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Very confident, but one area, not so much
Q. Well im a virgin and im 17, i grew up in an enviroment where sex was around me everywhere i went and i came to know alot of things about it. Growing up all i could gather from females conversations about sex was they were only interested in one ...
A. 30 June 2010: Hun, if she loves you, it won't matter, she isn't going to pull out a ruler and measure it like you did, she will just remember the experience as a whole so make sure you do everything that you know she enjoys and when it comes to intercourse just ... (read in full...)
His ex wife doesn't want the child to know about me
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for two years now we recently just moved in and everything seems to be good.theres just something that im tryn to understand better.hes ex wife doesnt allow hem to see there daugther unless i am not around or ...
A. 30 June 2010: Well, look at it from her point of view..........she doesn't know you, who knows what he's told her about you, she might think you are just with him for the time being and your relationship with her ex will not be long term so she is protecting her ... (read in full...)
Very confident, but one area, not so much
Q. Well im a virgin and im 17, i grew up in an enviroment where sex was around me everywhere i went and i came to know alot of things about it. Growing up all i could gather from females conversations about sex was they were only interested in one ...
A. 30 June 2010: Yes there is something you can do............wait for the right girl. Girls who like to have sex for fun will care about stuff like that( and even party girls won't be disappointed as long as you know how to be attentive and make them feel good) but ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him with that girl he doesn't know or stay with him?
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month. He's 14 and im 13. just a day before at nught when i was sure we were meant to be together. he tells me he got another girl pregnant. and then he said that it was a few months ago. tha...
A. 30 June 2010: Get to know him better.........you've only known him for a month! See what kind of person he is and if he's worth being friends with. What happened in the past is in the past, it doesn't matter now. He made a mistake by sleeping with a girl he ... (read in full...)
I feel like I've been dumped without the closure!
Q. Hi, would like people's opinion on this as I'm confused by my current situation... I've been dating this guy who's in the RAF for about 6 weeks now, we met on a dating site, and have had 3 dates. We have been getting to know each other, and things ...
A. 12 June 2010: He was just after the chase and once you slept with him he lost interest and took a step back. He probably knew he was going to leave but opted not to tell you because he didn't want to ruin his chances of sleeping with you. Yes he wants to see you ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be attracted to single dads?
Q. Is it okay to be married to a guy who has a child but not married? I want to know the views of women around the world with this kind of situation. I am 25 and I am kinda attractive to guys who have kids but they are not married. These guys have ...
A. 12 June 2010: I think it's more then ok...........like you said despite the previous failed relationship, these men have proven to be more mature and responsible. I personally think it's really attractive as well, it means they are family men not career guys or ... (read in full...)
Help me deal with girlfriends STD's!
Q. I have a very difficult situation that I have not been able to get any solid advice on. First, i will start out with some background on my relationship. I met her last summer, she was a mutual friend of a friend. We hit it off almost immediate...
A. 4 June 2010: You sound like such a sweet guy!!!!!!!!!! You are not a sucker, you are a man in love. Hun, she disrespects herself and you with this kind of behavior. The "love of her life" comment was meant to hurt you and cause a reaction. This is a girl with ... (read in full...)
He is putting his friends before me and it's getting me down.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 yrs and living together for 2(high school sweethearts). We are both 23. Lately all he ever wants to do is be with his friends playing ball,music,fishing or hanging out at the tennis courts. He doesn't come ...
A. 29 May 2010: Wow.........this sounds sooo familiar! He is not ready to be in a relationship, he wants to be a guy, to do what he wants when he wants and not have any responsibilities. He is not respecting you and takes you for granted. You can't do anything to ... (read in full...)
Any problem with dating your dead wife's aunt??
Q. is it alright to date your dead wife's aunt...
A. 28 May 2010: How do You feel about the idea of dating your ex wife's aunt? How do you think she would feel about it? Might you be drawn to this woman because she reminds you of your wife or makes you feel like part of her is still sort of around(genetically ... (read in full...)
Too late to end the relationship over cheating?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago when I went on holiday. I told her I forgave her but the I haven't really felt the same since. She made msn her everynight and told me how much she hated me, and made my whole 2 months miserable. I have re...
A. 24 May 2010: Either end the relationship or live with the pain and the resentment towards her and you'll hurt yourself. It's normal to have this delayed reaction. At the time you obviously intended to forgive and forget but it hurt you so much that you just ... (read in full...)
Are men attracted to overweight women?
Q. hey aunties and uncles. I'm going to be direct with this question because I've always wanted to know. is being overweight a real turn off for boys and do they get attracted to overweight girls? I myself am not overweight or anything but I am curious ...
