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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My husband wants to wait a year before trying to conceive but my irregular periods might be a problem
Q. I'm 28 and in a stable relationship. The past few months my man and I have spoken about children and when we feel will be the right time. At first M was saying he wanted to wait several years, then he said when I felt ready. I admitted to him...
A. 21 November 2011: My apologies for confusing the two.
Actually, if you just have irregular periods then it doesn't necessarily mean you won't have trouble conceiving naturally. It means you're going to have a heck of time tracking down your ovulation.
Actuall... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: Last comment for me, you've been given great advice, you know what needs to be done, you just won't do it. But that's on you. It's your choice to stay and get cheated on.
OP, he has shown no remorse for his cheating and continues to do so. Do y... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: So right before my husband deploys for afghanistan he has a hall pass to have threesomes, cheat as much as he wants because he could die the next day? I mean he's just living life to the fullest. See how ridiculous that sounds,OP? ... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: Go on and cling to a sliver of hope, it's all you have left. But don't be surprised when it nears the end of the year and he hasn't straightened out. I wonder what would it take for you to dump him?... (read in full...)
We fight so much! What should I do?
Q. I have almost been with my boyfriend for a year and we fight so much. I think I love him but then theres days when I just dont know anymore. how do I make things better and save our relationship ?...
A. 21 November 2011: What are some of the fights about? You're question is too vague, so I can't pinpoint of where you're going wrong.
1. Pick and choose your battles. Don't fight about every niggling thing.
For example, he wants to go watch the new Muppet movie... (read in full...)
I like him but he's friends with all of his ex girlfriends!
Q. I've been talking to this guy, we'll call him D. We've been talking for a week and I like him. So far. The thing is, I've been hurt so much in the past, idk what to believe. He's friends with 4 of his exse, and I'm not friends with any of mines. ...
A. 21 November 2011: Do you not have any male friends?
So what if he's friends with his exs? He's permitted to have female friends, even if they're previous girlfriends. You CANNOT tell him that he needs to stop being friends with his exs so you two can be boyfrien... (read in full...)
What should I write in my cousin's wedding card?
Q. Hi all. Well i dont have any relationship problem....my cousin is getting married this weekend and i wana write something funny, something unqiue, something that she will remember her whole life and laugh in her wedding card. Can you all please help ...
A. 21 November 2011: http://blakeflannery.hubpages.com/hub/Wedding-Card-Messages-----What-To-Write-In-A-Card
Use one of those if you're not that close to her. Or write something straight from the heart. ... (read in full...)
My friends hang out with my boyfriend behind my back
Q. My friend who I've been friends with for 4 years, acts as if she's better then me. At school she ignores me as if she's embarressed to be my friend, but on the weekends acts as if we're best friends. She calls me every weekend to hang out and its ...
A. 21 November 2011: First question:
This girl is NOT your friend, at all. Ignore her at school and tell her to stop calling you because you two are no longer friends.
You also can't make her stop flirting with your boyfriend. She doesn't care because you two aren... (read in full...)
Starting over again. Running out of time to have a family. Will men be put off by my situation when I start dating?
Q. I am 39 (40 next spring) and childless. I have just come out of a 10 year marriage which pretty much destroyed my sense of self worth / esteem. I am still a little raw but trying to move on. My hopes and dreams for a happy family life with a lovi...
A. 21 November 2011: I agree that you will encounter men who have had vasectomies or who wish to live a child-free life. However, you could be open about wanting children and maybe one of those men will reverse their snip if the relationship turns serious.
Also,... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: Your boyfriend has been sleeping with one of your friends, had a threesome, asks a bisexual girl to be his girlfriend putting you in a polygamous relationship without your input, and you're still with him why???
He still must think you're o... (read in full...)
My husband wants to wait a year before trying to conceive but my irregular periods might be a problem
Q. I'm 28 and in a stable relationship. The past few months my man and I have spoken about children and when we feel will be the right time. At first M was saying he wanted to wait several years, then he said when I felt ready. I admitted to him...
A. 21 November 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/eleven-years-together-i-am-seriously-clucky-for.html
Maybe you'll update this time.
