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Why would a guy who wants a girfriend party all the time?
Q. I dont understand this at all. This guy I know said that he wants something long term and he is not into hooking up anymore. But he still parties every weekend, why? I thought that guys party in order to hook up with lots of girls. I mean I know ...
A. 6 February 2009: Some guys also party cause they cant sit still(it's part of who they are)they want their cake and they want to eat it too. my ex was like that as well. they want the security of a nice girlfriend but they still want to go out and have fun with their ... (read in full...)
How can I get big boobs naturally?
Q. How can I get big boobs without surgery or lotions or pills?...
A. 5 February 2009: gain weight... (read in full...)
In my 30's and never had sex yet...
Q. OK this is kinda hard to explain... I'm in my 30's and STILL a virgin. This is very embarrassing! and I have to make sure anyone I know never finds out ever! I have had boyfriends but it never goes further than kissing before I then freeze or make ...
A. 4 February 2009: First of all its ok, its not a big deal! in fact i have more respect for you then i do for someone who has "experimented" around.
I understand why you lied and although its not the honest thing to do now you have to deal with it.
If you are rela... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 1 February 2009: That's fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!CONGRATULATIONS!... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me come up with a plan to lose weight?
Q. I am so tired of looking in the mirror and cringing with disgust at my reflection. There's no denying it, I look like a fat pig and it's been driving me crazy. I want to do something about it. I've begun excercising daily and I've dramaticall...
A. 30 January 2009: p.s.EVERYBODY CAN LOSE WEIGHT! Even if you have a thyroid problem you will still lose weight if you take in less calories then your body needs. How much your body needs depends on age, sex, weight and of course activity level. A 300lbs sedentary ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me come up with a plan to lose weight?
Q. I am so tired of looking in the mirror and cringing with disgust at my reflection. There's no denying it, I look like a fat pig and it's been driving me crazy. I want to do something about it. I've begun excercising daily and I've dramaticall...
A. 30 January 2009: First of all changing your attitude is KEY. start telling yourself things like i can do this, i will do this, i will look fabulous because i wont stop until i look fabulous! NO IT'S NEVER TOO LATE!!! It will take time......nothing happens over night ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her. It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs a...
A. 30 January 2009: I comltetely agree with Tanplante, couldn't have said it better myself. If he's trying to push you away cause he wants to be free to.. then honey set him free. ... (read in full...)
What is your definition of "casually dating"?
Q. Just curious on what you guys all think "casually dating" means? What are some things that people who are "casually dating" do and how often would people that are "casually dating" contact each other?...
A. 29 January 2009: it meand it's casual, friendly, no strings, both parties still free to date other people ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're fat?
Q. I'm 5ft. tall 136 pounds and every one calls me fat my mom and dad most of my friends not all but most. So is that fat?...
A. 29 January 2009: I just wanted to add that at your age your body is in a building(toning)cycle and you need to feed it properly. Start eating better of course, lots of lean meats such as chicken breast and fish, lots of green veggies and complex carbs such as ... (read in full...)
My husband insists on keeping things from me.
Q. I have been married for three years now and my husband insists on keeping things from me. He says these things do not involve being unfaithful and I could not handle them. He always has to have some air of mystery like he's a secret agent or ...
A. 28 January 2009: Honey i might sound harsh but this is how i see things. Sounds like you have control issues because of whatever insecurities you might have. Men get more secretive the more controlling we get. you should be more worried about him going to a strip ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're fat?
Q. I'm 5ft. tall 136 pounds and every one calls me fat my mom and dad most of my friends not all but most. So is that fat?...
A. 28 January 2009: p.s. oops sorry
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're fat?
Q. I'm 5ft. tall 136 pounds and every one calls me fat my mom and dad most of my friends not all but most. So is that fat?...
A. 28 January 2009: Body mass index (BMI) is a measure of body fat based on height and weight that applies to both adult men and women.
* Enter your weight and height using Standard or Metric measures.
* Click on "Compute BMI" and your BMI will appear in th... (read in full...)
How to ask him out?
