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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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How do I give him a gentle hint that I don't want to date?
Q. Okay, I've been asked on a date by someone i've known for 3 years, but never really have I ever spoken to him. It's been a few years since we last met. Anyway he's been texting me every day since he asked me for my number, and I now regret givin...
A. 2 January 2012: Guess you'll see when you go on that date.
Actually it sends him a mixed messaged...It says, "You're not ready for a relationship at the moment but by going on this date you look interested".
To be honest, you need to be straightforward ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend act the way she does when she has a boyfriend?
Q. Why does my friend do the things she does. is this right? My friend loves attention. Whenever we go out she'll try so hard to get guys attention. She'll speak to them first and hang around them. She has a boyfriend she claims she loves s...
A. 2 January 2012: Simple, she's an attention slut and completely insecure.
If you don't agree with her morals and feel she's a negative influence on you, then end the friendship. ... (read in full...)
Can emergency contraception cause pregnancy-like symptoms?
Q. Okay... On Dec 6, I posted a question asking about emergency contraception. (I'll include it at the end of my question) I now have a follow up of sorts (if you can call it that) and additional questions. (in a nutshell, my guy and I were messi...
A. 2 January 2012: Plan B shouldn't be used in place of a contraceptive. It's emergency, Backup Plan only. Plus it's not as effective as regular birth control that is used consistently and correctly.
If you can't be on oral form of birth control, then I suggest ... (read in full...)
How to play the player ?
Q. how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...
A. 26 December 2011: Wow a month!
Again players are always steps ahead of you. When you think you have the upper hand, you really don't.
Players don't last long in "committed relationships"...or whatever causal (I'm sure) relationship you have. Don't be so naïv... (read in full...)
Can emergency contraception cause pregnancy-like symptoms?
Q. Okay... On Dec 6, I posted a question asking about emergency contraception. (I'll include it at the end of my question) I now have a follow up of sorts (if you can call it that) and additional questions. (in a nutshell, my guy and I were messi...
A. 17 December 2011: Potential side effects of Plan B or Plan B One-Step include:
nausea
abdominal pain
fatigue
headache
menstrual changes
dizziness
breast tenderness
vomiting
diarrhea
I highly doubt you're pregnant since you two didn't have intercourse a... (read in full...)
Is this an appropriate message for a cheating ex?
Q. Can I send this to my ex who cheated on me? " Remember when you said to me that I'm a strong person, I thought I was but do you think I'd be here with you right now if I was? I'm weak callum, weak for coming back to you while knowing there's ...
A. 17 December 2011: I'm sorry for your loss. You're kinda taken aback when an ex boyfriend dies. One of mine died this May.
Sorry you didn't get the closure you needed..but ex's rarely give us that satisfaction. ... (read in full...)
Please help! What Gifts should I take for my bestfriend, his wife and there newborn?
Q. Hi members of DC: I need you help please. Although it is not about love or relationship issues please respond. Here is the issue, me and my best friend or my business partner have become very close of late. Actually we do a lot of things together ...
A. 14 December 2011: Newborn: Any bibs, sleepers, onesies, hats, socks, diapers, etc.
For the new parents: A nice bouquet of flowers and a card congratulating them is appropriate, but not necessary. It's really more about the baby. ... (read in full...)
Someone sent my girlfriend flowers at her office on her birthday.
Q. So my girlfriends bday was this pat friday and someone had delivered her over to her job a basket of Yellow roses with red tip, purple roses, yellow daisys and other flowers and a plush version of her favorite character. She initially thought that I ...
A. 14 December 2011:
Regardless of who sent them, they're her birthday present. I don't believe it's acceptable to ask someone to throw away a gift. You can't toss them out either, because it's not your decision and it will spawn a fight. If an anonymous person sent... (read in full...)
Someone sent my girlfriend flowers at her office on her birthday.
Q. So my girlfriends bday was this pat friday and someone had delivered her over to her job a basket of Yellow roses with red tip, purple roses, yellow daisys and other flowers and a plush version of her favorite character. She initially thought that I ...
