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writes:Hello! I have a question about a guy I really like and I want to know what advice I can get.I work in a bank and there is a guy who comes in once or sometimes twice a week.I never really paid much attention to him because I was in a long term relationship which recently ended. But after waiting on him lately I think he is a really cool guy. Lately he has been acting diff.he used to be really quiet but now he is really flirty but only towards me. He will always pick on me and try to get my attention when someone else is waiting on him. He also gives me little smirks and when he is talking to me he smiles a lot and looks me straight in the eyes.I don't know if he likes me or is just being friendly. He hasn't made any kind of move Which is fine because we hardly know each other. My question is how can I find out if he likes me or has a girlfriend without being to forceful and obvious. I am really afraid of rejection!! Also I might be quiting that job in the next few weeks so I might not get the chance to see him again if one of us doesn't make a move. There is just somethin about him that drives me crazy. I can't stop thinking about him and when he is around I get all nervous and shaky.. Which NEVER happens to me. So what can I do in this situation? I don't even know if he has a gf.sorry this was long! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice. I think I will try it this week. I just wish I knew if he had a girlfriend. Then I wouldn't feel so nervous about it. But would he be flirting with me so much if he did. He doesn't seem like that type.. But you never know.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Hi,
Here's a couple of things to try. First just come out with something, for instance next time you talk to him, tell him you are going to be leaving soon and it will be a shame as you are going to really miss some of the customers and worry that you won't see them again. If he's interested he should take the hint.
Now lets get down and dirty here, if you really want to grab his attention, when you know he is going to come in, wear the sexiest outfit you have ( a bank is a conservative environment but a tight sexy business outfit can driv a guy wild) and fall back on the oldest trick in the book if you got it flaunt it - which ever is your best asset boobs or bum , wear a low cut top to show off your boobs or a tight skirt to show him what he's missing. This doesn't make you a slut just someone who is confident with their body. My wife swears this is how she knew I was interested in her, she wore very suggestive clothing and caught me checking out her butt in the mirror at her work!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCould anyone please give me advice on this??
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