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9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 22 December 2008: Sweetie, when i said slowly i met really slowly...at least until you are of legal age. no dinners.....thats far too intimate and it comeswith expectations. do innocent stuff, send each other bday and xmass stuf, go for coffee or a movie if you can ... (read in full...)
Why do my hands tingle when I have sex?
Q. Sometimes when im having sex i start geting this tingeling in my hands and I feel like i have no controll over them and can't move them. then i start geting it in my face and i have no controll over my mouth..it went all funny and lob sided. its ...
A. 21 December 2008: Good Girl! Thank you, i find that sometimes doctors need to be told what to do so when you go tell them what you said on here and demand a CT or MRI. Tell them you are afraid it might be neurological and need to be reassured by one of these tests ... (read in full...)
Why do my hands tingle when I have sex?
Q. Sometimes when im having sex i start geting this tingeling in my hands and I feel like i have no controll over them and can't move them. then i start geting it in my face and i have no controll over my mouth..it went all funny and lob sided. its ...
A. 21 December 2008: Babe, go see your physician ASAP. These are neurological symptoms you are describing. Do not let your doctor dismiss you without getting a C or MRI. I dont want to scare you but you need to be safe and rule everything out... (read in full...)
How can I get them to accept me and not see me as a bad person?
Q. me and my boyfriend had been together now for 2 years and we have a 4 month old baby. we are currently living in his family's house it's quite big so they decided to move us in since they will be supporting us financially. his family doesn't ...
A. 21 December 2008: Kill them with kindness. Give them nothing bad to say about you. Be the best mom you can be, be kind and corteus around them and soon they will realize that they didnt like you because of their own insecurities.
Put on a smile girl and just be ... (read in full...)
9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 21 December 2008: I just want to ad that during this time.....until you are both mature enough to have an adult relationship, expect that he will date other girls and let him, just like you should go out with your friends and other guys. You can not expect a mad to ... (read in full...)
9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 21 December 2008: yesssssssssssss! And it wil actualy be a perfect age difference(maturity wise) in about 10 yrs from now. Dont be discouraged, time flys and the years go by very fast. Stay friends with him(get to know him slowwwwwwwwwwwly as a person, do nice stuff ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my relationship last?
Q. What can I do to make my relationship last? I keep on getting discouraging news from my classmates and from my parents on how relationships often fizzle out. I'm sure I love this man and I think I would like to be with him for the rest of my life. ...
A. 20 December 2008: Dont spend ALL your time together. i was with my first love for 13 years and looking back i think that might be part of the reason things.........Keep it fresh, take breaks from each other without breaking up. Sprnd time apart so you can look ... (read in full...)
Can I place a warrant out against him?
Q. Hi I was married to my husband for fifteen years and he have 2 beautiful children! He was a deadbeat, he didnt work work the last 6 years of our relationship while I was and he was stealing money from me for drug use. It took me a few years to ...
A. 19 December 2008: you need to consult with an attorney. lots of attoneys will do pro bono work(for free). look into it. as far as i know you can only get a warrent for his arrest if he has commited a crime. you can aply to garnish his wages if he is employed so they ... (read in full...)
Has anyone out there been dumped by their first love?
Q. This is just a general question for anyone who has been in a long relationship. Has anyone out there been dumped by their first love because that person needed to sort out their feelings, and then had that person realize their mistake later and come ...
A. 19 December 2008: i was dumped by my first love twive, the first time after 2 years, i dated other guys, went to a party......he found out..was jelous got me back. then again after 11 yrs together he cheated, wanted time to sort his feelings, i felt so hurt and ... (read in full...)
Looks and boyfriend advice needed.
Q. Is there something wrong being deperate for a boyfriend after never having any at all? I don't know even know what it feels like and I really badly want to know, but no guy would own up to liking me because I look like ugly betty, glasses and ...
A. 18 December 2008: Of course it's normal to want a relationship, we all want that........despite whether weve had it in the past or not. Its closeness and emotional security i think you probably desire not just a body. Be kinder to yourself and work on your confidence ... (read in full...)
Worried and intimidated by a blooming sex toy that my girlfriend is waving around me!
Q. My new girlfriend and I have known each other for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks, she told me today she got a dildo as a gift from co-worker... apparently not as a joke either. We are yet to embark on the sexual side of our ...
A. 18 December 2008: I understand how you must feel but honestly its just a toy and even though its physically stimulating and all it does not give a woman emotional satisfaction. Women need more then just physical satisfaction, we need emotional stuff too, we need ... (read in full...)
Doctor worries...
Q. I don't know what to do. I've had so many stomach aches and period problems that my mom has offered several times to take me to get checked out. My problem is that: a)I have an issue with exposing certain parts of my body to ANYBODY and I do...
A. 17 December 2008: Please listen to your mother and go get it checked out. whatever it is , if cought early, it can most likely be treated, if left untrated however............Doctors are professionals that look at those body parts all the time. to them its not sexual ... (read in full...)
We don't want this baby!
