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I live in herts along with my Lovely Staffordshire bull terrier Archie and two lully cats! Rosie and Umbro!
Anyway, I stumbled across this site a couple of years back now and became addicted straight away! Anyway my friends used to always tell me that I gave good advice and I am a good listener.
I guess I try to put myself in other peoples situations and its easier looking in when your not directly involved. So anyway I gave this a shot, and here I am, I have had lots of positive feedback from people who have posted questions and I have done my best to advise, so I must be doing something right!
If I only make one person's life better with the advice I give then its worth it!
I like to make people happy and help if I can. I will go that extra mile if it will make someone smile!
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What is a Fleet Eneyma ?
Q. what is a fleet eneyma and where can i buy one?...
A. 14 June 2006: Its spelt enema apparently... heres a link
http://www.enematips.com/disenfleetty.html... (read in full...)
I'm taking laxatives every day... Is this a good thing?
Q. Hi all... I am 25ys old. Since I can remember (14-15 yrs old), I never had free bowel movements. I would poo like once every 2-3 days. I figured that it was because of my dieting and irregular eating habits and not drinking enough water. But, now I ...
A. 14 June 2006: I think your body may have got used to taking the laxitives. With constant use the bowel will not react as it normally would and will rely on the use of the pills. It will take a while to get back to normal even though you have changed your diet. ... (read in full...)
How do I know when my boyfriend is ready for "horse and carriage"?
Q. How Do I know when my boyfiriend is ready for committment and marriege...
A. 14 June 2006: Well i dont know how long you have been together, but each man varies, he could be happy with things the way are, alot are, there is no rush for marriage, many people can live together for years get married and all of a sudden the relatonship ends ... (read in full...)
He won't wear a condom, what should I do?
Q. My new bf sais he wont wear condoms, I am on the pill though. Should i have sex with him?...
A. 14 June 2006: No purely and simply. If he has no regard for you then NO! Think how many other hes said this to and how many things he may have already caught ? If he respects you and wants sex with you then he has to be prepared to use a comdom. Its up to ... (read in full...)
Found my fiancee's porn collection... I believe it's a form of cheating!
Q. i hate the thought of my fiancee getting off on porn. i have found a collection of it on his computer and was nearly phsically sick. I know this is as people say normal. but it wasent normal 100 yrs ago when marraiges actually servived. When other ...
A. 14 June 2006: Alot of men do it out of boredom. They cant see why we go fruit the loop at it. They need stilmuli to get off, sounds shallow, but wouldnt you rather he did that than was actually physically cheating ? Its a quick release for them, some men when ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, period was very light, could I still be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex, I got my period but it was very light compared to normal, even though I got my period could I still be pregnant??...
A. 14 June 2006: yes you can very much still be pregnant with a light period, my sister had 3 light periods when she was pregnant. Its just he body adjusting. Take a pregnancy test to be on the same side, and pop along to your doctor if you are still unsure. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man... ! (still)
Q. Iam still in love with this married man I lie awake everytime and imagine what it would be like if we came together heis good looking and has nice eyes and everything I feel shy when I see him but I really like him alot I deerpately would lkike to ...
A. 14 June 2006: No Angelron, he is married right ? and so are you ? From what I read on your last post, you are not happy in the relationship you are currently in, and that bares alot of how you are feeling regards to this married man. Your feeling empty and ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and a kid, says he loves seeing me. What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing a guy who has a girlfriend for nearly a year. He says the only reason he stays with his girlfreind is because they have a young child and his father left him when his was little and he vowed to never do this if he ever had ...
A. 14 June 2006: No its no way to start a family but its his choice.
I you are happy to just to see him casually and you know thats all it will ever be then good luck. Just dont go lying to yourself that its going to be more than that. Have fun with him, but... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and a kid, says he loves seeing me. What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing a guy who has a girlfriend for nearly a year. He says the only reason he stays with his girlfreind is because they have a young child and his father left him when his was little and he vowed to never do this if he ever had ...
A. 13 June 2006: Well the only risk you run with that one is being alone in the end totally. Just that while you are seeing him you are less inclined to see anybody else, so in a way its holding you back. You may not realise it, whilst being happy to see someone ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and a kid, says he loves seeing me. What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing a guy who has a girlfriend for nearly a year. He says the only reason he stays with his girlfreind is because they have a young child and his father left him when his was little and he vowed to never do this if he ever had ...
A. 13 June 2006: I wasnt saying you were naive for a second a hun, its just how long are you prepared to have your life put on hold for ? You say surely he cant spend the rest of his life with someone he doesnt want to ? Then at what point is he going to leave his ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend paranoid and controlling?
Q. i think my boyfriend of 18 months is very paranoid and insecure. im 21 with a good job and a rented home. he is 25 and does a few shifts at a pub now and then. i always feel like he's telling me i'm wrong or stupid or attention seeking but i dont ...
