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I live in herts along with my Lovely Staffordshire bull terrier Archie and two lully cats! Rosie and Umbro!
Anyway, I stumbled across this site a couple of years back now and became addicted straight away! Anyway my friends used to always tell me that I gave good advice and I am a good listener.
I guess I try to put myself in other peoples situations and its easier looking in when your not directly involved. So anyway I gave this a shot, and here I am, I have had lots of positive feedback from people who have posted questions and I have done my best to advise, so I must be doing something right!
If I only make one person's life better with the advice I give then its worth it!
I like to make people happy and help if I can. I will go that extra mile if it will make someone smile!
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Is there anything I can do to make my periods lighter!?
Q. i have really heavy periods and would really like have lighter ones. is is possible to get medication and what would it do? many thanks...
A. 20 June 2006: Carebear made a good point. The medication she mentions Ponstan, is an anti imflamotary type drug, so helps with the cramps. Its also been proven to reduce the heaviness of periods. So it might be an option for you if you didnt want to go on to ... (read in full...)
Why does his penis grow to different sizes when erect?
Q. Hi, I've been with my bf awhile now and i've noticed that his penis seems to be different sizes when erect. Its been kind of thick and about 4 or 5 inches and then other times quite long, maybe 2 inches longer then that. I know that some guys add a ...
A. 19 June 2006: Well I think this can be quite common. Ive noticed this before, sometimes a man wont be as aroused as he has been before, or something makes him even more aroused another time and the penis is bigger. if for instance he has already masterbated ... (read in full...)
Dating and thinking about sex in the future
Q. so each day i fall a little more in love with my boyfriend when i talk to him or see him. we've briefly talked about sex and whether or not hes ready or im ready and i asked him how he knows and questions like that. we are both virgins @ 19, which ...
A. 19 June 2006: The site below has some good info on I and think you may find it of some use! Glad you have been patient and are looking out for each other!
http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
Take care x x... (read in full...)
I am jealous over my husband, what shall I do???
Q. hello, im 36 been with my husband for 14 years married four months ago, in all we have a good relationship,but i struggle with jealousy to the point i tried to end my life,my jealousy is sparked by his need to look at other woman either i...
A. 19 June 2006: Whilst I appreciate jealousy can be hard on the other person, he really shouldnt say things like he wishes that you had a body like some of the women he sees! Thats bound to make you feel worse and feel that hes attracted to them and not you and ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to make my periods lighter!?
Q. i have really heavy periods and would really like have lighter ones. is is possible to get medication and what would it do? many thanks...
A. 19 June 2006: You can pop along to your doctor and they can prescribe the contraceptive pill for you. This will make your periods noticably lighter, might not happen straight away but it will make a difference, you will become regular, and sometimes this can ... (read in full...)
Why is his tongue cold!!?
Q. Weird question: Every guy I have kissed so far has had a warm tongue but recently I made out with a guy whose tongue was cold!!What's that all about?...
A. 19 June 2006: Hmm does sound strange I have even done a web search and found nothing! I suspect that he did indeed eat or drink something cold prior to kissing you. Maybe kiss him again and see if hes warmed up now! tee hee... ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend wants to carry on having sex with me
Q. my x boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex with him i dont wont to but he wont stop going on he keeps saying he still loves me n i have feelings 4 him 2 i have had sex before but i dont feel comfatable with him xxemilyxx...
A. 19 June 2006: You say you dont feel comfortable with him, but you have had sex before ? Have you had sex with him before ?
If you really dont feel comfortable then dont do it. He is only saying he loves you so that you will have sex with him. have some self... (read in full...)
Does he or doesn't he?
Q. how can i tell if my boyfriend mastorbates?...
A. 19 June 2006: Not come across a boyfriend yet that dont!! Take it as red that he does, all males do at some point or other. Is this a problem to you that he does ? Maybe join in! Talk to him and ask him, if it bothers you, if not then theres not prob. Men ... (read in full...)
Is he still in love with his ex? He didn't delete her photos!
Q. My boyfreind and I was checking his e mail when I saw a folder and asked him to open it. Inside was pictures. One of his ex... Knowing that I saw them and was upset he didn't even delete it. Does that mean that he's still holding on to her and I sh...
A. 19 June 2006: I wouldnt really hang someone for keeping photos. Ive got photos of my ex dotted around, half i dont even know why, they are just there! Its just something that happend previously and dont really mean anything, just collect dust i suppose! My bf ... (read in full...)
If I ignore him, will he realise that he wants me?
Q. This guy I'm seeing has been been a jerk for the last month. I've maybe hung out with him twice! He says he still loves me but something always comes up and we can never hang out anymore. So I'm wondering if I should just play hard to get and not ...
