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... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I've been hoping we'd lead to marriage but haven't seen him since 2008!
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Is it bad if I don't want to take my boyfriend to Homecoming?
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A. 26 September 2011: Really? Guys don't really care to go to homecoming!!
Homecoming/prom/formal dances is really a girl thing that guys get forced to go to. Guys don't find much enjoyment dressing up in a tux, with their moms fretting over their hair, and taking a... (read in full...)
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It's not difficult for Americans to visit the UK, but it is pricey..airline tickets start at about $2,000. The American economy is still ro... (read in full...)
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A. 25 September 2011: I know absolutely nothing about leading a double life (except for it's not healthy and confusing for that person trying to live both) or cross dressing.
What I do know is that if you told your girlfriend about this she would dump you.
It doesn'... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had a drunken fling and now the guy won't leave us alone
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Is dinner a good idea for a first date?
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I got a new boyfriend over the weekend (by text!) what will I say when I see him at school?
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A. 25 September 2011: Ahhh teenage issues...
You say what you would say to him if you were texting. Just act calm and casual, walk up to him, smile, say "hey", then ask him if he wants to walk you to your class, then talk about what you two did this weekend. Maybe as... (read in full...)
My wife has told me she is disappointed in the way I proposed to her
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A. 25 September 2011: How long have you two been married? It's a bit too late to complain about it now.
How did the proposal go? Is she mad because you didn't go all out like they do in the movies? I'm guessing you didn't exceed her high expectations. Well you can'... (read in full...)
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A. 25 September 2011: Let me start off by saying it's a bad idea to enter uni in a relationship. Trust me, I was engaged when I first started uni. You meet so many new potential suitors..plenty of eye candy! Stay off FB for a while.. I'd even delete and block him of... (read in full...)
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A. 24 September 2011: I'm sorry if I'm missing the point of the post but are you bashing American college women? As me and another poster pointed out, not all American women are like that. Believe it or not there are women that do go to college not just for the exp... (read in full...)
Is it ok to used condoms which have passed their expiry date?
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So what if you heard people using expired condoms and they didn't end up pregnant? Those are irresponsible people who are taking a... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy travelling. Why can't my family just accept that?
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Is dinner a good idea for a first date?
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Why does it seem that women when they go to college just lose themselves and become slutty?
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A. 24 September 2011: Hey now, not all American girls do that!!
Actually I was pretty studious in college and engaged. Broke off my engagement then started partying and drinking a little more. I had already lost my virginity a long time ago but I didn't randomly... (read in full...)
He's changed his password on Facebook? And not mentioned it to me. Am I over-thinking this?
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A. 24 September 2011: You didn't trust him 10 months ago, and it still looks like you're still struggling to trust him again.
You're telling me that with knowing his password you never long on to check his FB?? You had to, in order to know his password changed.... (read in full...)
He is such a tight-wad in everything. Should I stay or go? It bothers me that he thinks women are after his money.
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A. 24 September 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-we-form-a-living-arrangement-he-says.html
It's also polite to update your first question for those who have responded.... (read in full...)
He moved on quickly. Did our relationship mean nothing to him?
Q. i was w/ my boyfriend in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 yrs and i recently broke up w/ him b/c i didnt see a future w/ him. he started dating someone new in only two weeks and when i found this out i was really hurt. does this mean that our ...
A. 24 September 2011: What I meant was the relationship was meaningful at one time, when you two were still together sharing love and laughs. Now that you two are broke up it's now a fond memory. It still means something but not as much as it did when you two were still ... (read in full...)
Does he want a hook-up, FWB, or a relationship?
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A. 24 September 2011: Unfortunately, I'm not a mind reader. Hook-ups are FWBs. Don't read any further into it..He specifically said he wants to hook-up. Hook-up meaning let's do kiss, sexual favors, sex, etc. NOT a relationship. Basically you would be FWBs. You're sti... (read in full...)
He moved on quickly. Did our relationship mean nothing to him?
Q. i was w/ my boyfriend in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 yrs and i recently broke up w/ him b/c i didnt see a future w/ him. he started dating someone new in only two weeks and when i found this out i was really hurt. does this mean that our ...
A. 24 September 2011: You broke up with him..of course he's going to move on. Do you expect him to sit around and pine for you??
He's not going to sit around and reminisce about the times you two HAD together. Instead, he's going to move onto the next woman. The rela... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't let me talk to my friends!