A. 23 May 2010: Men are attracted to all different sorts of shape, color and size women...........you can not generalize and put them all in the same category, to answer your question, of course some men are attracted to bigger women... (read in full...)
Is she in denial about why a guy might have been divorced three times?
Q. I discovered that my girlfriend is dating a man whom she says is very nice but now I find out from her that he's been married three times and thinks that he must be a nice enough guy if three women want to marry him. Am I wrong , or is she in denial ...
A. 22 May 2010: Don't be too quick to assume anything. Although it does not look good indeed, we don't know the reasons these marriages didn't work out. Keep in mind that it takes 2 people to make a marriage work.......If she is happy then be happy for her but if I ... (read in full...)
What is the truth to the meaning of my dream?
Q. last night i had a dream with a dear friend of mine who passed away several months ago, in the dream i went to look for him at some building because he hadnt been in contact me in several weeks so i was upset at him, i found him and became really ...
A. 20 May 2010: It means that he still occupies your subconscious and that you miss him. You didn't have closer with his passing and perhaps you felt abandoned and are angry at him for "leaving you" so you manifested that in the form of your dream.
I suggest... (read in full...)
Are we still Virgins?
Q. Ive had sex with my guy, But he was using a condom every time we did it. I never got bleeding. Nor did he. So am I still a Virgin? and is he still a virgin? ...
A. 20 May 2010: Not all girls bleed the first time they have sex. You had intercourse.................you are NOT a virgin and neither is he... (read in full...)
I need a therapist for a couple of issues but don't think my parents will be okay with it!
Q. Okay, I feel desparate to see a Therapist because I'm going through a rough patch in my life from discovering that I'm gay and being bullied because of my weight and too much to handle but I can't really go about it with my parents they think I will ...
A. 19 May 2010: Do your parents know that you are gay? If they don't you may want to start with that and then bring up therapy, they might be more open to therapy if they know. If that won't work for you then I suggest talking to your school counselor or even ... (read in full...)
I don't want to put my heart into this and then he breaks it!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. I like him a lot and I'd like to have the whole long term relationship/fall in love bit with him but I'm scared he's not into that. Like he's not into me as much as I am into him. For instance, I ...
A. 18 May 2010: I understand how you feel, you are holding back because you feel like he's not meeting you half way. I would take a step back as well if a guy said that to me. Perhaps he was being funny?? he may not feel comfortable with intimacy or he just likes ... (read in full...)
Why would my girlfriend say she lost her virginity to me?
Q. My girlfriend already lost her virginity but she regrets losing it to her first because it was rushed and it was a bad experience etc. and wished she had done it with me. She refuses to claim him and when people ask her who was her first, she ...
A. 17 May 2010: Because she would rather it be you and if she sais it enough times she might just start believing it herself and soon he might be erased out of her memory. It's sad and sweet at the same time........take it as a compliment and try not to bring up ... (read in full...)
Is there's any thing I can eat or drink that would make my belly stop hurting?
Q. Hey, I'm 17 and i was wondering if there's any thing you can eat or drink that will make your belly stop hurting or not hurt as much when your on your period? I tried taken tums it dint help, Also is there drinks or foods that will make it worse ...
A. 17 May 2010: Generally, a diet of live, natural food is recommended. Non-organic meat is tainted with growth hormones and antibiotics that aggravate symptoms of PMS
You may want to stay away from stimulants such as caffeine and incorporate foods rich in magn... (read in full...)
He is afraid of divorcing his wife because of the children, and I love him so much. Please help.
Q. First hello dear cupied, my name is ari, my life has passed through a lot of problems , I was married beforefour year and I divorced for a big reason i had, he was an alcoolical man, and my life with him was like in prison and God helped me to ...
A. 17 May 2010: Walk away..........just disappear out of his life and try to move on and find your own happiness too. He is a married man with children, his family will always come first. He tells you that he loves you and all that mushy stuff to keep you around ... (read in full...)
Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating?
Q. My boyfriend thinks that dating other women is not cheating,but I think it is cheating. Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating? Both male and female's opinion's is appreciated. ...
A. 16 May 2010: Absolutely!!!!!!!!!!............unless he's going on a date with YOU! why does he need to date other women? If he is bored or just wants to go out then he can take up a hobby or go out with you or his guy friends.... (read in full...)
I want to end this friends with benefits situation with my ex?? Suggestions?
Q. Hello, I've been in a physical relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past 3 months. Prior to this we had dated for almost a year, when I decided to break up with him. I did this because I felt my needs were not being met. He was thoughtf...
