New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244966 questions, 1084314 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*uckiies

United States  (Male   XML/RSS

Like what he writes?
... Add *uckiies to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *uckiies a private message

*uckiies's Ratings
Excellent82%
Average5%
Poor14%

Am I a rebound or does he actually like me?

Q.   I like my friends brother.. He is two years older than me. I think he likes me too but I'm not sure. He always calls me hun , he holds my hand ( he says he enjoys to hold hands ) , we text all day and all night. When I spend the night at my fr...

A.   19 August 2010: well. live it up and have fun with him. If really cares about you than thats all that matters. enjoy and take it slow... (read in full...)

How do I make my body smaller and my boobs bigger?

Q.   i am 14 and i have small boobs (38A). i am about 5'6'' and i weigh almost 200 lbs. people always make fun of my weight. and my friends talk about how my boobs are smaller than theirs. most of my friends are C's and DD's. i was wondering how i can ...

A.   19 August 2010: just eat right. you can change your self. if you want to change your self u need to run run run and eat healthy food only veggies and not soda no chips and stuff like that. no dressing for salad .. lets change your lifestyle and be someone new ... (read in full...)

Am I a rebound or does he actually like me?

Q.   I like my friends brother.. He is two years older than me. I think he likes me too but I'm not sure. He always calls me hun , he holds my hand ( he says he enjoys to hold hands ) , we text all day and all night. When I spend the night at my fr...

A.   19 August 2010: Idk I think you are a rebound. But I think he liked you for a while. You shouldnt worry so much. Just have fun and enjoy yourself. Just don't have sex.. he be using you if he wants sex already. just go for it, we only live once... (read in full...)

Okay so if he likes me... how can I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I like my bestows older brother (of two years) . He likes ne too I think. I'll tell some stories to show why I think that. - Briana ( my bestie) , her brother , and I had our anual movie night. It was her brothers turn to pick the movie , so h...

A.   19 August 2010: OMG PERFECT.. this is your chance.. just relax and smile . LOOK CUTE AND innocent. Soon or later he will ask you out. just be patient. and take it slow... (read in full...)

Help! I can't physically have sex!

Q.   I really need some help/tips with this recent problem that I just discovered. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and ready to have sex and we tried a couple of times already but he just can't enter me. It has nothing to do with me not being wet ...

A.   19 August 2010: wow hes must be big. Um make sure its the vagina and not the a hole LOL. Maybe your to tight for him and hes to large.. just use lubricate or something to make it slide in have fun (:. take it slow... (read in full...)

Help! How do I get his attention?

Q.   i really like this guy but we never had a conversation and he doesnt even know my name help. it is the first two days of school and i just gotten to get used to the class the atmosphere and the people around me.my first day yesterday i saw ...

A.   19 August 2010: Dont listen to them. Just be yourself. Im sure he was checkin you out. I love the fact when girls stare at me in class. Makes me feel special. Just relax and be friendly. Smile a lot and make him feel special. Soon or later he will notice you and ... (read in full...)

How can I make my girl feel comfortable with sex?

Q.   my girlfriend and i have had sex like 5 times but we havent in a while cus shes afraid its ganna hurt...we both lost our verginiy to eachother so we are both new to sex but i cant get her to relax...what do i do?...

A.   19 August 2010: take it slow and relax.. been there before.. just talk to each other throughout the sex... (read in full...)

Would it be a mistake to go out with him?

Q.   I met this guy at a party at the beginning of this year - he didn't hide that he fancied me but I wasn't really interested so I just left it. I hadn't seen him in a few months but a few weeks ago I went to another party that he was at. We started ...

A.   19 August 2010: Plain and simple. Give it a shot. worst come to worst you break up. JUST GO FOR IT, WE ONLY LIVE ONCE... (read in full...)

Okay so if he likes me... how can I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I like my bestows older brother (of two years) . He likes ne too I think. I'll tell some stories to show why I think that. - Briana ( my bestie) , her brother , and I had our anual movie night. It was her brothers turn to pick the movie , so h...

A.   19 August 2010: all you can do now is be yourself. AND follow the flow. Just ask him what happening to us. And if he clearly doesnt like you. You gotta move on... (read in full...)

He won't tell me if he likes me or not and I really want to know

Q.   We have been friends for years (ever since first grade) and I never thought of him more than my friend. We have texed each other for months.... His sister knows this and has no problem with it. We stay up all day and night texting each other. He ...

