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My man is very into "Watersports" How common is this ???

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Question - (6 December 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend an i have a good relatioship and like to experiment, he recently confessed that he really wanted to give me a golden shower so i let him in the shower, i didnt mind it too much but wasnt great.

He now bought porn with girls getting covered in it by loads of men.

Any men out there into this??? Any ladies into this??

Just need to know if its a common thing out there

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A female reader, 911help United States +, writes (7 December 2006):

911help agony auntI think this is quite normal. Just not alot of guys willing to admit to it. My husband loves watersports and if I would let 20 guys do it at once he would say thats the sexiest thing he ever saw. Its nice to see your guy so turned on he can't think of anything else. The happier you can keep you guy with his fantasies the more turned on and attracted he will be to you. He will be running you through his mind constantly, not the woman half naked on the beach.

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2006):

AngelofLove agony auntNot something I am into personally.

It depends how flexible you are, if you are not turned out by this, perhaps you should not do it?

My understanding of foreplay is that both parties should enjoy it otherwise is one sided.

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A female reader, jabey United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2006):

my man too quite like to pee on me. So it does me no harm so just let him if it turns him on and Im pleasing him then thats fine. Think its more common than we know. As long as its not hurting anyone its fine. Must say though does not really do anything for me! In the shower or bath def the best place. Let them have their fun, as long as it does not go to extremes.

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2006):

Wendyg agony auntI dont think its that common, and some would say its a taboo subject, bit like how anal sex was considered once upon a time...

But times do change and different things float different peoples boats so to speak! But if your not comfortable with something, dont do it for the sake of someone else... speak up, i appreciate you wanted to try this for your mans ends and thats a good thing, but well if your not too keen on it tell him... we all like different things and we cant all like the same thing.... even if you did find 20 people on here that said yeah they love it would it make you love it ?? No it wouldnt, its just something your man likes, and if you do great, but i sense your not so keen, theres no harm if he wants to watch porn containing it, its his own and your affair if your happy for him to do it, you dont have to seek affirmation from others if you want to do it... if your cool with it so be it... but if not let him know you would rather try something else!

Take care x

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A female reader, Nikita United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2006):

Nikita agony auntHi Anon,

Personally, Im not into watersports although if my man asked me to do it, I might try it to see if I liked it. If i didn't I wouldn't do it again and I think that's what you have to ask yourself really. You tried it but it wasn't really great so you have to tell him that your're not keen on repeating it. Continue experimenting until you find something you both like! Watersports is becoming more common nowadays but its as everything, a matter of personal preference. Take care.

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (6 December 2006):

eddie agony auntI think it's on the extreme edge of the "scope" of normal. I'd bet 99% of people manage to get through life without peeing on somebody.

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