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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Life is a confused wreck. My partner broke up with me. Help, how do I emerge from this OK to go forward?
Q. My world came crumbling down on december 31. I was enjoying myself at a new year party, and i decided to,,check my facebook. The first thing that popped up was the,lesbian,i used to like. I found out she had a boyfriend. When i found out, i felt ...
A. 2 February 2012: It sounds like you're really confused about your sexuality. Your lesbian friend has a boyfriend and you're jealous, then your male partner dumps you. Which one is it that you lean more towards, male or female??
Start by clearing up the confusio... (read in full...)
I cant stand my sister-in-law!!
Q. The title says it all pretty much. I just cant like her for as much as I try. When me and my hub were together in the beginning I would go over to his brothers house and help and clean she would be home all day pregnant I did this for about 3 months ...
A. 2 February 2012: I find it odd you go as far as saying you wish you were single. Don't you like your married life? It would be much easier to wish that your SIL were someone else.
Anyways, you don't have to like all of your in-laws. I for one can't stand my SIL, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?
Q. Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...
A. 2 February 2012: Just curious, did she listen to the anon FB message?? Probably wrote it off as some nasty joke.
Well done! It is time to move on from it. Unfortunately, cheaters never give us the closure we want. They're too selfish and hardly care about th... (read in full...)
I don't find him attractive, but I cant stop thinking about him!
Q. so ive met this guy twice and hes sweet but totally not my type. ive only met him when ive had a drink and he has too. i wouldnt say he's good looking - lets put it that way - but the first time i met him he gave me a kiss goodbye. and then the ...
A. 1 February 2012: Maybe it's because he's treating you with so much affection. How have your past relationships been? This could be something you're not used to and you like the attention.
Do you find yourself acting like this when you're sober around him?
... (read in full...)
Did I leave things go too long with her?
Q. A few nights ago i went out on a date with a girl, which was kinda cut short as she bumped into some of her friends while we were out and the evening didnt really go as i planned. In the end i left her with her friends (stupid i know). I spoke to ...
A. 1 February 2012: Wait a minute, you left with her friends and cut the date short??
And you think she's going to want to go on a second date with you??
Erm, no. She didn't reply because she's not interested in going on a second date with you. One was enough. ... (read in full...)
I still love my B/f but I don't feel like I am "in love" with him any more. How do I break it off without causing him too much pain?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years since I was a senior in high school. Now that I am about to graduate from college. We have had a long distance relationship for most of the time we have been together. Over the past couple of months I've ...
A. 1 February 2012: There's NO way to soften the blow of a break-up or any easier way of going about it.
You just have to bring yourself to do it. The longer you drag out this relationship, the more the break up will hurt him.
Although it is easier to break ... (read in full...)
How do I tell this gorgeous man that my green eyes that he was "mesmerized" with were because of my coloured contact lenses?
Q. I've met this guy who is much out of my league, he is just beautiful like a chiselled greek model. The thing is he has had drop dead gorgeous girlfriends and gets such beautiful girls approaching him. Which of course makes me feel insecure about ...
A. 1 February 2012: Colored contacts are very obvious. I'm sure he already knows that's not your real eye color.
It's just contact lenses, it's not like you're lying about your age, or that you secretly have children, something major like that. You just want to ... (read in full...)
"how do I attract boys?"
Q. (Note: The good advice is at the bottom. Read through for a laugh) I see this so often nowadays. mostly it's girls who want their first kiss, or a boyfriend, or whatever, and they ask us what they need to do to get a boyfriend. So I'm...
A. 1 February 2012: "Smelly, rude, or annoying." LMAO
I agree those are deal breakers! ... (read in full...)
We both are in a relationship, but I like him, but I don't know if he likes me!
Q. I like this guy but he has a girlfriend, and I have a boy friend, but I think he likes me but sometimes leaving me confused.When I look at him I quickly catch a glance of him looking at me but then turns away. Then he gave my friend hes mobile ...
A. 1 February 2012: It's a possibility. You don't know unless you keep on toying with him. But I'd suggest breaking up with your boyfriend since you're not giving the relationship you're 100% attention.
I understand you won't cheat on your boyfriend. But will you... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I pleased her, opinions?
Q. hello guys its not that i have any big problem but theres just something i want to know and make sure of. i want to know if i was able to please my girlfriend. i finally got to suck on my girlfriend`s breasts but i dont know if i did it right.....
A. 1 February 2012: Any special attention on the breasts is ALWAYS pleasuring. ... (read in full...)
I've asked this girl out more than once but she hasn't gone out with me yet. Is she at all interested? Should I ask her some other way?
