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writes:I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and Ihave intimate thoughts of her. We are both married.She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are outdrinking and dancing she comments on my butt and rubs it alot. She told me the other day that I am her synapse stimulation. I think she feels the same way asI do, but I don't want to risk losing her friend ship.How can I tell if she feels the same way? She is allI think about and I am starting to go crazy
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reader, wildman +, writes (28 February 2008):
 I would definitely go for it. Your husband's might like it. I know I would.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Hi,
It is a little harder when it comes to women as girls tend to be much more touchy feely with each other ( holding hands, hugs etc ).
I was just going to say just go for it, but then I reread your question and realised you said you were both married.
In this case it is no different from any infidelity in marriage, if you go ahead and have sex with this woman it is still as bad as cheating on your husband with a man. So I would advise against it.
But if you are a lesbian the best thing you can do is be honest with your husband and stop living a lie. Tell him and let him get on with his life, you can get on with yours as well.
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 i think in the very least, yes there is "attraction", perhaps she feels towards u what u feel towards her but she does not want to risk losing ur friendship as much as u feel the same.y best advice is u both get a little drunk one day and "play a game." theyb say alcohol is or can be a truth serum. so this way u can always fall back on the " im soo sorry i was drunk" excuse if the next day she says she did not mean what she said thre other day about wanting a relationship w u, that she only wantys to be playful frinds with u. use ur feminine wiles with hers
and see what happens
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 February 2008):
 You just posted this and you are currently getting answers from the aunts.
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