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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Is this an appropriate message for a cheating ex?
Q. Can I send this to my ex who cheated on me? " Remember when you said to me that I'm a strong person, I thought I was but do you think I'd be here with you right now if I was? I'm weak callum, weak for coming back to you while knowing there's ...
A. 17 December 2011: I'm sorry for your loss. You're kinda taken aback when an ex boyfriend dies. One of mine died this May.
Sorry you didn't get the closure you needed..but ex's rarely give us that satisfaction. ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my ex boyfriend again? It's been 7 months.
Q. Hi, So my ex and I used to talk 24/7 all the time for about 6 months and then we dated and broke up because he wasn't mature enough to hold a relationship in the summer. Now we've had no contact whatsoever for about 7 months. I only see him twi...
A. 15 November 2011: You don't owe him anything, and you definitely don't have to be friends.
I wouldn't say you're ignoring him since you do respond when he talks to you. But don't feel obligated to start the conversation. Look at him as an acquaintance since yo... (read in full...)
Are my feelings warranted, of feeling a bit disappointed after he said that I could join his family for Christmas?
Q. I am very disappointed and let down by my supposed male friend who is gay and who has a boyfriend. I have known him for 15 years. He is aware that I do not have any family or support where I live and knows that I did not want to be alone on Xmas ...
A. 15 November 2011: Where is your family? How come you can't spend the holidays with any of your relatives?
Given the circumstances, I think you should cut him some slack. The holidays aren't always so cheery for everyone. His family most likely can't bring themselv... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy my wife? I think I'm too small.
Q. i am 32yrs old and my penis is 4.5inch(erect).next month is my marrige. how can i satisfy my wife? plz help me ! i am worried about my penis! plz help me frnds....
A. 15 November 2011: Call me crazy, but isn't it a little too late to be worrying about your penis size??
Has your wife made any snide comments about your penis size? If not, then don't worry about it. I'm sure she'll be more than satisfied. ... (read in full...)
Next month I'm meeting my Boyfriend's family for Christmas. But he'd rather I didn't give them presents. How will it look if I arrive empty handed?
Q. I have a dilemma of etiquette on my hands! Next month, I'll be meeting my boyfriend's family for the first time; his parents, grandmother and three siblings. My boyfriend has a rather acerbic relationship with his siblings - an older brother and ...
A. 15 November 2011: If you have the $$ to drop on gifts for the whole lot, then go right ahead.
I doubt his family expects you to come over with gifts for everyone. You don't know these people!! And they most likely won't have any gifts for you. Christmas isn't ab... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 14 November 2011: Is your wife depressed? She may need to visit her GP if she has the signs of depression.
I mean tell her she's pretty when she's not all dolled up. ... (read in full...)
Whenever I manage to save up a bit of money, my boyfriend expects me to treat him to a big dinner
Q. Just wanted to ask, is it fair that my boyfriend expects me to pay for dinner sometimes (for the both of us) when he's the one with a pretty good, stable part time job (24hr) and I'm unemployed (because my college schedule is loaded)? I'm not tryi...
A. 14 November 2011: What's appalling is he's fully aware of your financial situation!! If he wants to go out and dine at these lavish restaurants then he can foot the bill!! Your boyfriend should be ashamed of himself for MAKING a girl with NO job pay for all of an ... (read in full...)
Sex while music is playing?
Q. Hello everyone, just after a few personal opinions here! Do you think it's a good idea to have sex for the first time while music's playing in the background or can that be a distraction from (or to) your partner? I'm thinking classical music, ...
A. 14 November 2011: I find it pointless, since you're not going to be paying attention to what's playing and it will fade in the background.
If you want to play some then go for it. Just don't play Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get it On", too cheesy. ... (read in full...)
My first boyfriend ... And how do I tell my overprotective dad?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I have just started to go out with this boy. This is my first ever boyfriend. My overprotective dad says I can't have a boyfriend till I'm 15?!? But he knows I'm trustworthy and I've told my mum already and she said she is ...
A. 14 November 2011: Do you expect him to be happy about you going against the rules and dating a boy at 13?? Of course he's going to be mad and tell you "no"!