Q. Alright so I am a douche! I really like this girl who I met earlier last semester at uni, she's a first year I'm a second year and we both play squash at the same level and very often. During the christmas exams I had had enough and decided to a...
A. 1 February 2012: I'd ask her out 1 more time in person.
Then if she gives you an excuse (she's not going to outwardly say no), it's time to hang it up and accept that she's not interested.
Asking her a fourth, fifth time just looks desperate and pushy. You C... (read in full...)
I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselve...
A. 1 February 2012: Not all those diagnosed with ADD are hyperactive. There's different forms of ADD.
I would seek medical evaluation immediately by your GP. They'll most likely put you on Adderall or a generic that will enhance listening and comprehension skills. ... (read in full...)
And encounter with my ex Fiance. And got on well. How should I play this, and what should my next step be?
Q. weirdest thing happened to me today, i got a text message from my ex-fiance and she said i emailed her from an old email account i do not use anymore. she said she is texting me because she doesn't want her work computer to get a virus... i said...
A. 1 February 2012: I agree using the virus was an excuse to talk to you more personally (thru text).
Who cares if their work computer gets a virus?? That's what the IT guys are for!!
Anyways, it could be numerous things...She could be single at the moment looki... (read in full...)
Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?
Q. Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...
A. 1 February 2012: Here's what could happen if you told her...
1. She wouldn't believe you and would get mad at you for trying to break up her relationship, even though that's not your intent. They're still together.
2. She dismisses what you say and continue... (read in full...)
Had a row, he went to ex's flat, stayed the night, do I believe that nothing happened?
Q. Had a row with my boyfriend he went to the ex flat stayed the night says nothing happened should i believe him ? ...
A. 1 February 2012: Right, I'm sure his ex made him a cup of tea, they sat there talking all night about your row, and she gave him a blanket to sleep on the couch with.
Let's get real here when one goes running to their ex, not for a shoulder to cry on, it's to ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to tell my b/f I have chlamydia!
Q. I just found out I have chlamydia and I'm so afraid to tell my boyfriend! I had unprotected sex before him and I got together. I shouldve gotten checked before sleeping with him but I didn't. I'm so scared he's going to leave me! This is the hardest ...
A. 30 January 2012: Let's put it this way, he's more likely to leave you if you don't tell him and has to find out thru symptoms.
If you tell him, you stand a chance of him staying with you.
... (read in full...)
Black specks in underware mean?
Q. Black specks in my husband briefs after washing; what does that mean if anything?...
A. 30 January 2012: Perhaps if you bagged the underwear in a plastic baggie and called your local CSI lab they'd be able to get to the bottom of this mystery! ... (read in full...)
Age difference and a dying girl
Q. Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school ...
A. 30 January 2012: Sorry to hear about your medical condition. You could very well get a heart transplant and live on to get married, have children. I know a woman who had a lung transplant, got married, and is pregnant with her first child. So stay as positive as you ... (read in full...)
PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?
Q. Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel l...
A. 29 January 2012: Your age range is 18-21, so I didn't know how old you were. I always include the bit about birth control. You'd be surprised at how many young adults are misinformed about proper birth control.
Have you even missed a period?
Anyways, in m... (read in full...)
He just can't shut up about his ex!
Q. my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks ...
A. 29 January 2012: I'm sorry, but what do you expect?? You two got together a whopping 2 weeks after they broke up!! He obviously didn't have time to get over her!!!
At 19 he's already talking about marriage and children?? I would take what he says with a grain of... (read in full...)
One boy wants sex the other puts me in the friend - zone
Q. MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Question ONE: Okay, so I’ll be honest, I am desperate for advice because this is really my only way to get help. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all are close-minded about it so I decided ...
A. 29 January 2012: Q1.
You may love Tyler but does he love you?? A guy who actually loves you doesn't pressure you into having sex with him. He RESPECTS your decision to wait.
Let's be honest here, Tyler is nothing but a horny teenage boy who wants sex. He is... (read in full...)
PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?
Q. Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel l...
A. 29 January 2012: FIRST and foremost, take a pregnancy TEST before you go talking to your boyfriend about this. There's NO need to make a big deal out of this if you aren't pregnant at all. Save yourself and your boyfriend the worry and hassle.
IF you have a p... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm second best and not what he wants!
Q. Hi everyone I could really do with some good advice on this my boyfriend of 11 months and I were talking. A couple of nights ago we were fwbs first I said to him. It feels like I like him more than he likes me he said it isn't true its just how he ...
A. 29 January 2012: Just to clarify you guys started out as FWBs???
That's the problem right there. You can't make a smooth transition from FWBs to a relationship. It doesn't work that way.