Q. I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me or if he's single. He says things like "we have so much in common" and jokingly "you're the most exciting person I have ever met" so I don't know if I should ask him out or even how to?...
A. 27 January 2009: Casually ask him to go see a movie together or something like that. Don't make too much of a big deal about it, just go somewhere just the 2 of you and start getting to know him. dont rush things, do lots of nice stuff together and let him be the ... (read in full...)
Are lefties different than righties?
Q. Besides writing with a different hand, are lefties different than righties? Sometimes it's said that certain habits/ characteristics can indicate certain personality types, like the way you write can. I don't know... maybe it's stupid. Just ...
A. 25 January 2009: right handed people are left brain dominant making them more creative, emotional and tend to excel at writing/speaking, reading, etc. left handed people are right brain dominant making them a bit more logical and academically inclined especially in ... (read in full...)
How can I make him love me through the telephone?
Q. hey my guy he lives in usa he is study there he will back after 2 years and he's perfect and i realy like him but how can i make him fall in love by telephone sometime i feel like he calls me cos he wants to talk and he dosn't care about me bu...
A. 24 January 2009: they say girls fall in love through their ears and guys fall in love through their eyes. Guys are alot more visual then us and they tend to need something visual to help them fall in love. if he talks to you on the phone all the time its good, it ... (read in full...)
Should I go into marriage without financial stability?
Q. Should i go into marriage, even though i'm not finish my College degree and only earn $120 a week? I would also be going against the better judgment of my Whole family, who thinks i should finish school and get a decent job before i marry. My ...
A. 24 January 2009: Wait untill you finish school and get a job. you can get engaged now but postpone till you're finished. theres nothing wrong with a woman being the provider if her man is old or sick and even if you say you are ok with it it will bug you on a ... (read in full...)
How do you terminate a toxic friendship?
Q. Hoping someone can help here. I have a friend who I am trying to end the friendship with as I have had enough. There are plenty of articles on how to end a relationship but not much on terminating a friendship. This girl tends to be really rude to ...
A. 23 January 2009: She is projecting her insecurities it sounds like. Mean people often act the way they feel inside. i.e. they feel like they are not good enough for whatever reason...and act this way to push people away so they wont have a chance to be hurt. she ... (read in full...)
My angel is Grieving
Q. Dear Cupid, I got married last year in October unfortunately a week before our wedding day my wife's father died due to a long 3 month sickness. As all things were paid for and unable to delay the wedding we got married. One month later My wife ap...
A. 23 January 2009: I can relate to what your wife is going through. From personal experience i found that grieving a parent or close relative takes time.................1-2 years to start feeling better, the pain will never completely go away. I suggest you try to be ... (read in full...)
What does birth control actually do?
Q. ok,, idont understand..please explain to me what does birth control actually do for a girl.. and whats the difference between an abortion ??...
A. 22 January 2009: Are you refering to the birth control pill? the pill(the hormones contained inside) sends a message to the brain and tells it that you are pregnant(because of all these hormones that you now added to you system, which a pregnancy would also make)so ... (read in full...)
I wantto contact the other woman!
Q. Okay I think I am completely losing my mind now. For some crazy reason I am having urges to contact the other woman. And not in a mean way either. Maybe it is the whole "keep your friends close and your enemies closer thing"? He wrote her a ...
A. 21 January 2009: I agree with the first response. there is no point contacting her. if they ate still seing each other she will deny it and play dumb to keep him(its happened to me)and if they stopped seeing each other you will come off as crazy and you dont want ... (read in full...)
Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?
Q. Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...
A. 21 January 2009: i know that what you think about during the day will affect what you dream about. Lucid dreaming teaches you how to completely control your dreams. Check it out online or better yet buy a book on lucid dreaming:)... (read in full...)
Do you think he's making all this up to make me jealous?
Q. Hi everyone, My ex bf is really worrying me, we split 5 months ago, and had been sleeping together since, we split. He met this girl over a dating website, she lives in Ireland and are in a relationship but he's going around sleeping with loads of...
