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writes: hey guys,What does it mean when you start shaking in front of a person that you had been attracted to for a long time or may be in love. This man in particular and myself are at a stage of life where we know we can never be together as we both are unavailable. I don't have any intentions to have any affair with him but every time i see him something happens inside (what?? i don't know) and when he leaves i end up in tears and feel very hurt. Why am i getting hurt and shaky like this??
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reader, bonym  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 Sweetie, yes it sounds to me like you are in love!!! I know the feeling all to well, thats the problem when some men are just too unbelievably gorgeous!!!! Dont worry babes, you will be fine. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2006): by the way that anon below was me the original poster
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2006): DISTANCE!!! that's all we both have in common..nothing else. It's so frustrating i can't even describe. I haven't even mentioned this to him but perhaps my actions say a lot to him i guess. It's been a year since i have been trying to get over him and infact i have been so busy that it does help but every now and then i start to miss him really badly and then nothing but nothing helps. I never thought i'll be the one who will feel this way as i am usually quite a strong person and even he knows that. But i just saw him recently by accident and it made it all worse. At that time if he would have pointed even a slight finger at me i know i would have melted in his arms.... pathetic i know ....but that's exactly how i felt.
I never admitted that before but i do feel now that i am in love with this man. Damn he is gorgeous!!!
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reader, bonym +, writes (31 August 2006):
Sounds like me and this man I met at work every day I see Pete I go all "girly" inside, he is like the most beautiful man on the face of God's earth and when I see thay bling bling wedding ring, I get depressed! My dear, its just that you are deepy attracted to him thats all and you feel that strongly for him, something moves within you. I get that with him too, but I know I have to move on, and you can too. xXx
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 Hi there... I think this is a case of - "question asked, question answered" - you know you are in love with this guy. Best all round if you can steer clear of him and concentrate on your own relationship.
Not easy, I know, but at times you will be strong, and other times - say, when your bf and you have problems (as we all do from time to time) you will feel vulnerable and wonder if there is anything better out there for you. It does'nt help matters if the feelings you are having are reciprocated by the object of your affections either..that only serves to muddy the waters further - so keep a healthy distance if at all possible, it will pass in time - you know it makes sense!!
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