I know in your teen years you think your parents don't know what they're talking about, and that your sit... (read in full...)
Is being loud a bad thing?
Q. Is there a problem with being too loud during sex? My boyfriend and I don't have sex like we used to because he said I'm too loud and his roomates are home and we all live together. ...
A. 14 November 2011: Being loud during sex while your roommates are home is just rude. No one wants to hear your shrieking or moaning..it's just tactless.
If you MUST have sex while your roommates are home, cover your mouth with a pillow or turn on the TV in your roo... (read in full...)
Eleven years together. I am seriously clucky for children. He wanted children. Now his mind is closed to the idea. what can I do?.
Q. I'm feeling extremely maternal at the moment and it's causing problems in my relationship. I'm 28, almost 29 and I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years. We've only been living together for just under a year. I know. Things have moved slow ...
A. 13 November 2011: There's a few issues that stand out.
-You and your boyfriend not being on the same page when it comes to children.
- Your boyfriend is moving at a snail's pace in this relationship.
Problem is you can't sway your boyfriend's about ch... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 13 November 2011: Oh boy, I wouldn't want you teaching my daughter. I believe you need to keep your hands to yourself.
Hopefully, no students who are in love with their teachers will be reading this and using this as encouragement.
You're not that attracted t... (read in full...)
His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...
A. 13 November 2011: Getting rid of your online friends...Not up for debate.
Getting rid of your dating profile when you're in a relationship...That's a must!
You still having your dating profile up says that you're still keeping your options open and that you're ... (read in full...)
Is my FWB hinting that he wants more?
Q. Hi everyone, This isn't so much of a problem; it's more of a question. Me and this man have been having sex for 9 months. I thought we were fwbs. I asked him and he said "we are taking things slowly, which is good." I was just wondering what y...
A. 13 November 2011: Ask him what he means by that comment, that's the only way to know for sure.... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 13 November 2011: If he's trying to make an effort then you need to cut him a little slack. He's showing you that he wants to move forward with you. His actions right now say a lot.
Also keep in mind that if you want to stay with him, then you're going to have to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated three times, is that reason to dump him?
Q. Hi there. I've gotten together with this guy about 2 weeks ago after we had been dating for 3 months. I found out he's cheating on me just three days after we got together and yet he's done it 3 times already. I'm really confused since he seems t...
A. 13 November 2011: Do you REALLY have to ask this question? I'm sorry, but this should be a no brainer.
You two lingered in the gray dating area for 3 months...who's idea was it to finally make this relationship official? Is he aware that you two are official... (read in full...)
The kiss was a step too far
Q. This is a little embarrassing to talk about. Well, my roommate and I had started experimenting with each other earlier in the year, and now we do quite a bit of stuff on more of a regular basis. Anyway, recently while we were messing around, ...
A. 13 November 2011: Straight guys don't experiment with other guys. There's no helping a brother out in the sexual department. Plain and simple.
Your roommate is seriously in denial about his sexuality, or really confused. It's sort of expected, because at 18-21 yo... (read in full...)
A boy I like is ill with a tumor. I don't know if I want to tell him I like him, and I'm here for him, or say nothing?
Q. The boy i like at school has been diagnosed with a tumour on his windpipe. Im really scared for him that it could be cancer as i dont want to see him die. I've never told anyone I like him and hes not at school because hes in hospital. Im conf...
A. 13 November 2011: Hopefully it's a benign and they can remove it without causing damage to his windpipe.
Given his current physical state, now is not the time to confess your feelings. He needs to focus on his health and getting thru a surgery, chemo, etc.
... (read in full...)
He's supposed to be happy with his new wife, why is he bothering me on yahoo, msn and fb?
Q. My exboyfriend just got married two months ago. He sent me a friend requeston yahoo without any message on it and I decide to delete it and that was what i did.This was four days ago and he only been married for two months. The next day he sent me ...
A. 12 November 2011: Block him on FB, delete your accounts on any other networking sites, and open up new ones with different usernames..That way he won't be able to contact you at all.