A. 20 January 2009: It sounds like he wants to prove something........to himself or to others.......that he has moved on.....that he is a cool guy...who knows. It might be just a faze, he will get bored eventually of all the girls. The Irish girl might also not mean ... (read in full...)
How can I lose my belly and get a six pack?
Q. Is it neccessary to have a flat belly to make girls go "crazy" about me?? I haven't got flat stomach but I lose weight! Badly!! Whenever I hear a girl talking about boys, she sounds like this: "I want to have a boyfriend with six-pack stomach..." I ...
A. 20 January 2009: Cardio will help you lose weight.......how intense its up to you and your doctor. AB exercises like crunches and sit ups will strengthen the muscles underneath the skin to give you that "flat" look. the more cardio/exercises you do the more you will ... (read in full...)
Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating?
Q. Ok, question for ya...! Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating? Or even afterwards when you make it official?!? I ask this because a few of my guy friends joke around and say..."Nah, I'd rather stay single. It costs a lot to h...
A. 20 January 2009: Guys should pay if they are the ones inviting you. if the girl wants to........or its early in the relationship they should split it. And of course if its his bday,she should pay. Once the relationship is solid,i.e. long term commitment or marriage ... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 12 January 2009: This may sound cruel and i apologies if it hurts you...
is it possible that;
-she used you
-she's friendly to you because she has to be because both your daughters go to the same school....
-she doesn't really like you ad/or feels above yo... (read in full...)
Is death so bad?
Q. Is death so bad? Is there anything, after we die? And if there isn't that life is just a big trip? Sometimes good, sometimes bad? How can we make sense of all that? I don't think death is so bad... It is just ending your long suffering. When life ...
A. 12 January 2009: Death is an ending of course, however it's not for us to decide when that ending should occur. Choosing to end one's life is "giving up" not ending"the sufering". Life is meant to have ups and downs, happy moments and suffering, to play the game ... (read in full...)
The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. Agree or disagree?
Q. I was just wondering how much you guys agree or disagree with this statement : The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. ex: I don't have respect for my mom and I can easily talk...
A. 12 January 2009: I understand how you feel. It's hard for everyone to deal with unfamiliar situations, it makes us uncomfortable because we haven't learned how to react. Sounds like your father has issues and thought that if he made people afraid of him they would ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that friends could just make love and be friends again without actually feeling anything towards each other?
Q. Is it possible that friends could just make love and be friends again without actually feeling anything towards each other?...
A. 12 January 2009: You can't make love to someone and then feel nothing for that person. you can have sex and be detached enough to not feel anything afterwords. Isn't that masturbation with a person though?... (read in full...)
The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. Agree or disagree?
Q. I was just wondering how much you guys agree or disagree with this statement : The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. ex: I don't have respect for my mom and I can easily talk...
A. 11 January 2009: What kind of girl do you think deserves men that are nice and sweet and kind to her? Do you feel you are the kind of girl that should be treated nicely? why and why or why not?
When men/your father are nice and sweet to you , does that turn you... (read in full...)
The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. Agree or disagree?
Q. I was just wondering how much you guys agree or disagree with this statement : The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. ex: I don't have respect for my mom and I can easily talk...
A. 11 January 2009: Your mother is your role model in life like it or not. the relationship you have with your father will determine the kinds of relationships you have with men in the future. Are you submissive because you want/need his attention/ will this lead you ... (read in full...)
The house or her, is this normal?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 6 months and things are going very well. We are both mature, professional adults in our late 20's, truly believe we are IT for each other, and are planning on getting engaged officially in the near future. Here ...
A. 8 January 2009: First of all, even if you agree to sell your house, the improvements you are doing to your place will only increase its value which would benefit her as well so point that out.
Perhaps getting her involved in the renos might help things out........ (read in full...)
When is this going to stop hurting?
Q. I am currently going through a seperation that is 99.9% likely going to end in divorce. (It was an abusive marriage and I don't think I can fogive/forget) I find myself thinking about my husband constantly...like what he's up to, how he's feeling, ...