A. 14 May 2010: You are so right! it's very hard for exes to be friends and out of a FWB relationship the only one benefiting is HIM! Trust me, I've been there too, end it now before you get hurt or start feeling cheap and it affects your self esteem. Just stop ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting like he still loves me when he has a g/f
Q. My question why is my ex acting like he still luvs me when he has a new girlfriend he still wants to see me talk to me everyday text have sex if i let him but tells me he has feelings for the new gf....
A. 13 May 2010: Because he wants to have his cake and eat it too.......he is stringing you around in case it doesn't work out. He is being selfish and using you. Cut all contact with him and refuse to talk/see him anymore...........you need to find a good man who ... (read in full...)
He always says he has to go and he'll call me back but he never does!
Q. I met this Guy online and after a month of phone call and emails were met in person. Everything went very well. We talked for hours and have kept in contact. Recently when I call him he always have and excuse to get off the phone and tell me he will ...
A. 13 May 2010: I'm sorry hun but it doesn't sound good to me. Even if he was super busy he would excuse himself, then at least call you back out of politeness to say good night or something. If he was interested he would chase you, he would not let you slip away. ... (read in full...)
Is there potential for a lasting, healthy relationship?
Q. I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: the fact that I was ...
A. 9 May 2010: The right man for you will accept you for you just the way you are with all your faults and imperfections...........if he can't accept you for your problems then he is NOT the wright man for you. No one is perfect .........only God is perfect. It ... (read in full...)
Why did wife lie about her past? I have a right to know!
Q. I found out my wife lied to me about how many guys she slept with before me. When the topic first came up when we were dating she told me there was three. I had a very hard time with this because i felt very insecure about myself. At that point i ...
A. 27 April 2010: She was dishonest but it is possible that she told you a smaller number just to spare your feelings and perhaps because she was too embarrassed to admit there were more?
I really don't think she did it to hurt you. Why did you need to know the actu... (read in full...)
Should I end our close friendship?
Q. I’m in love with my male best friend. We’ve known each other for a while and we flirt and have it all. We have tons of inside jokes, and tease each other. We smile at each other all the time. We share everything with one another. I know things a...
A. 21 April 2010: You need to do what's best for you.........if you stay friends with him you will be heart broken and will have a hard time falling in love again. Since he told you about this girl before you had a chance to tell him about your feelings, you have to ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of getting pregnant at 14, but I really want to have sex!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together 7and half months, he means everything to me and we've started to touch each other but i do want to have sex with him but we're not sure, im scared of gettin pregnant at 14, but do you think im pushing to far ...
A. 14 April 2010: wait until you are ready to have babies( emotionally and financially)
Why the rush?................it's wonderful with the right person but to do it just cause it's really gay... (read in full...)
How to have a conversation with my sister-in-law?
Q. I know this is a pretty ridiculous question but I’d really appreciate any answers. My brother got married last year and my sister-in-law is a really lovely person but she’s also very beautiful and very, very intelligent and I find her pretty ...
A. 13 April 2010: Most beautiful women have self esteem issues as well. It's all a facade, a beautiful exterior but she probably longs for your friendship as well, that's why she invited you........she's hoping to bond with you. if she was pretty and stuck up she ... (read in full...)
Would a girl ever try to get back together?
Q. Lets say that you are in a long relationship (over 2 years), and are adults (over 21 years old). You break up, time passes, ect. Would a girl ever ask/initiate the conversation to get back together? Or would she just try to get back in the ...
A. 12 April 2010: It depends, if she broke things up and with time realized that she broke things off for the wrong reasons and you are actually a nice guy, she may have a change of heart and try to initiate a reunion. However, if you broke things off or if she broke ... (read in full...)
Could Iget pregnant like that?
Q. did i lose my virginity? his penis went in sort of, like it hurt like hell, but only like a quarter of it went in, does that count? could i get pregnant like that? we used a condom jus wanna know for definate , coz i dont think my hymen broke th...
A. 12 April 2010: It doesn't matter if your hymen broke or not. if he ejaculated and the sperm got out of the condom and into you then yes you could get pregnant.
hoe much of his penis goes in, how long you have sex for, its all irrelevant.
Pregnancy hap... (read in full...)
G/f tells me she hates her ex so why do I find emails from her to him?
Q. So, i am stuck between a rock and a hard place. My girlfriend keeps telling me how much she hates her ex, But just a few minutes ago i got on the computer to check my email and her email was still on the screen (for the second time this month)so i ...
A. 12 April 2010: I completely understand how you feel.............I would be upset and confused as well. It is possible that she is still looking for closure and that's why they are still emailing. Did you read the emails?
I would talk to her but don't attack h... (read in full...)