Q. i have a boyfriend of a year and two months, he keeps me from talking to my friends and from going out with them. ive been talking to this new kid lately and i kinda like him a little, but i really do love my boyfriend. what do i do?!...
A. 24 September 2011: I have a question...why are you letting your boyfriend control you?
You can't see and socialize with your boyfriend because your boyfriend says so?? What is he your did? No one is the boss of you (well your parents)..you are your own boss. Es... (read in full...)
The ex and facebook etiquette.
Q. Facebook etiquette question: Me and my ex decided to stay friends after the relationship ended. We didn't have contact for a few months, then started hanging out again, and it works ok. I'm not in love with him any more, yet... It's still bothe...
A. 24 September 2011: When you delete people off your friend's list, you don't have to tell them about it. FB isn't to be taken personally.
If your ex asks why you deleted him, just say that you were cleaning up your FB to only close friends and family. Maybe throw in... (read in full...)
Boyfriend playing mind-games?
Q. Boyfriend broke up with me friday, says we fight to much.. i was living with him in his dads house. he quit his job and plays video games all day and smokes pot all day.. he's 23 i'm 18. Since we've broke up i've been going out with friends. he's ...
A. 23 September 2011: He said that you don't need another chance??
Even if he wants you to chase him, don't take the bait. Your loser ex is not worthy of someone of your caliber. He's wasting his life and probably killing off his brain cells. You don't have to go sp... (read in full...)
He's 32 years older, and past the bedroom we don't have much in common. Do I break it off?
Q. hi, i am 18 and have fallen head over heels in love with a man that is 32 years older then me. I am in love but I also know the relationship is doomed as past the bedroom we don't have that much in common. We have been having sex for about a year ...
A. 23 September 2011: Is this even a relationship or is this a FWBs??
In this day and age, this man is old enough to be your grandfather!
You two are at VERY DIFFERENT stages of your life. Here you haven't even lived a quarter of your life, and you're embarking... (read in full...)
Am I taking this too personally?
Q. My boyfriend and I are pretty solitary. We go out and do things, but generally just the two of us. One of our mutual friends was talking about Halloween parties and he really wanted to go, but he did not seem to even think of taking me with him ...
A. 23 September 2011: I can see your point in his selfishness. That's a habit he's going to have to break on his own, if it's even possible.
At times he probably doesn't make you feel like you're on his priority list. I think it's a valid a reason to break up with a g... (read in full...)
If we form a living arrangement he says he will only help with the food bill. Is this fair?
Q. Im a 46 years old woman just divorced my husband. I have got my own house and a part time job but earning just enough to support myself. I've met this man 16 years my senior and we gets on well and we've been together for 3 years. He has a good job ...
A. 23 September 2011: I'm a bit confused by this post. Are you two talking of living together???
If you are, then he should contribute to HALF of the living expenses. As should you. Even if you are working part time you could still afford that, in fact it would he... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: There's no sense in crying over boys!!! Plus, you're lucky that boys like you. I can't tell you how many young girls we get on here that want boyfriends but can't get one.
So you can't pick a guy, it's not the end of the world. If you're feeling ... (read in full...)
Could my hubby be straying?
Q. Hi everyone Me and my hubby are very close and still very much in love after almost 22 years...He is the kind of man that wants to hold my hand,always touch me and always tell me how how much he loves me.our sex life is better then ever before...
A. 23 September 2011: Well after 22 years, you should know when he's lying to you. He fed you a lie about the underwear. Did he lie about the jacket?
Has he done anything before to make you question the trust? Because having a good loving marriage, going on 22 years... (read in full...)
Am I taking this too personally?
Q. My boyfriend and I are pretty solitary. We go out and do things, but generally just the two of us. One of our mutual friends was talking about Halloween parties and he really wanted to go, but he did not seem to even think of taking me with him ...
A. 23 September 2011: Are you saying that he attends parties/events without? Are you hurt by that?
Since you two are pretty solitary, do you not ever have any "me time"? You know where you spend time alone or with friends minus your significant other. Every couple n... (read in full...)
Afraid of my boyfriend finding out about my awful past tomorrow night.
Q. I need someone to reply, it's urgent. REALLY urgent. Ok, so I have been with my bf for about a year. We broke up last April but we still had contact. I was really depressed and did some very nasty stuff which I now regret badly because I was tr...
A. 23 September 2011: Tell him what exactly? That you gave another guy a bj when your broke up, partied a little too hard, and that Armando tried to make a pass at you??
There's no need to tell him about the blow job because that happened after you guys broke up. No c... (read in full...)
