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anonymous
writes:Hey. I am a 6"1 girl and haven't had sex before. I am nicely built (slim) and quite pretty and popluar, but am worried that boys won't want to have sex with me because I am so tall. What is it like for a boy of similar hight or just slightly shorter than me? I also worry that he won't be able to just pick me up and move me around. Is this a problem? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Thank you to everyone answering my question. What a relief!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): I'm similar to you, tall and slim. I'm a little shorter though I'm 5'11, and my ex was a bit taller and we seemed to have sex fine and he could pick me up for wierd positions so don't worry there are alot of very tall boys out there too.When you find someone who is right for you, you won't have any problems with sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Here's a tip most girls don't know - guys actually like tall girls a lot of the time more than shorter girls, so don't worry about it. xx
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reader, bc2283  +, writes (26 February 2008):
now way!! Guys love long legs
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (26 February 2008):
 If you were not underage (and much younger), I would love to date you. I don't think your height should be a problem. There's just more of you to love.
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reader, Collaroy + ♥, writes (26 February 2008):
 Hi,
people are very shallow and when they see a tall girl and a short guy they tend to gossip and giggle. But there are plenty of tall guys out there, heaps of men over 6'1, so you shouldnt lack for choice.
And in any event , regarding sex, you end up horizontal mate, so height is not an issue when you are having sex.
Most models are over 6 feet tall by the way.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Look at all those models and movie stars!! You don't have anything to worry about. Clothes will always look great on you too!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Okay, this one is cute. I'm five foot six if I lie a little (actually a half inch shorter). An older man now, but have dated quite a number of young ladies taller. In fact, MOST were taller including two past wives, and one gal was 6'4" - which did attract some gawking onlookers at times. We would just laugh about it. So, as a short guy, it never mattered at all to me if it did not concern my woman. They were with the man, not the stature, okay?
Indeed, with some gals while vertical, I had to stand tippy-toe and reach up for a kiss, while they had to lean over to meet my lips, but as "LJ001" says, it all works out fine on a mattress and other locations. Dancing was fun for me too, as my head sometimes rested on a breast.
One more thought. There was just a bit of pride sometimes when I noticed taller guys looking gape-mouthed at this short dude with a tall beauty at my side. Always loved it, and my ladies did too. I'm sure I'm not alone among the vertically-challenged males out there. Love knows no boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): To be honest, I really don't think this would be problem honey. Most positions involve lying down anyway, in which your height shouldn't be an issue. Standing positions, fair enough, this could be a little bit of a problem, but hey, if he loves you enough to have sex with you, then surely he won't mind your height? Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): you will be fine there are thousands of postions that height is aboslutly not an issue. so stopp worrying about it. you should never feel stress when it comes to sex,that will make you uncomfortable and you wont enjoy it so just dont worry about it. you will be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): You would be surprised to see what you can do with height. If you have a partner your height you will be blessed with the ability to line up solidly in positions and if he is shorter he will have better access to your chest. Basically, whoever you end up with you will find a way to make it work.
And if you are extremely worried, you can always wait until college to meet someone taller than you :)
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reader, spanna  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 i dont think you will have a problem, the world is becoming a taller place there are so many tall guys out there. i cant see u having a problem with positions. i am 5'5 and my bf is 6'2 and we are restricted with standing positions coz i am too short, i think most ppl have an issue with at least one position, but you will be fine dont worry about it.
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