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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi, So my ex and I used to talk 24/7 all the time for about 6 months and then we dated and broke up because he wasn't mature enough to hold a relationship in the summer. Now we've had no contact whatsoever for about 7 months. I only see him twice a week, every other week for 30 minutes at school in class. I don't talk to him there though, however on the first day back from summer and back at school, he came up to me and talked to me. It wasn't anything special but it was nice. I have made eye contact with him plenty of times but I always remain expressionless and act as if he's part of the wall - or as if I can't see him. The thing is, I do not like making enemies and I hate ignoring people. I don't know if my lack of recognizing him is preventing him from talking to me or what? I do not have any feelings for him anymore at all. When we broke up, I deleted his number and hid his posts on Facebook so I couldn't see what he posted, however yesterday I decided to un-hide his posts and looked at his wall. I was wondering, should I talk to him? Or wait till he talks to me first? He really isn't a conversation starter though.. so what do I do? He was my first so I am not sure what I should do. Thanks!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 November 2011):
 You don't owe him anything, and you definitely don't have to be friends.
I wouldn't say you're ignoring him since you do respond when he talks to you. But don't feel obligated to start the conversation. Look at him as an acquaintance since you two aren't really friends. Then continue to move on with your life.
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