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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and love him very much. A couple of weeks ago i ran into a guy i used to be friends with ten years ago. He said that he'd like us to meet up as friends (he knows i'm in a relationship). I agreed, but told him that it might be difficult as my boyfriend can be a bit possessive. Anyway, we exchanged phone numbers and email addresses. Since then, i have texted him once (which he answered), another time when he didn't answer, and emailed him once. I haven't heard from him now for a week. Do you think he's had second thoughts about our friendship?Thank you!
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reader, pica +, writes (8 December 2006):
Sometimes you can meet an old pal and it's great to see them, you realise what fun you had with them and it seems important to not lose touch. After a couple of days though your normal life takes over and they are not part of it. If he had been such a great friend you probably wouldn't have lost touch in the first place. I agree with the other aunts, what are you looking for? You've got a boyfriend. Let it go. (Or were you trying to line him up as a replacement for the current bf?)
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (7 December 2006):
 If you are alreay in a relationship, why the ansiety to hear from this guy. Friends do not reply for weeks sometimes.
Give him space and he will reply is he only wants to be friends.
Perhaps he was after more but realized you are not available. That is the right thing to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): What kind of game are you playing at? If you have a bf why do you want further from this other guy?? Don't play with fire or you will get burnt. If you told him about your bf then he has done the decent thing and backed off, you should now follow suit. Don't you care about your bf feelings? How would you feel if he did this to you. Just walk away and settle down to some fun with your bf and stop these games.
Take care
xx
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reader, kellyO +, writes (7 December 2006):
 Perhaps. You did tell him in a way that you have a boyfriend and that ur boyfriend wouldnt appreciate you having male friends because he is abit possesive. I guess he might not want to get u in any form of trouble with your partner or be the one to cause any problems in your relationship.
I would suggest u wait for him to respond to your messages, dont send any more even if he doesnt respond.
Take care now.
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