If you haven't been harassing him like he says, then there's nothing to worry ab... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 12 November 2011: There's just some information you don't disclose...
-Sexual history, i.e. how many people you've slept with.
-Any skeletons in your closet that you don't want let out, such as maybe cheating on a past boyfriend but you haven't cheated since, c... (read in full...)
Wondering for the future: Would a 5yr age difference between a 23yr old woman and an 18yr old guy be wrong?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering what people think of 4/5 year age gaps in relationships? To give you a bit of backstory - I used to suffer with really terrible anxiety. At 15 I had a sort of breakdown, dropped out of school and just stayed at home. For about...
A. 12 November 2011: It really doesn't matter what other people think of the age gap, it's what you think. As long as you're not dating someone under the legal age of consent, then you're well within the right.
The only other things to consider when there's an age g... (read in full...)
Where can we go to get him a girl and what can I do to help him stop being so negative?
Q. My friend is 21 years old and he constantly moans that he can't get a girlfriend and that every girl he's been with only lasts a month!He keeps asking me whats wrong with him and I lie to him saying I don't know but the fact is He's a very needy and ...
A. 12 November 2011: If you're serious about helping him, then you need to tell him flat out what he's doing wrong. Be critical, no sugarcoating the truth. Tell him he's needy and that his negative attitude needs a positive adjustment. Otherwise, he'll continue getting ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to get a tattoo of her ex who died and it worries me that I'll always be a second choice in her life
Q. Hi i am in a dilema my girlfriend wants to get a tattoo of her ex 's name who died it worries not cause im jealous but because im afraid of being her second choice and not being able to make her as happy as he did i dont wana tell her not to get the ...
A. 11 November 2011: Why doesn't she get a decal for her car custom made of his name, date of birth and death to remember him by?
I can understand a person wanting a portrait of their deceased mother, child, grandparent tattooed on them, but not an ex boyfrien... (read in full...)
Ideas for a first date? Would it be too forward to invite her to my apartment to watch a hockey game?
Q. alright so there is this girl in one of my classes at university and i really want to ask her out. We have gotten to know each other a bit in the 2 1/2 months that we have been in class together, we usually end up sitting next to each other and get ...
A. 11 November 2011: Watching the hockey game in your apartment is a guy's evening in, not a first date. Plus, it sends out the message you're cheapskate. Then like another poster said, it's too personal inviting them into your personal space on the first date.
You d... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my friend who is 19 has foreplay with strangers?
Q. Do you think it's bad if a girl who is only nineteen, has foreplay, but not sex with guys she's met on a night out? Because, my flatmate does this and says it's being young and having fun. She said she wouldn't ever sleep with anyone she just ...
A. 11 November 2011: your friend*... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my friend who is 19 has foreplay with strangers?
Q. Do you think it's bad if a girl who is only nineteen, has foreplay, but not sex with guys she's met on a night out? Because, my flatmate does this and says it's being young and having fun. She said she wouldn't ever sleep with anyone she just ...
A. 11 November 2011: In my opinion, that constitutes as a one night stand. Even though she didn't have intercourse, she still brought a man home did a sexual act with him and sent him packing that night or the next day with no intention of seeing him again. That IS a ... (read in full...)
I think he's technically be cheating. Should I be concerned? Considering that he is completely satisfying me?
Q. Hey... I am in a relationship that has been going on for 9 months and it has come to my attention that my bf is 'cheating' on me. I know it sounds strange but I am unsure of how I feel about this. Basically the situation is, my bf is lovely, ...
A. 11 November 2011: I agree with the rest, sex with you isn't going to make him stop his emotional cheating.
He satisfies you but do you satisfy him?
Why haven't you had sex yet? Who's idea is it to wait?
Maybe he's not satisfied. Or maybe he just is looking... (read in full...)
I'm sick of him but I don't want to lose him...
Q. im.14 and so is my boyfriend he smokes and i dont like it he trys and presures me into it but i dont want to and whrn hes with his friends he does it more but when were alone hes really sweet and makes me feel special. he just sits there and talks ...