A. 13 December 2011: Oh so was my birthday!
Why didn't she call the company they came from to find out who bought them for her? Unless the anonymous person paid cash, there has to be a credit card receipt (signature).
Now, bowz3r...you've been having suspicion... (read in full...)
Does he have something to hide?
Q. Does anyone else think that this guy has something to hide? Ive being going with this guy for over a year and I have never met his friends apart from one. I have never met any of his family. His family know about me but to how much i dont know. H...
A. 13 December 2011: The only reason (that comes to mind) as to why he hasn't let you in on his life is that he may be embarrassed by the age gap.
... (read in full...)
My husband is saying hurtful comments about my weight! Help!
Q. I need help! I have only been married 1yr. Well next month will make it a year. We have been together 3years though. I am in the military and i am currently deployed. I work out a lot to keep stress down, and to give myself something to do. My ...
A. 13 December 2011: Whatt??!! How strange, never heard of a man complaining about his military wife being too slim. It's usually the other way around, him complaining that his wife is fat and lazy!
Is this his first deployment with you? Do you have children? Maybe th... (read in full...)
My bisexual/lesbian friend dislikes gay men!
Q. Dear cupid, My best friend is a female bisexual and she's great, but I have one problem and its the fact that she hates gay men. I'm so fed up with her double standards its drives me up the walls. Sometimes she calls them names like F****t and ...
A. 13 December 2011: Even though her bigotry is a double standard, it's a very common misconception that lesbians and gay men get along. Most gay men (I'm friends with loads) can't stand lesbians..they call them dykes behind their backs or little boys, etc. Yes, it's ... (read in full...)
I need opinions please? Have I been rejected??
Q. I met this girl the other day when my friend took me to another friends house. We all started to play poker, and she didn't know how.being the great guy I am, I volunteered to sit out a few hands and teach her! Now, we began talking as I'm doing so, ...
A. 13 December 2011: Now if she were to ignore you every time you see her, then I would say it's rejection.
Just because she hasn't accepted your incoming friend request, yet? No. Don't take FB too literally.
... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can manage to go to the funeral!
Q. Its my cousins funeral on Friday, he was 19 and had been suffering with cancer for 18 months. We were so close and im crying my eyes out writing this. My mum really wants me to go to the funeral but I dont know if i can bear it. Any tips or help ...
A. 13 December 2011: Well no one wants to go to a funeral. I mean imagine how your Aunt and Uncle feel burying their child. It's supposed to be the other way around.
It would be nice if you could go because there is other people around you that loved your cousin t... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is distant, cant forgive me, and plays hot and cold with me, no sex either???
Q. I am 27 yr old male. I have been with my GF for over three years.She is 24. we moved so i could go to school. she is a bartender. We had a great relationship then i realized she was verbally abusive to me. Its been over 12 months since things have ...
A. 11 December 2011: 1. She smokes pot.
2. She verbally abuses you.
3. You're getting nothing (not even sex) out of this relationship.
4. She's most likely cheating on you emotionally with her long distance male friend.
Call me silly, but you need to dump her. Yo... (read in full...)
I went through my boyfriend's phone and I regret it!
Q. Dear Cupid, I did something very bad.. I went through my boyfriend's phone. Texts, photos, and everything.. Well, that was a big mistake. He talks to other girls... And It bothers me... I have a lot of insecurity problems and I hate mysel...
A. 11 December 2011: Were the texts, photos, anything incriminating to point to cheating?? If they were then I would dump, you can't trust a liar, cheater. It's not possible.
Now if the texts, photos were clean then you need to stop going thru his things. Give him... (read in full...)
Do you think either of these guys like me or is it just a coincidence?
Q. I would like to know if you think these these 2 different guys like me.. The first guy is in my class and he always stares at me and whenever I look at him he turns very red. But he doesn't talk to me.. maybe he's shy? And also there was a desk bet...