A.   19 August 2010: JUST make sure he doesnt he wants you.. and not something in your pants.. most people who smokes and drinks only wants to have sex and think they badass all the time.. so becareful and be warned I cant say that. becos i always wanted to have sex... (read in full...)

He's starting to choose clubbing over me...

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...

A.   19 August 2010: Well. Its my opinion . i dont know how much you care about this boy. Things don't seem what they really are. For example, My brother had this girlfriend over 5 years now.. they fell in love just like that. They were so happy for one another ... (read in full...)

Cystic fibrosis and pregnancy.

Q.   Me and my partner are trying for a baby and i have cystic fibrosis, i have heard rumours that being pregnant with cystic fibrosis can cause heart failure and other problems but i think its people just trying to scare me, is this true?? Is there ...

A.   19 August 2010: Well, You shouldnt ask people on here. Its best to ask your doctor and ask for advice and help. I dont want anything to happen to you guys and the baby.. So i highly recommend seeing a doctor ... (read in full...)

Best friend phoney?

Q.   Okay, so I have this friend and we have been friends for a while and I consider her my best friend. But it seems she has too many friends and never has time to hang out with me. I'm not sure if she doesn't like me or what, but she never seems to ...

A.   18 August 2010: NAH you shouldnt stop being her friends.. Just have fun and relax.Gossip or talk about things u guys like. Don't be serious about anything. She has her own life too. Be more sociable and make new friends as well. Enjoy life JUST GO FOR IT, WE o... (read in full...)

How do I get this girl out of my head?

Q.   (im 13)i had a gf she i loved her i know u think 13 is too young for love but i did but then she cheated on me with a 16 year old, i dunno if it was just kissing or sex but she was decent enough to tell me so like anyone i dumped her a few days ...

A.   18 August 2010: Move on! You got a better girlfriend. She's only being selfish and stubborn, you deserve much more.. we only live once!... (read in full...)

He's starting to choose clubbing over me...

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...

A.   18 August 2010: Move on. Im sorry. I dont think you can handle him.. If he stay with him any longer, than he will find a another girl. Just straight up and ask him . do you still like me. He is fading away. I know its haard.. to tell you the truth I had the sa... (read in full...)

Okay so if he likes me... how can I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I like my bestows older brother (of two years) . He likes ne too I think. I'll tell some stories to show why I think that. - Briana ( my bestie) , her brother , and I had our anual movie night. It was her brothers turn to pick the movie , so h...

A.   18 August 2010: Well. just talk to him alot(dont stalk him) and be relax and be yourself.. Smile alot and be friendly. Make him feel special. He soon realize that you like him and will make hes first move... (read in full...)

I can' t forget him; what do you think I should I do?

Q.   Could you help me? Here's my screwed up situation: He liked me for over a year and showed it, like staring and trying to talk to me but I was quite shy and didn't really talk back that much, and never told him I liked him back. That was all of ...

A.   18 August 2010: If you still want him. just talk. Smile. laugh. and make sure your relax and be yourself.. If he ignores you..fck it move on.. he just wasting your time... (read in full...)

How can I be sure she likes me?

Q.   Hey, im new to this but like, i just wanted to ask a question, im 14 and so is my girlfriend, and we only just started going out, i asked a question earlier this week and someone said just ask and she said 'yh i do' but how can i be sure? thanks...

A.   18 August 2010: yeah.. if she willing to go out with you.l she likes you BE MORE CONFIDENT. Relax and have fun.. make you kiss her nice and slow. Be passionate .. make her feel special... (read in full...)

He won't tell me if he likes me or not and I really want to know

Q.   We have been friends for years (ever since first grade) and I never thought of him more than my friend. We have texed each other for months.... His sister knows this and has no problem with it. We stay up all day and night texting each other. He ...

A.   18 August 2010: to be honest. dont go for him.. If he drunks and smokes at that age, isnt right for you.. yeah he can look cute and fun now .. but once he gets older and u aswell you realize u made a big mistake.. He probably does like you because he cant get... (read in full...)

Okay so if he likes me... how can I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I like my bestows older brother (of two years) . He likes ne too I think. I'll tell some stories to show why I think that. - Briana ( my bestie) , her brother , and I had our anual movie night. It was her brothers turn to pick the movie , so h...

A.   18 August 2010: yeah its a date. go for it. we only live once ... (read in full...)

Problems with PE( premature ejaculation) please help

Q.   I, 18, have been dating my girlfriend, 19, for almost 2 years. We first started having sex 7 months into our relationship. We had experiance oral sex only 5 months into out relationship. I love my girlfriend and although she doesn't find herself ...