Upon your research, are you aware that there are pills you can take now to regulate your period? Ask your gyno about Metfo... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any quotes/sayings that they live by or feel inspired from?
Q. I know this is a relationship website, but I am getting a quote painted on my wall above the mirror, I want it to be something that when I wake up and look at everyday, I feel inspired by it! Something about either, life, success, our future, ...
A. 21 November 2011: "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I am out of control, and at times hard to handle. If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." -Marilyn Monroe
"Give a girl the right shoes, and she can ... (read in full...)
What's with all the mixed signals? Was she getting close to me just because she was drunk?
Q. I'm 18 and recently started a new job. I have a female colleague a year younger who invited me on a night out with her friends. I met them in town and as it got busier we all started holding hands to avoid getting seperated. Funny thing was, I found ...
A. 21 November 2011: Quite a bit of girls get "friendly" with male friends, other males while drunk. Sometimes it's just the alcohol talking. Other times, it can be hidden feelings they wouldn't act on while sober.
Perhaps, you should do like Aunt honesty said and... (read in full...)
I like this married guy but I'm not sure that I want to be a mistress!
Q. hey, this is the first time writing to one of these agony aunt things so i'm sorry if this is long winded. long story short, a guy i'm attracted to has asked me out. he's cute, funny, intelligent.. everything i would want in a guy but never se...
A. 21 November 2011: A ship full of horny sailors and you go after a married man??? Come on now!
... (read in full...)
This girl who my fiance works with, thinks its her responsibility to wake him up every morning for work! If he doesn't answer she will keep calling like 5-6 times!
Q. My fiance and I are both 20 and well he has this girl that is his friend who also works with him and she calls my fiance every morning like an hour before he has to go to work and tells him not to be late.If he doesn't answer she will keep calling ...
A. 21 November 2011: Is she his assistant??
Does he have an issue with being late?
Has he asked her to be his alarm clock?
Do you not like this girl for other reasons? Do you think she's a threat to your relationship?
It's no one's responsibility other tha... (read in full...)
Girls' night out - girlfriend comes home drunk at 4am
Q. My girlfriend went to a nightclub for a girls' night out last night, came back at 4am and spent the first hour of today throwing up. How worried should I be? The poster for the event she went to depicts a young lady sitting down in a chair, with...
A. 21 November 2011: Does she have a curfew?
I'm confused by the third sentence. Was she so drunk that her panties came off?
Do you trust your girlfriend? Then there's nothing to be worried about. Sounds like she had too much fun with the girls and is paying fo... (read in full...)
Braces! rubberbands! I feel so ugly. All my photos next year will be ruined. And I'm a dancer. What can I do to get through this?
Q. I'm 16 years old, and in my 3rd year of high school. I recently just got braces on, not to straighten my teeth (they were already straight), but, to fix my bite. I have to wear rubberbands and all of that. I can't stand to even look at myself anym...
A. 19 November 2011: So what's your question?
You just got them put on! You're not even used to them just yet. Give yourself time and you will learn to deal with them. A LOT of people have to have braces. I know people in their mid 20s who wear them, because their pa... (read in full...)
Boyfriend may have gotten my cousin pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend are on again off again in a 2 year relationships. we have both screwed up hooked up with each others fiends and worked passed it. recently we broke up and i just got told my cousin is pregnant and there is a 50/50 chance my boyfriend is ...
A. 19 November 2011: Wait until he can submit to DNA testing before deciding.
What bothers you most that he slept with your cousin? Because you did cheat too. Or that he may have a child on the way?
If the baby is his, I would break up with him due to the poten... (read in full...)
My ex wants back a gift he gave me when we were together. Should I give it back/
Q. Hello everyone, just a quick question. My friends and I are split on the subject, so need a few opinions off you fabulous lot. My ex boyfriend text me saying he hated me. No problem for me. I didn't fly off the handle, may have ranted a bit to...
A. 19 November 2011: Perhaps he's really concerned about getting the watch back so he can hock it for drugs.
If you want to give it back, have it parcel delivered. You can't be bothered to meet up with an ex demanding back gifts when you live 50 miles away.