My problem is my husband's family!
Q. My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to ...
A. 8 April 2010: They are trying to push you out by putting up the cemetery..........its really immature and low of them but in all honesty, it's their land they can do whatever they want on it...........you can try and call the city and see if that is permitted in ... (read in full...)
I want him to leave her for me
Q. I am having a predicament. I was with "Joe" for 8 years. We met when we were 17 and just broke up a few weeks ago. During the past 8 years I have been very close with his family, in fact I am closer to them than he is. I still hang out with his ...
A. 4 April 2010: If you don't love your boyfriend anymore then please just break up with him............it's not fair to string him along when you have feelings for another man. If you don't like Maria as a person and don't wish to be friends with her anymore then ... (read in full...)
Two types of men...
Q. I come across two types of men in my dating life - those who quickly think I'm the answer to make their lives perfect and so within a couple of weeks they're saying they love me, talking about moving in together soon and starting conversations about ...
A. 13 February 2010: You are absolutely correct...............................there are more then 2 types of men in the world..those are just the type of guys that YOU are attracting. the first type ( the nice guy..........who unfortunately also sounds desperately in a ... (read in full...)
Anxiety and insomnia problems...
Q. Does anyone know any good websites for helping with anxiety and insomnia?? I currently have real problems getting to sleep naturally (due to anxiety/panic attacks) and I worry it will affect my life/relationships! I have tried counsell...
A. 18 January 2010: there are a few things you can try:
hot calming bath before bed helps
before going to bed try to go over your day backwards starting with the present moment
Chamomile and Valerian tea are very relaxing on the nerves
you can try essential oils i... (read in full...)
Shyness towards the girl of my dreams...
Q. hi. im 17 very shy and unconfident. never had a girlfriend or hardly even spoke to any girls. but since the first day of college i have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. i just cant seem to bring myself to talk to her. ive said a quick hello as ...
A. 16 January 2010: I understand how you feel very well..........from both sides. If you have any classes in common, you could email her and ask her if she could help you out if she has time.......if she sais yes, suggest going to a coffee shop to go over the material ... (read in full...)
Why after an orgasm do men leave women hanging?
Q. Hi. Ok I have a question I no a lot of women would liked answered. Why is when a guy has a orgasm first its over they get up and go on with there day. They just leave the girl hangen they don't even try to finish what they started. Guys what if your ...
A. 6 January 2010: Sweetie, not all men do that, some men are very attentive and make sure the woman orgasms(from intercourse or other ways). sometimes they even try an encore performance:)guys that practice "wham, bam thank you mam" are assholes who are only ... (read in full...)
Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy?
Q. Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy? I'm dating a great guy he sends me good morning texts. Buys me stuff for no reason and makes me art pieces and makes sure I'm okay but I'm kinda aggravated by him. I'm so used to being neglected and stuff ...
A. 6 January 2010: Well.............would setting him free and finding a hot guy who cheats on you and takes you for granted make you feel better? If that is what you would prefer then yes set him free so he can find himself a nice girl who will love him for the sweet ... (read in full...)
She said girls don't like confident guys, was she right?
Q. One of my (girl) friends said that 50% of girls don't go for guys with high confidence, like she does. I'm like 'huh?!' Is this true? If yes, is it because guys with high confidence are the ones who are more likely to do be some kind of jer...
A. 28 November 2009: You Can never generalize as everyone has their own preference but I tend to think that most women/girls Do like confident guys..........in a polite go getter type not in an arrogant I'm God's gift to women. Most women like NICE guys who are not ... (read in full...)
My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!
Q. [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...
A. 22 November 2009: OMG............SERIOUSLY, i HAD TO READ IT TWICE! FOR REAL?
Do you realize that what you are doing is masturbating with both these women? What ever happened to a committed, caring relationship with ONE person and "taking the pressure off" by yours... (read in full...)
He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?
Q. My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant...
A. 22 November 2009: You did the right thing!! Honesty is always the way to go. You can't be at fault about how you feel........those ARE your feelings. Keep in mind however that this may not be how he thinks. You are insecure just like the rest of of for reasons your ... (read in full...)
How can one tell if they're bi-polar?
Q. How can you tell if you may have Bipolar? I am not quite sure if i should be asking for your help as i am no 100% sure i have symptoms or not. I don't really know where to start either. Neither of my parents have been diagnosed with the illness...
A. 14 November 2009: Here is a link that may help you :
out.http://bipolarinfotoday.net/p_36591/Bipolar_Disorder.html?ss=bipolar+disorder
Given your age it is likely that you are just being hormonal and overreacting to things because of that( it's totally norm... (read in full...)
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