A. 11 December 2011: Sorry but staring at you or sitting next to you isn't much to go off of. Why don't you try talking to them then make your own judgement. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend waiting to propose, or was he just joking?
Q. I have a question... I've been living with my boyfriend for a little over a year, we're very open and have a good relationship. We've spoken about marriage a bit, and we've both been in a few long term relationships before this. We were joking ...
A. 11 December 2011: How long have you 2 been together?
Do you wear a lot of accessories? A lot of statement rings?
I wouldn't necessarily start looking at color swatches for your wedding, or visit your local bridal boutique for a wedding dress. You don't know i... (read in full...)
If someone in my family is depressed, am I liable to get depressed too?
Q. I'm not sure if this is a stupid Question to ask and if it's the right site to ask it on but I'm scared of becoming depressed. The tone in my house has gone down a notch since my sister has got herself into some trouble and has brought my mothe...
A. 9 December 2011: Anxiety and depression go hand in hand. But something has to trigger your depression. A break-up, too much stress, some sort of life changing event, death, etc.
You can't catch depression like it's a common cold.
If you find both your sister... (read in full...)
Work Christmas party and I'm panicking!
Q. hiya so i have my work christams-do coming up 2weeks friday and basicly i dont wanna go, theres only six of them going and one is related to me, im not realy a drinker and im told ther all bringing ther other halfs and boss brings his whole family, ...
A. 9 December 2011: I can understand your anxiety when it comes to social functions. It can be a very nerve-wracking experience for someone who suffers from anxiety.
Is there a friend you take? Someone that you'll be comfortable with? That way you can make an appea... (read in full...)
He's a great guy and he's dating trash
Q. Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...
A. 8 December 2011: I thought you were past your crush with him?
Tell him to knock off the flirting since he has a girlfriend. It sends you the wrong kind of message.
... (read in full...)
Girls, especially, do you think a guy being able to dance well is important to you?
Q. I hate dancing. I mean REALLY HATE IT lol. Its embarrassing and boring. And everyone else loves it, which makes me feel awful for dissappointing my friends, and i just end up hating dancing even more. Thing is, i keep hearing about how impo...
A. 7 December 2011: In my dating experience, most guys CANNOT dance. In the rarity they can actually bust out some moves, (I'm not talking the cheesy sprinkler) then that earns major points in my book. Guys just basically stand there letting the girl gyrate her rear on ... (read in full...)
I'm on depo, should I be getting a period?
Q. So, i have a weird problem... I'm on the depo needle (ment to stop you getting pregnant) I got it last october 19th, its ment to last 3months, but the other day i got a period sort of thing, and as far as i know you shouldnt get it on the n...
A. 7 December 2011: It depends on your body.
Instead of making my periods lighter, I wouldn't have a period months 1 or 2 but I bled for 30 days straight the last month. Like Chigirl, the depo wasn't for me!
When I asked my gyno about this abnormal bleedin... (read in full...)
How Important Is Money And Career In Choosing A Partner?
Q. If you were, let's say, making 60k a year, would you date someone who is making 15k? If you had a college education, would you date someone without one? What about you, women? How would you feel if your man was 'inferior' to you in both money and ...
A. 7 December 2011: You have to keep in mind the trying times of the US and other countries. These days a job is a job.
If he makes 15k and I make 60k, so what? At least we have a roof over our head, food, vehicles, water, heat, clothing, and the bills paid. My... (read in full...)
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
Q. Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
A. 7 December 2011: Can't argue with 1 and 3....BUT 2....
Unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, in the Amazon Rain forest (I doubt there's any cell phone towers), or lying dead in a coffin then there's no excuse for his piss poor communication. The "I'm bus... (read in full...)
Things that you love about yourself and dislike about yourself
Q. Basically i find these days that people either are extreamly hypocritcal where they think everyone has something wrong with them except them, or people have very low self esteem (including myself). I have learnt in the last year tha...
A. 7 December 2011: --Flaws (only 7?)---
- I can be real bitchy at times.
- I stress out way too much.