A. 19 June 2006: You cant make someone miss you... they either do or they dont. Maybe he just wants a bit of space at the moment, if hes got a few things going on that need sorting it may just need time to do it. Men dont like to feel to closed in, so it could ... (read in full...)
What does vanilla mean?
Q. On the gay scene (I assume) what does vanilla mean???...
A. 18 June 2006: Another term is "lipstick lesbians" meaning Non penetrative sex between 2 women. ... (read in full...)
Anyone have saving tips?
Q. Does anyone have any tips for saving money each week? I'd love to save for a super two-week holiday but find it really hard to put any aside......
A. 18 June 2006: How about any change you get put into a pot. Anything from pennies to pounds.. you will be surprised how it soon adds up. But be concious about doing and dont delve into it only ever put money in dont take it out. It easier if its 50p's and pounds ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a bludger, or am I too focussed on money?
Q. Hello, my boyfriend and have been dating since November of last year. We go out at least once a week. The problem I have is that every time we go out, I am always the one who pays. To be quite honest, he has never bought me one thing. I know t...
A. 18 June 2006: Hes got used to you paying for everything and as you let him he will continue to do it. A relationship is about being equal, whilst we dont mind picking up the tab from time to time all the time is taking the mick. Its his responsibilty to fill ... (read in full...)
I have a nice BF but he is not the most handsome chap!
Q. hi i am 14 years old and i have a bf that is 16. he is the kindest person i have ever met. the thing is he is not the best looking guy out there. i love him to bits and has the nicest personality ever. he gives me hugs and doesnt push me into ...
A. 18 June 2006: He might not be what everyone else calls a looker, but you must fancy him right ? Dont go on what others percieve, if your happy with him, hes right for you and you get on well, then why worry about what he looks like ? We cant all be going out ... (read in full...)
Too many girls... How do I know which one to try for?
Q. I really like these 3 girls but I can't make up my mind of who to try and have a relationship with. I don't know if two of them even like me, but I like the two who don't like me more then I like the one who actually likes me. I'm confused...
A. 18 June 2006: Well there must be one that you like more, by something you have in common or something like that... Find out more about each girl, and dont go by looks alone but more the person. Once you know which one you have more fun with, have more in common ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to sort out his dental health?
Q. This is a kind of odd post. I have a new boyfriend and everything is absolutely amazing, only his teeth are really really disgusting. When he smiles you can see this nasty whitey yellow stuff acumilating on his gums and teeth. I know it's not a ...
A. 18 June 2006: Lol at the last anonoymous poster with the Austin powers movie! But being a male he probably wont get the hint, alot of men dont do hints, you have to come outright and tell them. Now i know its not the best thing to be telling someone but its in ... (read in full...)
Coming soon!
Q. i ejaculate too quicly and i wondered if anyone knew of any ways to help me. I've tryed all the pill, creams and penis rings but they don't work. I just want a method. Please help me!...
A. 18 June 2006: Well yes putting one in the bank can help, but not with all men. What I think might help, is when you get the feeling that its coming stop yourself, When i say this i mean stop the movement during sex, until it passes and then carry on, do this a ... (read in full...)
size matters
Q. Me and my boyfriend only recently started having sex, he has a quite small manhood 4 inch when erect. When we have sex he seems to get all the pleasure and always cums, however, i dont feel hardly anything. I was wondering of any sex postions that...
A. 18 June 2006: Girl on top might be a good one to try. I know my man prefers that with me as you can go slightly deeper, but everyone is different, it also means your in control. Give that a go and see if it makes a difference. Also maybe try telling him that ... (read in full...)
We're both still in school and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex one time and now I'm pregnant, but I don't know how to tell him because we are both in school. Please help!...
A. 17 June 2006: I think perhaps you should tell your parents first, or at least your mum, you going to need all the support you can get right now. Not sure how old you are but your pretty young, so dealing with this on your own is too huge! Yes if you want to ... (read in full...)
He is Mr. Right but I am Mrs. Wrong for him HELP!!
Q. i think he is mr right but he dont think i am mrs right what should i do i really love him?...
A. 17 June 2006: Why dont you think you are mrs right ? If he loves you and thinks that you are why have you got doubts ? If you can give us some more info we might be able to help, but theres not alot to go on why you dont think your right for him.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I'm pregnant....what can I do?
Q. So here is the thing... I think I might be pregnant. I havn't had a period in a month and a half and have some symtoms of being pregnant. I've taken 2 tests and they both showed up negative and my insurance won't cover a doctors visit. What should I ...
A. 17 June 2006: Home prenancy tests can sometimes be misleading, I strongy adivse seeing a doctor to get the test done there. It may be a sign of pregnancy, but could also be something else like a cyst on the ovary, something along those lines, that would also ... (read in full...)
I am about to give birth, my husband has told me that he's not attracted to me and is going to leave me after the birth what do I do?