Anot... (read in full...)
My brother threw our long lost homeless father out. Did he do the right thing?
Q. Hey i'm conflicted. You see my father left me and my mother and my older brother when we were kids. Since then we've struggled to make ends meet. But now my older brother is successful. he's an architect now. and we're living comfortably. really ...
A. 19 November 2011: It is a bit suspicious of your father to turn up all of a sudden after your brother's success.
Why did he leave your mother? At least he apologized. Although whether the apology was real or not is disputable.
Why is you father homeless?... (read in full...)
I want to ask her to marry me - but not for 2 years. Is this acceptalbe?
Q. Hi, i've been into this relationship for over two years now and am planing to engage her with a ring and marry her like next 2years.i realy love her and am ready to settle down with her.But am not yet ready to get married now until next 2years,but i ...
A. 19 November 2011: Sure you can propose and tell her you want a long engagement for whatever reason. To comfortably plan a wedding (who am I kidding it's so stressful), your bride will need a year to get everything in order. 2 years should be plenty of time to plan a ... (read in full...)
How to locate a sibling that was put up for adoption?
Q. My husband has a younger brother that was given up for adoption. Both of his parents have passed and the only information I have is...... His birth name (which I believe was changed after the adoption) The hospital he was born in the year he was b...
A. 19 November 2011: You can go out on a limb like SoVeryConfused said and maybe post something on Craigslist. But then again, you have no idea where he could be now. Or maybe talk to some relatives in your husband's family who might know where you can start?
I HIG... (read in full...)
How to locate a sibling that was put up for adoption?
Q. My husband has a younger brother that was given up for adoption. Both of his parents have passed and the only information I have is...... His birth name (which I believe was changed after the adoption) The hospital he was born in the year he was b...
A. 18 November 2011: It depends whether or not it was a closed or open adoption.
A friend of mine has a closed adoption and would have to enlist a lawyer plus $10,000 to find out who is biological parents were. Some parents don't want their biological children... (read in full...)
What are symptoms of a ruptured uterine fibroid, and treatment?
Q. Havent been feeling well all week. Fatigue, adominal pain... woke up this morning with exteme adominal pain and bleeding. Have a history of uterine fibroids. Had intercourse on wednesday and it was a little painful. Is it possible i had one and it ...
A. 18 November 2011: http://orwh.od.nih.gov/fibroid_conference/isaacson.pdf
That's what I found by googling it.
This isn't webmd. You can self diagnose yourself on the internet all day long, but at the end of the day it's time to close the computer and cal... (read in full...)
Not sure I can put up with this troublesome "friend" any more. What to do?
Q. I just don't know what to do anymore. I've gone on here more than once about this particular subject, and every time it just gets worse and worse. It's about my friend who can't make up her mind on whether or not she wants to be a good friend o...
A. 18 November 2011: NOTE: And what have people said each time you've wrote about her? If this post is anything like the others, then people have been telling you to cut ties with this friendship. Why don't you take the advice people have given you?
Anyways, stop let... (read in full...)
Why will he poke me on facebook but not actually talk to me?
Q. Awkward warning: I slept with a guy twice, and now I can't figure out where this is going. Sleeping with him was technically cheating on my part (I'm seeing someone), so I know that really it shouldn't "go" anywhere, but nonetheless, I can't figure ...
A. 18 November 2011: I agree with Jmtmj..If you don't care, then why are you trying to decode this "poke"??
More importantly are you going to confess to your boyfriend you cheated?
The loose definition of poking is to either annoy the shit out of someone or to le... (read in full...)
Could this be a sign of cheating?
Q. I am constantly flirting with my husband. I send him sexy text messages, I shower him with hugs and kisses. He very rarely sends any messages back to me, and I don't get the same affection in return. Is it possible that he is cheating on me?...
A. 18 November 2011: Perhaps sexting does nothing for him?
It sounds like he's stressed or depressed with the insomnia and lack there of sex life.
Have you two been fighting a lot lately?
Does he have an involving job?
Was he laid off from work?
Has there b... (read in full...)
My ex is cute and flirty when he writes me so why wouldn't he keep the conversation going?
