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writes:When My Girl Get's Drunk i don't think she care about me 1 bit.last month my girlfriend was moaning that saturday night's was boring (which i find an insuit) so i give her so money and told her to go out she did with my brother + girlfriend and my girls mom and friend's. and when she got home she was moaning Because i didn't go out saying " i was all alone all night " but it's a diffrent matter when we go out and she leave's me everywhere all alone. and after this night i thought maybe when we next go out she will not leave me because she's had it done 2 her.we went out last weekend and it was kool all day i didn't drink. at the night she got drunk and started dancing with my brother's girlfriend (like a lesbian) but when my brother got up she pulled me up 2 dance. now i don't have a problem but when my brother went dancing with my auntie my girl went back to danceing with my brother's girlfriend. so i sat back down. i felt usedthat night my brother was danceing with my girl and he put is hand in some women's hair. so this women was kicking off. but my girl was kicking off back. " she the women had started " but i walked over and said sorry 2 the lady and her guy who was kicking off. the women leaved it at that but my girl said i stood up her the women. i wasn't i just had a good time i didn't wanna have to kick off in the pub.do u think she doesn't care about me or am i being stupid?everytime she had a drink she ignore's me all the time. and start's fight's but blame's me for it all.
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (7 December 2006):
 If you do not enjoy nights out with this girl who does not pay you much attention, why are you with her?
You both need to sit down and talk about this. Try to do something together without the entire family and find out if you have enough in common or even like each other sufficiently to stay together.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): A lot of the time, when people get drunk, they don't know what they're doing or saying. If they do then the effect the drink has on them means they just don't care about it. It's not that she doesn't care about you; it's the effect of the drink.
However I can see your point and if you really do feel that her behaviour has an impact on your relationship then perhaps you should have a quick word with her about it. She'll probably understand if you word it correctly so that it doesn't sound confrontational.
If this problem isn't nipped in the bud it could easily spread to more damaging problems in your relationship so talk to her NOW! =]
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