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I want to know what it's like when someone has a crush on you!

Q.   I just want to know what is so wrong with me and why guys don't like me. People say I am pretty and nice and sweet and I think I am too. Is it because I have glasses and braces? Even though I am still pretty. I know I am only in high school it is ...

A.   5 January 2011: You just said that you don't have guys that like you, but that actually you do. You're contradicting yourself, yet at the same time answering your own question... And it doesn't "feel" like anything in particular if a guy likes you, unless you like ... (read in full...)

Is it dangerous for two people to make out with one another when one person is on top of the other, and both have clothes on?

Q.   This is kind of an odd question.. but my boyfriend of about 2 years and I as we began to become alot closer to one another, we started making out laying down on his futon/bed type thing. It all started because a months after we had begun dating...

A.   5 January 2011: As long as you both have clothes on and you don't have a wet spot from him soaking through your clothes too, you should be perfectly fine. Even if it did soak through your clothes too, it is extremely unlikely that you might get pregnant from it. ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive her?

Q.   Ok so I'm in love with my girl best friend. Its very complicated so I will start from the beginning. Well I have known this girl from like 3rd grade. So were really good friends till highschool. Since then she had crush on me for like a year but I ...

A.   5 January 2011: I have a philosophy of once a cheater, always a cheater.... she cheated on her boyfriend with you, then you saw her with the other guy again.... do the math. What do you think will happen again... (read in full...)

Coming out is difficult?

Q.   I'm gay. I've known I was gay or as long as I can remember. However, I'm afraid to come out. I'm a Junior in High School, and I know i'm not ready. But I find that coming out will be especially hard for me as my brother is also gay, and he is out. ...

A.   5 January 2011: I think the best thing for you to do right now is to talk to your brother and get advice from him. He can let you know what his experiences were when he came out, how other people reacted, etc. He may be able to tell you how to expect people to ... (read in full...)

One day she's in my lap, the next night shes cold

Q.   what should i do when i feel my girlfriend pulling away. one day shes in my lap and like over night she seems to pull away. i should probably do the same. ...

A.   3 January 2011: Just make sure you're not smothering her. Sometimes I'm perfectly happy cuddling up with my boyfriend, and other times I just want a little bit of space to myself. It doesn't necessarily mean a girl isn't interested anymore if she does that; maybe ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him about my troubled sexual past?

Q.   About 6 years ago I was abused sexually by a family friend but never told anyone as he has a wife who is very dependant on him. Then when I was 16 I got in a very involved relationship with a boy who I now know is very depressed, long story short he ...

A.   3 January 2011: As long as you feel comfortable with him and want a future with him, you should tell him. If he notices that something seems wrong and he has no idea about what happened in the past, he might think that he is doing something wrong or that maybe you ... (read in full...)

I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one?

Q.   I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one? I think all that talk when I was a teenager back in the mid 80/s about AIDS put me off for life!!!!...

A.   29 August 2010: Well...I'm only 20, which is almost half your age...but I'm still a virgin and perfectly ok with it; it's my decision, afterall. :)... (read in full...)

Do I "hang on" or "move on"?

Q.   I met an awesome guy online last September and thought we were going to be freinds, but he had other ideas, as he wanted to meet and I was over the moon. However, the day before we were supposed to meet, I guess I got a weird vibe, as he still ...

A.   22 January 2010: You haven't met in person, you got a weird vibe, and he has possibly met someone else. I would definitely say just move on; eventually you'll meet someone else and you'll pretty much forget that he even existed in the first place.... (read in full...)

Do I shave it all off or leave some?

Q.   Hello Right, i am 16,, female and i am with a 20 year old. We are ready for sex but i keep putting it off because of my down below.. i have been shaving it off for so long, and i dont know weather or not he will like it, and i want it to be ...

A.   28 December 2009: I don't think he'll care too much. He will probably be more focused on the activity you are about to do.... (read in full...)

I'm only 17 and I don't think I'm ready for this!

Q.   okay i am really freeking out i think i might be pregnant i last had sex 2 months ago and i havent had my period since my boobs are really sore i keep feeling sick in the morning i know it sounds like yeah i am but i am really scared to take a test ...

A.   17 December 2009: Well clearly the first thing you have to do is take a test. If you really are pregnant, avoiding taking the test won't change anything, so you might as well know for sure.... (read in full...)

I can't live with him... but I can't live without him either.

Q.   I have been in a relationship for about six months now and at the current moment it's a constant struggle. It's long distance and i only see him at weekends yet that at the beginning was totally fine as i am at Uni during the week and he works etc ...

A.   2 May 2009: I can't really provide an answer for you, but I understand what you're going through...it's pretty much the same way with me and my boyfriend. We usually see each other on the weekends, usually me going to see him, and then lots of the time he is ... (read in full...)

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