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Are we dating or are we in a relationship?
Q. So there is a guy that I really like, but I'm confused about what we are. We went out for a few dates etc and really hit it off. We have similar interest and I would like to go to the next level with him. So far we've went on about 4 dates. Recent...
A. 16 April 2015: you're just dating at this point. dating is not necessarily the same as hooking up. hooking up is just about sex......dating is about building a foundation for a relationship and getting to know each other. if you confront him and start demanding a ... (read in full...)
Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?
Q. Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...
A. 26 August 2012: Have you considered giving it up for adoption INSTEAD OF ABORTIN if you can not go back with your baby or stay in the u.s. to take care of it?
just a thought............................ (read in full...)
Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?
Q. Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...
A. 25 August 2012: I say keep the child of course, stay in the US as society there will not look down on you but might be able to help you. Tell him that you do not want him in your child's life but would appreciate it if he could at least pay you back all the mone... (read in full...)
The tall and short of it
Q. Iam 6 foot 7 and My Girl Is 5foot1 When She Pulls Me Down To Smooch . She Loves To French Kiss But I Don't How Can I Get Her To Stop Kissing Me Like This ?...
A. 3 June 2012: Tell her how turned on you are by tender sensual kisses and really don't miss the high school" i want to devour you" days of kissing" lol Just be honest and tell her you're not really into it and it does nothing for you but you do like her as a ... (read in full...)
The tall and short of it
Q. Iam 6 foot 7 and My Girl Is 5foot1 When She Pulls Me Down To Smooch . She Loves To French Kiss But I Don't How Can I Get Her To Stop Kissing Me Like This ?...
A. 3 June 2012: HOW OLD IS SHE?
WHAT IS SHE TRYING TO PROVE?... (read in full...)
My BF cheated on me, I cant get over it but I cant leave him because I have nowhere to go, no family, no job and no car
Q. Please help me with my problem. I do not know what to do. Last month I caught my boyfriend cheating on me. It was graphic and a very bloody fight happen. After a week from that horrible day, I could not leave him. Since then he has tried everyt...
A. 1 June 2012: Oh hun, im so sorry to hear that you are hurting. I know its hard to be put between a rock and a hard place but remember the saying that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger so don't despair, you will come out of this on top!! For now, show him ... (read in full...)
How can I show my boyfriend I really love him with out having sex ?
Q. how can i show my boyfriend i really love him with out having sex with him i am planning to be with him for a very long time any ideas tips it would realy help!...
A. 26 May 2012: Sex does not prove love.........it only proves you are sexually attracted to that person and from a biological point of view it means that you find him compatible for procreation! If you want to show him that you indeed love him then tell him, show ... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt a lot?
Q. my bf once told me that girls have a lot of pain while having sex for the first time.is it true? then why is it so? i never had sex. he told that u must be scared of marrying me, and he then told me that it is for just 1st night, other nights will ...
A. 7 April 2012: It only hurts if you are not relaxed and aroused.......if your first time is when you are ready and with a guy you love, then it should be pleasurable and pain free. My first time was not painful at at all. We had lots of foreplay first and he ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex terribly, should I try and get in touch?
Q. My ex and i have been broken up for two months. We were together about a year he is the one that broke it off just saying things weren't going to work and he didn't want to try anymore. I miss him terribly should i try to make contact? Even though ...
A. 28 March 2012: Of course he will contact you again, they always do:)............BUT............don't just sit there waiting for him to contact you BECAUSE THAT NOT GOOD FOR YOU AND IT'S A VERY BIG TURN OFF FOR MEN. Live your life, have fun, go out with your ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex terribly, should I try and get in touch?
Q. My ex and i have been broken up for two months. We were together about a year he is the one that broke it off just saying things weren't going to work and he didn't want to try anymore. I miss him terribly should i try to make contact? Even though ...
A. 27 March 2012: DO NOT CONTACT HIM..........the more you try to go after him the more he will pull away. If you want him back, the best thing you can do is move on with your life, forget about him and let him wander about you and come to YOU. ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from best guy friend. Please help!
Q. We've been best friends for 4 years. now he's 17 and I'm 20) Our jokes have now become way more sexual this year and kinda serious this past weekend. Even our texts are bad, almost like sexting! We were talking about sex and I said "You wouldn't ...
