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How do I french kiss???

Q.   My bf and i have dated two other times before, so we just pick up from where we left off....He tried to french kiss me but i pulled away. I told him why i did and he said he didnt want to pressure me. But now i rly want to... oh and the reason y...

A.   26 April 2011: It comes really naturally just tilt your head and you'll know what to do, honestly :)... (read in full...)

Am I too old fashioned about sex?

Q.   It seems everyone is having sex these days. I'm only fifteen but I believe in 'no sex before marriage', I don't know why I believe in this because none of my family do. Everyone at school says I should try having sex with someone, I'm not at all ...

A.   18 April 2011: I admire you so much, if you dont want to have sex then dont, its a brilliant attitude to have!... (read in full...)

We've tried to have sex and we kiss a lot but my step brother pretends it doesn't happen!

Q.   Ok.... here it goes... my mom divorce my dad and is now engaged. my moms future husband has 2 kids plus the 3 they have together. 1 is a boy who is 14 and the girl is 13 my age. well i have known my stepbrother for about 9-10 years and we r pretty ...

A.   5 December 2010: First off, you should NOT be trying to have sex when your only 13, its agianst the law and completely imoral. Secondly i think you should talk to him about it. If hes going to be like that, do you really want to sleep with him?... (read in full...)

I couldn't have got pregnant from this, right?

Q.   I'm really worried... Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around. While he was fingering me, I touched his penis... but as far as i can remember, I didn't felt anything wet on his package. after touching his penis, i touched his body and his ...

A.   2 December 2010: your very wise to ask, but your not pregnant it is unusal for sperm to live outside the body for very long... (read in full...)

How much added protection does the pulling out method provide?

Q.   How much added protection does pulling out really provide? I went on the pill so we didn't have to bother with condoms anymore, but he insists on pulling out on top of that. Does that really help? It seems so unecessary to me. It's not very romantic ...

A.   21 November 2010: If he's that insecure I suggest the implant it's 99.9% affected the pull out method could fail stopping the pill and getting the implant is a wiser idea, in cases of you being ill unlike the implant it effects it. ... (read in full...)

She doesn't like to hear "I love you" Why?

Q.   My girl friend doesn't like to hear me say i love her,why?...

A.   21 November 2010: i think she's been hurt in the past.... (read in full...)

If I'm the perfect girlfriend then why did he break up with me?

Q.   This is eating me up inside...My boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me on thursday and his reasons were very unclear, here is some of what he said: I feel like im not being a good boyfriend to you, you have done nothing wrong and you have been the ...

A.   21 November 2010: Im afrid its probably another girl my dear. But because you are so perfect he can admit it because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Hes not worth it move one.... (read in full...)

How can I tell my future husband about the past sexual abuse?

Q.   I was sexually abused over a period of four years, I was eight years old when this took place. I lost my Mother at the age of twelve. After my Mother's death my Father used to suggest that I invite a group of girlfriends over for the weekend,...

A.   20 November 2010: i was abused for 3 years, and i told my partner outright. its the only way they understand.... (read in full...)

I am sick and tired of people perceiving me as shy and quiet. How can I change that?

Q.   I might not be the most outgoing person on the planet but I am not shy. Not any more. As a teenager I used to be very insecure and shy and I practically spent my teen years alone in my room. But I have made tremendous progress since then and today I ...

A.   19 November 2010: You want people to notice you? Go scream your name from the rooftops women! Let everyone know your there don't be ignored but a part of society if you want something in life you'll have to go get it!... (read in full...)

In love and hurting!

Q.   I have recently met a man who is kind, loving, considerate and honestly for the first time in my life, I feel truly in love. I understand the idea of infatuation and know the difference between infatuation and love. We are from different states...

A.   16 November 2010: ive learnt the hard way, its not love if it hurts, it may feel similar but its NOT.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?

Q.   here is the thing i am 15 almost 16 in the uk -legal age of consent is 16 - any ways . me and my boyfriend of 2 years he is 24 okay now there is a age gap i am very mature for my age and my parents now know we are in a relationship and they thi...