A. 13 June 2006: He is infact jealous, paranoid and controlling! Nobody has the right to tell us who we can an cant talk to. he should feel proud that other people fancy you, as your his gf and you two are together and hes the one your with not them. He probably ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my GF, any tips?
Q. I'm planning to have sex with my girlfriend of six months for the first time (and its my first time with anyone). What I want to know is when having sex, does the entire female body become "sensitive" when you touch any part of her body or are there ...
A. 13 June 2006: Hi there, so glad you have thought this through and want to the right thing for her as well as you. So glad that you want to make this as special as possible, shows how kind and considerate you are! The link below should be able to help you on a ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and a kid, says he loves seeing me. What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing a guy who has a girlfriend for nearly a year. He says the only reason he stays with his girlfreind is because they have a young child and his father left him when his was little and he vowed to never do this if he ever had ...
A. 13 June 2006: " he wishes there was more between you ?" in what way ? Apart from leaving his girlfriend what more does he want ? I dont think he loves you, and I dont think he ever will, this is harsh but he is using his child as an excuse for not leaving his ... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend and I just can seem to move on with my life!
Q. Hi just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to cope when an ex I'm still in love with moves on? We see each other every week as we have a child and last week he informed me that he has a new gf. I'm heartbroken and dreading seeing them tog...
A. 13 June 2006: Give yourself a little time to get over him. Then take up new challenges, and new focus's. hes moved on which means you are going to have to too. He has found someone else, and so will you. Give yourself time to get over him, but the best way is ... (read in full...)
What is an orgy?
Q. What exacty is an orgy?? Help, I feel so stupid for not knowing....
A. 13 June 2006: Eyes wide open, it doesnt make someone ignorant if they attend an orgy, not that this is my thing, but lots of people are happy to express themselves sexually at a party. Lots of these people are couples, some are singles all looking for a good ... (read in full...)
My fiance went out with friends, then home with his ex-girlfriend!
Q. Hi I am due to get married in 4 weeks to the man of my dreams but I have found out that last week he went out with his friends and ended up going home with an ex g/f. I know this because his friends took a photo of them both and he was also seen ...
A. 13 June 2006: When you say he went home with her.. was this as he needed somewhere to stay ? Was he drunk and she just took care of him ? Did they actually do anything together ? If he did then his loss, lucky you found out now! at least you can decide whether ... (read in full...)
I have an obsession and can't shake the feeling that my boyfriend is seeing someone else!
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend on and off for about 3 years. Recently I have become obsessed that he is seeng someone else and doubt and question everything he says. I dont no why I feel like this, because he loves me dearly. I have asked him if h...
A. 13 June 2006: Have you been cheated on before ? This may explain why you have doubts,.. You have insecurities for a reason, has he cheated on someone in the past, you need to identify what the insecurity is. Are you a jealous person ? Have you been like this ... (read in full...)
I called him a 'sexy beast' on his answering machine, now I'm so embarrased! What do I do?
Q. hiya. I'm 15 and I feel totally embarressed cos i went out with this boy for 2 weeks, a few weeks ago. I called him a 'sexy beast' on his answer machine on his mobile. Now I feel so embarressed about it cos we have broken up and, I dont know why, ...
A. 13 June 2006: Well chances are he wont say anything to anyone, we all say things to one another when we are going out that maybe normally we wouldnt say. Why worry about it, you said it and thats it, your obviously thought it at the time or you wouldnt have said ... (read in full...)
I don't want my mate telling everyone that we used to kiss! We're both girls!
Q. heya. I'm 14 and i dont know what to do. A few years ago me and my mate started kissing round at her house. We did it regularly when I went to her house. We were 12. Now we go to the same school and are not mates anymore (just grown apart really) ...
A. 13 June 2006: Why be emabarrased, its pretty normal to expirment when your young, i know i did! probably still am exprimenting ;o)
Most girls try it, some like it as you did, others dont! It takes two to kiss! So if she does tell its more likely she will get ... (read in full...)
Help on getting rid of strechmarks to look sexy for my husband again!
Q. What could I do about stretch marks? I'm a little insecure about my body because I have stretch marks due to child birth. I want to be able to wear sexy lingerie for my husband again, but I dont feel attractive enough to do that anymore. My husband ...
A. 13 June 2006: I dont think that anything entirely removes stretchmarks, but can help to fade them a little. I was always told that the best thing to do was to rub cocoa oil or creme on your bump twice daily when you are pregnant to avoid them as best you can, so ... (read in full...)
My period is 12 weeks late, I'm not pregnant, so what is wrong with me?
Q. Hi, My period is 12 weeks late and I dont know why. I have done a pregnancy test and it is negative and my periods are usually regular does anyone have any ideas why this could be? Thanks x...