- I have adult acne at freaking 26 (soon to be 27).
- Often way too pessimistic.
- Stubborn
- I let my anxiety get the best of me.
- Argumentative
--Stre... (read in full...)
Vulgar bulgur
Q. Okay I know this is a rather silly question, but the other night my gf cooked this dish that I hated. She is a tender woman and so I haven't told her yet. The next day she said she was quite pleased with the flavor. Any tips on gently telling h...
A. 7 December 2011: Actually it's high in fiber, so it cleaned out your digestive system!
Just say it wasn't your cup of tea and not a dish you particularly like. Assure her that you love her cooking, but dislike this particular dish. She can make it again, but in a... (read in full...)
Was asking him out in a Christmas Card OK and not desperate?
Q. Hi I just asked a guy out in a christmas card because I don't see him to often due to work. He works in the building I live in. Do you think this sounds desperate and how long should I keep my hopes up for him to call? Thank you....
A. 6 December 2011: If that's the ONLY way you had to ask him out, then it was kinda cute. Different.
I'd give it till the next time you physically see him and ask if he got your card. Or till he calls, which I'd give it about a week at the max.
... (read in full...)
He's a great guy and he's dating trash
Q. Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...
A. 6 December 2011: Great advice given thus far, only like to add a few things.
Unfortunately this is only the beginning, you will see plenty of men you find attractive, wish to date, who date trashy women. That's their type. They're not exactly ready to date the... (read in full...)
Wait 6 yrs or call it quits now?
Q. What would you do if you were me? 48 yr old in a 1 yr relationship. He wants to date for 6 yrs then marry, due to him recently buying and renovating his house. I'd like to get married now. I can't see the back and forth for that long. I take ...
A. 6 December 2011: I don't understand his reasoning for waiting 6 years?? Is it because of $? Because you don't have to have a lavish wedding. I had an extremely tiny wedding that cost us under $1,000. Although, I do regret not hiring a professional photographer.
... (read in full...)
I need a song to sing someone to sleep to!
Q. I'm sure that this might be the first time anyone on Dear Cupid has asked this question (with all the questions lurking in the archives, who knows?), but it means a lot to me, so thank you if you can answer. My romantic dream has always been to s...
A. 6 December 2011: IMO, you can't go wrong with anything by John Mayer.
I also like Teddy Geiger's "For You I Will". ... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell my boyfriend about a drunken kiss, it meant nothing!
Q. Hi, I've been seeing my boyfriend a couple of months now. I went on a girls night out and got really drunk. My single friend really liked this guy so when she was chatting to him I chatted to his friend. His friend tried to kiss me so I tol...
A. 6 December 2011: Whether it meant nothing or not, regardless if you were drunk (don't blame it on the booze), you still cheated. Kissing is cheating!
Your actions would create a trust issue...lying about it now, is still a trust issue. Are you positive your fri... (read in full...)
Am I freaking out by thinking the worst?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for a while. We aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend", so to speak, but we talked abut moving on to that stage. He travels a lot for work and doesn't own his own cellphone (in this day and age... I know). when we met and ...
A. 5 December 2011: Have you met any of his family friends? Have you been to his leaky apartment?
Ok you've let him in your life, but what have you seen of his, besides his co-workers? What do you really know about this guy?
How old is he? How long have you tw... (read in full...)
Complete blackout on communication and I don't know why!
Q. I met a girl soon after starting university who I got on extremely well with. We had similar political views, an identical sense of humor and world outlook as well as comparable tastes in art and music. For the first few months of our relationship ...
A. 5 December 2011: Are you guys together, as in boyfriend-girlfriend?? Or was this just seeing each other, casual dating?
1. She lost interest and is too coward to outright tell you.
2. Or she met someone else.
Maybe a combination of the two.
It's not... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell my boyfriend about a drunken kiss, it meant nothing!
Q. Hi, I've been seeing my boyfriend a couple of months now. I went on a girls night out and got really drunk. My single friend really liked this guy so when she was chatting to him I chatted to his friend. His friend tried to kiss me so I tol...
