that's about fine for cleaning it. Just wash it daily and stuff and thatll work perfectly fine.... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of this clingy ex?!

Q.   What do you do about an ex that A: won't leave you alone, B: you let him get to you and you actually hang out with him, C: you have a boyfriend, D: you essentially cheated on your boyfriend with your ex and you feel like utter horse-shit because of ...

A.   20 June 2008: The easiest thing I can say is make it plan and clear that u don't want a thing to do with him. It kinda seems that u gave him mixs signals but flat at tell him or have ur bf do it that usually does the trick for me... (read in full...)

Why did I dream about sex with a girl? I'm straight!

Q.   Okay so basically, I'm a straight 16-year-old girl. But last night, I had this dream where I was me trapped in a guy's body. Then this really beautiful girl walked over and made me lie on my back. Then she started touching all over my back. And then ...

A.   20 June 2008: Hey I'm staighter than a staight person can get and I've a dream pretty close to that. I'm pretty sure it doesn't mean nething. This might sound stupid and lesbo.... But I'm NOT... I have always wanted a penis for a day just to know what it feels ... (read in full...)

Another girl bought my boyfriend an expensive Birthday gift and I feel jealous!

Q.   My bf's birthday was last Thursday. I didn't have much money, so I bought him 3 sets of cheap guitar strings. He needed guitar strings, and he really doesn't care about quality as he always ends up breaking them anyway. He himself doesn't like ...

A.   17 June 2008: My opinion just brush it of. Ya know its nothing much to worry about it he doesn't like her and that was the end of it.u made the effort to get him something he likes the exspesive stuff shouldn't matter to neone just the fact u care enough does. ... (read in full...)

Sex or money??

Q.   ok, would you rather have a person that has good money that can support you but suck in bed OR have a person that pleasure you so good in bed that you can't help but be with them but they ask you once in a while if they could help you with a bill or ...

A.   17 June 2008: In my opinion money or sex should never matter its if they love u r not the other two is just a bonus.love and care should only b the things that matter.... (read in full...)

Help, I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   Well, I've been depressed lately about a lot of things. In my home, everyone keeps to themselves. I don't see my friends a lot because they live across town, and my relationship with my girlfriend is definitely weighing on my mind. My girlfriend ...

A.   17 June 2008: Hey, I just want to say there is always someone out there to talk to. Don't be so down I have been ther and done all that. My parents suck and I don't talk to my friends much but I found someone and that's the guy I'm with now. I'm happy now all I ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a guy to still have feeling for his first love?

Q.   My boyfriend(for the last 6 months) still loves his first love and I'm his second. He broke up with her, then 2 months later we started dating. These feelings are really confusing him and he doesn't think it is fair to me. Is it normal for a guy ...

A.   17 June 2008: Of coarse its ok. Everybody still has feelings for there first love. When u love someone its forever. You can move on and have new loves that will last forever and b happy. As long as he's not wanting to get with her things a perfectly fine.... (read in full...)

I've been with my bf for a year and we're having trouble in the bedroom....but I've developed a crush on a guy at work....what should I do???

Q.   I've been with my bf for a year and love him lots but recently I developed a crush on a guy at work. On Sunday things developed with my crush, and he told me he liked me and wants to have sex with me. I told him I like him but I'm in a relationship, ...

A.   17 June 2008: Ithink maybe u should talk to ur bf. Ask him about having sex more often. Cause usually cheaten is never worth it and u can really regreat it so I would just try to talk to him and see what's going on cause u having an atraction to another probly is ... (read in full...)

I need help talking to this guy that I really like!! Help please!!!

Q.   Ok i need help talkin to this lad i like. I am pretty quiet in general anf really like him, the thing is he can talk to anyone else great in th group but not me! Its just me! The people who know i like him have just said just say random stuff to him ...

A.   17 June 2008: I think he's just scared to talk to u but I have a friend who had the same problem. This might sounf kinda weird but it might work. She got aholed of his number and txt him like he gave it to her. He ended up really liken her and they started datin ... (read in full...)

How can I increase my man's sex drive...??

Q.   How do I increase my Man's sex drive? Even when he has an erection he's not horny....

A.   17 June 2008: Have u tryd to wear sexy little out fits for him. My man usually enjoys seeing that even when he's had a hard days work. Maybe going down on him and ofering to try something new might help. ... (read in full...)

Would I be a bad person if I left my gf due to her past...it makes me cringe to think about it...

Q.   What should I do about my gf's past? I think about it every single day, multiple times a day, the closer and more I feel for her the more intense this problem becomes. She has been very promiscuous, sleeping with around 20 people of which most all ...