A.   18 August 2010: DUDE .. IT helps me. to talk a hot shower before hand and destory some of you sperm. So you can last a bbit long and you wont eject.. it probably takes awhile to make u eject if u take a hot shower... (read in full...)

I think he used me! why do boys do this?

Q.   there is this boy who i really liked, ive liked him for 5months now, we snuck out, one night and we has sexual intercourse, and then the next day he ignored me and he keeps ignoring me, and i feel very used, i really love him, why do boys do that to ...

A.   18 August 2010: move on. plain and simple. Hes gonna want to have sex again and just move on.. So best thing is to move on. IM sorry but there isnt much you can do .. now. best of luck... (read in full...)

I'm still a virgin !

Q.   Im 23 and still a virgin,I once used to be very proud of the fact because unlike the other girls my age Im not just willing to sleep with any guy,the only problem is now the older im getting im finding it hard to even get in a relationship with a ...

A.   18 August 2010: DONT WORRY if you are still a virgin. I think it precious to keep. Give it to someone you have passion for it. You probably give him the best sex of hes life because you really love him. Just be more relax and dont worry about it much. You will find ... (read in full...)

How can I make him more confident?

Q.   i have this guy friend and we were always pretty good friends but we always had a bit of a thing for eachother and now we're in a sort of relationship but we're taking things pretty slowly. when it comes to guys, im only as confident as the...

A.   18 August 2010: haha THIS is funny. Great story. I think he wouldnt mind you making the move. To be honest, it probably turn him on. I suggest you, if you wanna kiss him lean in and he will eventually lean in too. Just make sure you take everything slowly , meaning ... (read in full...)

Do I go for it or do I wait?

Q.   hey im 13 and in a month im gunnu lose my virginty im not shur if me or my gf are ready we both realy love eachother if i had 2 lose it to anyone its her and this bleeding think is frekin me out and im kinda strong and dont know my own strength if ...

A.   18 August 2010: we can only you give you advice. This is the question you need to answer.Can you take care of her? Do you know what to do and have a safe sex? What happens if the condom break? I read in the news a 13 year old kid had a baby with a 15 year old. The ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to contact him but I can't stop thinking about him

Q.   So there is this boy I liked and we talked a bit in school. He wasn't rude to me or anything but he was very flirty with all the girls. He's really attractive and a lot of girls liked him. I have learned that we have a lot in common and I'm stil...

A.   18 August 2010: Okay, I am guessing you confuse about your feelings for him.In my opinion you should just talk to him again. Plain and simple. Just do what seems right. You need to relax and have more confidence. I liked a girl, but unsure she likes me.. I S... (read in full...)

Please get out of my head!

Q.   Hey Everyone. So I really just need som advice on how to get a boy off of my mind. I made the huge mistake of becoming friends with a boy who is a complete player and will try to convince girl into doing things that they arnt ready for. I was one ...

A.   18 August 2010: When I was the that boys age I was too a player(hate to admit it). I agree with dirtbalL, that kid is trying to everything he can to get to sleep with him. Don't be fool of hes sweet talk and hes cockiness. Just turn him down as many times as he ... (read in full...)

Is a 6 year age difference too much to date someone?

Q.   if theres a 6 year differance in between you and someone else would it be ok if you date them? this is just a random thought im not actually saying i wana date a 10year old, im just saying is a 6 year age differance too mutch? i have a friend and ...

A.   18 August 2010: yeah it basically what we talkin about.. but at age 13 is still a minor it be illegal to date her. So i dont know what you wanna do.. I say you should move on... (read in full...)

How do I find friends or get more involved?

Q.   hey, me and my friends used to be close and always use to do things together bt now they have full time jobs and have there own friends and didnt anvite me out nowere no more. its really makin me feel down as im stuck in all the time. what can i do ...

A.   17 August 2010: You worry to much. I have a similar problem. Be more fun and relax. Go out to cafe or bookstore or even a local store. Talk to anyone whose around you. BE goofy! Just be honest and truthful to yourself and people around you. Make plans with friends ... (read in full...)

Does she love me or not? I am so confused!

Q.   For the past two years I have been in love with a 34 year old woman in my office I am 47 but the age thing is unimportant to her. She has been living for the past five years with her boyfriend who seems abusive to her. On several occasions she has ...

A.   17 August 2010: well first to start out.. you got one narrow road in front of you. I had to reread it twice to understand your situation and its seems deep. Its plain and simple. Your head and mind already made up. You should totally go for her. Your 47 years ol... (read in full...)