Q. i am 40 and have been in a loving relationship for 8 yrs. we have a 5yr old girl and i am due today with our second child. my partner has told me over the last month that he feels he has lost any sexual desire for me and that we have become more ...
A. 17 June 2006: Reading between the lines, i think he is having an affair. Hes not going to admit it afterall is he. Why else wouldnt he want to try again, go to counselling, try harder. How can he say he loves you but isnt attracted to you and is going to leave ... (read in full...)
What does the term " So fit " mean ?
Q. when a boy thinks a girl is 'so fit' does that mean he fancies her?...
A. 16 June 2006: Its just another term for , shes great,attractive, pretty, cute, slim, etc all lumped into one.
So yes it means he does fancy her! ... (read in full...)
We are best friends, have both got feelings towards each other, but left it as friends, think I want more..
Q. iv got a best freind who iv been friends with for a very long time lately weve gained feelings towards each other. We decided the best thing to do is remain friends but there are many mixed sgnals as we both tell each other about other people we may ...
A. 16 June 2006: Well if you both have feelings and are both acting the same way, maybe you need to just tell him. If you know he likes you and you like him, then its only going to eat away at you. If you really cant stand him being with someone else, and hes the ... (read in full...)
She has a strict father...what can we do about our relationship?
Q. How can i help myself and my girlfriend because she's really scared of her strict father we want to make our relationship legal to everyone specially to her father....
A. 16 June 2006: Not clear on the circumstances around this.. Are you from different back grounds... is there an age difference.. What do you mean by legal to everyone.. why is her father strict, is it over everything or just you two ? I think you need to tell us a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesnt know why he loves me, should I be concerned ?
Q. My b.f. of 1 yr and I are going through a rough patch... I asked him why he loves me and he said he didn't know. Should I be worried? ...
A. 16 June 2006: Whats the rough patch, are you continually arguing and questioning him about his love for you ? Have you maybe fallen out and then said something like you dont love me.. and he's like yes I do, and then you question it ? Maybe its just a bit of ... (read in full...)
I still bleed when we have sex - how long will this continue?
Q. About 2 months ago I lost my virginity to my bf, before we actually had sex he would pleasure me with his fingers. One night we had figured I had 'popped' because I had bleed a lot. Well now that we are sexually active, I still tend to bleed. I ...
A. 16 June 2006: Okay what I was trying to establish is where the blood was coming from, either the hymen area or deeper inside. Im sensing you are quite young and that maybe you started periods a little later the most.. just a hunch and maybe could cause some ... (read in full...)
I'm married and attracted to someone else, even though I know it's wrong!
Q. Falling In Love With Someone I Should Not I am married and have a child. I love both of them. I am a Christian and know what is right and wrong. I know that having an affair would only hurt everyone involved, but... I can not stop thinking a...
A. 16 June 2006: Maybe you are just bored in your current relationship and it needs spicing up a bit. Instead of looking elsewhere at other men, look to your husband for support and guidance. Tell him you feel a bit lost, or just tell him how you are feeling, try ... (read in full...)
I know my GF is cheating on me! What do I say to her?
Q. What do I do to tell me girlfriend I know she cheating on me and not hurt her.....
A. 16 June 2006: Er, why are you worried about hurting her ? Are you not hurting anyway ? Tell her you know, just come straight out with it, hope you do have back up, or I wouldnt say anything just in case she isnt.. But if you know for sure and can prove it just ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my boyfriend loves me or one of his friends....
Q. i am in love with my boyfriend, but i think he is in love with one of his longtime friends. i also think that he doesn't care much because i never get a present or anything to say i appreciate you or i love you. what should i do?...
A. 15 June 2006: If you dont feel appreciated or loved and are miserable always thinking that he loves someone else are you sure you want to be in this relationship ? Is there a reason that you think he loves one of his long term friends ? Maybe you need to talk to ... (read in full...)
I keep thinking he's going to run off with someone else...what can I do?
Q. I'm completly paranoid that my boyfriend is going to run off with another woman cause he's had quite a few ladies in the past. no matter how many times he tells me he loves me it means nothing....
A. 15 June 2006: Well if you are feeling that down about it and everytime he tells you he loves you it means nothing, why are you still there ? We all have a past, we have all had previous relationships. We cannot judge someone by what went before, we are all ... (read in full...)
I want to be kissed soon......
Q. im 12 but very mature for my age.entering middle school and desprately wanting a boyfriend to be kissed by.any advice?help!...
A. 15 June 2006: Your young take your time, the right boy will be out there somewhere. The more you look for something the more you wont find it, have a little patience. All good things come to those that wait!
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I really love someone who has a girlfriend
Q. Hiya, I really love this guy, and he's told me that he really likes me, however he's got a girlfriend. He's said that he'd go out with me but he's recently slept with his girlfriend and doesn't want to break her heart as it was her first time. ...