A. 5 December 2011: So what's your question??? How can we help you? ... (read in full...)
He said we may or may not get married!
Q. Hello Everyone I have been dating my boyfriend for 2yrs now. Im ready to get married but hes not. he said he will know when hes ready. hE SAID WE MAY OR WE MAY NOT...Is he ever going to matty me or should I just let go and move on? I know I wil...
A. 5 December 2011: Sorry unfortunately my crystal ball is broke at the moment, so I can't tell you for certain. Come on, we can't look into the future.
Only YOU know thru his behavior towards you and the stability of your relationship if he will propose or not.
... (read in full...)
Am I wrong because I don't want to buy fast food for my bratty disrespectful brother?
Q. Hello everyone! I have a question ... Am I wrong for not wanting to buy my little brother food? I know it sounds wrong but here's my problem. My little brother is 12 years old. And he is very rude! He will curse you out!!!!! He doesn't listen a...
A. 5 December 2011: NO! He's 12 and fully capable of making himself a sandwich. There's no need to reward him when he acts like that.
Where's the boy's father? He thinks he's the man of the house.
I echo Honeypie in talking to your mother about this again. She ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant for 5 seconds of sex, on my period??
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant whilst on your period? seriously!!? i had sex on the 4th day of my period so i was not heavy and my partner didnt even notice, however i had sex without a condom for literally 5 seconds and then i stopped it and said ...
A. 5 December 2011: Get off this site and go take a pregnancy test.
It's not common, but you can ovulate right after your period.
You wouldn't already be producing breast milk. A lot of your "symptoms" are most likely in your head.
Still concerned about... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 4 December 2011: Oh now sweetie, you slightly misunderstood me..before I found out she had an weight issue.
I'm going to echo the rest of the aunts in saying your girlfriend wants you to gain muscle so she won't feel overweight next to you. It's not because ... (read in full...)
My husband farts on me and thinks its funny
Q. My husband farts on me. He thinks its hilarious, and its really annoying to me. It makes me feel like I am one of his frat buddies instead of his wife, who he might like to have sex with again at one point or another. I don't know how to make him ...
A. 4 December 2011: Spitting in someone's face is degrading..no where near as worse as being farted on.s ... (read in full...)
Am I freaking out by thinking the worst?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for a while. We aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend", so to speak, but we talked abut moving on to that stage. He travels a lot for work and doesn't own his own cellphone (in this day and age... I know). when we met and ...
A. 4 December 2011: I find it VERY hard to believe that a man who travels a lot for work doesn't have a cell phone. That IS a lie.
How does his work keep in touch with him when he's out of the office for weeks on end?
Why does he have to a borrow a friend'... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 4 December 2011: Instead of asking you to change her appearance, she needs to really change hers if she's not happy with herself.
My husband weighs as much as I do but he's really skinny. I'm a slim girl but I sometimes feel like a cow next to him. But that's m... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 3 December 2011: You're right if she's not physically satisfied with you then why be with you?
Has she lost her physical attraction for you?
How long have you two been together?
She can't ask you to change your outward appearance..that's like ... (read in full...)
Is this an appropriate message for a cheating ex?
Q. Can I send this to my ex who cheated on me? " Remember when you said to me that I'm a strong person, I thought I was but do you think I'd be here with you right now if I was? I'm weak callum, weak for coming back to you while knowing there's ...
A. 11 November 2011: If he's already your ex, then why are you asking him to choose between being in a relationship or nothing at all? At the moment, it's nothing..friends if you can honestly say you two are friends.
Personally, I wouldn't bother. He cheated on you! ... (read in full...)
How to play the player ?
Q. how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...
A. 3 November 2011: Honestly, don't waste your time.
Players are VERY good at what they do, and CANNOT be challenged by women trying to counteract their sexual arrangement. The thing is, they've already outsmarted you, gotten what they wanted, and will get out of t... (read in full...)
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