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I want to ask her to marry me - but not for 2 years. Is this acceptalbe?

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Question - (19 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2011)
A male Nigeria age 36-40, *uza2k3 writes:

Hi, i've been into this relationship for over two years now and am planing to engage her with a ring and marry her like next 2years.i realy love her and am ready to settle down with her.But am not yet ready to get married now until next 2years,but i realy want to give her the ring just to tell her that i want to marry her. Is this right?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (19 November 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntWhat's going to be different in 2 years?

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A female reader, chickpea2011 United States +, writes (19 November 2011):

chickpea2011 agony auntHi,

Yes, it's right.

I think it's important to share you plans with her. Tell her how you feel, I am sure she will agree with you, as long as you let her know. Honesty is the best thing in a relationship. I think that 2 years is pretty fair. You need to get ready emotionally, and financially. It makes sense to me.

Congratulations!

Good luck

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (19 November 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntSure you can propose and tell her you want a long engagement for whatever reason. To comfortably plan a wedding (who am I kidding it's so stressful), your bride will need a year to get everything in order. 2 years should be plenty of time to plan a wedding.

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