A. 15 June 2006: He belongs to someone else. Leave him to it until he is free. You cannot possibly know he is the one as you are too young and havent spent enough time with him. He has already taken one girls virginty and probably doesnt have any intention of ... (read in full...)
My husband has arranged a get-together at the holiday home we just built... With everyone but me!
Q. my husband and i just finished building a vacation house. I will be going there for the first time in a week. I just found out that he openly offered for any of his co-workers, males and females to go with him to the house in October. I cannot go ...
A. 15 June 2006: Maybe he just didnt think! Maybe he assumed you would be able to go and forgot in all the excitement! It would be a bit of an underhand thing to do if he knew for defo you couldnt go... but well men do sometimes forget things and he genuinely may ... (read in full...)
I have just found out that I am dying and don't know how to tell my partner
Q. I have just found out that I am dying, but have just got engaged last week. My fiancee has noticed that I am crying all the time and keeps asking what is wrong, she seems to think I have guilty feelings about something and is starting to accuse m...
A. 15 June 2006: I think what wildthaing was saying, is that you should get out and experience life more while you can... not sure... But anyway I think you give good advice, and if it makes you feel good hun, stick with it!
Take care xx... (read in full...)
I'm 10 years old - is my boyfriend using me?
Q. Hi I am 10 and I think my boyfreind is using me. How do I find out?...
A. 15 June 2006: I think you are a little too young to be having boyfriends. If you dont like how someone is treating you leave. Try to do other things, boys will come ALOT later in life, enjoy your childhood without the need for boys, your way to young to be ... (read in full...)
I Acted in a threatening manner, she says I reminded her of her abuseful dad, she ended it and wont hear me out, what can I do ?
Q. My girlfriend dumped me two days ago over and anguement we had in which i threw a chocolate bar at the wall. She's had problems with her dad hitting her in the past and in the morning she told me that i reminder her of him cos apparrently he used ...
A. 15 June 2006: I think you are going to have to somehow regain her trust. If her dad was that abuseful it will have mentally scared her, and anything like that in the slightest is going to worry her and set her back there. You may have to give her a bit of time, ... (read in full...)
Does my co-worker like me?
Q. Does He Like Me? We are co-workers but work in different locations and in different fields. We communicate by phone and e-mail almost daily. Our phone calls last sometimes up to one hour - 25% work and 75% just getting to know each other more....
A. 15 June 2006: Okay, well it could be that he likes you or it could be that he is generally a nice person, has got to know and feels comfortable around you. It could be banter on the phone and he likes chatting about things with you as you are easy to talk to. ... (read in full...)
I still bleed when we have sex - how long will this continue?
Q. About 2 months ago I lost my virginity to my bf, before we actually had sex he would pleasure me with his fingers. One night we had figured I had 'popped' because I had bleed a lot. Well now that we are sexually active, I still tend to bleed. I ...
A. 15 June 2006: If you are still bleeding after 2 months I would suggest going back to your gyno... Ive heard that its possible to bleed for about a week after the first time you have had sex, but that in itself is due to the hymen being broken and not the cervix, ... (read in full...)
BF would rather masterbate than have sex with me!
Q. I am a very sexual person, and my boyfriend seems to be, but is not. He would rather sit at the computer and masturbate rather than have sex or fool around with me. It makes me feel very unattractive and depressed, even though he assures me that he ...
A. 14 June 2006: As yos says, why not try and embark on this together. Let him know that hes not alone in his feelings and you would very much like to take part with him. Maybe take some initiative yourself, do some exploring and introduce him to what you have ... (read in full...)
My bf's ex if pregnant! She says hes always wanted a baby with her, dont know what to do!
Q. Back to being worried about my bf's pregnant ex, i am still worried i have cried the last 4 days since i've known. Ive bein talkin to his ex today and she said that he had said to her her thats hes always wanted a baby with her i dont know what to ...
A. 14 June 2006: Maybe you need to speak to your boyfriend about this. She is of course going to say that as thats what she wants. But this is a bit of a messy situation. How long had they broken up before she announced she was pregnant, and has he told you that ... (read in full...)
What is a Fleet Eneyma ?
Q. what is a fleet eneyma and where can i buy one?...
A. 14 June 2006: Its spelt enema apparently... heres a link
http://www.enematips.com/disenfleetty.html... (read in full...)
I have just found out that I am dying and don't know how to tell my partner
Q. I have just found out that I am dying, but have just got engaged last week. My fiancee has noticed that I am crying all the time and keeps asking what is wrong, she seems to think I have guilty feelings about something and is starting to accuse m...
A. 10 June 2006: Oh David, I am so sorry to hear that, words fail me at the moment. I will do my best to advise as if I were in that position. Just be open and honest with her, it will be hard to hear at first but she needs to know to be able to be with you more ... (read in full...)
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