A.   15 November 2010: My sister fell pregnant, however her circumstances were different, she told my mum outright ok my mum did go skitts but she got over it and so did my dad, she had an abortion as the father was a peadophile and it was best for the whole family. I ... (read in full...)

Is he really in love? Can I trust him?

Q.   Why would my boyfriend do that?? is he really in love? ive been with my boyfriend for 4months now and he tells me he loves me everyday.. hes soo sweet and nothing compare to the guys ive been with in the past. the guys ive been with in the past che...

A.   14 November 2010: My boyfriend is EXACTLY the same, tells me he loves me everyday and would do anything for me! He'd NEVER hurt me because he IS inlove with me. Just like your boyfriend is completely besotted by you!!... (read in full...)

She's a virgin and I fingered her and now she's bleeding

Q.   Hey guys, I have a real problem. On saturday I fingered my girlfriend for the first time, and I went a little far. Also, I had a VERY VERY VERY tiny amount of precum on my finger, (less than a dab, and I didn't have a previous ejaculation). An...

A.   12 November 2010: If shes a virgin and shes never been fingered its likely you broke her himan if you went too far, thats whats causing the bleeding, however i think the nausia/headaches are irrelivent and could just be a bug she picked up!... (read in full...)

Stay together for the kids?

Q.   I have to ask, and I would appreciate people’s responses who have actually dealt directly with divorce, whether that is being the child involved or the parents. My parent’s divorced when I was about 8 years old; my father had been kicked out of t...

A.   12 November 2010: Dont stay together for the kids, if you argue all the time it is not good for them. I speak from experience. My parents argued infront of me 24/7 when i was young and i ended up agressive because of it. If you not happy in your marriage your ... (read in full...)

I added this girl on Facebook without knowing she's a blackmailer!

Q.   Ok Well, About last month...some girl added me to face book. I didn't know her. Then later on I had her on msn messenger list..We started chatting, and then she started getting nasty and was almost demanding me to put on my web cam. It was getting ...

A.   12 November 2010: To be honest its probably just someone that fancies you at school/collage/work place! And they're clearly nuts and just want a bit of control, my advice report her on facebook and messenger. If all else fails set up a new messenger and facebook, if ... (read in full...)

Did I just take her virginity?

Q.   We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...

A.   12 November 2010: Im afraid you probably took her virginity.... (read in full...)

How to make your breasts sprout?

Q.   i have a problem i didnt get my period and i and i am 14 years old and my weight is 37 and i am not tall and i dont have boobs i dont know how make them grow?...

A.   11 November 2010: You cant make them grow! Im 14 too, but you have to give it time. You havent started your period yet so chances are your hormones havent kicked in! As soon as you start getting your period you boobs will grow like anything!... (read in full...)

Barking up the wrong tree?

Q.   HI! A fellow townsman and I connected strongly on the basis of some mutual political views and doing committee work etc. We spend a lot of time together doing such things. I know there is a strong personal interest on both our parts, and we give ...

A.   11 November 2010: I can see the strong attraction but as long as your not in love with him, i dont think you should break up a relationship, also if you are barking up the wrong tree it could ruin your a his personal/business relationship... (read in full...)

What is she implying?

Q.   If a girl in an IM chat (who is close and you like) says "you exist in me" - What is this implying?...

A.   11 November 2010: Your important too her... (read in full...)

Could my girlfriend be gay?

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. We don't live together, but we see each other virtually every day, but now usually only for an hour or two due to her working a lot. I am 29 and she is 33. For the first 18 months of our relationsh...

A.   11 November 2010: Ask her outright if shes a lesbian, its the only way out. Your clearly head over heels in love with her but you deserve the truth the best relationships work through communication ask her x... (read in full...)

Could my girlfriend be gay?

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. We don't live together, but we see each other virtually every day, but now usually only for an hour or two due to her working a lot. I am 29 and she is 33. For the first 18 months of our relationsh...

A.   11 November 2010: I think you should ask her outright. Its not fair for you too be messed around considering your obviously head over heels about her. Talk to her and see where it goes x... (read in full...)

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