Q. hie.. my gf is 1 month pregnant.. we dont want to have this baby .. can u suggest me whether she has to go for an abortion or whether by taking some medicines or pills we can get rid of this baby????/ please reply at the earliest..thanx...
A. 15 December 2008: The child did nothing to deserve to be killed. If you both don't want this child why don't you consider puting the child up for adoption. Many peole want and can not have children and would love to adopt your child. Please don't kill an innocent ... (read in full...)
Can I tell if I'm pregnant this early
Q. i had my period two weeks ago. yesterday i was having sex with my boyfriend the condom came off and he came inside me. is there away of telling if i am pregnant this early? what should i do i need to know asap...
A. 14 December 2008: Go to a walk in vlinic and get a blood test done... (read in full...)
Short of surgery any suggestions about firming up my tummy?
Q. Hi all I am a mother of 2 wonderful and as result of my pregnancies I now have a wrinkled lose belly with stretch marks. Besides surgery, which is totally out of the question for me, is there anything I can do or use to help me with my problem....
A. 14 December 2008: the fact is that aerobic exercise burns calories that can help you lose weight overall not just in a specific area.
sit ups or crunches will tone up and strengthen the muscles underneath but not the skin on the outside.
diet is always important... (read in full...)
What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 13 December 2008: From a biological point of view they are attracted to:
symetricity of the face
clear, smooth skin
big eyes and/or lips
shiny hair(shiny not greasy,lol)
good teeth
younger guys usually like long hair... (read in full...)
Is my ex-partner on the rebound and will I ever get closure?
Q. My partner of 18 years left me for another man. I didnt get any closure and she has made no contact at all. It been a few months now and Ihave heard that she has moved away to another part of the country away from friends and family and started a ...
A. 12 December 2008: Of course she was affected by the break up. you can't just break up with someone after that many years and feel nothing. She is certainly on the rebound and chances are it won't work out for her because she moved on farrrrrrrr too quickly. They say ... (read in full...)
How can I increase my sex drive?
Q. How can I increase my sex drive?...
A. 12 December 2008: Here are a few tips i have tried myself and found that worked for me. You ned to try them yourself and see which ones work best for you or maybe you want to do them al:)
this is a big one - SLEEP( get some rest cause if you are tired...... (read in full...)
I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?
Q. I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...
A. 12 December 2008: YES she can. She can also sue you for a few other tings as well.....Also she can put a curse on you and your nipples will fall off. JUST LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!Do you really want to spend the rest of your life nippleless and in jail? THINK ABOUT IT... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out-what should I do? HELP ASAP!
Q. I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and I really like him. He has said he likes me too. But on Thanksgiving, he got back together with his ex to see if he was the reason for the problem in the relationship. This really crushed me. He ...
A. 11 December 2008: You are "first on the list if anything happens'? How insulting? Is he insane or just simply lacks manners? Does he think that you feel flattered that he considers you his nr. 1 backup should the relationship with his gf fail? How rude!!! Tell him to ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with me!
Q. Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...
A. 11 December 2008: Get to know him better, stay friends and in a few years from now......if you really like each other the.......maybe.
Tell him you like him as a friend and you don't want to lose him as a friend but you feel you are far too young for sex just yet... (read in full...)
I love him but...........
Q. My boyfriend was just sitting at home one night. He was texting his friend and asked him to send him a picture of a naked girl that he had already glanced at because his friend was talking to her. He sent it to him and he saved it to his phone! ...
A. 10 December 2008: It almost sounds like he's acting like a little child and trying to test his boundaries with you to see how far you'll let hi go. I think he's acting very immature and needs to grow up. I f he loved you and you were the only object of his attention ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should give him another chance or do you think he'll just hurt me again???
Q. I have been with my baby daddy for a year. We recently broke up. After a week of us breaking up he got new gf. They dated for a week and he broke up with her cuz he said he couldn't stop thinking about me. I love him and I want to be with him but ...
A. 9 December 2008: Hun, its hard to say as you didnt mention why you broke up in the first place. Also tell us a bit more about him.... (read in full...)
I love him but...........
Q. My boyfriend was just sitting at home one night. He was texting his friend and asked him to send him a picture of a naked girl that he had already glanced at because his friend was talking to her. He sent it to him and he saved it to his phone! ...
A. 9 December 2008: I understand exactly how you feel but they(men) are different then us. Men are VERY visual and like looking at naked women because it's eye candy for them. it really is nothing, he's only looking not touching! they look at porn like we look at ... (read in full...)
Have I scared her off for good having disclosed my feelings to her?
Q. Hi. I was just wondering whether, after initially rejecting a guy's advances, a woman has then gone on to see him in a 'new light' and then decided to eventually take him up on his offer. So basically my question is, if a man asks a woman out and is ...
A. 9 December 2008: OK so here it goes. GIRLS ARE STUPID sometimes. WE ARE! If you give her too much attention and too many compliments you wont win. Pull back completely and let her come to her senses. Yes its possible that one day she will see you in a different way, ... (read in full...)
