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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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How to play the player ?
Q. how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...
A. 26 December 2011: Wow a month!
Again players are always steps ahead of you. When you think you have the upper hand, you really don't.
Players don't last long in "committed relationships"...or whatever causal (I'm sure) relationship you have. Don't be so naïv... (read in full...)
I think my 30 year old work associate fancies me and its making me uncomfortable
Q. hey i'm 17 i need your advice. i work in a sports centre helping teach people martial arts, mainly self defence to police and all that stuff. anyway i work closely with the head instructor and have done for nearly 2 years now. the head ...
A. 9 November 2011: Other than reminding him how inappropriate it is (which at 30, he should know better) the only other option you have is to quit.
... (read in full...)
What's going on with this girl?
Q. So had three amazing dates with this one girl I met online. Pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks or so. Things were going smoothly up until this past week haha Third date last sunday ended pretty well, with a make out outside of her c...
A. 9 November 2011: I'm surprised she contacted you again. At least she had enough tact to tell you that. Still, it doesn't soften the blow. Sorry to hear that. Don't get too discouraged, you did everything right. It's her loss. Really it's for the better.... (read in full...)
She says she cant live with me but cant live without me! What can I do to get rid of my wife's inconsistent behaviour?
Q. I am married for the last 20 months . I am 28 whereas my wife is 27. 20 months back, I met her in a stadium while watching football match and I lost my heart to her within no time. In the stadium, offered her 600000 Euros to marry me as I was ...
A. 8 November 2011: Thank you Cindy for that currency conversion!
I'm having a difficult time taking this story seriously as well. Have you paid her the money as promised? Or was there some sort of catch involved?
It doesn't make any sense for her to be upset ... (read in full...)
Is 'dry humping' morally wrong?
Q. We were making out and it just happened, we're both Christians and we want to wait till marriage to have sex, but is it wrong that we dry humped and we both enjoyed it? ...
A. 8 November 2011: Not to promote teenage sex or sexual acts. But I know Christians who still engaged in oral sex. In which if your a Christian you should avoid sexual acts all together out of temptation to go all the way. I would think that dry humping would be ... (read in full...)
Don't want to be married anymore...
Q. I have been married for 3 years and have an almost 2 year old son. I'm 24 hubby is 26. More and more for the past 2 years I have been doubting if our marriage can last. I feel like I made a huge mistake by marrying him when I did. All my teenage ...
A. 8 November 2011: Nope sorry Op, but I'm pretty happy with my life.
You got one negative comment and the rest was constructive...but yet you generalize everyone as being negative. Perhaps you should reread the comments. Remember you can on this free site asking f... (read in full...)
Crush on a male friend, but unsure if he feels the same way
Q. I really want to kiss my guy friend. We've only known each other for a couple of months, but we have quite a bit in common and I have such a big crush on him. I'm crazy about him. You have no idea how badly I want to kiss him. But I don't know if he ...
A. 8 November 2011: Mmm, I wouldn't get all ballsy and plant a kiss on him. Makes for a serious awkward situation if he doesn't return the kiss.
It's best to talk to confess that you like him more than just friends. See if he feels the same way. If he doesn't ... (read in full...)
She spent the whole time dancing without me. Am I right to be annoyed?
Q. My girlfriend and I both came from relationships where we both were unfaithful. Understanding this we have trust issues. I make every effort to be mindful and respectful of her feelings to insure she is comfortable with my actions. Recently we went ...
A. 8 November 2011: It depends. Was she dancing with another guy? Or was she dancing in a group on the dance floor?
I suspect it was the latter. It's perfectly ok to dance with a group on the dancefloor..you could have joined in. She doesn't have to dance with you... (read in full...)
I think my 30 year old work associate fancies me and its making me uncomfortable
Q. hey i'm 17 i need your advice. i work in a sports centre helping teach people martial arts, mainly self defence to police and all that stuff. anyway i work closely with the head instructor and have done for nearly 2 years now. the head ...
A. 8 November 2011: This man is very unprofessional and highly inappropriate.
Aren't there male and female locker rooms? I don't understand how you keep on seeing him naked and undressing.
You need to go to the HR manager or coordinator right away, or your in... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about money so much?