How can I tell if my guy friend likes me

Q.   i would gladly appreciate if anyone helps me with my problem. thanks, i have this friend who is a guy i've always liked him and hes known that too since day one we met. but seems like i wasnt his type. so 4 years passed and now we both are single. ...

A.   17 August 2010: I agree with dirtball LOL. But becareful. He knows he can get you if wanted to. Guys like me always want to feel superior and fool around(tease). He likes you but unsure if he wants to date you. thats how it will go for now. But i know that... (read in full...)

He might be losing his love for me

Q.   I've been with my bf for over 2months now and its been great yer we agrue and that but we don let it affect are realtionship. anyway ive had cancer for over 3months and yes he knows but thats not the problem. the other he sent my friend a text tell ...

A.   17 August 2010: First off, I hope you can cure your cancer.Best of luck with that.I will pray for you. Second, To be honest, guys are unpredictable sometimes.. they do stupid shit all the time. So. the only thing is to talk to him and straight things out.I Kn... (read in full...)

I don't want to associate with drug addicts anymore...but I just want some more friends

Q.   this sounds well sad, but i dont have any friends! i mean ive got 1 or 2 literally thats it, theirs my best friend who i live with and our next door neighbour, my neighbours mental (i mean literally shes bi-polar and hears voices and makes things...

A.   17 August 2010: I know how you feel. I have a similar problem. But friends are friends. Its really easy to make new friends. Just be more relax, careful and be a happy person. There are places you can go to make friends, like the cafe or parks or even at the ... (read in full...)

Help!!! How do I get to know him better?

Q.   I have so much feelings for a boy who doesnt know I exist, we're in the same maths, art and computing classes. I want to be more friendly with this boy. please help x...

A.   17 August 2010: Just be real, meaning that just talk to him and be sweet and funny. Guys like it when girls show interest in them(makes them feel special)I think the best way is relax and be yourself. soon or later he will talk to you, but only if you show interest ... (read in full...)

Is a 6 year age difference too much to date someone?

Q.   if theres a 6 year differance in between you and someone else would it be ok if you date them? this is just a random thought im not actually saying i wana date a 10year old, im just saying is a 6 year age differance too mutch? i have a friend and ...

A.   17 August 2010: When love come along, Age is just a number. No one can judge you. Stand up for yourself and decide whats best. We only live once best of luck duckiie... (read in full...)

I'm at a high risk of being hurt of these rumours are true...

Q.   I'm seventeen. I work at Krystal and recently, a beautiful girl started working there and she's my age. We're the only ones still in school that work there. I've liked her for awhile and finally after work I just told her. And she replied by saying ...

A.   17 August 2010: I dont reading this kinda question man. To be honest, just go for her. Plain and simple. We only live once. Forget what other people say about her. Rumors tend to fade away anyways. People who are ignorant and selfish spread rumors. So live your... (read in full...)

Are these kisses real???

Q.   Okay, so this is kind of a weird question, but I'm really interested to know; Do the kisses you read about in books and watch in films actually exist? I don't know if its because I've never been in love with someone, but every kiss I've had with a ...

A.   17 August 2010: yup. They do exist. Maybe so far you only been with guys you are not interested in as much. Or the others guys suck at kissing. Kissing is A romantic gesture, Something precious. You and your partner needs to feel passionate one another. Be pati... (read in full...)

How can I get his attention and show him I like him?

Q.   I have an french exchange student in my school. I've only spoken to him once or twice but i really, really, really like him. the problem is I dont think hes interest, and why would he? we've only spoken once or twice. I'm really shy of him but i'm ...

A.   17 August 2010: Well. I am teenager just like you, and I have similar problem. All you need to do is be yourself and talk to him as much as you can(don't stalk him)and just be funny and sweet to him. Soon he will REALIZE how nice a girl you are. To be honest... (read in full...)

*uckiies's friends

These are mutual friends, so *uckiies has added them and they have added *uckiies!

alexia_marie agony auntalexia_marie
Biancaaa.x. agony auntBiancaaa.x.
BrownWolf agony auntBrownWolf
D J C agony auntD J C
dirtball agony auntdirtball
Duckiies agony auntDuckiies
janniepeg agony auntjanniepeg
OhGetReal agony auntOhGetReal
Plexi agony auntPlexi
punkgirl14 agony auntpunkgirl14
tiffanylovepandas agony aunttiffanylovepandas
YouWish agony auntYouWish

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.140570699999898!