Asking an ex-girlfriend out to lunch?
Q. I'm thinking of asking my ex-girlfriend out to a light lunch to gauge things. Any tips or advice on how i should do this? I was thinking a text (aside from face to face talking, 90% of our communication was from texting. She doesn't like talking on ...
A. 23 September 2011: Are you planning on asking for her back?? Has it been a while since you've seen her face to face?
No offense, I don't like it. That line sounds like you're really busy today, and trying to squeeze me in for a rushed lunch. Personally, I would de... (read in full...)
I broke up b/f of 5 years and he hasn't contacted me since then!
Q. I broke up with my bf of five years because of the lack of sex. I broke up with him on Sunday, and then I left his home, but he still hasn't contacted me. He has not asked for me back, he has not called or text or anything. Did I not mean anything ...
A. 23 September 2011: Honey it hasn't even been a week!! Give the guy time to digest this break up because it's obviously still raw then maybe one day he'll be friends with you. Then again, maybe not.
Call me crazy, but seeing as you dumped him and are concerne... (read in full...)
Is he just playing me like a fiddle?
Q. i lost contact with an old high school friend, and earlier this year he found me on facebook and started to message me, we talked for a bit and eventually exchanged phone numbers and started to text each other everyday all day. he then asked me out ...
A. 23 September 2011: How long have you two been seeing each other?
You can't hold him sleeping with his ex against him because you two aren't together. I give him props for being honest with you about it..but I also question if he's over her or not. Sometime... (read in full...)
Why would people lie for someone that they don't know?
Q. yesterday i fought a girl becaues she said she didnt like me and wanted to fight me. We fought twice in 1 day soo today everybody saying i lost.But how did i lose when she was the one on the ground and i got more hits?? i dont understand...everybody ...
A. 23 September 2011: Isn't there a zero tolerance policy for fighting in your school?? If your teacher caught wind of you two, you would both be suspended maybe even expelled.
Although I do commend you for standing up for yourself. That's something to be proud of... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Since you can't make up your mind then don't pick any of them.
Ultimately it's your choice, and you can choose whether or not you want to listen to your suggestions.
If you're still conflicted..make a Pro's and Con's List for each guy and pic... (read in full...)
Why would he suddenly make his facebook photos public?
Q. A guy removed me as a friend from his facebook list because he wanted no regrets and didn't want me to know about his actions. I got a really amazing makeover in the upcoming year. I know I shouldn't be searching him but ... I did. Anyway, he has e...
A. 23 September 2011: Facebook is not to be taken literally..it's not real life.
If they were party pictures he was tagged in then they're going to be private. Unless he set his albums to private, then they're viewable by anyone. I didn't know how to set my albums t... (read in full...)
Boyfriend playing mind-games?
Q. Boyfriend broke up with me friday, says we fight to much.. i was living with him in his dads house. he quit his job and plays video games all day and smokes pot all day.. he's 23 i'm 18. Since we've broke up i've been going out with friends. he's ...
A. 23 September 2011: 23, jobless, I'm assuming he's not in college either or has a degree, smokes pot, now sponging off his daddy, and plays video games all day. Sounds like a winner!!
And you would want to take him back? Seriously?
I don't know how he's going t... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Sounds like you've answered your own question then. :)... (read in full...)
To add or not to add on Facebook?
Q. Hi there, I met a guy through a social of a religious cult thing and then added him on FB a year later when I left town.. He accepted and we exchanged a couple of messages. I don't know much about him and he was not personal, just random likes to...
A. 23 September 2011: Were there a lot of people on the group? Did the group wall have any recent comments on there or was it pretty inactive?
I don't believe it's anything personal. People often delete groups because people start leaving the group (due to FB profile ... (read in full...)
To add or not to add on Facebook?
Q. Hi there, I met a guy through a social of a religious cult thing and then added him on FB a year later when I left town.. He accepted and we exchanged a couple of messages. I don't know much about him and he was not personal, just random likes to...
A. 23 September 2011: He sounds like one of those people who get all hurt when you delete them from FB.
It's your friends list, you decide who you want on there. Personally, if you only want to keep actual friends on there then I would leave him off. He sounds l... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Happy, Sleepy, and Dopey aren't options as well? Just kidding!
Ducky- You already gave him a chance. Then he caused drama in your life??
Arby- Sweet guy and the only one you haven't dated. Sounds like a winner to me!
Dorky- Real goofball,... (read in full...)
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