A. 27 March 2012: He obviously finds you attractive and what 17 yr old guy would pass up the chance to flirt/talk about sex but be very careful and make sure he is not keeping you as his security blanket while trying to have his cake and seat it too. Talk to him and ... (read in full...)
How to deal with lies at school?
Q. I know this isn't the usual type of question for this site, but I pray you will help me anyway. there's this guy at school, who is spreading vicious lies about me [he's telling everyone I told him i'd be happy if he killed himself] when I ...
A. 27 March 2012: Try talki g to him and find out if there was a misunderstanding........it is possible that he took something you said and turned it around in his head to make it sound like you did say that or maybe he is trying to hurt you be trying harder to help ... (read in full...)
Forgiving a friend?
Q. Hey Aunts and Uncles Do you think friends should be forgiven anything or is there a line you draw? one of my friends needed nursing (cancer) which I did whenever I had spare time I also cooked cleaned shopped did injections and slept over if...
A. 27 March 2012: If you truly were friends then you should try to forgive her and realize she made a mistake for which she is sorry and wants a second chance. We all make mistakes hun, you, me, her, everyone does or said things we shouldn't one time or another. If ... (read in full...)
Can we have sex on our wedding night when he's going to be in a cast?
Q. I am 24 and a virgin. It's not like I didn't choose this because I wanted to give my all to my gorgeous fiance. Anyway we get married in May and I was fine with the idea of how we will spend the night and what we will get up to in the bedroom. ...
A. 24 March 2012: It will be no problem hun.........just focus more on making love rather then having sex so be more gentle with each other( a lot of touching, kissing, petting...etc) As far as positions, his cast will not interfere any more then if you were to wear ... (read in full...)
How do I offer this FWB situation to him without sounding like a whore?
Q. I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we have gone on a couple of dates. Well.... last week we had sex, but he let me know that he he is not interested in a girlfriend and Im not interested in a boyfriend. I want to be FWB but also ...
A. 22 March 2012: Hun,
What you want...............nest friend and sex to us women usually means a relationship. FWB means sex but no emotional support from him, no commitment, obviously, no phone calls the next day to see how you're feeling.......no strings.... (read in full...)
Does this disgust girls?
Q. Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...
A. 23 December 2011: Not at all hun, I actually find it a turn on.........knowing that my partner is aroused by me and by what we are doing:) It's perfectly normal and a sign that you are healthy!
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Can this happen? My Sex drive is gone, and I'm only 20 years old
Q. I have lost my sex drive completely. I have an amazing fiance of four years, and we never have sex anymore, b/c I don't want too. I'm only 20 years old, and I don't care for it. As of right this very moment, i don't care if i EVER have sex again. At ...
A. 30 October 2011: I experienced this as well when I was around your age and yes, looking back it was because the relationship was getting stale and although I loved him so much, I was a little tired of all his crap and a bit bored with "us" as well. If you are not on ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me with my confusion? I was positive that I was straight, now I'm not sure?
Q. i'm here because i'm confused about my sexuality and i don't know what to do. For awhile now i have been thinking about men, specifically kissing and having sex with them and even having a relationship with another man. I try not to but when i g...
A. 30 October 2011: HONEY............you are gay and too scared to admit it to yourself because you are afraid of the reaction you will face from your friends and family. There is nothing wrong with you, be yourself and don't be scared. Here's a thought for ... (read in full...)
IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!
Q. I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...
A. 29 October 2011: THAT IS RIDICULOUS..................A woman's ass will not grow just because she's been having a lot of sex,lol. Maybe that's her body type and that's how she gains weight............we all gain differently,for some of us it goes on the stomach and ... (read in full...)
Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 29 October 2011: You need to see your doctor about this hun.........!... (read in full...)
My past is coming back to haunt me.....
Q. I have a very big problem about my past and I'm not sure how to handle it. My husband I are married almost 10 years, and together over 10 years. My husband thinks that I was not only a virgin when we started dating, but he also thinks that I was CO...
A. 27 October 2011: Since you haven't actually lied to your husband, telling him the complete truth now, after all these years will either hurt him or make him feel like a fool so I would not open that can of worms if I were you. As far as the ex goes, I would talk to ... (read in full...)