A. 11 November 2011: This is who he is..you CANNOT CHANGE HIM. He doesn't want to change. The boy will continue to do what he wants.
I suggest you dump him because you truly can't stand the person he happens to be. ... (read in full...)
She has broken my trust - is it ok for me to ask her to no longer contact her ex's and change her phone number?
Q. my gf has recently completely broken my trust in her and its the second time she has damaged our relationship. the first was she was catching up with an ex boyfriend and lied to me about it and i later found out and second she was having an online ...
A. 11 November 2011: What chigirl said!... (read in full...)
Should I wait until my boyfriend returns from Afghanistan to break up with him?
Q. Hey everyone, Quick back story: My boyfriend is in the Marines and he is currently deployed to Afghanistan. We've been together for a year and a half and had been friends about 5 years before we started dating. The problem: I started a ...
A. 11 November 2011: Marines are such alpha males. I know because I dated a few before I met my husband.
He should be grateful for the care packages you sent, and no complaints about any of it. But at least he did say "thank you" even though it was that one time.
... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he trust me with his house key?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 months (but we dated for almost 2 years beginning in 2008). He recently moved into his own house were he lives alone but he didn't give me a key, which I didn't have a problem with or say anything about ...
A. 11 November 2011: Why did you guys break up this last time?
I can see why he has yet to give you a key. You just started back up dating 4 months ago, and he just moved into his new house. Maybe he's hesitant to give you a key because he wants to see if you guys... (read in full...)
Should I tell her about my discovery???
Q. Recently, I came home from work and my wife and I had dinner. We have an 8 month old daughter. As we were making dinner, she said the cat knocked over a bottle of wine, and spilled a bunch of wine everywhere. At dinner, she told me she was ...
A. 11 November 2011: Honestly, I would let it go.
She downed a bottle of wine because she's experiencing some post-partum depression..not the wisest choice, but I wouldn't exactly be holding an intervention for her to go to rehab. Unfortunately, she's just having a... (read in full...)
I hate my girlfriend's new haircut
Q. My girlfriend got a new hairdo the other week and I hate it, but I don't have the guts to tell her. When she said she was going for a haircut I thought she meant just a light trim like she always had but little did I know she would be coming home ...
A. 11 November 2011: It's just a haircut, it will grow out!! I mean it's not like she went out and shaved her head, that I can understand. But a bob, will grow out within a few months.
Can you deal with a longer grown out bob?
I wouldn't come right out and te... (read in full...)
Is this an appropriate message for a cheating ex?
Q. Can I send this to my ex who cheated on me? " Remember when you said to me that I'm a strong person, I thought I was but do you think I'd be here with you right now if I was? I'm weak callum, weak for coming back to you while knowing there's ...
A. 11 November 2011: If he's already your ex, then why are you asking him to choose between being in a relationship or nothing at all? At the moment, it's nothing..friends if you can honestly say you two are friends.
Personally, I wouldn't bother. He cheated on you! ... (read in full...)
A week after his wedding (not to me)...he's sleeping on my floor. HELP my head is frying ? What do I do next?
Q. Hi..I got friendly with a guy a few years ago. he was a single parent in a long distance relationship, we became friends..... I babysat the children, took them to school...grew to love all of them and we had some really fabulous 'family' times ...
A. 10 November 2011: Why is he sleeping on your floor and not in bed with his new wife??
Your post needs more details.
There's nothing you can do because he's a married man, and still got married even after you confessed your undying love for this guy. I'm so... (read in full...)
I can't see a future for us while her weed-smoking, unemployed brother is living here!
Q. Ive moved into my girlfriends home 6 months ago knowing the fact that her brother lives with her. We both have good jobs and money is not an issue but her 33 yr old brother (thats been living with her for the last 5yrs) doesnt work and hasnt since ...
A. 10 November 2011: If he's been living there the past 5 years, I'm sure he's going to continue another 5 years or so taking up space in her home. You can't make her kick out her own flesh and blood.
BUT, you can talk to her about your intentions of living together... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 10 November 2011: Like everyone else said you knew what you were getting into. The man has limited time because he is his sister's full time caretaker.