Q. My family doesn't have much money. We have enough just for the basic needs. I can't help but feel overwhelmingly jealous when I see that other people who are no better or smarter than me in any way have so much more than I do. I keep thinking ab...
A. 8 November 2011: 1. Stop looking at what other people have. It's only making you feel bad about what you don't have.
Everyone is struggling in some way in this economy. All college students have to settle for less, half not even being able to use their degrees,... (read in full...)
What's going on with this girl?
Q. So had three amazing dates with this one girl I met online. Pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks or so. Things were going smoothly up until this past week haha Third date last sunday ended pretty well, with a make out outside of her c...
A. 8 November 2011: The issue is that you're continuously displaying interest in her but her end seems to lacking.
-She's hardly texted you, in which it only texts a matter of seconds to text back. For a lot of women, their phone is a much needed social connecti... (read in full...)
Do I chose the man I love or the man I see a future with?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over half a year now and we have become pretty attatched to each other. The big "L word" has been mentioned. However, I think emotions are stronger on his side. A few months back I met another guy and ...
A. 8 November 2011: The honeymoon phase of this relationship is over. It's been a great 6 months, but this relationship has tun it's course.
Not seeing a future together is a valid reason to reason to break up with him.
Next time when you're together just br... (read in full...)
Does anyone else ever wish they were a young child again?
Q. Anyone ever wish they could go back to being a young child?.i often wish that .do i need counselling or would you say its normal to think like that ?...
A. 8 November 2011: Secretly, I sometimes wish that too. It was so easy being a child, not having a care in the world. You didn't have to worry about bills, marriage, wrinkles, gray hairs, getting a career, having a family, etc. Being an adult especially in these ... (read in full...)
What should I do to make him not move? A lot of our friends don't want him to move either
Q. The guy that I like/best friend who I am talking to wants to move. He's been wanting to move since the beginning of the school year. His parents have let him make that decision since his older sister lives to town he wants to move too but he does...
A. 8 November 2011: Unless he's an army brat, then it's ridiculous for him to move away and start another high school when he's in junior year. He'll have to make friends with teens who have already formed tight knit cliques since the beginning of their freshman year, ... (read in full...)
Why is he contacting me less than before? And am I being over anxious about the level of contact?
Q. please ANY advice would help....ok so ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year 5 months, but recently like 3-4 months ago he lost his phone so ive been pretty much the ONLY person hes talked to on a phone that he borrowed from his brother. but now a co...
A. 8 November 2011: Chill out. I think him calling you twice a day is perfectly acceptable. Anymore than that is just excessive and unnecessary.
It's also OK that he wants to call his friends..the point of having a phone is talking to multiple people on your con... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll think I was false advertising! He doesn't know that I wear a weave!
Q. hi.. Ok.. I am a light skinned black woman who has always had issues with her hair. From my complextion you would assume i would have managable hair but i dont. It doesnt grow, and its always looked rubbish. So i add a big lod afro hair piece and it ...
A. 8 November 2011: 90% of the black women I'm friends with all wear weaves. The men they date could care less about their hair piece. What they do like about it is that you can switch up your weave and have a totally different look the next week. It's so versatile! ... (read in full...)
I'm in USA and he's in Australia. Should I try to bring this LDR relationship back?
Q. Broke up with my LDR boyfriend of 1.5 years a couple months ago. Still love him, but he's being distant. Should I try to bring the relationship back? I was in a LDR for a year and a half and we broke up 2 months ago. I live in the US and he live...
A. 7 November 2011: USA girl meets Aussie guy and falls in love, been there done that.
An ILDR (international long distance relationship) is EXTREMELY hard to maintain. Much more challenging than your regular LDR.
In a regular LDR (same country), you have to have... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 7 November 2011: I'm sorry HippyChick, but I highly doubt porn has anything to do with you conceiving your twins. It sounded like you had IUI or IVF. Science and probability helped you to conceive, not porn. ... (read in full...)
After he walked out, I joined a dating site and when he found out, he dumped me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had an argument,and as normal he walked out. The day after I joined a dating site. Only a day I know, but we was not together. He has found out and now dumped me. Its the longest we have ever broke up. He says he does ...