A. 13 June 2006: Im guessig its just your body having one of its changes, are you on the pill ? This can change our cycle randomly and no one knows why, but then it settles down again. The body also changes naturally around every seven years. Have you lost an ... (read in full...)
How do I stop this embarrasing situation from happening?
Q. This is really embarrasing but something has to be done. My boyfreind suggested that he do me up the bum, so I thought, why not! We used a condom. When my boyfriend took his penis out it had my poo on it. I was really embarrased but my boyfriend ...
A. 13 June 2006: Sorry but where else do you think poo comes from! Of course its going to be there, thats the normal place for it, even if you dont need to go the loo its still there ready for the next bowel movement! Doesnt matter how clean you are you may have to ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to increase ones intelligence?
Q. Is it possible to increase ones intelligence?.. thanks...
A. 13 June 2006: The more active the brain is the more supseptive to information it becomes. Not everyone is just born clever, many do have to work at it. Knowledge is gained everyday without us realising it. I wouldnt say you can make yourself more inteligent, ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he likes me as well as two other girls!
Q. There is this guy I really really really like. He likes me, along with two other girls. What should I do? He used to like me a lot before we stopped talking because of something that happened. (I overheard something and stopped talking to him as ...
A. 13 June 2006: Well if hes got the pick of the girls, he's probably deciding which one of you to date first!! But if you like him break the ice and talk to him. But its likely that you stoppped talking before so he may want to date one of the others hes ... (read in full...)
I know he just wants to be friends with them to get back at me....what can I do?
Q. Hi I am curantly in a relationship where at first it was just to get away from my ex boyfriend Cory. but no matter what I do he is always there. now he has decided to try to be friends with my close friend and cousin.I know it is just to get back ...
A. 12 June 2006: He will soon get fed up if you show your not bothered by it. Hes doing it to irritate you, and clearly it has. Be the bigger person and let him get on with it and carry on as normal, let him see hes not getting to you even if he is... show him is ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a boy has an erection?
Q. hi im 15. if you were talking to a boy how would u know if they had an erection? or if they were just walking past, would you know if they had an erection?...
A. 12 June 2006: Not sure why you want to know if he has an erection ? Boys of that age get erections for all sorts of reasons, but just because they fancy a girl! Your only 15 so I wouldnt be worrying about all that just yet. When your 16 and you embark on a ... (read in full...)
I want her number, but I don't know what to say!
Q. My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!). I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dr...
A. 12 June 2006: Would just like to say honey that no matter how many times you post this same question, or post it in a similar way, you are likely to get the same advice! If you are really interested go get her number and take a chance, if not you really are ... (read in full...)
He is sweet and very courteous, always compliments me, does this mean that he likes me ?
Q. I like this guy, he's sweet, courteous and likes me too. well i think he does. he told me i was beautiful, and when we were talking about fun i said i didnt have much of it, he said well u need a boyfriend, i said im looking. would that have went ...
A. 12 June 2006: I would definately say he likes you.. Sounds like a good idea to wait till the deal is done and then maybe slyly ask him out. hes made the right noises in your direction and your already keen, so maybe that was his aim, to get you interested, but ... (read in full...)
How do I get through the World Cup ? Need some attention from him, any ideas!?
Q. I know many women will be able to sympathise with me on this problem - I'm sick of my man leaving me alone to watch the World Cup!!! He's mad about football but now, there's like 3 matches on a day and I never get any attention whatsoever!! Mos...
A. 12 June 2006: Well being totally football mad myself, I cant see your problem lol sowwie,.... The thing is if you cant beat him join him! lol I can sympathise, maybe stike a deal with him, tell him that you wont complain about him watching the football if he ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to just have fun for right now, or will I get hurt in the end?
Q. Is it ok to just have fun? I met this gorgeous guy a few weeks ago didn't think I'd have a chance with him but we talked then snogged and have now begun a very casual physical relationship. Both of us have come out of long term relationships a few ...
A. 12 June 2006: I agree go out and be happy, have some fun, but you do run the danger of falling for him. I know you say its lust, but well he makes you feel this good, he has filled a gap that your ex left, be careful that once this no strings guy walks out that ... (read in full...)
Are we underage to have sex?
Q. hi, i need help to find out if my boy friend and i are illegal. my boy friend is 17 and i'm only 15. we've been dating since last september it will be exactly 10 months this year. he doesn't turn-18 until next march 9th and i wont turn 16 until may ...
A. 12 June 2006: Ahh in that case I see why you were so specific about the age... Here is an account I found online.... bit long winded.
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"(1) A person is guilty of sexual misconduct with a minor in the first degree when the person has, or knowingly causes a... (read in full...)
Are we underage to have sex?
