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How can I start a conversation with someone who hasn't directly interacted with me?

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Question - (21 October 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2016)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was at the pub last week and I saw this bar made who was gorgeous but I had no direct contact with her so it didnt seem natural to talk to her. She was collecting plates and empty beer mugs. What would be a good way to talk or strike up a conversation with her if I saw her again?

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A female reader, MartiJJ United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2016):

MartiJJ agony auntBe honest about your attraction, she will be extremely flattered whatever the outcome you will have helped to brighten her day, go to the bar when you know she will be on and it'll be quiet, stand at the bar and wait for her to serve you, if someone else tries ask for her specifically 'I'm waiting on the very pretty lady in blue/with the red hair/with the beautiful smile to serve me thanks' Order something easy for her to pour, then ask if she's single, 'I suppose it's a foregone conclusion that your taken or spoken for !', then act wounded if she is, 'oh I'm wounded to the core, I shall have to drown the sorrow in this glass till the end of time!' Try to get her laughing, if she's not taken ask her out, wait and she'll be scooped up!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (21 October 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntAsk her does she have the time next time you see her, then just make a conversation, ask her would she like to join you for a drink sometime and give her your number. Keep it simple.

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