A. 7 November 2011: I'm confused, did he dump you after storming out of the argument? Or after he found out you had a profile on a dating site?
I wonder how he found out about your profile; sounds like he may have one up himself.
If he dumped you after the fi... (read in full...)
Can you get sick from giving blowjobs?
Q. Hello, so im going to go sraight to the point, i gave my boyfriend a blow job, he asked first and i said no but he kept asking and i gave in i didnt do it for long at all he deffinitley didnt ejaculate because i told him i didnt want him too in my ...
A. 7 November 2011: Your boyfriend should respect that you don't feel like giving him a blowjob.
I've gotten sore throats days later after giving a bj..but no symptoms immediately after. I think you're a bit of a hypochondriac.
Drink some lime soda or ginger a... (read in full...)
I don't have a job or a man in my life, my ex dumped me for someone younger, my best friend is doing great in her life, while I spend my days in bed and nights crying
Q. Ok, not sure where to begin, just turned 31 and life is shit! Really bad!!! I have always had an ok job, men and good body, looked good...but in the last 6 months lost all that. Big time!!!! I've put loads weight on (despite going gym, my a...
A. 4 November 2011: 1. Go to your GP and seek help for your depression. Luckily you have NHS, so that's something to be thankful for when millions of people in the US go without healthcare.
Those people who appear to have everything, really don't. These are trying t... (read in full...)
I thought men like it when their girlfriend masturbates in front of them! Who is in the wrong here?
Q. When i masterbate my boyfriend will either roll over or not acknowledge me at all. i asked him to help me he said " why you can do it better yourself" i thought guys liked it when their girl does this, (i usually only do it after giving him oral and ...
A. 4 November 2011: Person12345 pretty much said it all.
The only thing I like to add is that masturbation is a solo act done in private. Unless of course your boyfriend says he would like to watch you flick your bean. Or if you're on top stimulating yourself... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to waste any more time but I cant let him go....
Q. So last night I asked my boyfriend directly if we were going anywhere with this relationship. He said,"Maybe, maybe not" and then said "Perhaps". "Perhaps" in his vocabulary usually means "it's not something I want to do." He said he wanted to get ...
A. 4 November 2011: If letting him go isn't an option then what exactly are you asking??
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How should I ask this girl out over facebook?
Q. Over the past couple of days I’ve met a girl at university. We seem to be mutually interested in each other and I think I have a more than decent chance of successfully asking her out. Despite the fact she’s on my course, we are doing completely ...
A. 4 November 2011: I'm not a fan of being asked out over FB, it's too impersonal. Although, it is a form of communication when in the flesh isn't an option. But there is the phone too.
Why don't you send her a message asking for her number..tell her you need the... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend messaging his cousin so I sent messages to her from her account, he thinks I should forgive him and she is going to turn the whole family against me! What should I do?
Q. I've lived with my boyfriend for 7 months all together we've been dating for 13 months and things had been going great..we used to fight sometimes over little things but lately things had been very peaceful until we decided to visit his family in ...
A. 4 November 2011: Your post is incredibly difficult to read due to the lack of punctuation, particularly a period (.). Please next time use one.
Anyways, so I got this straight. Your boyfriend emailed his cousin saying some incest related comments to her? She resp... (read in full...)
My Facebook posting upset our relationship, what should I do?
Q. I am in an LDR. It has been over a year since we met. Have been struggling a lot. It is more because of self created thoughts of insecurity even when he is honest, loyal and totally committed. I know this also but I just feel jealous of the people ...
A. 4 November 2011: Maybe I'm missing the point of the story here, since you're rather vague and fail to make the question clear..
But are you asking to apologize about the lack of sex due to the distance or because you happen to be a virgin and have not had sex just... (read in full...)
She is more like my sister so I don't know why the sudden coldness and indifference to my wedding plans! Help!
Q. I have a bit of a problem with my friend that i dont no how to address. She is more like my sister and we have been inseperable since young children so it is obvious then that when i started planning my wedding i asked her to be my maid of honour. ...
A. 4 November 2011: How close is it to your wedding??
I don't think it's so much jealousy, it's more of she thinks she's losing you.
