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30-35,
*oshua19
writes:I love my girlfriend but as some of you know she has cheated on me. She tells me that it wasn't because I made her mad but because she wanted to know that she has experienced this that only her and i have ever experienced together meaning we took each others virginity. I kind of want to experience it with another person. Should i stay faithful ladies you tell me what would you do?
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reader, joshua19 +, writes (20 June 2007):
joshua19 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank youn all for your help the thing is i dont want to cheat im not a cheater i cant see that in myself i love her to much but i just cant believe that she would do it to me after everything we had promised to each other but thanks to all of you for your help
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reader, love-him  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Babe yoo wanna feel the experience of other birds.. and she is the same.. yoo arnt right for each other.. if anythin.. take a break then get back together.. hope i helped.. mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Just because she cheated on you doesn't mean that you cheating on her will make it even. If you really want to have dates with other girls it means that your relationship is in trouble and you should stop seeing each other.
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reader, kasparschk +, writes (20 June 2007):
 i was in your same position. i was w/ the same guy for almost 3 years and he also took my virginity. i wanted to know what it would be like to be w/ other people and he knew this and it put a lot of strain on our relationship. we eventually broke up and i got the experience i had hoped for and honestly it wasnt worth it. you never forget your first and it's different sleeping w/ someone you love and whom feels the same way about you, then it is simply just having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): I think you are at the age where this kind of thing may happen, I think if she cheated on you, then you do not have a committed relationship and your hanging around just condones her behavior...I think this relationship has run its course for you or you would not be asking this question...I think it is bad form, unfair play to cheat on someone....I think you should break up with her first and then find another date, then another friend, then another girlfriend....I think you need to experience being single so that you will know without a doubt who you are and what you stand for and what you like in a girl, what makes you happy and what motivates you to make her happy, I think you are too young to let this be your last romantic relationship.
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reader, neonpinkngooey +, writes (20 June 2007):
 if you think that sleeping with other people will enlighten you in some way, go for it. if this is something you really want to do, and you don't fulfill this urge, chances are that you will always think about it. both you and your girlfriend want to experience other people. it would be relatively easy to tell her how you feel, since she feels the same way. why don't you agree on taking a break? once you do take a break, though, don't forget about her, and try not to get jealous. you can also try to have an open relationship, but those can get very confusing. i hope all goes well!
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