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anonymous
writes: my boyfriend and i have been trying to have sex. i am a virgin and everytime we try it is really painful and he cant get his penis fully in. wot can we do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Charmedone  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 It will be painful the first time you try to have sex but it don't mean you have to give up try doing something relaxing first cos you will be tense hence why it hurts so much. Try taking a long hot bubble bath to get in the mood light a few candles and just relax then when you feel relaxed enough try again just keep doing this until it doesn't hurt anymore good luck and enjoy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006): i have the same trouble, it hurts and my partner is very kind and takes it slow although it still hurts me and he never gets it in fully, we use lots of lubricant and it still doesnt wor im in desperate need of help becaus i do enjoy sex
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reader, bonym +, writes (2 September 2006):
 Yes I can agree with Malyce _Synn when she says to abstain from it, but I am not sure that, that is the answer you wanted huh?
Well, my dear are you emotionally ready for sex? Perhpas if you are having trouble its your bodys way of saying, "I aint ready, wait til I am please."
Think about it babes. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006): Obstain.
Wait til you are married or in a long term relationship. Wait until you are of age.
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