You two have been have been basically sisters your whole life. Now, you're getting married and having a whole new life that barely ... (read in full...)
Are there other T shirt addicts out there?
Q. Dear All, My boyfriend is addicted to buying T Shirts. Sometimes he will spend approx £60 on T shirts, normally white, and there is no space in the wardrobe. Then he is reluctant to get rid of his other T shirts. Is there other T shirt addicts ...
A. 4 November 2011: My neighbors husband is a T-shirt addict. Doubt there is any support groups out there for these men...
Anyways, you can ask him to donate the t-shirts he no longer wears (or forgets about because he has too many) to Goodwill, Salvation, or whate... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend and her mom to stop giving money to her brother? I think he's cheating on his wife!
Q. how can i stop this? hi my girlfriend and her mum keep giving money to there brother / son. he's got a good job makes 1800 a month driving for the same company as me. but he keeps asking for money and saying " dont tell my wife " i think hes ...
A. 4 November 2011: Unfortunately, you can't MAKE your girlfriend or her mother stop giving $$ to their own flesh and blood.
As far as the alleged cheating goes you have no proof, so it's best that you mind your own business.
Your girlfriend is right it's her m... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to let me spend Thanksgiving with my boyfriend? And allow me to spend the night?
Q. I know this is a silly question, but I need help. My boyfriend of a year has invited me to spend Thanksgiving with his family, and of course I want to go. The problem is, my parents are kind of strict (I live at home) and I can't see them agreeing ...
A. 4 November 2011: Honestly, if you already know she's going to say "no" then I wouldn't bother asking.
Call me old fashioned but unless you are engaged/married OR he has his own place you can spend the night at, I think it's inappropriate to spend the night in... (read in full...)
I can never talk to my LDR boyfriend anymore and I may be pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a Long distance relationship only a 2hour drive away. Were almost at a year in January but have been friends for 5 year going on 6. These past three months he's hardly talked to me but he doesn't stop completely. One ...
A. 4 November 2011: When was the last time you say your boyfriend in the flesh? Reason why I ask because, it makes no sense that you're pregnant by your LD boyfriend.
Have you missed a period?? Miss period, then take a test. At the moment, there's no sense in worry... (read in full...)
When a girl smiles at you and says something kinda ignorant but with sarcasm,what does that mean?
Q. Ok girls this ones for you... I have yet to determine what this means when she does it,maybe you can tell me When a girl smiles at you and says something kinda ignorant but with sarcasm,what does that mean? Example: Sean you're such a sma...
A. 4 November 2011: It means, "Sean you're a smartass, but I like it." ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to set a mood for my first time?
Q. I'm planning to lose my virginity to my boyfriend in the not-too-distant future, but while I'm excited about the prospect I know I'm going to be pretty nervous too! I'd like to create an atmosphere in the bedroom (nothing too extravagent - maybe ...
A. 4 November 2011: Honestly, your boyfriend isn't going to care what the room looks like. All he cares about is what you and him are doing on that bed.
If you want to get all decorative and romantic for your first time, then by all means go for it. Instead of tea l... (read in full...)
If she doesn't like me in that way, why did she care about my date so much?
Q. Hey guys! Thoroughly confused here! So essentially, there's a girl who I've liked on an off for a while. On sunday night, we were both at the same party and we started talking. I'd recently (last Friday) been on a date with another girl bec...
A. 4 November 2011: My what a confusing girl.
Was this girl inebriated at the party when you two were discussing your date, and she was talking about her feelings? The only thing I can think of, is that she was feeding you lip service while drunk, then was embarras... (read in full...)
Doubtful if I did the right thing.
Q. Hi, When I was younger ( 4-5 years ago ) I started a relationship with a girl from my class. It went fine and was your run of the mill high school relationship. We used to chat for hours over the internet and phone. We would hold hands and talk in ...
A. 4 November 2011: At what point did you lead her on? You didn't. It's not like you dumped her after she declined your offer to have sex.
The break-up was a mutual one, and most likely due to you leaving the country.
It's pointless to ask her now how she felt... (read in full...)
Found out my husband had an affair and frequents massage parlors....should I leave?