A.   16 June 2008: It wouldn't really b the best way to be the best person in the world if u truelly love her then her past shouldn't matter. I mean I hate thinken about my boyfriend with another girl but u just need to let it go. But if you truelly can't then maybe u ... (read in full...)

We've had many fights...but I never expected it to turn out like this...!! Any advice appreciated

Q.   My boyfriend and I got into a heated argument last night while he was drunk he snapped from being fine to screaming at me and calling me.a whore and all those other lovely names people call one another. He wanted to get up to leave I stood in the ...

A.   16 June 2008: Here's the way I see it get a few boxes put his stuff in there and sit them outside. If he comes he comes if he doesn't then ok. Its never ok to hurt neone else when its unnessisary. Hell maybe ur brother beat some since into the boy and knows he ... (read in full...)

What could I do to convince him that dating me wouldn't be a horrible idea?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Ive gone on a few dates with this one guy, that i like very much. For my birthday yesterday he took me out to the movies. He kissed me and then decided to tell me he cant date me. He talked about not wanting things to go wrong, because ...

A.   16 June 2008: Ok first of all I think if he cares so much about what others will think and stuff then y the hell bother with daten. He might as well ask his mommy and daddy to arange his marriage I think u just need to find a man who is only gonna care what u ... (read in full...)

Should I call my ex or not? Is there anyway I can get her back with hurting or comprimising other people?

Q.   About 7 months ago me and my ex broke up, at first we still hung out and were friends but after about 3 months she found someone else. I was very upset and after an emotional conversation we decided that we should give each other some space. she su...

A.   16 June 2008: I think just take the plung and call her be friendly and just talk alittle as just an old friend then see how she is acting if she seems to b intrested in talking about a relationship again then tell her how u feel and stuff. If she seems to have ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm being taken for granted, why does he act like this??

Q.   I feel like Im being taken for granted and its really starting to get to me. I have a male friend, we are close and have slept together and he phones me all the time and i love chatting but its like everythings on his terms and i feel a bit used. H...

A.   16 June 2008: It seems to me he kinda does use u u but if u care for him maybe just flat out ask him guyes r real comlicated so I'm not an exspert but maybe the nxt time he calls tell him u gotta go and don't listen. It'll make him either jealouse or prove to u ... (read in full...)

What's the best way to give a blow job? His penis is rather big...

Q.   whats the best way to give a blow job, my guys penis is rather big and i try to get it as much in my mouth as possible, but sometimes i feel like im going to be sick! is there anyway i can improve that as he seems to really like it...

A.   16 June 2008: I know how u feel my bf is huge to but I just us my tung a lot right at the tip and use my hand sometimes I can make him really excited when I give him a lil nibble to make it kinky not to hard just enough to make it hot. Good Luck... (read in full...)

AI have huge jealousy issues...is it me or the way he behaves?

Q.   I am a 21 y.o woman and have been with my partner for 7 months. We were best friends years before we got together. I have a jealousy problem anytime we go out i feel like i have to watch where he is looking an if i see him look at another women i ...

A.   16 June 2008: Me and u have bout the same problem I'm a jealouse girl to but I see it as at least I care enough. I have been withh my BF for almost 2 years andim like that sometimes. As long as u aint ruening his life or get into huge arguements its fine.U love ... (read in full...)

I need some nickname suggestions -- please help?

Q.   hi i need some advice i like this girl shes not my gf but wat nicknames could i call her and not sond 2 full on lol please help me find some nicknames to cal her we are in our teens help thanks ...

A.   16 June 2008: Darlen...... I call all my guy close friends and they know its just friendly.its cute and traditional.... (read in full...)

Too many fights broke us up!...

Q.   i have a problem k well my girlfreind broke up with me beacuse i have gotten in too many fights but i get in these fights to defend her please help fast thanks...

A.   16 June 2008: Well if ur fighten cause some guy is all over ur gall and she aint doing nothing about it her self maybe its best but if u get in fights cause u just don't like the way they looked at her then have u ever thought"Damn I'm lucky to have a girl this ... (read in full...)

caught my boyfriend of two years cruising for sex at an adult book store. Plese advise!!

Q.   Last week I was coming home late from work, when I noticed my boyfriend's car parked outside an Adult Book Store- I knew immediately he was cruising for sex. I waited outside the store, and noticed him circling around the building looking for sex. ...

A.   16 June 2008: My oppinion is to forget why care or b with a man who oviously needs something else. When a person cheats on a person that should b the end of it being with some one means that's showing u care about them and want to b with them so if he's doing ... (read in full...)

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