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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...

I don't think his behaviour is ok. He told me to 'get over it'. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - A few weeks ago after a night out I ended up "making out" with a co worker that I'd liked for ages. He basically said that he'd had feelings for me for a while too and hadn't really felt that way before. We texted for a while afterwards until...

I think my mom's cheating on my step dad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I really need some advice right now. I think my mum is cheating, or about to cheat on my stepdad. It sickens me to even think about it. Long story short, last year there was an incident where my mum found out that my stepdad was messaging and ...

My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...

How can I start a conversation with someone who hasn't directly interacted with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I was at the pub last week and I saw this bar made who was gorgeous but I had no direct contact with her so it didnt seem natural to talk to her. She was collecting plates and empty beer mugs. What would be a good way to talk or strike up a ...

He blanked me for weeks then blows up because I was with some one else?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

18 October 2016 (F) - I was texting / meeting a guy (let's call him Fred, this isn't his name) and was seeing each other for about 9weeks.. Then for some reason he stopped talking to me. He said he had family issues and personal problems and can't give me what I want, he ...

I haven't attended church because I have a crush on our pastor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - I'm in trouble. I stopped going to a certain christian church three months ago because the pastor would compliment me all the time. He never stopped mentioning how beautiful I am in front of everyone in church. Always after the service he would give ...

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for n...

I can't approach him andask if he wants me as bad as I want him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

15 October 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from this guy and i dont know what to think or do. I'll list the things he does just to make it clearer: -always really flirtatious, compliments me etc -genuinely laughs when we talk, like not o...

I've agreed to be friends, but he is pulling away from me.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - So, there is this guy i used to deal with but now we are supposed to be friends. He has been begging me for friendship for the longest once we established that our relationship couldn't go any further due to our military rankings. Initially,, i was ...

I've never been catcalled and don't know how to feel about this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - Hello, I am a cute (ish) woman of 29, and I have an awesome boyfriend loving and sexy and caring etc etc. I'm not unattractive, I promise. I'd give myself a solid 7.5 out of 10. Not overweight or acne scarred, and described by friends as petite w...

Why do older women like me so much?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

12 October 2016 (M) - It's flattering, I have no problem being with an older woman if I like her, but they are unavailable. A woman I've known for a few years now, Caucasian, 36 years old, and she has had the same boyfriend since before we even met. She's always bee...

I love him but I hate him. Where do I go from here? Its officially over but I still have feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - I don't know where to start but Ive lost so much over the past year and the losses still keep coming. I'm 38, two sons (18 and 15) and divorced for a little over a year. My sons are great...my oldest is a freshman in college out of state and my ...

Did I scare him off ? ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts please advise me. I met a guy at a cafe. Everytime I go in he stared at me. I started to fancy him too and we would stare and smile at each other. I broke the ice and we exchanged numbers. I hinted going out on a light date but he b...

If I see him again, should I go up to him and start a conversation ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - A couple of weeks ago, I was leaving school to go to work. I had to use the washroom so I pulled into a plaza behind my school. Turns out I parked in a private property parking spot so when I came back to my car, I seen a parking patrol officer ...

Guys, do you agree with my strategy to back off? Do you think I made a fool of myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - Hello all I've seen this type question before but I told him I had feelings really put myself out there and he said you're very sweet. Ouch! Now I know the feelings aren't mutual so I've decided to back off and leave him alone. Is that the ri...

Why no kisses? Why are guys so hesitant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - Went on a site that is for people looking for fun. Met one guy but I felt no attraction but he great to talk to. I wasn't bothered if I saw him again. He said I knew where he was and I said the same to him so I thought he would get in touch . H...

At the cross roads. What should I do? Are we getting in too deep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - This past weekend I went to a family gathering with my dad's family most of which I haven't seen in over 10 years. I spent the most time with one of my dad's cousins whom I was very close with when we were growing up and this time got a little c...

Why does my friend's girlfriend hit on me, flirt with me and then run and tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

4 October 2016 (M) - I can't figure out my friend's girlfriend. When I am at his house and she and I are alone she likes to show me sexy,nude pictures of herself and she's always talking to me and touching my thigh quite often. Sometimes when we talk she tells me things ...

What's going on? He asked for my number. Yet he still hasn't asked me out for a date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

2 October 2016 (F) - I'm a member of a local swimming pool and a few months ago I got talking to a guy who had just joined. Since then we have become really friendly seeing each other there a couple of evenings a week. A few weeks ago the guy asked for my phone num...

Seventeen, and my fear of rejection is so strong that I discourage guys when they make a move. How can I learn to trust myself and stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - Hiya I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend but have had "situations" that could have led to a relationship. Problem is I suck at opening up to guys. Well opening up to anybody in fact. Probably because rejection in any form terrifies me so I'd ...

How can I start talking with her, without coming off as desperate or creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

1 October 2016 (M) - There's this girls I like. Or I should say really like. I've asked my friends what I should do, but the advice they give me keeps on contradicting what they're all saying, so instead, I'm asking a bunch of strangers for advice. What I need help with ...

I still have feelings for her. Should I keep in touch? She's about to marry another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - So I need a little help. Last year around this time, I started seeing a girl. She was beautiful, smart, educated, sweet. All things I look for in a relationahip. Honestly nothing was really lacking and we were pretty great together. We dated fo...