Q. hi, i need help to find out if my boy friend and i are illegal. my boy friend is 17 and i'm only 15. we've been dating since last september it will be exactly 10 months this year. he doesn't turn-18 until next march 9th and i wont turn 16 until may ...
A. 12 June 2006: Dependant on where you are from it would vary, here is a list of the ages of consent around the world!!
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm... (read in full...)
If I leave to get away from his accusations, I'll break up our family!
Q. Should I Leave My Husband And Break Up The Family Unit? When I met my husband it was a bit of a whirlwind romance, I had fallen pregnant, got engaged and bought a house within the 1st year. We married in July 2000 and should be celebrating our 6th ...
A. 12 June 2006: The thing is thats most prominent is his sudden need for alcohol, or as this always been the case ? If not you need to address why he suddenly drinks like he is and hides behind it, or if it is a long term thing, then he needs to also address how ... (read in full...)
Can my lying crush and I be friends after all that has happened?
Q. I have been in love with the same guy for 4 years now and we dated and planned on being together, but he kept lying so I moved on, and now he hates me. Is there any way to make this better? I know we can't be together but it would be nice if we ...
A. 12 June 2006: Being friends after a break up is always hard, mainly because one party wants to keep it that way in the hope of rekindling the relationship. This in turn leads to more heatache if the other party doesnt want to. You say dated him, and were in ... (read in full...)
14 years old & pregnant. What do I do?
Q. I am 14 and i know you are all probably thinking what is 14 year old doing with a sex life and I know I shouldn't be thinking of boys and sex yet, but I slept at my boyfriends house for the first time and we ended up having sex for the first time. ...
A. 12 June 2006: Tell your mum. She is the closest to you. She may be hurt, but will want whats best for her little girl. Yes you did wrong and you now know why it was wrong... By telling your mum, you will get all the support you need, whether you keep the ... (read in full...)
My father in law is still harrassing me
Q. Hi, I'm back again with "I am not comfortable with the attention I'm getting from my husband's father!". I know it should tell my hubby about this matter but I am SO AFRAID! DAMN AFRAID! Yesterday, we visited my in-law again as my sis in-law i...
A. 12 June 2006: Well I think that you do need to tell your husband, if you keep getting harrased its not very nice! I know its hard but well maybe give this creep one more chance, if he does anything like this again in the slightest tell him that you will have no ... (read in full...)
I slept with a man I like from work, help!
Q. there is a guy i work with we have been flirting and emailing all day long.i bumped into him on a night out and we ended up sleeping together and had an amazing night.i really like the guy but i feel that now he doesnt want anything more to do with ...
A. 12 June 2006: Only one way to find out! Mail him, break the ice! Its always hard when these things happen around the work place. He could just be feeling as awkward as you are, and doesnt know how to play it, so he too is feeling embarrased. Maybe mail him, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being difficult!
Q. I'm going through hell with my b.f of 1 yr! Saturday, I found him chatting with his ex (whom he dumped miserably while she was pregnant... for me. She had an abortion). Everything was fine till Friday. And on Saturday I had the feeling somethin...
A. 12 June 2006: Well looking at whats written here in, you say you are disgusted with him and you cant take is crap anymore. I think you have made up your own mind. Hes obvioulsy not that nice a person or he wouldnt carry on like he does, double standards are ... (read in full...)
Shes in a relationship of 7 years, but always ends up close to me at meetings, she is always chatting and flirting with me, is she actually interested in me ? (long)
Q. Flirting with a taken woman? I have been in an amateur theater group for about 2 years. Last November(2005), some new members joined our group; one was a young woman, Jessica. From the first moment we saw each other, we engaged in intense, eye con...
A. 12 June 2006: She just enjoying the attention that you give her, and knows that you fancy her. Keep it simple be friends, but i dont think there will be a great deal more than that. She has her boyfriend, she clearly loves him, your just a bit of fun when he ... (read in full...)
BF of 9 years was unfaithful but says he doesn't have feelings for this other woman!
Q. I need help please. I recently found out that my boyfriend of 9 years was being unfaithful to me. He is at university and we live 300 miles apart. I discovered as I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right and looked on his mobile phone, and ...
A. 12 June 2006: You have broken up. He cheated. He couldnt have loved you enough in the first place if he went off and had sex with someone else. Stop analysing it, you are just prolonging the agony. So what if he doesnt care about her, why is this now your ... (read in full...)
Was he really talking to his sister?
Q. My b/f and i were at his apartment last night. We were in his bedroom and his phone rang indicating a text message. It was almost 2 am. He goes to the other room to get his phone and said it was his sister. He stays there for a minute or two and i ...
A. 12 June 2006: It could be completely innocent, and its clear you dont trust him. Is it that because you dont trust him that you have blown this out of proportion ? It was probably a slip of the tongue on his part, and you heard it and put 5 together! You then ... (read in full...)
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