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We slept together, he got in touch, now I haven't heard anything? Why?

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Question - (2 September 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I met a guy at a wedding last week. We got on really well I ended up sleeping with him. The next day he asked me to key my number into this phone and said he would call. He text me a couple of nights ago asking how I am? I replied and asked him how he was and whether he had any plans for the weekend. I haven't heard anything from him since. Why would this be, it was him who made the initial contact??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006):

It's been what? Two days? Come on. Like Baby Girl had mentioned, he could be busy, stressed about something (good gosh, I didn't even reply back to a few texts a girl sent me three days ago until this morning). Then again, there is always a chance he was just using you for sex, etc, etc. Yeah...

I think everyone here has some great comments. 8]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006):

hi hun, i have had been through this before so i know how frustrating it is! i mean why text in the in the first place? thing is men do get easy distracted, so he could have forgot, silly i know but this is men were talking about!! maybe try texting him again, just a casual message, dont mention that you noticed he didnt text, just say... "hi hun just thought id text see how you are?" and if he doesnt reply, just delete his number and forget him! xx

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2006):

bonym agony auntI agree with Gabriel below, there are so many reasons why he may not have been in touch since and like Gabriel also said, he bothered to het back in touch with you before showing that he has shown an interest in you and was not just using you. Give it a bit more time, and wait and see what happens, I know that with me, I lose numbers easily, delete entries, and all sorts and maybe he is having problems with his phone. Try not to worry and wait and see first. xXx

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A male reader, Green Eyed Gabriel +, writes (2 September 2006):

Green Eyed Gabriel agony auntThere are many reasons technical such as he lost his phone or accidentally erased your number. But assides from the technical he could be in a relationship he's not happy with, or that he's met someone. If he made contact with you however you can be pretty sure that he has thought about you and that you haven't been used.

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