Q. We have been married for 30 years. I thought we had a great sexual relatioship but find out now that my husband had an affair for 2 years in our 3rd yr of marriage. Ten yrs later he met up with the same woman and I'm not sure what took place ( ...
A. 3 November 2011: Well after 30 years of marriage, your husband has been have affairs and getting a handjob (which is prostitution). Apparently, being married for 30 years means nothing to him!!!!
It's not you. He made the decision to cheat numerous times on you. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a bruise on that part of your body without it leaving a mark?
Q. I have a question about a mysterious bruise incident. Fact: She told me had a bruise and it hurt like heck and she got it by bumping into the sharp corner of her dresser in the dark, on her chest. Fact: The next day she showed me where the brui...
A. 3 November 2011: Who is she?
Do you think she lied about how she obtained this bruise, perhaps someone hit her?
Is she a type of person who milks her injuries for the extra attention??
As everyone else has already said, yes it's possible to have a sore ... (read in full...)
After giving me a gorgeous ring, we had some difficult times and he has never mentioned marriage again!
Q. hello. I am a single mother of two who has had a boyfriend of five years. At the beginning he proposed to me with a georgous ring. We then went through some bad times with him strongly wanting me to abort our baby saying wrong time. I went through ...
A. 3 November 2011: Have you two sought counseling after the abortion? Perhaps, he's experiencing some regret.
Like Aunt Honesty said, talk to him and find out where he stands with setting a wedding date. ... (read in full...)
I said I loved him, he responded with I like you, I'm confused?
Q. ok me and mt bf have been goin out for almost a year now he takes care of me he is nice kind genleman gives me wat i want all the time but oneday i asked him how he felt about me. i doubt since he was giving money and paying for my phone bills and ...
A. 3 November 2011: Definitely not an English major! Although, I would expect better punctuation and grammar from a med student.
Anyways, if this guy really loved you then he wouldn't be afraid to admit it. Also, if you really loved him, then you wouldn't be using... (read in full...)
How do I apologize for not going to the party?
Q. I want to apologise to this girl i know, but i'm not sure what to say to her. She invited me to her grandad's birthday pary a few months ago her grandad is my sister in law's dad, and this girl is my sister in law's niece ).I said i would go at ...
A. 3 November 2011: I wouldn't worry about it.
It's not like he was your grandfather, and it wasn't a formal party were you RSVPed, so it's best to brush off this situation.
By the time you see your SIL next year, I'm sure she will have already forgotten about ... (read in full...)
My wife made out with another woman when I was not there. Should I be mad? Worried? Turned on?
Q. My wife made out with another woman at a Halloween party. Should I be jealous, mad? We have talked about fantasies involving a 3 some from time to time over the years. A few times, during sex, we have even talked about her doing something with ...
A. 3 November 2011: It depends how you feel about it. We can't tell you, how you feel (or should feel).
Sounds like you're wife is bi-curious and explored another woman's mouth. Regardless of the gender, it's still cheating. She engaged in physical contact with som... (read in full...)
I feel burdened by my friends problems, help?
Q. Hi, I know it might seem a bit ironic me asking this question, but i'll ask anyway :P Basically, some of my friends are going through some rough times, mostly with girls and stuff like that. Things haven't been working out for them, so obvious...
A. 3 November 2011: Mmm, if they're having this difficult of a time now, they had better invest in therapists for when they're having to make it in the real world.
I would gently tell them, while you're hear as a shoulder to cry on, they're drenching your shirt. W... (read in full...)
How to play the player ?
Q. how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...
A. 3 November 2011: Honestly, don't waste your time.
Players are VERY good at what they do, and CANNOT be challenged by women trying to counteract their sexual arrangement. The thing is, they've already outsmarted you, gotten what they wanted, and will get out of t... (read in full...)
I want to take my new girlfriend to the strip club and watch her touching other girls
Q. I want to take my new girlfriend to a strip club, but am not sure what her reaction will be. For you girls, if you have been dating a guy for a month or so and he askes you if you want to accompany him to a strip club, what would be your re...
A. 1 November 2011: A similar matter happened to me.
My boyfriend at the time lied to me of where we were going and we ended up at a strip club with him and his friends. I was extremely pissed off and annoyed that he didn't bother asking me. He knew the answer w... (read in full...)
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