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Caught masturbating by my brother!!!

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Question - (2 September 2006) 18 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2011)
A male , anonymous writes:

my brother caught me masturbating to porn...what should i do if he tells my parents and what should i do about him?

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A male reader, Adviceneone Australia +, writes (8 April 2011):

It happens to the best of us getting busted masterbating, but even though we get caught we still do it again. I've had some embrassing moments being caught in the act but i still do it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

dont worry!

masturbation is a natural and great thing! i do it all the time and if your bro does too who cares, your parents probably wont say anything anyway

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A male reader, PeterNorth Australia +, writes (19 March 2011):

I've been busted bad before, i've had my older sister walk in on me a few times, last time she did i had all my porno mags spread out on my bedroom floor and butt naked with cock in hand stroking. The worst thought was me and my best mate getting busted by his step-mum in his garage.. We were DP'ing a blow up doll we bought and didn't even realize she was there until she cleared her throat. so embrassing but i got over it ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009):

my younger brother caught me masturbating to porn too! it was really embaressing but i just talked to him and said it is completely normal. Now, a few months on, i sometimes hear him doing it so i think the message got through!

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A male reader, pure shade 5 United States +, writes (25 April 2009):

pure shade 5 agony auntjust tell him it is natural for kids your age i got caught by my brother once and did nothing about it and he told my parents then like 2 mounts latter i caught him told him see it is natural and everyone has or will do it in there life time

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

if i were you i would just talk to ur brother and tell him that he will do it at some point in his life and try to convince him not to tell your parents

in the other hand, if he is still small just make a joke about it like "i was scratching it because i had a rash, dont tell mom because i dont wanna go to the doctor" or somethin like dat haha

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

your brother wont say anthing, for 1 he will proberly be more embarased than you were, and he'l ne super embarased to tell you parents, he proberly does it any way and if he says i cought my brother masturbating it shows he has knowledg of masturbation and knows what it is so he'l then drop him self in it anyway. anyway it's natural i bet your mum and dad have bothe done it at 1 point in their life. i hope this has helped

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007):

I wouldnt bother getting upset. your brother does the same thing too

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A female reader, snowbird Canada +, writes (6 September 2006):

snowbird agony auntDon't worry, it's natural, why should he tell them? Your parents will probably tell him off for sneaking around and peeking at people!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006):

Haha - don't worry friend. I'm sure he won't be the first person to catch you out!

Just try to keep refrain from doing such things if your gran is visiting.... unless you want to do it for the crack that is! ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006):

You blush and say nothing. You parents give their spiel and you nod and if you accept it, say, "Sure dad". If you don't accept it, then blah.

Geez, this isn't that bad at all.

My bro has caught me mbing. Gosh, my dad and mom has caught me mbing. Sure it was SUPER FRIGGIN Embarrassing - and I would like stress those three previous words by adding a font size 50 to them - but what can I do? All I did was laugh and cover myself up and get angry temporarily for not being careful enough.

Back during HS, my dad would always say, "Behave yourself!" HAHAHAHAHA... I'll just nod and go on about my business.

I guess you can just talk to your bro about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006):

Is that you J? If so I know you and you know me. I'll give you a hint, teddy bear.

Sorry if that made no sense and was very weird, and I'll answer your question anyway. First off, masturbation is natural, but do it discretion and not in a place where you can be caught. You may get punished but I'm sure you'll have a conversation with your parents. If your brother hasn't said anything yet, talk to him, ask him nicely but do NOT accept any deals (chores), instead (and I know this sounds absurd)tell your parents before he does, and do it in the safest way you can. I hope that helped. If you are J, let me know, I'm not going to say anything.

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A female reader, kk +, writes (2 September 2006):

hi hun, u should imagine if he did tell your parents they would be far to embarassed to bring it up! so i wouldnt worry! its normal x

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2006):

bonym agony auntOh good, the title has been chnaged!!!! Now it aint so misleading after all. Cool! xxx

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (2 September 2006):

Ponungalungb agony auntBonym, LOL. It is misleading! The title writer gave the story a whole new twist!!!

"Spanking your monkey" is a natural part of being a boy (or man). If your brother tells your parents, they shouldn't make a big deal about it. Next time, lock the door when you feel the urge to "choke the chicken". LOL.

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2006):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntAlthough this is a very embaressing situation, nothing more will come of it. Your brother was probably more embaressed than you! Even if he did tell your parents, they will understand and certainly won't bring it up, it's perfectly natural!

Just relax about this, don't mention it again and he will soon forget. Knowing young lads, he's probably forgotten already! lol.

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2006):

bonym agony auntThe title of this is misleading!!! Anyway, there is nothing you can do to your brother, all you can do is ask him not to say anything, andif you dont want him to get there first, you will have to confess to your parents, I am sure they wont want to put you on death row for it will they? xXx

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A male reader, Green Eyed Gabriel +, writes (2 September 2006):

Green Eyed Gabriel agony auntUnfortunately there is very little you can do about this.... and i very much depends on your family members and your relationship with them.

It is Quite possible your brother will be too embarassed to bring up the subject at all. It is quite possible he has done similar things and therefore will know what it means and why it happens.

Now as for your parents if they do find out you maybe severly punished.... alternatively they could ignore it.... or as some parents do accept it as a teenage boy many parents understand you have urges.... and be gald your not indulging them with another person.

However if you truely think your brother will tell have a quiet word with one of your parents... probably your father... he was a teenage boy once and explain what happened to him... and he will be able to deal with your brother... I hope this helps.

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