Why the sudden change in my wife with sex?
Q. My wife made me beg her for sex for 13 years. I went out of town a couple of weeks ago for the weekend and ever since I got back that's all she wants to do now...
A. 27 October 2011: Maybe shes afraid of losing you and read too much into your "weekend get away" Be happy and enjoy yourselves and reassure her of how much you still love and desire her:)... (read in full...)
Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?
Q. Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...
A. 26 October 2011: THEY JUST WANT TO PLAY WITH THE PRETTY BOY.......they know he is a player and irresponsible so they have no long term expectations from him............its just for fun! Women who want to have a family or a serious relationship will want a mature, ... (read in full...)
Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?
Q. Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...
A. 24 October 2011: Of course personality and confidence are faaaaaar more important then looks and they can even help a man become more attractive in a woman's eyes............with time! but that initial attraction has to be physical AS WELL unless you are 80 and just ... (read in full...)
Is he missing me? he has not directly apologized, but he is posting profile pictures of himself from when we were together
Q. If a guy starts posting his profile pictures as those from the time when you were together...but not exactly the ones you're in... is he just thinking of the general time or could he... possibly missing you. He has given other signals, like rea...
A. 23 October 2011: Not necessarily hun, it could be that he just likes how he looks in those pics best and like most of us, he wants to put up a profile pic that he feels good about..If he was missing you, he would call or email you or tell a friend of yours to tell ... (read in full...)
I definitely like this new girl more, and would rather date her, but she's my girlfriend's friend!
Q. So i've been dating a girl for almost 3 years. but within the last 2 months i've really started falling for her best friend, whom she recently met. i seriously think i'm in love with this friend. she is more attractive than my girlfriend (i never ...
A. 23 October 2011: Do the right thing and end the relationship with your gf first! ... (read in full...)
Would an older guy be interested in someone mature or innocent?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and I usually like older guys, like who are in their mid to late twenties. This is a step up for me as before I used to like my middle aged teachers. I don't know if it's because I grew up without a father or what, but I tend to act very ...
A. 7 October 2011: It depends on the guy hun. Just because he is older does not mean that hew is also mature, so.........an immature guy will like younger girls so that he can feel young again and have more fun then he would have with an older girl or woman. a mature ... (read in full...)
Is he falling for me again? Or does he not reply because he feels guilty because he's married now or does he have some other agenda?
Q. My ex and I were together for over 10 years There was a bad breakup. He wouldn't talk to me for a long time. He married after a short time. Now I started to contact him because we bumped into each other and it made my heart race again. He takes my...
A. 5 October 2011: Please don't be offended but it sounds to me like he is just being polite but doesn't want to initiate contact because he doesn't want to lead you on or start anything again and perhaps because of your past there is no way for him to see it simply ... (read in full...)
I seen that he has moved on and I smiled. Does that mean I'm over him?
Q. Is this a good thing and does it mean i have no feelings or what so ever for this guy anymore. I was on facebook and saw a picture of him and this girl who i assume he is seeing, instead of me wanting that to be me or feeling even a little bit upset ...
A. 2 October 2011: Yes, it means you have moved on and you don't have any more romantic feelings for him. They say that the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. ... (read in full...)
My online guy of a month wants to marry me! Is it really meant to be?
Q. OMG..I have a problem I'm so confused idk what to do..so here I go!! Ok I met this guy through the internet and we have been talking for a while now close to a month but we talk on the phone and txt and send pictures of eachother but you see he ...
A. 1 October 2011: He is either playing with you or he he totally desperate.......both are red flags. You need to meet someone first, spent lots of time with them to get to know them (months or years) before you even think about marriage. Tell him you want to take it ... (read in full...)
Do men really want the same things as women?
Q. Do men really want the same as women? Like settling down have a family, kids etc! I just want that but finding it hard to find! Men I meet just seem to use you take advantage tell u that u are the best thing to happen to them, but they dont want the ...
A. 1 October 2011: It depends on how they are and how they are raised.........every man is different. Some are career men(best suited for career women or bimbos who want to use them for money), some are family men, some just want to wonder around the world partying on ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that the only thing I'm really concerned about is what my body will look like postpartum?