It hurts you that all his time revolves around his sister and not you. But you're forgetting that he takes wh... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in Jail. Not sure how to cope or to help him?
Q. Help please. . . So my boyfriend and I were in a car wreck on monday we are both okay for the most part the car insurance covers both of our medical bills and there is full coverage on the vehicle well after the accident we were taken to a tow yard ...
A. 10 November 2011: If he got canned why didn't he draw put unemployment?
The thing is your boyfriend knows about his child he has to support, even if you don't have a job, the state will still go after him for the money. What he should have done after he got fire... (read in full...)
My date is dating someone else! What to do?
Q. Hi all, I met a girl online and struck up a conenction over a few weeks we corresponded one way or another everyday if more than anything she seemed keener so much so she was curious as to how many other people I was chatting with and teasing me a...
A. 10 November 2011: As you've already stated it's perfectly acceptable to accept more than 1 date at a time. You two aren't in a relationship so there's no lines to be drawn.
There's nothing too alarming about this other date. The only thing I would call a red flag... (read in full...)
I think my 30 year old work associate fancies me and its making me uncomfortable
Q. hey i'm 17 i need your advice. i work in a sports centre helping teach people martial arts, mainly self defence to police and all that stuff. anyway i work closely with the head instructor and have done for nearly 2 years now. the head ...
A. 9 November 2011: Other than reminding him how inappropriate it is (which at 30, he should know better) the only other option you have is to quit.
... (read in full...)
What's going on with this girl?
Q. So had three amazing dates with this one girl I met online. Pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks or so. Things were going smoothly up until this past week haha Third date last sunday ended pretty well, with a make out outside of her c...
A. 9 November 2011: I'm surprised she contacted you again. At least she had enough tact to tell you that. Still, it doesn't soften the blow. Sorry to hear that. Don't get too discouraged, you did everything right. It's her loss. Really it's for the better.... (read in full...)
She says she cant live with me but cant live without me! What can I do to get rid of my wife's inconsistent behaviour?
Q. I am married for the last 20 months . I am 28 whereas my wife is 27. 20 months back, I met her in a stadium while watching football match and I lost my heart to her within no time. In the stadium, offered her 600000 Euros to marry me as I was ...
A. 8 November 2011: Thank you Cindy for that currency conversion!
I'm having a difficult time taking this story seriously as well. Have you paid her the money as promised? Or was there some sort of catch involved?
It doesn't make any sense for her to be upset ... (read in full...)
I think my 30 year old work associate fancies me and its making me uncomfortable
Q. hey i'm 17 i need your advice. i work in a sports centre helping teach people martial arts, mainly self defence to police and all that stuff. anyway i work closely with the head instructor and have done for nearly 2 years now. the head ...
A. 8 November 2011: This man is very unprofessional and highly inappropriate.
Aren't there male and female locker rooms? I don't understand how you keep on seeing him naked and undressing.
You need to go to the HR manager or coordinator right away, or your in... (read in full...)
What's going on with this girl?
Q. So had three amazing dates with this one girl I met online. Pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks or so. Things were going smoothly up until this past week haha Third date last sunday ended pretty well, with a make out outside of her c...
A. 8 November 2011: The issue is that you're continuously displaying interest in her but her end seems to lacking.
-She's hardly texted you, in which it only texts a matter of seconds to text back. For a lot of women, their phone is a much needed social connecti... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 11 February 2011: Woah, sounds like he's not over his ex if he refuses to delete the pictures and telling you he cannot invest himself in this relationship. Then what does he want this relationship for?
I don't blame you for being insecure over his ex, he's sti... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: It really takes a long time for a guy to learn how to open up. Some guys tend to have poor communication, that usually is because of a lack of dating experience of being a bachelor for so long. You just have to let him know that you're in it for the ... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: Ah that explains things he's always been reserved and doesn't know how to open up. If he's not communicating with you then the relationship will always have these issues.... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: How recent is this evident chat? There should be a date somewhere on the paper. If it's recent then I would confront him over it, seeing as you snooped and it would continue to bother you if you tried to keep that information to yourself. Now if ... (read in full...)
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