What does he really want?
Q. So I've had this Friend with benefits thing with a guy for almost 4 months and I'm confused by what he really wants. I'm a single, never married 29 yr old mother to one 4 yr old. He's 33 yr old recently divorced father of 3 young kids (ages 1, 4 and ...
A. 9 December 2008: Guys are always afraid of commitment and often need to enter a relationship SLOWLY like getting into a hot bath, one foot at a time. Maybe I'm wrong but it sounds to me like you guys have more then just a fwb relationship. As far as his jelousy, i ... (read in full...)
Am I a hopeless loser?
Q. I have a disability that makes me have trouble reading and talking clearly. I have issues reading to the class like have problems saying a super easy word that my classmates can get. Usually the teacher has to correct me and everyone will be ...
A. 9 December 2008: You are NOT a loser! Losers are people who give up too easily or like slacking. We all have some kind of problem, no one is perfect. Part of your problem might be related to being aware of your problem and being nervous because of it, making matters ... (read in full...)
We only have alone time at school, when our friends butt in. Any ideas?
Q. My best friend has a massive chrush on my boyfriend, at first we all had a chrush on him, but he chose me. My mum is strict about dating so the only oppurtunity for us to have alone time is at school. But when we try to be alone she's always there ...
A. 9 December 2008: I would say for now just be friends with him, be a nice not needy girl and ignore your friend. Boys hate agressive girls that always but in and if you are nice and friendly you will win in the end. You are too young right now anyways, if you really ... (read in full...)
My rational side tells me to run away from my married boss, but my emotions say something else!
Q. i am 18 years old and i am absolutly head over heels in love with my 30 year old boss, and yes, the feeling is mutual. the problem is he is married with two young children. now, the rational side of me is telling me to run away from this...
A. 9 December 2008: Don't ever get involved with a married man! you do not want to be the reason for a family breaking up. It's not right. I f him and his wife have problems they need to deal with those problems before you enter the picture. Please do everyone a favor ... (read in full...)
I am scared in case he is too big to suit my petite size! Am I exaggerating?
Q. I've just started dating a new older guy. Everything is great so far. This weekend we were fooling around (clothes on) and I discovered that he has a really huge penis. I mean it felt really thick and really long, like 10 inches. I didn't think that ...
A. 8 December 2008: Yes it is possible that he is that big but it certainly is above average, avg for men is 7 inches. The female uterus is 17 inches long and if it can accommodate a baby it will accommodate a large penis as well. Sounds to me like maybe you are not ... (read in full...)
I met this man I love 25 years ago and I have had an ON and OFF relationship! Am I right for starting to end it?
Q. Hi Im Frangi. I met the man i love 25 years ago. Recently we broke up again for the 50,000th time. He can be very difficult and closed about his emotions. I am open and like to communicate especially about our relationship. He says he's happy an...
A. 8 December 2008: Thx for your reply Frangi,
UYes i agree you need to end it for good. he's mean to you? I can understand attachments are difficult to break especially when you depend on each other, but if he's mean to you and punishes you? WHY WHY? WHY? You are a gr... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with her just once!
Q. Myself a physiotherapist, married with achild. I got in contact with an unmarried girl 10 years younger to me.She is very innocent and a beautifull girl. I was attracted towards her breasts. She also liked me but not sexually.She said that she wants ...
A. 7 December 2008: Honestly! Are you insane? What part of NO do you not understand? If you like this girl so much then you should respect her. She is just a conquest to you! You are married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GO HOME TO YOUR WIFE! SHAME ON YOU... (read in full...)
I met this man I love 25 years ago and I have had an ON and OFF relationship! Am I right for starting to end it?
Q. Hi Im Frangi. I met the man i love 25 years ago. Recently we broke up again for the 50,000th time. He can be very difficult and closed about his emotions. I am open and like to communicate especially about our relationship. He says he's happy an...
A. 7 December 2008: How does this man feel about you? why do you both keep comming back to each other? If you could have it your way what kind of relationship would you want from this man? its hard to give you concrete advice without knowing these things. I think i ... (read in full...)
Why did she promise that things would never change and then shut me out?
Q. Dear Cupid, About nine months ago, my best friend of almost three years moved away. She is now living in a town that is about an hour away from mine. When she first learned that she was moving, she was completely devastated, as I was. We spent pr...
A. 3 December 2008: She had the intention to keep things the way they were that's why she said what she said. However when you move to a new town you need time to adjust.......make new friends so you're not alone.........maybe find a new job.........She might just be ... (read in full...)
First date went well... no call back!
Q. First date went well.... no call back? I All, I met this guy online and we got on really well when we spoke over the phone. He asked me if I'd like to meet him and we agreed to meet up for some drinks on Saturday. The date went well, we...
A. 3 December 2008: Just wait it out. If he said he'll call you he'll call you. Guys want to come off as strong and not desperate so some pull away for a few days to make sure you're still a chase.Its a total toughguy move but that's what some do. He will call you, if ... (read in full...)
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