A. 8 January 2009: You need to find yourself a distraction, something that will take your mind off of things. why would you want to work things out with an abbusive man? its over! be glad its over and move on, you wil feel sooooooooooooo much better once the divorce ... (read in full...)
Why did I stay? Help me understand....
Q. I thought he roped the moon. I tell you what my ex made me if only for a moment believe that all of my dreams would come true; and then one day it changed and yet I still hurt. The first time he ever hit me was Christmas Eve, I remember it like it ...
A. 4 January 2009: Honey, it's going to be ok! you took him back because you were in shock and you didnt want to believe that was the man you married. you made a mistake, you were in shock, its ok. the thing is.....the fact that you took him back sends him the message ... (read in full...)
Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?
Q. I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...
A. 31 December 2008: Every woman is different, some experience symptoms within the first week, other not until later on. wait until her next period is due. go and talk to a doctor about the morning after pill, but the only way to know for sure now is to wait and see if ... (read in full...)
14 and worried about getting pregnant!
Q. hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...
A. 30 December 2008: He's playing with you, it's a psychological game, on one hand he sais i will wait until you are ready on the other hand he sais it better not be years from now! you are 14!!, it might be years from now until you are ready, what an ass, you are far ... (read in full...)
At a stand still with this girl- is she leading me on?
Q. hi, im a 20 year old male, been outta the dating scene for over a year and a half. i met this girl and have been seeing each other for about 4 months. nothing has been made official as for the relationship status, but i feel like we're at a Stand...
A. 24 December 2008: What do you want her to say.....women expect men to take a stand and say something like i want to see you exclusively, how would you feel about that......etc. Is it possible she thinks you are hinting that its time for a physical involvement now and ... (read in full...)
Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?
Q. Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ...
A. 23 December 2008: Unfortunately, yes it it possible. If that is the case it means that the love is no longer romantic love, it went from passionate to conpassionate and the relationship has run its course and it is time to move on. This happends in long term ... (read in full...)
In love with a man I can't have... help?
Q. A few years ago I was going through a divorce and I had a good male friend helping me out. He is practically married but he isn't. They neither one want to get married. They stay together because of their children and they have been together since ...
A. 23 December 2008: What you are doing is not right. he has a woman and you want him because you cant have him and because he helped you and you are lonely. do the right thing and leave him alone, you will find someone else trust me, leave this guy alone, he has a ... (read in full...)
9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 22 December 2008: Sweetie, when i said slowly i met really slowly...at least until you are of legal age. no dinners.....thats far too intimate and it comeswith expectations. do innocent stuff, send each other bday and xmass stuf, go for coffee or a movie if you can ... (read in full...)
Why do my hands tingle when I have sex?
Q. Sometimes when im having sex i start geting this tingeling in my hands and I feel like i have no controll over them and can't move them. then i start geting it in my face and i have no controll over my mouth..it went all funny and lob sided. its ...
A. 21 December 2008: Good Girl! Thank you, i find that sometimes doctors need to be told what to do so when you go tell them what you said on here and demand a CT or MRI. Tell them you are afraid it might be neurological and need to be reassured by one of these tests ... (read in full...)
Why do my hands tingle when I have sex?
Q. Sometimes when im having sex i start geting this tingeling in my hands and I feel like i have no controll over them and can't move them. then i start geting it in my face and i have no controll over my mouth..it went all funny and lob sided. its ...
A. 21 December 2008: Babe, go see your physician ASAP. These are neurological symptoms you are describing. Do not let your doctor dismiss you without getting a C or MRI. I dont want to scare you but you need to be safe and rule everything out... (read in full...)
9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 21 December 2008: I just want to ad that during this time.....until you are both mature enough to have an adult relationship, expect that he will date other girls and let him, just like you should go out with your friends and other guys. You can not expect a mad to ... (read in full...)
9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 21 December 2008: yesssssssssssss! And it wil actualy be a perfect age difference(maturity wise) in about 10 yrs from now. Dont be discouraged, time flys and the years go by very fast. Stay friends with him(get to know him slowwwwwwwwwwwly as a person, do nice stuff ... (read in full...)
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