I'm going to take a guess and say it was him who wanted a FWBs then you ... (read in full...)
14 and not sure if I should come out?
Q. I am a gay 14 year old and I'm sort of unsure if I should come out. I've known I'm gay since I was 12 and the two years following have been really hard because I've been trying to hide my sexuality because when I was 13 I moved school due to bulli...
A. 29 January 2012: AuntyAlexxmo has got it right...if you can handle the taunting then go ahead and come out. However, kids are much more cruel these days.
When I was in school, everyone who was gay came out after they graduated. That way they avoided the bullying... (read in full...)
I still can't be intimate with my wife despite forgiving her infidelities
Q. My wife and i have been married going on 4 years. In our first year married she cheated on me with my ex best friend. Well i found out later by her best friend and for a while My wife denied it then she finally broke down and told me. Well I forgave ...
A. 29 January 2012: Let's be honest here, you haven't forgiven your wife at all. If you actually forgave her then you would continue on with the marriage as it was before prior to the infidelities.
If you want to keep this marriage, then I would look for a proper m... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend join the military to escape troubles at home?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a month and he is going through a rough time with family problems. Not to go into detail but hes basicly on his own right now, he has been staying with his grandma so far but he know where hes ...
A. 29 January 2012: He can join active duty military at 18 (17 he has to have parental consent) with his HS diploma. If he has a GED, they only allow a certain amount of people who posses one of those. Plus he has to pass physical testing and written tests. They don't ... (read in full...)
Do people often settle for less when they marry?
Q. I haven't been on here in ages, but hey - I'm kinda tipsy and that's when I ask my questions best! So I'm meant to be getting married and meant to be really happy but heaps has gone wrong with that soooo... Do you guys think people sell themselves ...
A. 29 January 2012: Yes, especially when you get to the age "you saw yourself being married at". Time is running out, all your friends are getting hitched, you've been a bridesmaid more than 3 times, so your list in what you want in a husband seems to shorten down to ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my family I'm dating a woman 28 years older than me?
Q. Hope someone can help, I got talking to someone on a internet chatroom and we have a lot in common. After chatting for a while we both wanted to meet each other and we did and got on really well together, only thing is that she's 55 and i...
A. 29 January 2012: I would wait a few months into the relationship before you relay the news to your family. In the flesh, preferably over dinner or when everyone happens to be in the same room.
They'll be concerned about the age because she's old enough to be yo... (read in full...)
Should I Continue to Converse with Her ?
Q. Okay im in college right now and i met this really nice girl who goes to my former high school. She is 18 and was suppose to graduate with my class of 2011, but her parents are military such as mine and i guess she somehow ended up as a junior this ...
A. 29 January 2012: If she's in a controlling relationship, she isn't getting out of it anytime soon. Her boyfriend is the boss of her and she allows him to treat her that way.
Stop wasting your time on her.
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My boyfriend's demanding schedule leaves him little time for me
Q. I haven't seen my boyfriend in nearly two weeks. Though he has been extremely busy with work for that time, (14-hour shifts, no days off) the least he could do is take a few seconds to send me a text here and there like he used to. I loved it when ...
A. 29 January 2012: It depends what he does for a living...Is he an ER nurse or doctor, EMT, something in the medical field?
Did all of this start when he got this job?
I agree it doesn't take but 5 minutes for a phone call, or a few seconds for a text. When was... (read in full...)
I want to combine all of our fetishes into one night. Suggestions?
Q. Me and my Gf have recentally shared with each other about our fetishes. She has a rape and bondage fetish, and i have a diaper fetish. When I found out about her fetish I was fully accepting and I'm willing to play the part to pleasure her. But wh...
A. 29 January 2012: Does the diaper have to be a disposable one that an infant would wear?? Or a cloth nappy?
I would do one fetish a week. Give it enough time to work on hers, and you may want to compromise on yours with some leather, or some type of thick underwea... (read in full...)
Is there a way of asking a guy if he's tested and free of all those things?
Q. Sort of embarrassed to ask this, but has been on my mind. So months ago I signed up on a site where I met a man from another country. We have skyped before and talk virtually everyday Now he's told me, he and his boyfriend have an open relationship ...
A. 29 January 2012: I'm with So Very Confused on this, just outright ask him if he's been tested.
This is standard questioning in any homosexual or heterosexual relationship.
There's no nonchalant way to go about it, with him catching the underlying messa... (read in full...)
She thinks I only want her because I can't have her!
Q. I met this girl two years ago, We both broke up with our present prteners for each other. She ended up getting back with hers but coming back to me again. The past six months have been an LDR. I saw her last weekend for the first time in si...
