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I was a jerk and treated her badly but I can't stop thinking of her!

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Question - (15 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *omnoejr writes:

i don't know what to do i just movied to the city and started at a new school i started dating this girl and after 2 month i became a real jerk to here started making fun of fun they next school year she never showed up know i am older i realized that i loved her i cannot quit thinking about her i still wish i was with her why do i feel like that and what can i do to fix it

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A male reader, tomnoejr United States +, writes (19 November 2011):

tomnoejr is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you all that answered my question

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (15 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntSometimes we learn from our mistakes. If you loved her you would not have made fun of her and hurt her feelings. What else was it you done to her to make you such a jerk. It is good to hear that you feel more growing up now and you are sorry for treating her the way that you did. But I really doubt that you love her. If you did you would have treated her well and it was only for two months so it wasn't exactly the longest of relationships. My guess is that you are now feeling bad about what you done and you are realising that you did care about her, I doubt that it was love you felt for her but am sure you feel now you care about her. Is there anyway of contacting her and trying to get her forgiveness. If there is not well then you just need to let this go and move forward from it and learn from your mistakes.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (15 November 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntLet me see if I got this, since your post lacks proper grammar and punctuation..definitely not what I would expect from a 22-25yr old.

You move to a new city and school, dated this girl, then was a real jerk to her, and the next school year she wasn't enrolled in your school?? You're how old again? You sound MUCH younger than 22-25.

Why were you a jerk to her? Need more info.

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