Q. ok so my ex (we broke up 2 years ago) and I are friends and I recently became single and since then he was always really cute and flirty when we met or wrote. now he is at the armed forces now and since he didn`t write -not even to my birthday I ...
A. 18 November 2011: It depends, is he deployed? If he is, then he doesn't have the time to reply back to you on daily basis.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in need of a confidence boost... might a sexy photoshoot do that or will it do the opposite?
Q. I want to give my girlfriend a boost to her confidence. I tell her regularly that she is beautiful and gorgeous, but she is still self-conscious of the size of her body. She isn't obese by any means, but she is admittedly a LITTLE on the big side. ...
A. 17 November 2011: It really depends on how self-conscious she is and her comfort level. Does she like to have her picture taken? Would she be comfortable dressing a little sexy when she insists on covering up?
You know your girlfriend best, so you know what her... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will only sleep on the couch, not with me
Q. please help my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now been staying together for the past 3 months, in the past month or so he has stopped sleeping in the bed with me and will only sleep on the couch. there has been a few times whe...
A. 17 November 2011: Do you snore loudly, talk in your sleep, kick or thrash around in bed, sleepwalk, grind your teeth, drool on his pillow, hog the covers, etc..?
My point is you must be doing something during your slumber that keeps him awake at night. Thus lea... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable around our house with teenaged daughter walking around in just underwear!
Q. Our oldest daughter is now 15 and tends to walk around the house in just her bra and underwear or nothing at all. My husband and I get on her about it all the time, but she doesn't seem to care. Will she grow out of this or will it get worse? Is ...
A. 16 November 2011: Nope can't say I ever went thru the phase of parading around in my nudie pants at 15. WTH???
Where most teenage girls feel insecure at 15, she sounds pretty confident. I find it strange she's doing this. Me and my friends remain pretty covered ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my step sister about her health/appearance? I want to help her!
Q. My step sister has a few problems that are getting seriously out of control for my parents. The first is that She is a uk size 22 now at the age of 16. She moved in with my mum and her dad (my step dad) because she cant get on with her mother who is ...
A. 16 November 2011: You can try your best with a pep talk....mainly I would be encouraging her to talk to a counselor. Assure her it's for her to get better and that they'll help her get to the point of happiness.
Other than her physical health, she needs some hel... (read in full...)
He sends me messages nearly every day - flirting.But I'm confused. Do I give this player a chance or not?
Q. I've found myself in a strange situation, I worked with this guy for about 3 years, we got on really well even had a cheeky kiss at the christmas parties, he always had a reputation as a player, so it never went any where, when he left I found out ...
A. 16 November 2011: He has a girlfriend, and she has cancer!! It's bad enough that he cheats on her while she suffers in that state..but do you really want to go behind her back with him??
This guy is a player, the most you would get from him is sex..not a relation... (read in full...)
My bf doesn't work and I pay all the bills. Please help me see this from a different perspective.
Q. I am at a tough point in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and have been best friends for 2 years before that. I love him a lot, and I think he loves me too. However, after starting to live together, the ...
A. 16 November 2011: To rectify this stressful situation, you're going to have to tell your boyfriend he needs to either find a job within this month or move out. You can't have him freeloading off of you, since you don't make enough money to support the both of you. ... (read in full...)
Wife emailing old boyfriend--should I be concerned?
Q. My question involved my wife's contact with a boyfriend she had 25 years ago. Recently, my wife noticed that her past boyfriend was divorced. She admitted to sending him an email regarding his recent divorce. At the time she seemed excited b...
A. 16 November 2011: Besides this, how is your marriage otherwise? Have you always questioned the trust with her? Any other incidents of this nature?
How much does she email him? I mean if she's constantly on the internet talking to him and neglecting time spent wi... (read in full...)
We aren't speaking but I want to wish him a happy birthday!
Q. Ok so a couple months ago I lost someone really really really special to me. And even though its been a couple of months I still miss him a lot. What makes it worst is that his birthday is coming up this Sunday and I'm wondering whether I should ...