A. 29 January 2012: Sweetie, it's not your fault she doesn't know what she wants!!
She bounced from her first partner to you, to someone else in a span of 6months-1 year? Evidently, she has trouble sitting still in a relationship.
This isn't the kind of girl you... (read in full...)
"Feeling insecure about them Toys in the Bedroom
Q. Ok here it goes its my b-day and my man has surprised me yet again. He wants to buy a toy dildo and use it on me for HIS own pleasure. But its MY b-day im the one who should be getten Pleasured. Right? I was down for it at first.but started thinkin ...
A. 26 January 2012: I was going to say I don't know how it's going to pleasure him unless he's putting it in his rear???
It's definitely for YOU!
In my opinion, he's doing it to change things up in the bedroom a bit. Which is GOOD!! Most men are intimidated by d... (read in full...)
I have an overpowering desire to have a baby with my fiance!
Q. Hey there, I am a 19yo sophomore in college, living with my fiance, who I have been with for just over a year now. We are very happy together, even now with the stresses of maintaining a household and us both getting through college. We're best fri...
A. 26 January 2012: Yes, but I'm 27 and married.
It's called your biological time clock. Technically it can go off at any age, sometimes as early as 14. Mine didn't start ticking until I was 24. It's completely normal to yearn for a child.
To cope you can bab... (read in full...)
I love him but he's going into the army for two years! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm back with another relationship problem but with a different man.This one is wonderful completely wonderful he does everything that my ex from the previous letters was suppose to do but 10 times better and he was the main one...
A. 24 January 2012: If you love him and wish to be with him for the rest of your life, then you have no choice but to support him. You don't have a choice in the matter, it's his life not yours. He will choose what he does in life and you can be along for the ride if ... (read in full...)
Is he a player?
Q. Hello. Recently I got chatting with a guy on facebook who 's friends with some of my friends. We got on well, made each other laugh, and so after about 2 days of this he invited me for a drink, which also went really well. Fast forward 2 weeks, I've ...
A. 24 January 2012: Signs he's a player..
-He feeds you lines.
-Wins you over with cooking for you.
-You've already slept together.
-He's given you a key to come over when you're finished with work at 3m. Hmmm, what else are you two going to be doing at 3am? Ta... (read in full...)
My neighbour fancies my sister and its annoying! What do I do?
Q. Well im living in an estate next to a English guy he is in his 4o's and has been living alone since for as long as i remember when he usually gets a girl she takes advantage of him . He is like a brother to me and my husband and does have a big big ...
A. 24 January 2012: What do you mean what should you do???
Do you want them to get together? Is that your intention? Or are you trying to ward him off your sister??
I believe you should leave it alone and let the romance blossom if there's a spark. They're b... (read in full...)
Not sure what to make of this
Q. I may be over analyzing this but i just want a woman's perspective. Its pretty simple i asked a girl out that i met awhile ago through some friends. She said she would love to go but she is busy this week (friday i asked her to go out). She said ...
A. 24 January 2012: When a guy asks a girl out on a date, she says, "yes" if she's interested. If she's not, then the proper thing to do is politely decline and simply say you're not interested. Not make up excuses, or constantly have other plans to avoid the ... (read in full...)
I don't believe in pre-marital sex and this guy seems to have a problem.
Q. Am 20 and in a relationship with a 29 year old guy that has 80% of the qualities i w ant in a man. We've been together for a year in which he struggled not to have sex with me because am virgin, and a christain with deep knowledge on pre-marital ...
A. 23 January 2012: I'm a bit confused, is he expecting you to beg for these things, then you give him something (sexually) in return?? As a sort of "tit for tat" deal. Or have I got it all wrong?
That's actually borderline prostitution. He's not just going to... (read in full...)
Can I wear black to a wedding?
Q. HELP NEEDED!!! I know this has nothing to do with relationships but all input wanted!! My cousin gets married in April...and from my direct family (mum, dad, brother) im the one who has to attend the whole day (as in ceremony at church and party...
A. 23 January 2012: Black is accepted any time or place.
It is totally acceptable to wear black to a wedding. The rule is to throw in a hint of color, even if it's a neutral, somewhere in the mix. You want to avoid looking goth or morbid. ... (read in full...)
Not sure what to make of this
Q. I may be over analyzing this but i just want a woman's perspective. Its pretty simple i asked a girl out that i met awhile ago through some friends. She said she would love to go but she is busy this week (friday i asked her to go out). She said ...
A. 19 January 2012: You do lunch with friends, not a potential boyfriend. Lunch is friendly and only lasts a hour; it's not a romantic evening date that could go on for hours.
She's busy this week..which if she wanted to go out with you, she'd adjust her schedule... (read in full...)
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