Q. My fiance and I are both 21, been together for three years, we're both continuing our educations, and we're 2.5 months pregnant. I know we'll survive financially because we already have a few thousand saved up from working so much the last three ...
A. 28 September 2011: P.S. Please feel free to contact me via PM with you have anuy questions regarding nutrition for yourself or your baby........it would be my pleasure to help out a young mother:)
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Is it weird that the only thing I'm really concerned about is what my body will look like postpartum?
Q. My fiance and I are both 21, been together for three years, we're both continuing our educations, and we're 2.5 months pregnant. I know we'll survive financially because we already have a few thousand saved up from working so much the last three ...
A. 28 September 2011: No hun, it's not weird because you are very young, but it would be best if you concentrated and concerned yourself more with the new baby that will be entering your life............things will be ok and your body won't change all that much because ... (read in full...)
I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed
Q. Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in ...
A. 27 September 2011: You are absolutely right to feel this way..........not because you guys had some kind of commitment that he broke but because he acted with disrespect towards you AND that other woman. He simply used her while continuing to talk to you because he is ... (read in full...)
My ex and I text each other a lot. Does this mean he still has feelings for me?
Q. ok so some years ago i was dating this guy. He was awesome. We didnt went too far on our relationship just held hands kissed n some cuddling, then he got me at a point where i was so head over hills for him and he tells me he didnt wanted us to co...
A. 24 September 2011: Hun, please don't think I trying to be mean but I just want to say it the way it looks to me..........sure there is a chance(very unlikely)that he has any romantic feelings for you. Ihave been through a similar situation and it looks more like he ... (read in full...)
I need ideas for an education that is shorter than college!
Q. Please take a little time to read my story everyone..So, to start with i'm a pregnant teenager (19), due in 3 1/2 months, and i just recently moved in with my mom. Things arent so easy and i need advice. I seem to be screwed from every angle i ...
A. 16 September 2011: Hi hun, I can totally relate to your story........my parents were immigrants and weren't able to to help me out financially with school either and they also didn't know how to push me because it was a new country and culture for them. I ... (read in full...)
Does Online Dating work for men??
Q. Hi all, So I have been trying to make sense of this... Does online dating really work for men? I ask this because I put up my profile on 2 sites (one famous paid site and one famous free site) and am very surprised to see absolutely no r...
A. 30 August 2011: Yes of course it works as long as you are willing to put some time into it. It's not like going shopping hun, you don't come home with what you desire right away. If a woman responds to you and corresponds with you for a while and then suddenly ... (read in full...)
Did I insult him by asking if he's gay?
Q. If you think a guy might possibly be gay and after you decide to ask him about it and he blows up at you and doesn't want to speak to you anymore. Is that an admission or did I insult him?...
A. 29 August 2011: You are right..........you would typically expect that from a much younger and inexperienced guy BUT if this man did not have much experience before he got married and the whole time he was with his wife he just used her to get himself off and did ... (read in full...)
Did I insult him by asking if he's gay?
Q. If you think a guy might possibly be gay and after you decide to ask him about it and he blows up at you and doesn't want to speak to you anymore. Is that an admission or did I insult him?...
A. 27 August 2011: I see...........I don't think he's necessarily gay. Definitely a bad lover and/or emotionally immature and closed off. Not all bad lovers are gay hun. He was unable to let himself open up and completely enjoy the moment.............perhaps he has ... (read in full...)
Did I insult him by asking if he's gay?
Q. If you think a guy might possibly be gay and after you decide to ask him about it and he blows up at you and doesn't want to speak to you anymore. Is that an admission or did I insult him?...
A. 25 August 2011: Do you mind sharing what that strange sexual behavior was? It sounds like you might have projected your sexual frustration on him with a "are you gay?" question and if that is true then it's understandable that a man....gay or not.... would get ... (read in full...)
Did I insult him by asking if he's gay?
Q. If you think a guy might possibly be gay and after you decide to ask him about it and he blows up at you and doesn't want to speak to you anymore. Is that an admission or did I insult him?...
A. 24 August 2011: Gay or not gay, his reaction is appropriate since he was shocked by your direct and aggressive way of wanting to know(if he is gay then he was insulted and shocked by you tring to force him out of the closet when not ready yet and if he isn't gay ... (read in full...)
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