A. 16 November 2011: Well he made the choice to skip school with you, and you two got caught. It's only fair that he face the consequences for his actions. A bit drastic switching schools, but either his mother is really anal or you're a bad influence on him.
Anywa... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my boyfriend is not as ambitious as I am
Q. The boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years with a 6 month "break-up" about a year ago. We were still hanging out all the time, being intimate so it really wasn't much of a break...so things go sometimes. Anyhow, we have been happier tha...
A. 16 November 2011: I can tell you mean well, but you are a bit too impatient. If your boyfriend was sitting in his parent's basement, smoking weed, no job, college applications on the coffee table yet to be filled out, and playing PS3 all day, then I say he has ZERO ... (read in full...)
I was a jerk and treated her badly but I can't stop thinking of her!
Q. i don't know what to do i just movied to the city and started at a new school i started dating this girl and after 2 month i became a real jerk to here started making fun of fun they next school year she never showed up know i am older i realized ...
A. 15 November 2011: Let me see if I got this, since your post lacks proper grammar and punctuation..definitely not what I would expect from a 22-25yr old.
You move to a new city and school, dated this girl, then was a real jerk to her, and the next school year she... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about the possibility that my boyfriend might cheat on me, although he's never given me any reason to doubt him?
Q. So i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We are 20 now and have been dating since highschool and I assume a lot if my issues are from unresolved conflicts in my life. I randomly get this feeling Like he's going to cheat on me or leave...
A. 15 November 2011: So your paranoia may stem from previously feeling worthless, even lack of trust in friends. People have discounted you, so you start discounting yourself.
Maybe you have thoughts of you aren't good enough for your boyfriend, that he'll see that... (read in full...)
I don't know how to take care of kids, I don't think they're cute, I don't like them or know what to do with them, and I don't want one, ever.
Q. Today I was talking with my mom, and my sister, who joined in, and they said it was wierd that I have no maternal instinct. Every woman in my family, and even a lot of men LOVE babies and kids, whenever there's a baby around, everyone coos over it, ...
A. 15 November 2011: I actually didn't want children in my late teens-early 20s...but when I hit 24 it's like a ticking time bomb went off inside me, and I had to be a mother. Married at 25, soon to be 27 next month and we're struggling with infertility.
Give ... (read in full...)
Seeing one girl and slept with another
Q. Okay I'm beginning to have a serious dilemma.. I've been exclusively with this girl (not officially dating, but basically) for about 8 months now and things have been going great. I started college in the fall and she just happened to be moving ...
A. 15 November 2011: Dating as in not officially boyfriend/girlfriend?? Did you two agree upon being exclusive???
I'm going to go with you two aren't defined seeing as she doesn't want to know if you've slept with anyone else. I don't blame her.
If you two ar... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about the possibility that my boyfriend might cheat on me, although he's never given me any reason to doubt him?
Q. So i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We are 20 now and have been dating since highschool and I assume a lot if my issues are from unresolved conflicts in my life. I randomly get this feeling Like he's going to cheat on me or leave...
A. 15 November 2011: Elaborate on these unresolved conflicts in your life. It's necessary info.
Are your parents divorced? Has either spouses cheated?
Without knowing more of a background about you and the above info, I can't tell where your paranoia stems f... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my boyfriend is not as ambitious as I am
Q. The boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years with a 6 month "break-up" about a year ago. We were still hanging out all the time, being intimate so it really wasn't much of a break...so things go sometimes. Anyhow, we have been happier tha...
A. 15 November 2011: What was the nature of the break?
Give the guy some credit, he's working on his life. What's the rush?
What exactly are these ambitions that you want him to share??
I see nothing wrong with him wanting to finish school and a get a job b... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my ex boyfriend again? It's been 7 months.
Q. Hi, So my ex and I used to talk 24/7 all the time for about 6 months and then we dated and broke up because he wasn't mature enough to hold a relationship in the summer. Now we've had no contact whatsoever for about 7 months. I only see him twi...
A. 15 November 2011: You don't owe him anything, and you definitely don't have to be friends.
I wouldn't say you're ignoring him since you do respond when he talks to you. But don't feel obligated to start the conversation. Look at him as an acquaintance since yo... (read in full...)
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